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>Lifting almost consistently So, you’re inconsistent. Got it. >I slack at counting calories, but I make sure to keep protein intake high. Doubt you’re actually hitting a your macros. Mediocre. Just like most people. Don’t be like most people with their mediocrity.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 08:20 AM
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Mental masturbation. You didn’t do shit, Jack!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 08:09 AM
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>balding and height mainly Balding? Shave that shit. As far as height goes… Consider it as a woman’s wishlist but It’s rarely a disqualifying factor. Kinda like a sunroof in a car. Yeah, it’s nice to have but people don’t walk away from good deals just because there’s no sunroof. >Am I really an attractive man? Am I really capable of getting and keeping a good relationship with a woman I’m deeply attracted to? Can I be solid and am I really a masculine well developed man capable of enduring and …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/26 12:07 AM
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Strengthening your frame will reflect on how well you receive IOI’s. Receiving IOI’s confidently well while in the presence of your woman gives them a level of comfort while you display social validation and status signaling. It’s a great 1-2 combo that can induce a spike in attraction.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 10:18 AM
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This is terrible. Come back when you’ve done shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 09:58 AM
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I smell some insecurities that’s making you unsteady in your frame and unable to enjoy yourself, the process, and progress. I can empathize with finding greener grass and comparing other women to your hotter wife. It’s not a good place to be. I initiated a breakup with an LTR in my 20’s in search of greener grass. I regretted it after the first few women who didn’t compare. I ended up fucking a whole bunch of women but they all failed the comparison test. I was unable to build real connections a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 09:51 AM
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You had all the opportunities to write a strong OYS on how you handled all these hurdles but you wrote this self pity shit about your week. Don’t let your shit own you. MRP is constant, through the good, bad, and in between.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/26 08:50 AM
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In my opinion, the ONLY reasonable use for Credit Card is points mining on reoccurring large business expenses or business travel. Other than that, I don’t see the point. Aside from investment accounts, I have an account for non-negotiable bills, a business account for my properties, and a fun-money account for myself and the family. That’s it. I have no need for a credit card to make anything easier.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 09:10 PM
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>I struggle to escalate sexually (kino) with women I don’t find sexually appealing (fit body). Keep it that way. We aren’t helping you just so you can fuck fat chicks. >I still struggle to be honest when girls ask me if I’m seeing/fucking other girls. There isn’t an answer that fits all women, but there is a “common theme.” Always convey that: 1.) Maybe you are, just by passive dread. 2. You probably are. 3.) You definitely are. But never speak these things directly. If you get cornered, the fal…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 11:38 AM
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>Taking control of the finances. [This will help.](https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/s/YTTVU45WSP) > It’s just more shit for me to do. I’m busy running a business. The burden of performance is, and will always be on you when leading a family. Never wish for a lighter load to carry. Train for stronger shoulders and a sharp mind.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/26 11:08 AM
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>I asked for it, I got it. What you’re saying is “I petitioned my wife for sex but I got denied twice. So I negotiated for a handjob and it was approved.” Imagine celebrating the consolation prize. Congratulations on negotiating your way to what people skip on the way to fucking. You’re here to be a high value man. All the sex you’re going to have later (when you figure this out) is just collateral. Raise the standard. Know when to walk away from a pity handjob. Act like you deserve better than …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 04:04 PM
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A HJ? You’re not 15. Decline that shit. It’s lazy work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 09:38 AM
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>~My diet has been a major thing holding me back~ You are the major thing holding back your diet. >and even if I'm disciplined for a while (like a couple weeks) I will slide back into relaxing, drinking/candy/pizza/pasta and unravelling progress in the following couple of weeks. That is not discipline. This whole OYS was mental masturbation of a beta ponderer. Go do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 09:32 AM
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> Physical: New PPL routine is going well and I’m pushing myself with heavier weights and making sure I go to failure. Do you on lifting to failure, but there are overlapping studies that you don’t need to hit failure. 1-3 reps in reserve also does the trick. Put some thought into the long game, preserving your joints, and being able to recover quicker. > I got denied a few times asking for BJs. Stop asking for BJs. It’s unattractive and self-deprecating. Find a way to invite a BJ rather than as…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/26 09:20 AM
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Ha! I kept trying to picture 6’7, 187lbs, at 24% bf. My brain kept showing me an alien.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 09:35 PM
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That shit is gay and why fat people get skinny for like 6 months and gain it all back again. It’s unsustainable for longevity. For OP, this is actually very very simple if you stick with it. It’s as simple as this: Lift hard. Sleep well. Know how much food your body needs to maintain itself while meeting your required protein intake. If you want to lose weight, eat a little less while still hitting your protein intake. If you want to gain weight, eat a little more while still hitting your protei…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 09:26 PM
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Disregard what I said, since you mistakenly said you’re 6’7”. Keep grinding.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 09:10 PM
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>Stats: 6'07'' , 187.39 lbs, BF 24.5% Is this right? I keep trying to picture this physique in my head. >Hit the wall with squats (failed two sessions), I feel it is related to losing some muscles along with body fat because of IF. I hope you’re on IF for other reasons aside from losing weight. Tall and Skinny doesn’t present well, especially at 6’7. You should aim to look tall and strong. Aiming for a **lean** 210ish would probably do you better at 6’7. >Increasing protein intake to address thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 09:18 AM
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>6’0, 245.2lbs >Diet: 1700-1900 calories This is too aggressive of a deficit. I’d move this up to a little bit more or less than 2600/day. Otherwise you’ll lose weight too fast. It’s not going to look or feel good because you’re likely to lose too much muscle. Your libido is going to take a hit. At 41 in that deficit with a fuck ton of cardio will likely drop your testosterone levels too. >4-5 miles walking 5x week, 20 minute HIIT on bike 2x week, weight lifting 3x week /exercises broken up into…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/26 08:37 AM
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The only response to this should be “STFU, Lift, Sidebar, OYS.”
/r/askMRP29/06/26 06:11 PM
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Smoking is dumb. Also, this is not about smoking.
/r/askMRP16/06/26 02:17 PM
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Looks like work gets the most of you. Then, you try to give the rest to your family. I’m not here to debate who gets first dibs. I’m here to tell you that you need to take care of “yourself” first. Your fucked up self can’t take care of others.
/r/askMRP04/06/26 12:09 AM
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First, just listen and identify what kind of bullshit it is. Family, Friends, Work, etc. Once you have identified it, leave the room and do something else.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/26 04:03 PM
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The chatter. The moving weights back and forth. The chatter. The scheduling. The chatter. The not being able to lift with headphones. The can we go? The chatter. The solitary time to think about important shit that needs to get figured out. The chatter.
/r/askMRP26/03/26 12:57 PM
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Weight lifting with women almost has zero benefits.
/r/askMRP19/02/26 09:15 PM
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So MRP teaches us that a man that acts accordingly to the MRP wiki/guidelines, will awaken his actual wife. No.
/r/askMRP16/02/26 03:50 PM
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He seems “Dreamy.” Don’t be in the way of your wife finding her true love.
/r/askMRP15/01/26 06:06 AM
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I wouldn’t just skim through it. Read the book and decide for yourself. The sidebar really comes down to picking up what you need and tossing out what you don’t. There isn’t a single perfect book in the sidebar or a complete throwaway. You have to decide as the male consumer. Ironically enough, this comment by u/GRIZZ-3 is what you probably needed the most. In the time it took you to write this post, you could have prompted a free LLM to summarize the book for you, skimmed the summary, and answe…
/r/askMRP13/01/26 05:43 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/26 11:17 AM
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Discipline surrounding my diet completely crumbled since the 24th I used to fall for the holidays. Now I actually double down on holidays. I give it an athlete’s playoffs focus. If I’m on scheduled holiday vacation/getaway, I’ll plan it 5 to 6 week out and do a deliberate de-load. Nothing is an accident. Nothings crumbles. Just because everyone drops focus, it doesn’t mean you have to. To be different you have to be different. I complimented her on her look. This doesn’t hold power to an attract…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/26 02:11 PM
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SQ 165x5, Leg Press 453x5 It’s probably why you’re squatting like a pussy. You’re leaning toward comfort and the path of least resistance. “453 lbs” feels good for the ego… even if it’s an absolute bullshit of something to give a measurable fuck about.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/26 03:27 PM
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I wanted to PR before the end of the year on leg press Nobody gives a fuck about a leg press PR. Neither should you.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/26 11:45 AM
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Spank her and tell her you’re doing it because you love her.
/r/askMRP27/12/25 09:38 AM
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Building my own frame that I am in full control of, measured by my own personal standard and has no need for external validation. I received a great performance review and was also highly praised by all my colleagues. been scanning for IOIs from strangers and female colleagues. Why do I still feel so inadequate after getting praise from my boss, compliments and recognition from colleagues and previous preselection from my wife’s friends? Because you’re lying to yourself. You actually want more a…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/25 06:24 PM
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The effort you put in this OYS shows the effort you put in yourself…. and it ain’t much.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/25 01:20 PM
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I almost feel that it's time to open up to her about things I have felt over the last couple of years that I've never told her Are you sure that you don’t want to have the talk just so she can validate how you’ve felt or how you’re feeling now? I think you’re subconsciously wanting her to have a realization or some type of accountability for whatever that past situation was. She won’t.
/r/askMRP01/10/25 03:02 PM
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I am a retarded bastard who spent most of his childhood and young adult life cooming to formulate a proper mission without trying to make it sound nice. You’re even more retarded for making your mission sound nice. A diamond covered in shit is still a diamond after you polish it. Shit covered in diamonds is still just shit. Fuck a mission that sounds nice. Find an authentic purpose that you can anchor your life and discipline to. Was about to leave MRP and go join ChristianRP for fear of the ext…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/25 02:41 PM
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attacked/criticized me for not spending enough time with her. You missed a basic Comfort Test (a shitty one at best) but you made it into a thing by failing it, instead of exercising the fundamentals. MRP works on learning and exercising foundational levels of cumulative skills. Just because you’re a professional race car driver, it doesn’t mean you get to forget how to drive a regular car to and from the race track.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/25 01:57 PM
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You’re cut off. Sleep it off. Delete it in the morning. You’ve had a wild night.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/25 04:26 AM
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LIFTS: Go lift heavy and hard. There’s no work around this MRP shit. Otherwise you’ll waste your time on fucking around with your dumbbells and kettlebells or lurking around, or reading some other book. It’s just time wasted when you realize you have to do real work after all. DIET: Incorporated OMAD. Looking to cut some body weight especially around my waist. You know you can’t do spot-fat-reduction, right? If you’re gonna lose fat, you’re gonna lose fat. The rest ended in handjobs. If you’re g…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 05:04 PM
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a fake tough guy facade. Is better than cry in her arms sometimes.
/r/askMRP08/09/25 11:31 AM
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It has been really amazing even though we argue every few days (quite heavily sometimes). Your standard have to be so low that you think arguing every few days is amazing. I moved in to her place 4 months ago (it was the best flat option). We are both 33. Here lies the root. You have no abundance. You have no options. You’re a refugee in your relationship. She knows it. This is unlikely a genetic issue. It’s a lack of attraction issue. When a woman wants your babies, she’ll tell you and show you…
/r/askMRP08/09/25 12:19 AM
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My Mission: To have no regrets Your mission is shit. If I’m feeling like shit I go cry in the shower or something. Sometimes that’s exactly what I need, as gay as it is. Have you gotten your labs tested? Dudes don’t pay attention to their Vitamin D2 levels. Even if your T levels are good, a deficiency in Vitamin D manifests like low T. The weakness inside me doesn’t need a fight, it needs a male role model I haven’t been posting weekly mainly because I don’t want the constant help. OYS is a plac…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/25 12:46 PM
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Things will be alright. This is just a season.
/r/RPChristians31/08/25 12:05 PM
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Regardless of who the problem is, you are the solution.
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 06:59 PM
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RP has a lot to do with owning yourself. There’s none of that in this blame party.
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 06:26 PM
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I like it!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/25 06:09 PM
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STFU. There’s nothing to talk about. If there is a conversation, it’s for her to have. Support her through it without leaving your course. Menopause shouldn’t be this catch all excuse to stop being available to their husband; knowing intimacy is what keeps men close to them. If it’s important to you as the leader of the relationship, it should be important to her too. You should see effort. At their least best, what you’ll see is an aging woman, basking in the comfort you’ve provided, while reje…
/r/askMRP21/08/25 01:32 PM
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Is she not fucking and saying it’s because of menopause? That’s a choice. Why? There’s no benefit in fucking you and there is no consequence for not fucking you. She’s not gaining or missing out on anything. If you have a good woman, the conversations will be about finding fixes, finding solutions, and ultimately how to push through together. However, in some cases, because they are slowing down… they want you to slow down with them… throw your libido away… grow old… and sexless. Don’t allow tha…
/r/askMRP21/08/25 02:56 AM
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/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/25 02:32 AM
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Where is the post? This shit was empty.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/25 12:58 AM
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To become a man whose true masculinity is reflected in the way he vigorously pursues greatness in his passions, his craft, and his relationships. It looks like your mission hasn’t formed yet. That’s ok. Find it quickly. This shit sounds pretty but it means nothing. Don’t get lost in it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/25 11:56 AM
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I've been in the RP space for about 10 years and I've studied the sidebar, worked with coaches and helped others too. Good Heavens… IT’S JOHN WICK The biggest issue here are your insecurities.
/r/askMRP02/08/25 01:13 PM
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Who the fuck cares?!
/r/askMRP26/07/25 05:06 PM
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Leviticus 24:16 “Whoever blasphemes the name of the Lord shall surely be put to death. All the congregation shall stone him.” Deuteronomy 21:18–21 “If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son… then all the men of his city shall stone him to death with stones.” Numbers 15:32–36 A man was found gathering sticks on the Sabbath and was stoned after God’s command. Heaven forbid OP wants to address unpleasant behavior by taking away time and attention.
/r/RPChristians22/06/25 06:25 PM
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Bro, stoning to death is perfectly acceptable according to the Bible. You’ll be ok.
/r/RPChristians22/06/25 03:38 PM
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She wasn’t yours. It was just your turn. Stop obsessing about people and things that aren’t yours. 15 years ago, I went through a breakup that shattered me. Probably felt how you feel. I ended up focusing on learning how to literally be alone and slowly began enjoying it to the point where if I do go out, it’s with the bros and strictly for camaraderie. In time, I had unavoidable casual encounters with women and I think my honest and “up front” unavailability for anything serious made them gravi…
/r/askMRP19/06/25 06:54 PM
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No advice. Just observation. Your wife communicates with you in a masculinized factual way. You’re having a feminized emotional response to it.
/r/askMRP04/06/25 10:56 PM
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Next time it happens, counter the shit test by proposing a paternity test, “just to be sure.” It will calm her down and let her know you truly care about fatherhood.
/r/askMRP19/05/25 04:40 PM
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this week was one of her most overtly testing. More often than not, fitness testing is covert. They don’t even know they’re doing it. Overt testing (unless done flirtatiously) is not the preferred option. It’s usually followed by complaining, then contempt. It’s quite like there’s a “check engine light” blinking that you’re missing. Good on you for being steadfast but keep your head in a swivel. It’s coming. K is still in an emotional transition. Some days she’s light, others she’s distant. She’…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/25 03:30 AM
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Why do you think society is the way it is? It’s because the western world is full of women-made men.
/r/askMRP12/05/25 04:41 PM
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“Covert contracts” habituate within relationships. Stranger’s buttholes in passing shouldn’t matter.
/r/askMRP10/05/25 10:16 PM
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But by definition, the words covert, and even overt, carry the aura of "Doing for the purpose of conveying a message." I never thought of it that way. I don’t see anything I do covertly as a means of relaying a secret message. To be honest, that sounds GAY AS FUCK. I see my covert actions as a means of self operation, not a form of communication. By operating covertly, nobody should know what I’m doing, why I’m doing it or what I’m doing it for unless I’m ready to deliberately break cover. Other…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/25 08:45 PM
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Kids pay attention to how you lead their mother. A well led mother is usually happy and supports how you lead the family. This is a YOU problem.
/r/askMRP08/05/25 07:04 PM
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It’s best not to get into specifics here. The way I structure boundaries in my marriage aligns too deeply in the Dominance and Submission territory, which can derail the broader message. I’d suggest reviewing the post on defending boundaries—that’s the better frame for the group overall. Getting too deep into my dynamics opens up too many opportunities for new guys to start using a chainsaw to open a small bag of Doritos. Let’s keep it useful and applicable for where most men are in their journe…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/25 01:24 AM
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Regressed to bitchy hard rejections. These come from shitty initiations from dudes beneath the pedestal. This OYS is meh. It seems like you’re choosing comfort.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/25 01:02 PM
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It’s ok OP… it’s ok… OYS Tuesday?
/r/askMRP03/05/25 03:40 AM
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It’s not that. It’s the absence of congruency. I know a lot about astronomy, space, galaxies… I’ve looked through some telescopes. That doesn’t make me an astronomer. Better yet an “advanced.”
/r/askMRP03/05/25 03:14 AM
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I’ve been doing PUA/red pill for 10 years. I would consider myself intermediate - advanced. Jesus Christ… That’s Jason Bourne.
/r/askMRP03/05/25 12:33 AM
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shit.
/r/askMRP01/05/25 06:12 PM
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I praise the things I like and give my attention to my wife. Good. Remember this little nugget. If you give a fiend a big quantity of their “fix” they’re likely to run off with it and go on a binge days at a time. However, if you ration it properly, they’re likely to stay close because they’ll need another fix and another and another… I still don't withdraw enough of my attention from negative behavior. I used to do this kind of withdrawal. I would even argue that it works, but what I learned in…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 06:28 PM
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what would you spend money on? Deciphering what you wrote… finding what else to spend money on is not the solution. It’s not even a conversation about money. I can understand how you thought about it that way as “money” could be your strongest suit. People tend to put their strongest suit forward when they don’t know what to do. 6"3', 187lbs, 15% BF, bench press 180lbs, deadlift 220lbs etc. Have a personal trainer 3x a week. I don’t know how long you’ve been training with the trainer that you do…
/r/askMRP30/04/25 03:32 PM
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Stitch fix. I plan on keeping them for 4 more months and trying a different service just to see what else is out there. While you’re at it, don’t sleep on a quality cologne that suits you. I sing a scent that compliments your natural scent is a game changer.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 02:54 AM
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I sought professional help and made an appointment with a therapist, which will take place this week. Take this for what it’s worth but your therapist probably also sucks at life. It's a game I can't win. Don’t play. Question for you: Where are you at with validating preferred feminine behavior from your woman?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 02:44 AM
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Have not recorded 1-rep maxes because I have some nagging injuries I need to work through. No need. You get the same buck from a 3 or 5 rep max. The risk to reward of a 100% 1RM just isn’t there. I also realized I need to dress better and develop my own style instead of wearing what my wife buys me or dressing to impress other people. I finally pulled the trigger on a styling service that sends me about 8 items of clothing every 20 days. What I like most about it is they send me clothes and colo…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/25 02:24 AM
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I think it’s something she’s doing so I don’t leave. Seems like she’s trying to do her job. Keep working on yourself. Regardless of who is the problem in your marriage… You’re the solution. Welcome to the burden of manhood. I fucking love it!
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/25 03:54 AM
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Not a single question asked in r/askmrp. Right on!
/r/askMRP25/04/25 12:26 PM
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You can message the Mod that banned you to make an appeal. They should then respond with a zoom meeting link to have a Rule 9 hearing with you. It’s super easy, civil, and efficient.
/r/askMRP24/04/25 05:21 PM
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I’ll preface this with a reminder that MRP is amoral and MRP is not a “how to get your wife to fuck you.” group. It doesn’t seem healthy if your wife responds to a concern like that with sex. This is moralization and a BP mindset that conditions men to think that flowers, chores, feelings, feminization, suppression of masculinity, and negotiating for desire is the way to have sex. That’s not MRP. We tell guys to find a self-originating purpose, live their lives with direction. Lead their family,…
/r/askMRP24/04/25 02:56 PM
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Well then… sex is the main reason I’m here. Is sex with you a gift she’s receiving or a chore you’re assigning? I am resentful NMMNG I feel guilty when I don’t do things for her, NMMNG If I’m making myself breakfast, then I’ll make her breakfast, but it doesn’t come back the other way, NMMNG and if it does, I feel some debt I have to manage. NMMNG
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/25 01:39 AM
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I’ve only seen a handful of these types of Week 1 posts from men who appear to be God’s gift to OYS and have all their shit together already. I often root for you guys. Unfortunately, the one thing you all share is you crash and burn with reality. I hope that’s not you. This reads and feels more like a final OYS after a year or two where there’s no longer value.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 12:39 PM
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Duty sex I get what you mean when you say “duty sex,” but at the same time, I don’t because good sex is on you. When I’m tired, I’ll tell my wife, “Hey, I just need to sleep—send me off right so I can pass out.” That’s duty sex in my book. But when it’s the other way around, when she’s not really in the mood, but I am, I create the desire because It’s on me to turn that “meh” energy into something genuinely enjoyable. I’m not too big on the caveman response to duty sex. I think it validates the …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 03:20 AM
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Your reads are not posted. I will assume you haven’t read NMMNG or WISNIFG based on what you wrote. Lift, Sidebar, STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/25 02:50 AM
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It seems like you’re grasping attractive behaviors and owning your shit with your actions. It’s all good and well for peace time; HOWEVER, this OYS is quite wife-centered and leaning toward being a good boy to make mommy happy. It would have been great if it didn’t read like you waited from your wife’s applause each time you did something remotely ok.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/25 01:12 PM
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I am exhausted of my wife. This is the main reason I am coming back to MRP. Out of everything shitty about you, you came back here because of your wife? I am not interested in interacting with her anymore. She suffers from a chronic bad attitude. She can’t ever relax. She acts like everything is a burden. She complains about everything. The victim tent is over there ===>>> Next to the sidebar and the gym. I’m done reading your shit. Welcome back, Fag!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/25 06:37 PM
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DL It will come once you get your CNS calibrated to move more significant weight. Right now your brain is doing the most natural thing it wants to do by pulling the weight off the ground. At some point you’re gonna have to push it off the ground. emotions Quick FR: I was the only man in a table of 4 women over the weekend. I got shit tested about how many emotions I have. My answer was something stupid like, “Two. Hungry or Horny.” That transitioned to a conversation about a general dismay for m…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/25 01:31 AM
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It finally fucking clicked! Ha! April Fools! No porn: Wasn't sure why I'm doing this, but I liked the way u/2wo2wo3hree has put it in my last OYS ("Compounding progress will come after you shed superficial crutches and work from your true self without the false mental wiring from porn and substances."). I like how that sounds. Something about that resonates with me, so I'm keeping at it You substituted those quick gratifications with some low-value, external validation from a chick who looked at…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 03:47 PM
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Believe it or not, having a threesome is easier than winning the long game. Iron Rule #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 11:04 PM
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Decided on a mission sometime last year. Ah! This is often misunderstood or overlooked, and it fucks up the process. First, decide on a vision and purpose. That vision and purpose decides the mission. The missions are tasks or processes that benefit your goal. Each path has its own pros / cons There really shouldn’t be any choosing between pros and cons (only risks) because anything you do need to be anchored to benefit your vision and purpose. it's the quantity of agitation I deal with rather t…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 03:02 PM
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I have my vision around a mission, my issue is in getting there. Your vision is composed by multiple missions, right? Generally, most people’s problems stem from 3 things. Health, Wealth, & Relationships. You seem to not handle relationships well because of your energy and responses. there is a clear bifurcation between the best people who want to work with me and a good chunk of people I have to work with. It will always be that way. Revisit “How to win friends and influence people.” Again, thi…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/25 01:26 AM
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Give your purpose and mission some thought. You’re not anchored to where you wanna be… if you even know where that is. It’s making your presence shitty to the people around you. You exude some type of a frazzled “flight” response but you can’t flee from situations and events. You seem to be the man who likes to lead *only when it’s convenient. Your employees and the energy you exude. I doubt they’re coming to you because they are incompetent. It’s either they’re not empowered to make their own d…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/25 02:25 PM
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Exercise: I walk for 1.5-2 hours 4-5 times a week for me time. Fuck a 2 hour walk. Lift Heavy. I bought a set of Olympic dumbbell handles and weight plates and a bench for a home gym this week. Go to the gym. It’s going to be the gym, until your home gym is complete. Otherwise, your progress is reliant upon the completion of your home gym… if it even ever gets there. Plus it gets you out the house. I have previous lifting experience, but I’ve been out for a couple years. Doesn’t matter. Start wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/25 03:16 AM
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Style: A gay friend of mine has randomly complimented my fit so I’m taking that to be the highest form of achievement in this category. Your highest form of achievement was external validation? MDMA enjoyer. Porn Keep at it. Compounding progress will come after you shed these superficial crutches and work from your true self without the false mental wiring from porn and substances.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/25 01:10 PM
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Frame At OYS #48, you ought to look at frame differently. Your frame is who you are in the present—everything within your being. It includes your habits, values, beliefs, views, and everything you have become. This dictates your decisions, actions, and reactions. Although it once was, just like most of us. Your frame shouldn’t be measured in terms of weak or strong anymore but rather by how unapologetically authentic and deliberate you are in living within the four corners of your mental point o…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 09:51 PM
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I bet she walked in on her mom when she was a kid or something. Doesn’t matter. This is a good example of you being in her head.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 08:36 PM
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Social: Had coffee a beautiful woman I met at a business networking event, my plan to practice covert gaming was a bust. I failed to get out of the business meeting, ugg. Remember that game is both overt and covert. I’m sure you’ve heard before that only 7% of communication is verbal. You could have stayed on the business topic but covertly communicated desire with body language and tone of voice. Your gaze, for instance. A deliberate eye gaze that occasionally hovers to her lips and back to her…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 08:13 PM
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became a butthurt little bitch to a wife who holds frame, I was gaming the wife all day, and she wasn’t very receptive Wife didn’t seem to be noticing. That didn’t sit well with her (at least I thought from her reaction of “that turns me off”). Im not sure who holds frame here Youre literally watching yourself from your wife’s eyes. You’re like a kid performing for mommy’s approval. If you’re going to tap dance, do it because it’s part of your purpose and you don’t give a fuck whoever is watchin…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/25 04:46 PM
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Oh, I know. That’s your avoidance issues oozing out. You won’t get anything out of that.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/25 08:09 PM
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You retards never know when to post FR’s on r/marriedredpill or ask questions in r/askMRP.
/r/askMRP21/03/25 06:54 PM
2

This is quite peachy for OYS #1. Why are you here?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/25 04:20 PM
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GTFOH, Troll. Someone failed OPSEC again. Whose wife is this?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/25 08:03 PM
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still don’t fully understand Ego in an mrp sense, nor anger. I like ego when it’s healthy. However, your ego (right now) thrives on your sense of identity from external factors like criticism, disrespect, or perceived failures. It’s creeping out through anger. All it does is fuels the momentum of ego and anger as the pendulum swings. The “wanting to fuck but can’t” is the space between the two points. I think the ED is related but a little different. I’m actually focused on something else, which…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/25 02:38 PM
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I am looking for more opportunities to disagree or say no, but I’m still not quick enough to catch them I usually respond with, “Give me a second to think about it.” Even if the answer is an absolute “yes.”
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/25 03:18 AM
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“she” – 12 times “her” – 6 times “my wife” – 6 times You even mentioned someone else’s wife. Your frame is complete shit and you still didn’t do shit this week.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/25 03:07 AM
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Last couple weeks have been very stressful. Challenging Fix the way you talk to yourself or tell stories about yourself and situations. There’s a lot of lingo where you seem to perceive or present yourself as someone who is getting crushed by events instead of someone who is crushing obstacles and hopping over hurdles. ED -Does resentment & anger play a factor in this or do you think it’s completely medical/psychological?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/25 02:49 AM
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allowing myself to be pulled into my employer’s frame -Well… there’s always going to be other “frames” in existence; either above, alongside, or beneath yours. It’s best to not be a tyrant toward other frames; instead, label them as “mere perceptions” which can be deliberately manipulated by you who is truly conscious about holding the true reality. As you should know, your frame is what you believe to be true about the world around you. Understanding your employer’s perceptions about the world …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/25 01:38 PM
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You were fun yesterday when I had time; but your irrational counter-argument and gross negligence for logic is boring me today. Lift, Sidebar, and STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 02:44 PM
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You certainly have a unique way of thinking—entertaining, even. You either have a remarkable talent for sidestepping the core idea or you’re absolutely oblivious that the point of the matter keeps eluding you.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 12:48 PM
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It’s fight club for a reason -Not for that reason. The message being conveyed in steel’s guide about Fight Club was to urge new guys to shut the fuck up about this space and what information is here to your woman, friends, and whoever. This is not the Fight Club you think it is. Thanks for the chuckle though. One thing that should have been added to this list by u/praexology is READ THE ROOM AND KNOW WHEN TO TAKE THE EXIT.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/25 02:07 AM
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These bullet points don’t offer any new insights or depth of understanding to the community. -You’re not the community my guy. Maybe this post just isn’t for you because you’re on a different page. Just because you can shoot something down, it doesn’t mean you should.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/25 07:56 PM
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then plan to do aggressive cutting in May or June to shred fat Outside of a scheduled physique competition or a professional fight, most physical fitness goals you’ll do “aggressively” is bound to be short lived or a complete failure because it becomes unsustainable. But maybe you’re a unicorn. Mindset Oh Brother, your autistic brain is shining. You’re teetering analysis paralysis by putting too much to give a fuck about on your plate. Your list gave me fucking anxiety.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/25 03:43 PM
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It’s your job to turn mediocre sex to good sex. Being unable to do this is a litmus to giving too many fucks and/or being too butthurt to fuck properly. There’s also “training your slut.”
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/25 05:14 PM
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In theory, yes. But you have to stop the bleeding first… that’s usually done by putting yourself back together and regaining some personal value.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/25 12:16 AM
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women feel like they’ve been r*ped and violated because the man was not physically attractive enough to justify having sex as recreation. The part that they really hate about this is not the “hurt feelings”, but the man taking advantage of a loophole... -DON’T CARE, GOT LAID!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/25 12:01 AM
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the spouse There goes that sneaky little invisible pedestal.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/25 01:08 AM
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Not a single fucking question was asked.
/r/askMRP29/01/25 03:51 PM
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This isn’t really a question but advice You wasted yours and everyone else’s time with this bullshit.
/r/askMRP25/01/25 03:24 AM
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Withdrawing from my old social circle (which has become my girl’s social circle, as I’m now 100% positive that all of them would take her side if we broke up). -This is pointless Hamstering.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 04:18 PM
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However, so far it is all hollow, it’s empty, This is normal. You gotta get over that empty feeling and push through. It’s a matter of prospective. Would you rather feel empty while broke, with a shitty home life, and a dry dick? Or empty with resources, a harmonious home life, and a dick that gets sucked at will? Don’t let this be your excuse to tell yourself that owning your shit doesn’t matter.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/25 03:55 PM
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That Self-Actualization is motivational as fuck, Big Dog!
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 07:05 PM
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I agree with you. I think it’s perfectly reasonable for adventure and beauty to serve as his vision, as visions don’t necessarily require SMART goals. However, when it comes to a mission, while it doesn’t need to adhere strictly to SMART criteria, it does require clear objectives to serve as waypoints toward achieving success. Without objectives, a mission risks becoming directionless and losing its purpose.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 05:08 PM
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Mission - To create adventure and beauty Do whatever the fuck you want but I’ve pointed this out to you. This create adventure & beauty shit is fruity as fuck. It’s the opposite of the SMART acronym when setting goals. It’s too broad. Im sure fucking a midget is an adventure. So is going on a billion dollar heist with a monkey. it’s not about not wanting specific things out of a certain woman, it’s about not caring which woman you get those things from Eh… almost there. You still put women as th…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/25 04:16 PM
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Yes, you have to believe that and be okay with it. Here’s why: Your woman acted that way because she knew you would follow her in this environment to keep her safe, regardless of her behavior. Instead of her staying close to you for safety and guidance, she relied on your unconditional willingness to protect her no matter what. As romantic as that might sound to you, it’s quite unattractive to her and will lead to more incidents like this. Boundaries aren’t defended simply by declaring they exis…
/r/askMRP28/12/24 06:12 AM
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Hello, Dexter! Per your post on r/breakups 3 months ago, I can understand why you still seem to be on the anger phase, Dexter. It’s an important phase but don’t stay there forever, Dex. The downside of the anger phase is it makes it difficult to give your masculine gifts to your woman; like setting your standards upon her and being able to provide as a means of safety, and kind of a flex. Let’s go back to your words, Dexter… do you guys think another girl will be happy to be with me, at least on…
/r/askMRP27/12/24 11:42 PM
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As I’ve said, I would’ve too if we weren’t alone in an unknown place and I wasn’t worried for her safety. -There it is! You demand no exchange for your provision and protection. Remember the old days? I’m talking cavemen era. Females latched to the caveman who can best provide and protect them from predators and other cavemen in exchange for companionship, sex, and reproduction. If you don’t think it still applies today, you’re standing in the wrong place… that’s under the pedestal you put her o…
/r/askMRP27/12/24 11:22 PM
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In my relationship dynamic, it would have been immediately squashed by laughingly saying, “Oh shit! Come on, let me take you shopping for pants.” This is partly because my woman’s appearance and demeanor is a representation of family operation. I think in your case, this situation showed a couple of things. Your boundaries are absolutely shit, you walk like a toddler, and your woman does not know what constitutes unacceptable contemptuous behavior… because… again… boundaries. I would’ve fucking …
/r/askMRP27/12/24 04:43 PM
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Find that guy and talk to him. Tell him, “Scram… Leave her alone… She doesn’t wanna talk to you...”
/r/askMRP26/12/24 06:15 PM
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I also tried initiating a “fight” (i.e., serious conversation) for the first time in months. I’ll spare details but basically a close friend of mine found out something important from my wife that he should have found out from me. This definitely hurt my friend’s feelings. Ha! Gaaaaaaaaaay!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 07:06 PM
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text game Logistics only. If you really feel so inclined to text outside of logistics, maintain a 3:1 ratio. adding a bit of humor into my life This sounds like a cop out into giving yourself permission to be mediocre. Take yourself seriously. You’re important. If your don’t take yourself seriously, nobody else will.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/24 06:43 PM
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Go to the front page of r/marriedredpill. Type counseling on the search bar and press enter. You will find all the info you’re looking for about counseling and why you should not submit yourself to that.
/r/askMRP16/12/24 04:00 PM
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Man, sometimes there’s just nothing for y’all’s retardation.
/r/askMRP15/12/24 01:07 AM
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Your vision is an ideal place and time that you see yourself in. It’s where and what you want to be, as well as who you want to be with. It can be very blurry and sometimes nonexistent. You just don’t know what to do, where to go, or what you want to be. But as soon as a vision forms, no matter how blurry, you act on it. At OYS 50… something more vivid should have formed. That’s why I said that maybe it’s time to reassess. Your mission are these little goals or benchmarks that you set for yourse…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 06:48 PM
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Mission: Still in a “goals” phase while I work towards having a mission. Let’s unfuck this by labeling the terms correctly. There’s Vision. There’s Mission. There’s Purpose. Your vision is an ideal place and time that you see yourself in. It’s where and what you want to be, as well as who you want to be with. Your mission are these little goals or benchmarks that you set for yourself. The main existence of these missions are to get you closer to your vision. Your life’s purpose is what your deep…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 06:31 PM
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Sex: Good doesn’t always mean hard and hard doesn’t always means fast. Fuck to your capabilities. I’ve always done a loose front naked choke hold if I wanna fuck hard in missionary. My left arm goes above her shoulder and under the back of her neck with my elbow as close to being underneath. I take my right elbow and place it near her ear with my right hand on top of her head. I latch my left palm onto right bicep and then I tense my arms and pull her down with each stroke. That way you don’t ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 06:01 PM
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Mission - to create adventure and beauty Maybe it’s time to reassess your mission/vision to something more clear and measurable. I mean… It sounds good in a blue-pilled world but it won’t make anyone else submit or align themselves to your purpose.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/24 05:09 PM
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Gentlemen… Give it up for The ‘Good Idea’ Fairy! Fucking bravo!
/r/askMRP07/12/24 04:30 AM
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hard sex I think you guys are talking to a 12 year old, asking for porn suggestions.
/r/askMRP04/12/24 01:40 AM
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People see the bitch through your gaping butt hole.
/r/askMRP02/12/24 12:50 PM
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Fuck off, Bitch!
/r/askMRP02/12/24 04:53 AM
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Don’t ask me for oys/weights/bf% or whatever other gay metrics you think you need. I don’t need a bunch of random dudes to stay accountable. Fuck off, Bitch!
/r/askMRP02/12/24 12:42 AM
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Read: NMMNG WISNIFG WOTSM PFP STFU & read it again. It obviously didn’t stick the first time.
/r/askMRP29/11/24 01:49 AM
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“I probably should have considered how leaving you alone with the contractors might make you feel unsafe. That was poor planning on my part.” Move the fuck on, dude.
/r/askMRP27/11/24 03:08 PM
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Wife noticed something was up. She figured I wasn’t jerking off (she knows that I’d regularly do it to deal with having less sex that I wanted). Wtf? Lies. You’re telling us your wife went, “Hmmm… something is not right. Aha! He must not be jerking off!” Is it because you’re moping around butthurt, and you started talking about how sad you are without sex and not getting a nut in? Told her that I went over old journal entries and found the same patterns over and over again, that I was embarrasse…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/24 04:07 PM
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This breakdown might help you understand. In the blue pill world, the natural escalation of discontent or disagreements in a marriage goes like this… Woman criticizes, Man gets defensive, Woman becomes contentious over feeling invalidated and unheard, Man feels disrespected, victim pukes and stonewalls. Each time you go through this escalation, the relationship erodes. You on the other hand live in a red pill world. You don’t subscribe to any of that because you were given tools for each stage. …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/24 01:03 AM
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These are NMMNG & WISNIFG basics.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 08:55 PM
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You have to set clearly defined boundaries first. Those boundaries and how you defend them will depend on how strong your frame is, as well as how aligned your wife is with your will and how much she values your dynamic. I personally have zero tolerance for it. I nuke it and change the relationship dynamic until she revisits her approach about the complaint.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 08:52 PM
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What is the answer to “why aren’t you saying anything, you never talk”? The way to answer is by knowing the real question behind the question. You can split between some common categories: Complaints “Why aren’t you fixing my problem?” Affirmations “Why aren’t you returning my feelz?” Meaningless chatter “Why aren’t you validating me?”
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 08:05 PM
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I thought I had something to say about a string of criticisms. On handling non-contemptuous criticism: STFU Honestly ask yourself if the criticism is true. a.) If it’s true, STFU and fix it. b.) If it’s not true, treat it like a shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 07:30 PM
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I try to weigh myself three times per day and average three measurements per weigh in. Your time is better spent banging out some push ups or going for a brisk walk for a mile each time you feel the need to weigh yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/24 07:11 PM
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Tell her it’s not your fault she married a loser.
/r/askMRP16/11/24 07:31 AM
2

Alpha through it and pitch a threesome.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 12:25 AM
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Worse case is she wipes you clean because her lawyer is better than yours and the options you thought you had weren’t real options. I’d personally give just a bit more than enough to cover the children’s quality of life. She can clean my pool if she wants travel money.
/r/askMRP09/11/24 02:54 PM
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You got a picture? Let’s see her.
/r/askMRP08/11/24 04:11 PM
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Your current frame subconsciously tells you the source of your pain are the things she does and/or doesn’t do. Put the fact that you can only control yourself in your forethought. I’d say live as if she’s a ghost. It allows you to have your own independent frame to work on alone. Set boundaries around your frame and operate within that protected frame. You’re literally gonna have to do everything with the house, your food, your kids, finances, etc. Be cordial, fun, unbothered and leave her with …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 02:35 AM
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Even when there no “New Work” there will always be required maintenance at every progression. Slow is best in terms of true mastery with MRP.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/24 02:10 AM
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I am having issues with ED that I’m working through. Resentment for your wife kills libido like no other.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:51 PM
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Mental: I feel quite numb and dngaf about most things. Don’t know if this is good or bad but certainly different. It seems like you tried your hardest to say you’re stoic, but your words give you away. You’re becoming apathetic. That’s bad because apathy fucks with your energy and self talk; hence your libido. Trying to figure out where my effort would be best spent going forward. This marathon only ends after you die. Without missing a beat, take a moment to learn how to enjoy what you’re exper…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/24 06:28 PM
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Now, I don’t actually have an issue with this. I love dogs. If she’d actually bloody asked, I’d probably have said yes. I am pissed. These are the parts where you’re just complicating your own life by subconsciously choosing to walk on the hot flaming path of your ego. Take a different route. I pointed out that this was done without even bothering to ask me (which is unusual, to be fair, she usually does with much smaller things) and she asked why do I need to. I don’t know where you’re at with …
/r/askMRP26/10/24 03:19 PM
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Here
/r/askMRP14/10/24 10:17 PM
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I don’t see what would’ve been better than answering directly here. STFU. Should I acutally see anything opens up later and take it lightly, That’s on you, Big Dog. Do what you want with your time. or is it important to make an example out of the situation? I wouldn’t waste a brain cell on it unless a pattern is beginning to develop. You’re oozing butthurt and you’re just gonna drag it on.
/r/askMRP08/10/24 06:41 AM
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I think it’s all appropriate but could use some cleanup. I didn’t feel like providing comfort, so just said that I am disappointed because I wanted to see her but it’s ok and basically STFU IMO, you said a bit too much. I told her I don’t know yet if I’ll give up on the workout. Here began a tantrum about her being less important than a workout for me and me not missing her like she misses me. -Again, I think your delivery could use a cleanup. Your words opened the door for the tantrum. It impli…
/r/askMRP08/10/24 12:17 AM
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/r/askMRP06/10/24 09:33 PM
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She brought it up on date 2 You fucked up. There should not have been a third date. follows my lead I’m willing to bet that if you pay attention, you’ll notice that she only follows your lead when it’s convenient for her. She won’t even do basic “homemaking” tasks.
/r/askMRP29/09/24 07:57 PM
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she seems to have a hard line on not cleaning …for you I have over 15 years of living in Southeast Asia. I know the culture and the intersexual dynamics well. If you’re in Southeast Asia dating a westernized woman, you’re doing it wrong.
/r/askMRP29/09/24 05:59 PM
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Get re-educated on nutrition first.
/r/askMRP28/09/24 12:10 PM
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Red Pill Reason? Here… Women traditionally got tattoos as a means of a rite of passage, marking a woman’s transition into adulthood, fertility, or marriage; as in belonging to a man. Your time is better spent doing something else rather than trying to figure out this pointless bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/24 02:57 AM
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STFU.
/r/askMRP18/09/24 06:30 PM
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Why does this matter? Even if you got a factual answer, it doesn’t change your situation. Your time and everyone else’s time is better served doing something else.
/r/askMRP08/09/24 10:42 PM
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Fucking women is easy. Fucking another grown ass man is alpha as fuck.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 12:18 AM
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You’re mentally unhealthy for this.
/r/askMRP05/09/24 12:15 AM
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eventual goal You’re going to have to display high value and be that man right now. we have not progressed There’s no “we” here. You’re going to have to go on your own journey alone. This whole “we” shit will only slow you down. Once you develop a better shell, feel free to come back for her.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 05:06 PM
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thanked me for asking her and told me to ask again soon. Don’t ever ask for sex. It’s a display of low value. You’re gonna need to figure out how to fuck without asking to fuck.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/24 02:57 PM
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Muslim. She says she’s not religious. Islam, Christianity, Buddhism, Judaism, etc… are constant states of being and devotion to their beliefs. She’s just a girl. My net worth went from 0 to 1 million with her. You’re just rationalizing. family wants me to convert Frame. Don’t do shit you don’t want to do. She says the converting is just for show and tell. So why do it? Right? Do you want to start your marriage off by dropping your frame? How does marriage benefit you? Neither of you are religiou…
/r/askMRP31/08/24 03:12 PM
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Highest “value per word” post.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/24 03:42 AM
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If you read the sidebar, I don’t think you’ll find anywhere that suggests you should submit your masculine burden of performance to your mood swings. We’re all tired. Nobody cares that it’s hard, or you’re not in the mood, or the day was tough. You have to maintain the burden of performance. The feminine is in a constant search for weak spots. You can’t just be an immovable masculine man sometimes. You have to have it all the time. It matters most when you don’t want to. what is the best way to …
/r/askMRP17/08/24 02:51 PM
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It wouldn’t hurt to compartmentalize each of your relationships, where each relationship stands on its own. Relationships are fragile. This way, if one erodes, it’s isolated and it won’t affect other relationships that are important to you.
/r/askMRP15/08/24 01:58 PM
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Man, I liked this OYS. The tighter you embrace that vision, the better you’ll live in your frame. Social A slight reframing… I like to call it networking and reconnecting with people. While socializing feels mindless & empty, networking puts people’s value at the forefront. I’m talking about talking to people, learning people’s industries, getting market insiders knowledge, and career openings. Otherwise, you’re just in the same old mindless social circle talking about the same shit and gaining …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/24 12:53 PM
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there aren’t any trust issues Mmm-hmmm… something has popped up Ok…. I’m not suspicious Right… If these are all true, and not even a hint of dishonesty… as in there are currently absolutely no events in your marriage, the best way to get what you need is change your passwords “for security reasons.” Only then should you open up the uncaring light discussion about a password swap after she inquires. Otherwise you’ll look like a butthurt insecure dude who changed their password out of spite.
/r/askMRP12/08/24 01:18 PM
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I forgave her by kissing her on the forehead and saying “it’s ok.” I think there’s a book called, When I say “that shit is not ok” I feel guilty.
/r/askMRP03/08/24 03:21 PM
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Google Cycle of Domestic Abuse then look up Trauma Bonding.
/r/askMRP01/08/24 02:07 AM
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but am still self conscious (about being skinny). Incidentally I read somewhere recently “how confident would you feel chatting up an attractive woman on the beach with your shirt off?”…the truth is I would feel more confident if I had a shirt on. You can be an external validation seeking whore who lifts, or a high value man with an abundance of resources, and has a strong & attractive physique. I really pussied out and shhh’ed. Next time just cover her mouth and go harder.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/24 02:11 AM
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Read all of the sidebar. Have you ever heard of referred pain? It’s pain that’s felt in one part of the body but caused by an injury or pain in another. Sinusitis feels like a headache. Sometimes, neck pain is actually a strained mid back strain. Catching my drift? Same with MRP. Most people here come with what they think is the problem. They’re hardly ever right. Reading the entire sidebar allows you to shine a light on those deep dark corners you don’t see or refuse to look at.
/r/askMRP21/07/24 01:43 AM
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she had been fighting her lack of “in love” feelings towards me. she said she started to notice other men. While she was in love they were invisible, but now they weren’t. I removed this idea in my mind that she should be in love and love me no matter of what. All day together. We hug, we talk. Still, she is not in love anymore. I don’t remember the details, but we fucked one time, still she was not in love, or just a very little bit. She said she needs to feel in love to be happy. She continues…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/24 03:55 AM
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What to do when no one understands (fully) you? Remember that nobody gives a fuck about (fully) you. It seems like you’re living in other people’s frame. Otherwise, none of this would even matter.
/r/askMRP15/07/24 12:48 PM
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≈ 15-22% Come on man… being at 15% and being at 22% is a huge difference. Tighten this down. Care about yourself. Mission: To overcome my decision paralysis Always think W.I.N. (What’s Important NOW?) The downside of this is that for the first time in my life, during sex, I'm struggling to last longer. Validation through sex is manifesting. I want to have control over my own orgasms, and be able to last as long as I want. Has anybody been in this similar situation and have any advice? First you …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/24 03:14 AM
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Notes for guidance on missions. There’s a huge difference between putting women in your orbit for two-way intersexual access, versus putting effort in trying to find meaningful friendships with women. That’s the beta in you trying to creep out into the friendzone of multiple women you’re trying to be friends with.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/24 03:19 PM
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Mission: Work in progress. Be physically and mentally strong and have fun along the way. Your mission is shit. Shitty meaningless missions like this fail to hold the anchor of the discipline it takes to be successful. The one thing lacking is female friends. This effort is best redirected somewhere else. If you’re gonna spin plates, go spin plates. They are not your friends. Intersexual dynamics will always be present. Game: Talk to everyone. Not just women you like. It’s the best practice and c…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 03:49 PM
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I'm really struggling with the idea of outcome independence if/when she next threatens divorce. Divorce threat without paper: It’s arguably a shitty comfort test because of the double bind. Initially you have two options. Double down or beg to stay. The problem is If you double down, you fail the comfort test and if you decline, you self deprecate and lose some value and frame. There is a third option. Hold your reaction. If you feel you must react, let it come from a place of strength but lean …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/24 03:19 PM
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It all begins with knowing yourself and your deeply rooted core values & beliefs. Once you identify them, analyze which ones are non-negotiable and anchor your vetting discipline there. I can’t tell you what your core values are, but here is one sneaky thing that could save you a headache. Measure her kindness. In a life where you have 100 long years to live, women are only physically attractive from approximately 18 - 32 years old. That’s only 15 years out of 100. Living those long years with a…
/r/askMRP07/07/24 04:43 PM
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My answer to this will always be, DON’T MARRY HER unless YOU have some kind of religious requirement. We can also make an argument for military folks who get extra compensation for being married in order to better support their families but it’s hardly ever worth it. Otherwise, there is absolutely no incentive for a man to marry a woman in today’s western civilization. Everything is for the woman’s advantage.
/r/askMRP21/06/24 03:00 PM
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The only thing lurking gives you is a false sense of mastery.
/r/askMRP18/06/24 04:14 AM
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I’m not saying it can’t be done, but it definitely doesn’t help. It’s like choosing to run a marathon in high heels. Oscar Eriksen from the UK holds the record for the fastest marathon in high heels by a man, finishing in 5 hours, 13 minutes, and 27 seconds. Could you imagine how much faster and painless it could have been if he had the right footwear?
/r/askMRP16/06/24 11:57 AM
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On the lighter & healthy side of shit testing… You can start by looking out for statements about you that are untrue to illicit a defensive reaction. “You were flirting with the waitress.” Or statements that start with “You always… / You never…” Presenting something absolutely illogical to illicit a response that exposes your opposite viewpoint. “I’m thinking about being a surrogate.” Questions that have no right answer. “Would you kiss the most beautiful girl in the world for 1M dollars?”
/r/askMRP14/06/24 01:54 AM
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Is there a problem? It reads like you’re just trying to play feminine fuck-fuck games of wanting to be missed for validation. If that’s not the case, STFU & validate good behavior with affirmations & touch as a gift.
/r/askMRP10/06/24 02:53 PM
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since withdrawing from any initiations I’ve been seeing this trend lately. What’s up with this?
/r/askMRP07/06/24 10:56 AM
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Make friends with 4 Devine Masculine men. You’ll be the 5th. Make friends with 4 beta nice guys. You’ll dye your hair green, and suddenly the earth is flat, and you now wear a tie dye shirt and cargo shorts with boots at formal events.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 01:57 PM
1

MRP Journey for maybe 3-4 months It doesn’t matter. OYS! You’re not even on week 1.
/r/askMRP06/06/24 02:20 AM
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30-day challenge I did that and wrote it on my OYS. This is what happened.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 06:48 PM
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Was not very disciplined with hitting calories. Can’t outlift a bad diet. wife has lost a bunch of weight on her own initiative and looks great. I am trying not to be too complimentary If you like it, sprinkle it with the validation it deserves. She also suggested a daily 6 second kiss. I would invite you to take the opportunity to observe what it’s like to be the recipient of negotiating desire. I wouldn’t hold her to this at all. Second, expect it to fade out and STFU. Remember, her feelz chan…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/24 04:35 PM
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No point in asking us if you should be worried about something you’re already very worried about. First read this and then watch this.
/r/askMRP02/06/24 02:04 PM
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Just came across your post history at a BDSM Sub. New Dom I need research material. You’re a LARPing faggot. GTFO nEw dOm. For fucks sake….
/r/askMRP02/06/24 02:15 AM
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What’s the bitchin & complainin about. she never even noticed She won’t notice until you become attractive. You’re not there yet. Lift. Sidebar, STFU.
/r/askMRP01/06/24 06:25 PM
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bitching and complaining What’s it about? If it’s true, be honest with yourself and fix it. If it’s not true (as in a boldface made up lie), push through. Came in made myself intentionally look like I had just been fucked The best calibration of dread is to present yourself as an attractive person who is able to attract other women. That’s the sweet spot. You want the hamster to think, “He’s attractive to me, and everyone else. If I don’t, someone else might.” What you did was try to present you…
/r/askMRP01/06/24 05:57 PM
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I’m pretty heavy on the BDSM Dynamics, D/s, Kink, Etc. Whatever fancy name you wanna call it. But anyway… I’ll preface with People like what they like and your woman has some sort of “Conquest” kink in the form of that thumb wrestling thing y’all got going on. No biggie. My read is that is just the surface or the tip of the iceberg. It’s what she’s able to show you right now without the shame of whatever kink lies beneath. I encourage you to talk it out from a non judgmental place and let her op…
/r/askMRP01/06/24 02:39 AM
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I enjoyed reading this. A FR is a FR and it takes some balls to put shit out there. I think you sent one too many texts just like her other orbiters. Remember, other men also like what you like. Just like you, they were also thinking about the most cleverly appealing way to book a date over text. Lastly, the ending: “when you have the time and want to meet up just text me.” That screams “You’re the prize. I ain’t got shit to do but wait on you forever.” Introduce uncertainty and covert fear of m…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/24 03:46 PM
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I don’t know who’s worse, the retards who land here to ask retard questions or the retard who think this sub is here as their daily diary. Looking forward to day 4.
/r/askMRP31/05/24 03:03 PM
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Here we go again with the mental health diagnosis. Clean your shit up, OP. Stop making your mom clean up after you.
/r/askMRP30/05/24 01:16 AM
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Thank Google & u/hornsofapathy.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 02:06 PM
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Look up Postpartum Anxiety on Google. After you look that up, read up on this post.
/r/askMRP29/05/24 01:26 PM
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Pay attention to your scarcity. That’s the first hit. You have to maintain that scarcity, otherwise you’re value to take a hit due to over availability. Rare stones are valued. Rocks are stepped on. I don’t know where your frame is currently at. With that in mind, I’d be careful of making sure she does x,y,z, etc. You won’t be able to without the frame. You’re better off doubling down on STFU, Lift, Sidebar, Home Maintenance, & Socialize. All of which will work toward scarcity and attractiveness…
/r/askMRP29/05/24 12:41 PM
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STFU and live as if your wife was dead. a.) It will bring her stressors and anxiety down. b.) She’ll have nothing else to do but fuck you if she likes you. c.) If she’s a decent woman, she’ll ask to add value and contribute to your already full and well managed life. Give her something easy enough for a teenager and hold her accountable and validate appropriately.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 10:09 PM
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We are apart today but I plan on removing attention from her now for a while. How about removing yourself from her for a forever?
/r/askMRP28/05/24 06:06 PM
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Are you just not attracted to her because she’s gross? Lead her toward becoming an attractive woman for your pleasure. If she’s too gross just leave. Are you just not attracted to her because you’re carrying deep resentment toward her? You need to STFU, find your peace in the gym and fix your mind in the sidebar. Are you just not attracted to her because you have some vices that you’re hiding and you think she’s gonna judge you? Well, partner, it’s time to come out and own it.
/r/askMRP28/05/24 01:19 AM
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Are you joining a cult?
/r/askMRP27/05/24 12:55 PM
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There’s some truth to this and looking back, (this is entirely BroScience) I think it’s the pheromones from increased sweating and heightened metabolic activities that influence social reproductive behaviors. Increased levels of testosterone reinforces the reproductive behaviors due to increased confidence, attractive energy, and an overall dominant aura.
/r/askMRP23/05/24 12:47 PM
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I had a weight put underneath my heels while squatting. This made my squat insanely harder The only time I think this is a good idea is whenever someone has really tight calves and Achilles tendons, which prevents a deeper squat depth without lifting the heels. Otherwise, I’d invite you to keep your lifts simple but still heavy.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/24 10:11 PM
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Continue to just do me. If she gets left behind, then she gets left behind. This is the way. Option 1 only slows you down. I don't want to get married. I've improved a lot and believe I am at a point where I can have sex with more & hotter women than I ever have. There are only 3 absolutes in life. 1. Birth 2. Death 3. Absolutely no incentive for any man to get married in today’s society. Traditionally, the trade was for a husband’s protection, shelter, and resources for the wife’s nurturing, re…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/24 02:16 PM
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the wife. my wife. Stop giving your woman beta honorifics. I chose to accept the apology, realizing the choice was either to hold onto it forever or move on. Good. Being in your feelz just slows you down. Plus, women and their solipsism make us unfit to try to make them take any real accountability for their actions. Relationship: A wife who is obese and overworked, with once a week starfish sex. I would like authenticity, sensuality and more passion. Reflecting on our relationship, the dynamic …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/24 01:55 PM
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how to handle this situation. You can’t negotiate genuine desire. You’re well over 300lbs. There is no other situation more pressing than that.
/r/askMRP11/05/24 09:38 PM
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is trying to dominate the frame we have masculine me and less-masculine but vying for dominance her. She tries to challenge me constantly she scheduled a mediator intvw. she says, let's interview a second. Now says we should interview a 3rd mediator, and schedules for next week. she goes into jealousy fits, asking where I am going I cannot help but wonder based on her behaviors if she will really divorce rather than submit I don’t know where you’re getting “submit” from. If someone is going to s…
/r/askMRP10/05/24 04:03 PM
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What am I doing wrong You’re doing being a grown male adult wrong.
/r/askMRP08/05/24 11:11 PM
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I remember your r/askmrp. I was stumped. I had nothing. I can’t afford to up and go just yet, and neither can my wife. Slowly stop making your wife your problem. She can sleep on the sidewalk or your brother’s bed. Fuck her. That’s not your problem. You should go ahead and let that relationship die. If anything at all, your priority is divorce and self preservation by minimizing your financial burdens. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 is heavily in play here. It’s too ugly & messy for any attempt to repa…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 03:40 AM
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At best, you’re working out and reading. The worst part is that’s all you did.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/24 03:13 AM
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cushy wfh job. 120k/yr I am sole income provider. Wife is SAHM. Money is tight right now but not unmanageable. You’re not living within your means. Read this 60 Days of Dread. You’ll find in the comments that it’s not the amount of money but the spending that causes financial problems. I asked for bj. You know who asks for BJ’s? People who don’t deserve them. She would sometimes say every night was too much for her. Honestly, idk if I really need it that much either. That’s your lack of frame. Y…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 11:45 PM
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While my wife takes some of the blame for the breakdown, I fully acknowledge my role in the failure. No you don’t. This is some passive aggressive bullshit. You can’t even be fully honest to yourself. it started at day 1 by not screening very well and trying to play captain save a ho with a woman who had her own set of problems that I ignored. Your words give you away and how you’re still blaming your wife. This will just hinder your progress. It’s done. Let it go. Women / dating After kicking m…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 11:21 PM
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I would like a blowjob now Sounds like a personal problem and mainly for informational. It’s not an initiation, therefore it doesn’t even require a rejection.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 03:24 PM
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make strong eye contact until she breaks “are you going to give me a blowjob?” Haha! Has it ever worked? It looks like you present a dilemma each time you do that. It’s unattractive. Women hate being given dilemmas. I get an A-Z blowjob from my wife at a minimum of 3-4 times a week. Even I don’t think I’d get my dick sucked if I initiated that way. Here are a couple of elements from my bj initiations. Never in a question form. Always from a place of power and I always have a hand on her, guiding…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/24 12:12 PM
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Look up “anxious attachment style” & codependency, then read No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/askMRP07/05/24 10:34 AM
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Even better! I can’t wait to unravel your blind spots. C U Next Tuesday!
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:31 PM
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Chill. Fix the man. None of this knee jerk, woman-centered changes or solutions are going to improve your life. I get your anger. It’s expected; but you need to subdue that passion, and let it breathe, in order to think clearly. Tomorrow is OYS Tuesday. Time to do real self work.
/r/askMRP06/05/24 07:10 PM
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/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/24 10:33 AM
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You’re not as bad off as you think compared to the general male populous. Let’s look at the good and the bad. The good thing is your wife still makes the effort to fuck you. Starfish, trickle sex, or whatever you wanna call it; it’s still happening. There’s a little bit of value in that. The bad thing is if you settle for what you have right now, you may never experience how an emotionally devoted woman, can make herself a little piece of heaven on earth for you, especially at this stage of your…
/r/askMRP04/05/24 01:24 AM
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The first thing I do when tested is ask myself, “Is this true?” If it is I accept it and decide if it’s my responsibility to fix or not. With that said… pushing through anything but a hard no. not saying no but not enthusiastic either. sex has been painful for her recently. Have you considered that you have a wife that’s not attractive to you and you’re fucking a dry sore pussy? If this is true, fix it. Lift, Sidebar, STFU. It feels like some sort of meta-level shit test. It feels like you just …
/r/askMRP02/05/24 06:44 PM
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Bench 135x20, OHP 85x8, Squat 155x12, Dead 160x5, Pullups 3x5 I don’t think you need to be doing anything right now but learning how to lift. It’s ok to have novice numbers but your weights and rep ranges are fucked and shows you don’t get the concept. My wife is fat, but I'm also fat. I want her to be skinny like when we first met but I made her fat as I got fat. This means I've taught her to be fat. Wild story. 29% body fat through the navy method, I carry it well and have a nearly flat stomac…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/24 05:50 PM
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Honestly it’s a 2. Not very much, and your not very active during This is really bad in terms of failing to STFU. However, in my opinion, there’s some value in putting her “on notice.” Unfortunately it came out super unattractive and poorly calculated. Another thing you have to consider with your sex life is your wife is only capable of star fishing sex. She’s entirely too fat to have the flexibility and stamina to be a fun fuck. you should have some standards, why are you even with me. She’s ri…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/24 12:38 PM
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Letting your woman (or anyone) know/feel they are “below” you is unattractive as fuck. Have you ever worked for or observed a supervisor who just had to let his subordinates know that he’s the boss? Those kind of leaders aren’t respected and everyone knows it, including them. That’s why they have to “show” everyone they’re the boss. When it comes to leading a D/s marriage, I get more out of lifting my wife and celebrating her as my polar equal from the extreme ends of our gender polarity and fir…
/r/askMRP29/04/24 02:02 AM
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let her know she’s below you lol. Good luck with that shit. I’m in a D/s marriage. I can tell you it has nothing to do with who is above or who is beneath.
/r/askMRP28/04/24 07:45 PM
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I started with attractive presence and physical appearance. Once that was established, I changed my verbiage when speaking to my woman. I speak deliberately with ownership and confidence, which sounds a lot like “security” in her ears; problematic but can be balanced with STFU. Physical touches equate to comfort & security, so I split them between soft and hard touches. Soft touches like non sexual kino provide comfort. Hard touches, like possessive ass grabs, or quick hugs that restrain; even p…
/r/askMRP28/04/24 07:32 PM
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will propose next month Why would you want to get married?
/r/askMRP26/04/24 01:14 PM
3

Those MRP Lurker Gainz are quite the flex. They go harder than your Everyday - Arm Day - Twice a Day.
/r/askMRP23/04/24 11:08 PM
4

attachment to being smart, being knowledgeable or always being right. People don’t care how smart, knowledgeable, or right you are. People only care about how you make they feel and how they feel around you. Pot Too many people rely on you for you to be high all the time. Someone said that to me 20 years ago. I haven’t touched it since. they both are able to effortlessly flirt Substitute “effortlessly” with “carelessly” and you’ll get the interactions you want. You’re thinking too much. Relation…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/24 05:21 PM
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You’ve written over 40 OYS’s. Act like it.
/r/askMRP20/04/24 10:38 AM
8

Thoughts? Yeah. That thot sure is in your thoughts.
/r/askMRP19/04/24 11:28 AM
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Stay Plan = Go Plan
/r/askMRP18/04/24 01:48 PM
2

You can’t nuke without the proper launch codes. You’ll blow yourself up. Launch Code: Lift. Sidebar. STFU.
/r/askMRP18/04/24 12:54 PM
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She’s about to hit you with “my body, my choice.” Start prepping for that. I’ll throw this theory here too. I think one of the best reference points for hypergamy is a woman wanting to bear (in her eyes) a targeted high value man’s child. It becomes her vision and mission once this is triggered; either consciously or subconsciously. All logic is lost. You can tell her she would die during childbirth and it won’t matter to her. This whole anxiety shit is not adding up. It’s a calculated decision …
/r/askMRP18/04/24 12:43 PM
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Do you get to fuck the surrogate?
/r/askMRP17/04/24 11:19 PM
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goals are college and getting her citizenship How fat and ugly were you when she married you? Don’t dismiss the possibility that you’re still just a cuck to citizenship. It’s such a common occurrence. Always have, always will.
/r/askMRP17/04/24 07:54 PM
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Good!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/24 07:45 PM
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advice on how I should proceed. There's a good possibility this leads to a comfort test this evening. If the comfort test comes, it means the hamster has been running and it’s tired. Give it relief by giving appropriate comfort. Part of that comfort might be (only if it comes up) giving up the information that you found an opportunity to return to your office to finish work. Don’t entertain any follow up questions. Leave it up to her to stay in the comfort you’ve provided or leave and run back o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 03:30 PM
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I feel bad for the people you took with you to that vacation with that unattractive energy. Fuck this half-assed OYS.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 02:49 PM
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I’m coming from a place of phobia of sex and feeling guilty for even wanting it, so I’m taking tiny steps to reprogram myself Add this for your reprogramming. Women were literally placed on this earth for you to enjoy; for your literal delight and satisfaction. Give yourself the unapologetic right to do so. If you do it correctly, it’s going to manifest as overt attraction. In return she would be happy to receive that validation from the right man. asking for soft kisses Be more tactful with ask…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/24 02:24 PM
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Watermelon , tumeric , honey , lemon & spinach smoothie for the internal I’m intrigued. Can you elaborate on the parts ratio of the mixture and the science behind it? I can probably use something like this, as I’ve dropped every supplement I used to take. I don’t even do creatine or protein. Thanks!
/r/askMRP15/04/24 11:33 AM
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A good starting point to triage this is to hit it with a prescribed 2.5 to 5mg Tadalafil from doc. It’s a fun little pill. I took it for about a year but I haven’t been on it for over 4 or 5 years ago because something clicked in my head that got me off of it. I remember when I began to experience ed. I went to the doctor thinking my sex life was all over and that it was going to be all downhill from there. Doc gave me some tadalafil and told me to take it once a day. That first week, I remember…
/r/askMRP15/04/24 01:08 AM
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The difference with having personal boundaries and mate guarding is that defending your boundaries is about you and what you allow within your boundaries. Mate guarding is watching what your woman is doing like a little bitch with nothing to do.
/r/askMRP12/04/24 08:00 PM
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A little homework: Explain PERSONAL boundaries. Identify which PERSON defines their boundaries. Identify which PERSON defends those boundaries.
/r/askMRP12/04/24 07:23 PM
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Control of Treasury doesn’t default to who makes more money. My wife’s salary is now higher than mine but submits her entire salary and herself to me. It’s how we widen polarity between us to achieve harmony and create the space for devotion and intimacy toward each other in our marriage. And it's not just me. I know a handful of guys in my circle. Yes and this is common because majority of men are effeminate pussies without boundaries and standards. I’ve set a personal boundary to not accept in…
/r/askMRP12/04/24 07:12 PM
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The part which I'm hung up on is the stay plan is the go plan because I don't know what my vision is for a relationship. You’re going to perfect your life and the MRP steps you take is irrelevant to whether you’re planning to stay, planning to go, or in your case undecided. Stick with the ~stay/go~ plan. Either way, you’re a better man when you make the decision. I was on a trajectory towards engagement within 6 months prior to starting to OYS. I’ll preface this by saying I’m happily married. I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/24 05:50 PM
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Mission: To live a fun and fruitful life, best version of myself mentally, physically, and spiritually What does this look like? Vague visions create weak drive and half ass missions. Didn’t work out last week. No excuse why, just got lazy. See? When your personal “why” is weak, it won’t anchor the discipline you need to succeed. ~the wife~ my wife Stop referring to your wife from a place of weakness. People who refer to their wives as “The wife” sleep with their thumb in their mouth and ask per…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/24 05:23 PM
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~Shark week~ Blowjob week tells me that I changed her attitude just by being me Good stuff. It’s important to mind your energy and reset everyday. told me she doesn't like it when I cuss. I just grin ear to ear and STFu. Within minutes we were fucking Good! You see how shit tests work and what happens after you pass them. trying not to be the hovering touchy husband Yes. Don’t hover. I don’t think being touchy is good; however, there is great value in learning frequency, method, and duration of …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 05:33 PM
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It’s respectable and mysterious to not kiss and tell. Your body count will never be good. Too few suggests you’re not wanted by other women, which drops your value. Two many just opens up a shit storm of insecurities that you wouldn’t want to deal with. It kills the hamster. Familiarity kills attraction.
/r/askMRP10/04/24 02:34 PM
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You’re walking yourself right into breaking some very basic rules. I’m currently thinking of moving in with a ltr Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months. we never really talked much about our past which I am not sure I should bring up. NEVER, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover. You’re all…
/r/askMRP10/04/24 02:16 PM
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Listen here retards! Your vision is a long-term aspiration, describing what you aspire to achieve or become in the future. It’s your end game. Your purpose defines the reason or your personal “why.” It’s your driving force. On the other hand, YOUR MISSION outlines the specific actions you’re bound to take to fulfill your purpose and achieve your vision. In essence, your vision paints the end goal, the purpose defines your driving force, and your mission outlines how you’re going to get there. Th…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 12:46 AM
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Handjob Knock that shit off. Stop putting value into a handjob that you can do yourself. Fucking hell. my thoughts have consumed me about what I need to do to fix everything. Fix everything? You only fix yourself. Once that’s fixed, you can start looking around other things. As a general rule, you’re the inner most layer. The core. You fix that first. Mission: What I want is to feel passionate about life again, I want to be an expert at what I do and I want to be unapologetically sexually free. …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/24 12:38 AM
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but what am I supposed to do? For starters, not be a pussy and set personal boundaries and values that finds being with a 225lbs woman unacceptable. All I can do is control myself. Yeah, so why don’t you? Start setting some boundaries there, my guy. Due to lack of boundaries, and being passive you’ve been forced to accept your situation. It’s ok to be grossed out by that shit. She gained weight throughout the pregnancies (6 years ago). And? How can I force someone to lose weight? You don’t. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 09:30 PM
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I was trying to put a finger on this OYS and I couldn’t quite put it together, until I noticed the elephant in the room. Your 225lbs wife that you fear and answer to in the most bitch ass effeminate way. Let’s take a look at your eloquently elaborated beta issues. Stress and tension, and limited patience from my wife. The fuck? I have a fear of my wife's emotional responses The fuck? join the board of the local YMCA - My wife had a strong negative reaction to this idea The fuck? makes me wonder …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 05:38 PM
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game Take a minute to step away from the intersexual dynamics and give yourself a bit of a comfort booster when engaged in regular conversations with all kinds of people. Any summary of “How to win friends and influence people” should suffice as a nice little primer. Slowly specialize with women from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 02:05 PM
9

still a virgin Pussy is ruining all these dudes lives. Here you are wanting to get in one :)
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/24 12:37 PM
3

My two cents… The cost of your divorce is holding you back. What’s the true cost of living the life that you truly want to have? Here’s a whole dollar… I doubt you even need a divorce. You just need to get your shit together. You’re still grinding your gears, red lining your engine, and complicating the fuck out of your life. You’re always either in the planning phase or the end goal. It’s either peace time, or an entire fucking invasion. You totally suck at being in the transitional phase where…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/24 06:56 PM
2

no interested on my side Fuck your wife for your pleasure at least once a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 03:18 PM
3

mission Your mission is problematic and likely to fail. It’s like putting buns, cheese, lettuce, and meat in a box, shaking it all up and hoping for a cheeseburger. Have you ever heard of S.M.A.R.T. goal setting? Look it up. only initiate when I wanted to get off. I choose to maintain sexual tension all the time and staying mindful of that. Regular subtleties of kino and dominant language will get you so much deeper in those guts than irregular initiations when you want to get off. This OYS woul…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/24 03:08 PM
2

Write an OYS, ya quitting faggot!
/r/askMRP04/04/24 01:04 AM
3

keep my frame when talking to a 140lbs person -Brother. You are 150lbs. If you can’t bench your girl at least 25 times, you’re either too weak or she’s too fat. In all seriousness… a lot of dudes fall into where you are when they try to DIY MRP. You can really fuck your shit up even more by doing that. Tomorrow is Tuesday. You should OYS. You will find the real answers there.
/r/askMRP01/04/24 01:59 PM
6

give me a reason to be with you You’re mad because she was right.
/r/askMRP31/03/24 09:28 PM
10

I really don’t know what’s gotten into this chick -Who’s gonna tell him? lol
/r/askMRP31/03/24 01:26 PM
2

overt expression that sex is required STFU. What sounds better for your frame? Overtly communicating sex is required because you need sex from her? Or Covertly communicating that sex is required because it is one of the few ways she can demonstrate her value in a way that pleases you?
/r/askMRP28/03/24 06:29 PM
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She has some ingrained feminist beliefs from childhood Cool. You know what’s also ingrained in her? Her feminine biological wiring that’s stronger than any feminist beliefs. very jealous, accuses me of looking at women, goes bananas, asks if I have someone else, etc, and goes into pouting fits sometimes. You can fix this with comfort and validating preferred behavior in a way that lets her know she’s better than other women. It’s a nice little hack because it keeps her in competition. Example: “…
/r/askMRP28/03/24 05:46 PM
8

For what it’s worth… we were due for a FR. I should have initiated better. Take the win. By win, I don’t mean getting your dick wet. The win here is the new mindset getting unlocked.
/r/askMRP28/03/24 04:45 PM
1

LTR is becoming a repeat of my marriage No. You’re repeating what you did in your marriage. I don’t want you to become religiously obsessed with lifting and eating well and then using it as a source of arrogance. It’s weird that you suddenly lift.” - calm eye contact “Ok, I just want to get strong.” -DEER. That’s a fail. Tell her to thank you later when you bench press her with your tongue. Theory: if I ramp this up over time, I’ll make intimacy so normal that sex just happens. Be careful with t…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 10:36 PM
2

ED Resentment is a motherfucker of a libido killer. I let tadalafil help me fuck through the resentment but I eventually got off of it after I fixed the dynamic in my marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 09:26 PM
4

I’m 6 years in and the anger still hovers around periodically. It used to be this giant hawk who came to visit to ruin things. Now, it’s merely a tiny little ladybug who reminds me that my woman is literally here to serve my pleasure. Find ways to reframe your anger and start enjoying your woman. Girls are for fun. I fucking love them for that. Financial Reality: -The fact that you also mentioned your wife’s income suggests you’re in competition with her and she’s about 3 laps ahead of you. It’s…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/24 02:25 PM
7

“I’m listening...” “I can see how that can be upsetting.” “Tell me more about it later when I see you.” When you see her just listen. End it with something stupid, like a murder plot, and don’t spend anymore than a grand total of two to three minutes on this, from the phone call to the face to face.
/r/askMRP19/03/24 06:07 PM
3

I don’t have a concrete answer on this at the moment. Most people miss out on so many opportunities in life because they always want that concrete answer or clear writing on the wall. It’s not always given. In fact, most cues in life are nothing but a blur. You just have to pay attention.
/r/askMRP15/03/24 02:02 PM
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Litmus test. Picture that your suspicions are correct. Is it the feeling of fear of being alone or something dependent upon her “love” or some sort of angry emptiness that’s coming upon you? Or Is it the feeling of calmness, absolute freedom, excitement about new connections with other people, and a level of intelligence and experience that you know will help you navigate some sort of rebirth? Reflecting on this will show where you’re at in bettering yourself and which one of you two is the priz…
/r/askMRP14/03/24 05:33 PM
4

This is what I tell young ones. If you’re going to choose between beauty & kindness, choose both, but put kindness above beauty. When it all gets old and unattractive… at the very least you get to spend your last days with a kind woman who is good to you and your children, instead of an old evil witch who makes you wish life ends early. Plus… it’s 2024. Beauty is mostly manageable. You both have financial resources. Use them.
/r/askMRP14/02/24 03:14 PM
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This is not a post searching for a magic pill or a way to avoid doing the work. -But it is… it’s exactly what this shit is. Otherwise, what the fuck are you here for… A chit chat?
/r/askMRP31/12/23 05:16 AM
5

Your default mission as a man will/should always be “freedom,” which you seem to have. Unfortunately, you also have a couple of excuses, moping, and complaining about fucking nothing. This post was also indirectly about feminine companionship… or lack thereof. TBH, I smell bullshit with the whole “I don’t believe in love” crap. That’s just your fear. This is what happens when dudes forget that women are here for your enjoyment.
/r/askMRP31/12/23 05:15 AM
1

IMO… the only thing you need to be doing right now is Lifting and Reading the sidebar. Fuck the social life. Disappear for a while. Do some serious self realignment alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/23 03:13 PM
3

Evolution has largely selected-for human females with a capacity to form psychological schemas that preserve an ego-investment that would otherwise afflict them with debilitating anxiety, guilt, and the stresses that result from being continuously, consciously aware of their own behavioral incongruities. Evolution selects-for solipsistic women who are blissfully unaware of their solipsism. -Rollo The closest articulation I can give you is how women can, and will change their reality to rationali…
/r/askMRP23/12/23 03:07 PM
5

Even if you STFU notice the ones inside your head. This!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/23 04:34 AM
4

I think this is a woman pretending to be her husband while searching the internet for a solution to unfuck her husband. Idk. Sounds like a good romantic comedy plot to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 02:42 PM
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Lifts: I’m having trouble lifting currently due to lack of sleep, eating and too much going on. Excuse #1. I want to get a gym membership, but that will have to be placed on hold for now until I have some extra money. Excuse #2. I refuse to go to cheap places like Planet Fitness. Excuse #3. (This excuse is laughable, coming from a broke ass man.) I’ll just use my weight bench at home for now, which will stall progress, but I’m not in terrible shape; Blah blah blah.. Stop lying to yourself. Excus…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 02:28 PM
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I still complain quite a lot -You can fix this by shutting the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/23 01:43 PM
10

Because you can’t make Chad unfuck your girl after he fucks her.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 10:18 PM
1

I had been cobbling together my own mrp philosophy. Don’t do that. You’ll fuck it up in a way that’s quite comparable to a toddler who thinks they should cut their own hair. Push through the side bar and OYS. In time you’ll know when to start developing your own personalized models.
/r/askMRP18/12/23 04:16 AM
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I’ve been on my “MRP” path for about a year Reading your version of MRP looks like you got it from wish.com It’s not about withholding validation. It’s about validating the right things.
/r/askMRP17/12/23 05:10 AM
1

You’re “Red-Lining” yourself. Chill the fuck out. You’re doing too much and it is causing you to lash out.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 08:17 PM
1

If you haven’t messed with YNaB, give your self at least a two week grace period to start because there is a learning curve. If you start now, you’ll have it all figured by the new year.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/23 03:57 PM
6

You are right. It is a half assed OYS. I normally do a draft the day before but I did not yesterday. I contemplated rewriting yet but it would be just filler because I, like I said, did not do shit for 2 weeks. I'm here though. I DO plan to do shit, and improving is my goal. STFU has done good for me the past 2 weeks and that's a fact. I feel like an asshole for even posting that I've done nothing but I want to post, I want to own my shit. If I didn't, I would have posted. There's no excuses for…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 03:55 PM
6

You’re fucking around. Do better for yourself. This OYS is shit. You didn’t do shit and don’t plan to do shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/23 02:47 PM
2

No matter how preppy. No matter how clean. No matter how classy. No matter how fashionable. Remember to always leave room for the aura of a well-dressed badass who is capable of inflicting hell. Without it, you’re just some metro guy that’s fun to look at.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/23 04:25 PM
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I guess that means I'm training my pornstar now. -You’re not. Mommy is training her little wank monster. You just negotiated desire. You think there’s anything attractive about the thought of having to perform whatever you puked out so her husband doesn’t masturbate to yoga? Next time she walks in on you, at least look her in the eye and finish like a real alpha, who is a man of abundance and does not explain himself to anyone. I’m out! Jesus fuck. I can’t take y’all today.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/23 03:25 PM
9

Rule 16 - Don’t try to fuck each other.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/23 02:37 PM
5

STFU. I wish I could tell you guys some secret MRP sauce that I’ve found but there is no such thing. The fundamentals remain the same from OYS 1 until present.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 11:53 PM
13

Together 11 years. Married 8 years. MRP 4 years. Desire 2 years.
/r/askMRP08/11/23 02:25 AM
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At its prime: You can kill me if you want. (during sex) I obviously don’t. But I periodically get her to a level of heightened bliss where she offers me her life. At its basic: *Is there anything else I can do for you? Are you good? Are you happy? You’d tell me if there’s anything else you want right? At low points: Wanting to… but not being disrespectful. Look dude, all this shit ebbs and flows. You have to give it room to do that. Otherwise, you’ll want to quit at low points and be in heaven a…
/r/askMRP08/11/23 01:21 AM
3

Wait. You guys don’t possessively grab your women at your will and pleasure? …until she goes, “Oh my god… Stop…” and making her get all tingly inside? Fortune favors the brave. Stop being afraid of these women. Enjoy them. You guys are so scared all the time that you can’t even have fun with this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/23 12:49 AM
2

Has anyone else found themselves in this position? -The feeling that after putting in all the work, it ends up not being cracked out to what you thought it would be? Yes. It had me thinking, “Is this it? All of that work, just for this?” I left MRP. After being away for about two years, I had the epiphany that MRP only takes you to the status quo of intersexual dynamics in a marriage. Masculine & Feminine Polarization. Love & Respect. The absolute basics of Husband & Wife. Due to feminization of…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 09:27 PM
5

It feels like some sick power play. She kept telling me "you can't make yourself cum, can you?" "its OK, the porn will be there for you to cum to in the morning. My body isn't good enough". In a sexy voice -I can’t rule out that your woman is a (fantasizing) dominatrix with a kink for chastity and orgasm denial. In fact, you’ve just experienced your first Jack Off Instruction (JOI) and Humiliation/Degradation Scene. You liked it. It’s not an accident that you got soooo close and got denied. You …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 01:28 PM
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only when certain it's not a validation seeking act. -Women who want (to continue) to fuck you will seek validation from you. AWALT. Validate actions that please you. I've been doing a lot more groping. Unattractive. -Unattractive? Says who? I smell nice guy tendencies here. Give yourself permission to grope your woman whenever you want to. Enjoy what the gods put here for fun. I have started to consume two cups popcorn daily -Apple Cider vinegar with a pinch of salt works great for me with curv…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/23 01:08 PM
1

the wife -lol
/r/askMRP01/11/23 08:19 PM
3

I asked if I actually love my wife. -You love your wife like most guys here. But you don’t like her.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/23 07:02 PM
3

Too much of even the good habits of life aren’t good. Look at “Mystery,” who game’d himself to mental breakdowns and multiple suicide attempts at the pinnacle of his “PickUp” career. Most of those guys crashed and burned after realizing it was all about seeking external validation from women. I’m not encouraging you to stop, but I encourage you to evaluate where you place talking to women in your hierarchy of priorities. If you’re really doing all the right things, I PROMISE YOU, they will come …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/23 03:23 PM
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OP just turned a hoe into a housewife. I don’t hate it.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/23 04:57 PM
3

OHP 5x5 155lbs Bench 5x5 145lbs The math is not mathing. I can’t see a 155 OHP coming from a 145 bench.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/23 04:12 AM
2

do not react to outside stimulus, then observe, decide, then move deliberately. -Have you looked into the OODA loop concept? It’s a tactical approach about what you said. Learn canned materials and develop own stories. -I like “shock & awe awww…” stories. Example: I just learned you can buy socks made out of real kitten skin in the dark web, blah, blah, blah.. (shock) I try to donate a little bit to fund neutering and spaying so those kittens don’t have to live in this fucked up world. (Awwww) T…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/23 02:22 PM
4

You lost me with the everyone in the wedding was telling me how great I looked -You lost yourself. I never wrote the words you’re saying I wrote. I mentioned a compliment from some female and I also said compliments from women didn’t stop. Those were my words. I never said everyone. You reframed what I said to make it fit what you want to disbelieve. That’s your fault. and the single girls couldn’t stop following around. -Again, you’re repeating things I didn’t say. What I said was, There were a…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/23 01:55 AM
2

Quite the opposite. No it’s not impossible but it’s not like you have pulled off the biggest feat in MRP history. -Accurate. it read like your are so amazing -I don’t give a shit how it reads. I’m not changing my reality to appease anyone who might get triggered by my reality and how I move in my world. just enjoy the results no need to tell everyone…. -Ok, so no FR’s. Got it. …how great you are. -Ok, so, FR’s but water it down for mass consumption. I’m tracking!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 11:12 PM
2

TBH, for me, the end game became non sexual power exchange dynamics and maintaining the non sexual marital structure. Thy kind of sex it creates is just a pretty magnificent bonus.
/r/askMRP20/10/23 05:49 PM
7

Another non believer. I see why you quit on yourself at OYS #4 but stayed lurking. Still deadlifting 95lbs?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 02:02 PM
13

This is what happens when you defend your boundaries with words.
/r/askMRP20/10/23 01:13 PM
4

It’s all the lurkers. These guys really think I’m living an impossible life.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 12:58 PM
5

The groom, who is not me, was there on time.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 06:01 AM
15

This guy was barefoot in a suit at the altar because the bride likes hippy yoga shit. He is not that kind of guy. Total loss of identity.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 05:23 AM
10

Oh, the groom is fresh out of years of friend-zone. He’s gonna struggle.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 05:08 AM
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Have you started to reflect on why comments roasting you are getting upvoted and your responses are getting downvoted? I didn’t plan to but… •I didn’t do anything I didn’t want to. •Dressed well. •Passed a shit test. •Accepted compliments well. •Maintained social status. •Dick sucked. •Left wedding. •Fucked again at home. My take on it is that all of that (literal basic MRP shit) is so far from the reality of so many men that’s it’s literal witchcraft story to them. narcissistic ego projection. …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 05:06 AM
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What I learned about writing this FR about something soooo basic and absolutely achievable like “Getting a BJ.” …is the male gender is doing so bad at this shit that the guys who read it literally can’t believe it. It’s fucking wild… and sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 04:38 AM
-9

Oh, bro, you’re the video game and comics type. I get it now. We are not the same. My experiences won’t happen for you.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 01:24 AM
-12

It’s really that far fetched for you? Are BJ’s really that scarce? Lift, Sidebar, STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 01:19 AM
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Shut Up, Karen!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/23 01:01 AM
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he could have fucked her that night •Fucking a girl obviously takes no skill. •He could have fucked you too.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/10/23 01:33 PM
39

Written like a true r/deadbedrooms success story.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/23 01:07 AM
2

Ha! I remember! Man.. That took me down memory lane.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 07:34 PM
3

“Gender Polarity” and how to enjoy the feminine essence of a woman. It’s one thing to be a dog and recognize pussy cat as the mortal enemy. It’s a whole new magical world when that dog learns how to make the pussy cat want to use all her pussy cat powers for that dog’s pleasure.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 06:29 PM
4

Relationship •It might be time for you to level-out at your cruising altitude and ground speed. Given the bar is set to a high standard that your wife can reach on her tippy toes (effort), and a pace where you don’t dust her. This is a good thing if you don’t interpret it as going on autopilot. Love vs Oneitis •In a way, this is a scoreboard. I don’t think this is the mental space you need to be in anymore. I don’t see TWOTSM on your reading list. I know you paused your reading but it seems like…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 04:33 PM
4

Aren’t you just the MRP unicorn we’ve been waiting for. Coming in strong on OYS 1. I like it. I’ll preface this by disclosing that I’m heavy into BDSM, especially the D&S. My situation/setting might be different than most. Multiple (3+ and continuous) Orgasms. •I’d say the most consistent sequence for me is mental and sensation foreplay with edging leading up to a touch-less broken orgasm. Giving and orgasm is like walking your woman to the Climax Boulevard. A broken orgasm is like dropping your…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 03:45 PM
2

I’ve decided to put up small everyday tests. Stupid example: I always felt it was super embarrassing to fart in public. So I did today while I was walking in the park. No people close by, but probably within audible distance. -This was last week’s “stupid little test” as you refer to it. Just hold this thought… told her I would sleep on the couch - no other reason behind it than I wanted to mess a bit with her in terms of my availability, cus she is quite keen on cuddling up in bed. -This is no …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/23 01:26 PM
4

OYS #1. 30, 5'9", 180 lbs. Married 6 years, one kid (5yo) Lurked a lot last year, started lifting and taking more ownership, but I half-assed it and then dropped everything for about 6 months Actually doing the work and posting OYS will keep me going this time. Lifting/fitness: BP 140 You wrote this 8 weeks ago. You’ve made it as far as OYS #1. You haven’t done shit. You’re right where you should be in relation to the effort you’ve put out. Tomorrow is OYS Tuesday. You’ll find your answers there…
/r/askMRP16/10/23 06:04 PM
2

But I dont think she would have remembered my wish if I only stated it once. -It isn’t quite about her remembering. It’s about you being attractive enough for her to care. -Hypergamy scenario: A woman hypergamous toward you could hear you telling another person that you like the color “Olive Drab” on women. That woman will see that information as an opportunity to be validated and wear “olive drab” for your attention and validation; regardless of who she is to you, or vice versa. But this would …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/23 10:33 AM
13

IMHO, I think your anger phase is making you gay.
/r/askMRP11/10/23 10:15 PM
8

I finally threw the ball in her court and asked if she had anything to say, and she said no and went downstairs to sleep on the couch. -You should have her teach you how to STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 05:05 PM
3

I know it's kinda gay Ok, I’m in!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 10:20 AM
8

On fitness tests: My personal rule was to not take the test unless I knew I’m gonna pass the test. Anytime you open your mouth, you submit yourself to the test. Not taking the test means STFU. Not “say less.” It’s literally STFU. Don’t be afraid to STFU like you’re retarded. Opening your mouth is a conscious decision and never an accident. You have to master this. Slow it the fuck down. There are things you have to do for your broken self before you start looking anywhere else… like your relatio…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 04:05 AM
1

The misses -Stop that inferiority. There’s no “THE Mrs.” Get her off that pedestal. It’s still there. the amount of irrelevant information about situations at wifes job I have to listen to -That’s your fault. I heard the “be the container” -The river bank that guides the flow of the raging river of the feminine is a better analogy. The container breaks. I just kept repeating my wish each day that I saw that it hadn’t been shaved. -STFU I think this went on for 3-4 days. -STFU then I had to fuck …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 02:34 AM
2

I will be more assertive and less passive aggressive. -Too broad. Also being assertive means a lot of talking. Also, it makes it obvious that there is a power struggle. Lastly, It’s gonna be incongruent with your next goal, which is… I will STFU more. I talk and DEER a lot. Right? What I invite you to do is focus on a few boundaries and exercise defending them, like… disrespect and act accordingly. I’m still very huge on STFU and making shit test and comfort tests fun but disrespect is a boundar…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/23 12:54 AM
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starfish -IMO, there are so many missed opportunities with this ever so popular “starfish sex.” You can pull her hair. You can choke, slap, bite, and restrain, and degrade. If you get tired of one side, flip that woman over. More often than not, its failure to initiate the sex you want because you’re afraid.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/23 12:29 PM
1

erectile dysfunction. -I experienced this somewhere in my OYS journey. Instead of giving you advice I’ll just share my experience. I was at the stage where sex was happening regularly. Zero rejections. BJ’s on tap, and all that other good shit. Suddenly, one afternoon, it’s like my Dick broke. She did CPR with her mouth but it just didn’t cut it. I declared it here just like you and got put on Tadalafil 5mg by Horns. I got that shit immediately. I took it everyday. It fixed the dysfunction, but …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/23 12:09 AM
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Calm the fuck down The evasive “Step 1.”
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 01:19 PM
3

aftercare is highly recommended; I took this to mean 'comfort'. -You’re not exactly wrong. It just depends. I enjoy facilitating hard impact play. Face slapping, flogging and empty hand spanking or paddling. Repetitive impact along with tight hemp-rope arrangements can be rough on the skin, and the play can induce obvious calculated physical stress and emotional responses. The aftercare here leans more toward physical comfort such as oils and moisturizing the impact zone, soft fabrics, rest, fee…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/10/23 02:31 AM
3

Don’t speak on parties. Remember, You don’t have friends, and I see why.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 05:04 PM
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Others can speak up on this if they want to. HELP!!! I don't take you at your word. You can’t. You reject truth. They hurt your weak core because it is supported by bullshit. if she wants comfort, she can have it... after I've had my needs met -STFU, 11 year old, John Rambo, with dynamite. Not going to address your porn/masturbation comments -Even if you wanted to, you can’t! until you tell me how the weather is and if zip-off pants are still cool. -I’d rather not tell you the truth about the we…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 04:26 PM
4

Stopping p*rn and masturbation is helping me -Bullshit. You haven’t managed your porn addiction. You’ve condemned it 16 weeks but somehow last week, you chose to die on the giant mountain of defending and rationalizing your masturbation when you got called out. You said, I just felt like it... I don't feel bad or guilty about it anymore; for a long time I did. and you also said I'm not going do DEER as to my reasons for jerking off. I did what I wanted to do and I don't have any negative feeling…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/23 02:33 PM
3

And here we go again with all the “wife” talk…
/r/askMRP27/09/23 10:49 PM
0

DEER.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 05:46 PM
-1

Yes. Enjoy your porn addiction, faggot!
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 05:35 PM
-1

Well, yeah. You can’t DEER literal retardation. Just put your dick down. You’re better than that, loser.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 05:13 PM
1

You see this as progress?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 04:06 PM
0

Fapped 1x Why?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 03:48 PM
4

PHYSICAL What’s you height, weight, and body fat %? Also, what are you deadlifting, squatting, bench pressing, rowing and overhead pressing? Your routine seems like a feel-good routine. You’re going to have to lift heavy. There’s too many open sources for the information personal trainers provide.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/23 01:46 PM
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That scenario is different and I agree with you here. There’s desire there. You’re actually fucking your wife. The knock on the the door or cry is no more than a game delay, not a cancellation. For OP’s sake, his wife is using the kid as a shield from his penis and unattractive traits. It’s avoidance. OP is TOP 5% in attractiveness according to him, but an incel in wedlock. The check-engine light is blinking bright and shiny. Where is the dread? Where is hypergamy at work? Where is preselection?…
/r/askMRP25/09/23 11:30 PM
9

Being attractive, leading your family correctly, and displaying admirable fatherly instincts, that woman is going to want more of your babies in her. Not make up excuses not to fuck you. Only losers get cock blocked by children. If she wants to fuck you, she will make time to fuck you.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 08:47 PM
10

This thread is such an anomaly. It’s like a gathering of the Knights of the Blue Pill.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 04:59 PM
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Do the laundry, cook, do the dishes, shower the kids, tuck them into bed as early as possible so that by 8pm-9pm there's nothing left to do and your wife has already started to relax and get in a mental state that is appropriate for sexy time. This is by far the best articulation of chore-play. We should really pin this on the sidebar.
/r/askMRP25/09/23 01:27 PM
10

Successful, attractive dude with high net worth, top 5% in looks and body. I have my shit together so don't post that I need to. What a mystery. The only thing I can think of is she doesn’t like fucking entitled douche bags like yourself. Post your stats, faggot! Just note, the better they are, Mr. 5%, the shittier you probably really are as a human being. Which is why your wife is having to find excuses not to fuck her top 5% man. Poor girl. You’re the prime example of Being a jerk is not the o…
/r/askMRP25/09/23 01:17 PM
8

A man must be prepared to give 100% to his purpose, fulfill his karma or dissolve it, and then let go of that specific form of living. It seems you’ve fulfilled your karma. Pay attention to a new developing purpose and go after it while it’s forming. There’s no need to wait for this vivid picture of what’s next. Act on blurry lines.
/r/askMRP23/09/23 02:58 PM
16

This is….. The story of a girl… …. I absolutely love her…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/23 01:43 AM
1

20%bf Prioritize this. 12-14 is the sweet spot. I’ve kinda accomplished what I want in life and I’m just coasting now. You need to continue to initiate events in your life. Being dormant is unattractive. I think all that’s missing is a more affectionate/horny wife Oh yeah? Is that’s what’s missing? Your woman has all the affection to give and is probably sexually frustrated. You just haven’t set the tone for all of it to flow. Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. When the outbursts recently sta…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 08:10 PM
6

What I want this to do is push me to change my wife into the wife I want. This is like trying to wipe the ocean dry.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 08:07 PM
7

My wife kept asking me to get fixed because we didn’t want another kid. I eventually just got tired of it and took her in for a hysterectomy. It’s a win-win.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 08:00 PM
9

I don't have anything to offer as far as advice goes, but man with your stats , I was sure you'd have the sex figured out. Stop. His stats are garbage. If you can’t bench your wife at least 15 times, you’re either too weak or she’s too fat.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 02:39 PM
7

Family and career is fine, social and relationship is a problem, sex is a mess. A family is a unit. Your wife is part of that unit. A family with a wife who isn’t getting fucked is not fine. You might be fine with parenting, but the family isn’t fine. need to get back on track to reach at least 12% BF before the whole Christmas season will put a break on my fat loss journey To be different you must live different. You know how many losers say what you said? Why don’t you dare to be different and…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/23 02:34 PM
6

There are fools who celebrated at the nonexistent finish line. Then there’s you who celebrated their arrival at the race venue. You haven’t done shit. Tuesday is almost here… OYS.
/r/askMRP18/09/23 06:51 AM
9

Reasonable denial, not quite being honest with yourself but you can thank me later.
/r/askMRP15/09/23 10:31 PM
13

As a proper leader, there’s nothing wrong with delegating your wife to manage certain tasks. Here’s the problem… to just be a passenger on a ship of which my wife is captain. You’re already there and you’ve accepted your reality. To her, you’re just another child. You romancing her breasts probably induces her motherly instincts rather than make her tingle. how do I lead without fucking up all the day to day shit that she manages? A good litmus test is Is it a problem area? If it is, fire her fr…
/r/askMRP15/09/23 08:17 PM
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I feel sorry for your wife. Each moment she’s with you is a moment she’s not with that man who fucked her three times. A true Alpha Widow, just thinking about when she’ll ever feel the way he made her feel. That’s what’s off. Yet, here you are… trying to negotiate respect and desire… and wanting to be courted by a woman… like a true effeminate man. STFU, Get Angry, Go Lift, Hit the Sidebar. The answers you want will get clearer with time.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/23 05:33 PM
2

Self Reflection Good, but be careful. There’s a trend of men here who are stuck in their thought bubble and barely accomplish anything. I really enjoyed taking the dom role identity. Frame It’s quite a poor example of frame management but a good example of the thought bubble I mentioned and how you can mind-fuck yourself to paralysis. On this and other social scenarios… Just have pleasant encounter with women people, man. The whole IOI is her job to pick up and act on based on the level of cover…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/23 03:19 PM
6

I wasn't generating the dread she wanted by fucking other women and telling her about it. Hamsters run on the lack of information. You date like you’re applying for a job instead of considering to fill an open, non-essential position. Fix your Mindset on these dates and you’ll do better.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 05:35 PM
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This reads like a giant thought bubble. Your actions are drowning in your pondering and reflections. Any reason you don’t include your lifts, height, weight, or body fat? I trust you’re doing ok, since I can see there’s attraction in your relationship. At minimum, your stats are a good example of action instead of just spending an entire week reflecting on what you’ve read but hardly putting anything in motion.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/23 05:22 PM
6

It’s just a “look at what you’re missing” type of flex. I wouldn’t take it for anything of value.
/r/askMRP12/09/23 04:55 AM
3

Five years is wasted because you skipped the uncomfortable part… posting on OYS.
/r/askMRP11/09/23 12:43 AM
1

Those of you who've gone through a main event, what behavior changes did you notice in your spouse leading up to it? let’s talk about shit that does not matter!
/r/askMRP11/09/23 12:34 AM
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Gym has been going great. Lifting 3x/week consistently. You can really do better. You’re more consistently NOT working out than you are working out. which gives me more time to work on my business. You don’t like strength training and this is your way to rationalize it. Went hill hiking and running later that week. This is easy for you. You like doing this because it’s the path of least resistance for you. You have to get out of your comfort zone. We decided to start working on a baby. The way t…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 02:15 PM
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what Im working on here is actually fully accepting the woman Im with (or any woman for that matter) will never love in the way I want Eh… it’s a good mental model for handling rejections while you FITYMI. But I’d put more thought into it and reevaluate at a later time. When a woman (AWALT) settles into a hypergamic state with a man, the hamster in their brain begins to march to the beat of “please him, please him, please him.” When they are in that state, all they want to do is “love” you the w…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/23 12:05 PM
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how do you guys feel about your partners having guy friends. To hamster this hard on a girl you refer to as a “plate” ??? News Flash: You’re the plate.
/r/askMRP04/09/23 12:43 AM
1

Look up “Compound Exercises”
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 06:32 PM
2

This is well-written, sugarcoated bullshit about mentally masturbating your divorce. It doesn’t sound authentic. Don’t bullshit yourself like this. It’s a waste of your own time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/23 12:08 AM
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34M, 6'23'' (190cm), 188lbs (85kg), 18%BF I bet this looks terrible. Tall, skinny, and fat as fuck, because…. Started recently with cardio, not a lot of pumping because of recovering knee. Chestpress, Lat Pulldown, Push-Ups 15x It’s clear that getting stronger and looking strong is not your priority. You use one of the many joints in your body to justify your shitty physique. Unfortunately for you, much of the fortitude you’ll need for progress can be strengthened by the discipline you apply whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/23 10:18 PM
1

What a way to rationalize your own bullshit. IDGAF about your cardio. This isn’t about whether cardio is optimal or not. This is about you acknowledging that cardio (low hanging fruit) will improve your life and yet you make a list of little pathetic excuses not to do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/23 01:42 PM
1

Soon the boxing gym is opening and will start asap. Right now I am missing come cardio in order to loss some more BF, so boxing is perfect. Excuse. Cardio is so attainable without a boxing gym. Run, Walk, Swim, Jump Rope, Flip a tire. If you want to to do cardio, you’ll do cardio. Hence why I got softer this week when the relationship has been good. Good reflection. Comfort is a slow death. Comfort should make you anxious because comfort is what brought you here.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/23 12:26 PM
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If that’s what gets you through faking it to make it… but you’ll create another scoreboard with that mindset. I’ve set the stage for my *wins** to be an equal or lesser win for my woman. The only way for her to lose is if she chooses to get off my frame and It’s never worth it.*
/r/askMRP25/08/23 11:27 AM
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I guess to dig deeper- With my employees (this is obviously over simplifying) What I said about her being your secretary is an acceptable AA+STFU response to the very obvious shit test that you failed. There’s nothing more to try to rationalize. After thinking on it, I think I do. Ah! The sneaky ol’ sex for validation. Here are my notes on using her initiation as validation. My woman never initiates sex. By default, the frequency and kind of sex in marriage is absorbed by my frame. I always know…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 12:04 PM
1

you treat me like your employees, you’re use to just telling people what to do etc. “Yes. But you’re more like my secretary.” It’s amusing to see my sons engage or fight back with her and she just keeps going and going to win or have the last say. This would have been a great opportunity to display leadership by 1.) Telling your children to respect their mother; or 2.) Telling everyone to get along with each other. This can be done firmly or playfully. Had sex twice, one was ordinary one was pre…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 04:09 AM
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I want my girl to cook my meals, but I have failed to tell and show her how. Going forward, I will work on expressing this desire, showing her how to deliver, and see what happens. I’m all for what you want but this is bound to backfire on you because of the way you’re about to go about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 03:47 AM
2

I just got over my tendinitis. I did a couple of reps of wringing out a small towel every 30 minutes, or whenever I could. Also, add dead hangs to your routine at the gym. Gives the tendon a good stretch while strengthening it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/23 03:24 AM
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quantity is not the issue. It's more of her attitude displayed that makes the entire experience feel obligatory. Of course it’s obligatory. She has covertly and overtly told you that she doesn’t enjoy sex with you. Your check-engine light is “dinging” my boy. Read: “Married Man Sex Life Primer” & “Sex God Method”
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 12:40 PM
1

Fucked two times this week. Zero initiations by her. Here’s my prospective female initiation. My woman never initiates sex. By default, the frequency and kind of sex in marriage is absorbed by my frame. I always know when and what kind of sex I’m going to have. Since I’m left with the initiations, I have full control of DEVI. She doesn’t know if she’s going to be romanced, if she’s gonna be edged and slapped for trying to cum, or if she’s gonna be sucking dick while I sip whiskey and watch TV. o…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/23 12:06 PM
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Hypergamy doesn’t care about the Christian Loophole. Unless you’ve been regularly knocking down that back door…. It’s an oversight on your end.
/r/askMRP21/08/23 07:09 PM
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Virgins don’t do anal, Retard!
/r/askMRP21/08/23 06:46 PM
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These are good reflective questions. You describe it as if this was good sexual strategy. Do you actually believe that or do you think you had enough attraction generated for this unattractive behavior to not derail you? -In hindsight, in that moment, there was no strategy at all. I’d be lying if I told you anything I did was calculated. I wasn’t thinking about alpha, beta, or whatever pill applied best to the situation. “Disclosure” was what I chose to do out of not knowing what to do. They jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/23 05:29 PM
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Well she spent like $300 over budget. Each week. My fault for not keeping tabs on it like I should have -You will keep spinning your tires unless you have an attractive financial vision that your woman can have a “buy in” we have about 2 grand in gymnastics fees for our daughter due -This is sugarcoated. You either financially committed to something you can’t afford or you neglected an accumulating bill to a point that your 2000 in the hole. It will better serve you to view this current situatio…
/r/askMRP18/08/23 03:24 PM
1

No. I didn’t know what it was then.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 11:23 PM
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OP mentioned nothing of physique, lifts, or otherwise attractive qualities - so one must assume he's an untrained skinny-fat bitch I agree with u/BecomingABetterMan1 and your stance on being left to assume. Also… We appreciate much of your contribution in the community and your timely responses to everyone (being only at OYS #10). People like you make the community what it is. HOWEVER, it is quite frowned upon to live here. Many will assume by your post history within the last 24 hours that you’…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 12:45 PM
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Fair. I don’t believe it either.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/23 04:02 AM
1

You have somewhat of a feminine essence. It shows up in your words and phrases. Be mindful of this. It’s not helping your situation. “I want more blowjobs from you” will not work. Covertly introduce reasons by being a high value MASCULINE man, but the idea to suck and fuck you good at the snap of a finger or a certain look you give must come from her desires.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/23 01:54 PM
1

Your MISSION might as well say “To be externally validated.” Wanna know something simple about women? They respect who/what they find respectable.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/23 12:36 AM
2

Spoken like a true Low Value Man. slow clap
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 06:39 PM
2

BULLSHIT! Your long plan of 3-4 years for your MAP is just an excuse to fuck around. Your entire OYS is mental masturbation at best. Go do something.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/08/23 06:37 PM
1

How to deal with refusal? -don’t be a tyrant.
/r/askMRP08/08/23 12:13 PM
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Oh, you know…everyone just started tossing me the external validation that you’re craving for, Fag!
/r/askMRP07/08/23 11:45 PM
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Everyone in a marathon is tired. Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/askMRP07/08/23 11:42 PM
3

Feeling single. Might delete later.
/r/askMRP02/08/23 05:12 AM
6

Actions, not words. Leadership is felt, not discussed or suggested. Stop chatting up that topic.
/r/RPChristians02/08/23 05:09 AM
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You want US to tell YOU what YOUR deal breakers are. What an alpha. You must be so pleasant and secure to date.
/r/askMRP29/07/23 04:54 AM
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This is hypergamy at work. Hypergamy doesn’t care. It doesn’t care about religion, faith, family, etc. It only cares about the best available attainable man within a woman’s reach. It’s all subconscious. Maybe you were an unattractive option at the time. Maybe you still are. I’d move on from that wink and start going to work on being a hypergamic force that all women gravitate to. Stay loyal, but understand being attractive for one woman doesn’t make you attractive to all, but being attractive t…
/r/RPChristians28/07/23 01:39 PM
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Did this idiot just bust in here looking for the manager?
/r/askMRP26/07/23 02:00 PM
1

A big part is being an inspirational role model.
/r/RPChristians26/07/23 01:10 PM
1

~~wife likes being fucked She doesn’t.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 01:43 AM
2

That’s not a main event, retard. You made an event.
/r/askMRP14/07/23 04:43 AM
1

Sex for external validation sucks.
/r/askMRP08/07/23 02:10 AM
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Man, that scoreboard got your hamster running sprints.
/r/askMRP31/05/23 07:22 PM
1

All this knowledge does is remove being blindsided by what’s to come. Everything else is still very real. Be rational, have a watchful eye, start a steady “go plan” and maintain OPSEC.
/r/askMRP27/05/23 02:19 AM
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ahead at my current job. In great shape to start second job next week. Time is wealth. The goal should be making the most money with the least personal time spent. HEALTH & FITNESS You’re fucking around and lying to yourself on this. You can do better. You know it. RELATIONSHIP Dude, you’re pretty fucked up. Your wife is your identity. You have to separate your identify from your wife and marriage before you even start to think you’re really doing any work here. Draft enforceable expectations fo…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/23 06:07 PM
3

I’m not going to say you’re one big LARP, Iron-Man.
/r/askMRP23/05/23 12:51 AM
6

When I stopped buying Amazon recommendations on FB. I didn’t need another cat t-shirt. Man, I felt frame-ful that day. There was no turning back from there.
/r/askMRP02/04/22 12:54 AM
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I am not as authentic with myself when I do STFU. This has made it hard to be fun and giving You kinda have this all fucked up in your head and it’s tripping you up. STFU is (at it’s simplest purpose) to refrain from unattractive communication like butthurt, victim puke, etc. “BEING FUN and giving” is attainable after you learn to HAVE FUN with STFU for your own satisfaction and amusement.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 02:46 AM
2

MONEY Offering more of your time to a job that doesn’t pay you enough is pretty fucking stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/22 02:21 AM
1

Then I can decide if this marriage has any value for me. Right now it doesn't, and I hope this will change.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 09:49 AM
1

my lack of leadership and incompetence -how? I want to try and improve my ability to hold for longer -for who? For what? So you can impress during your monthly ration of sex? unclear to me if I've married because of my nice guy traits, out of a habit, or because I was afraid of breaking up and starting over again. I hope I will be able to answer this question -then what? That ship has sailed.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/22 12:30 AM
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I’m curious. On a scale of 1-10 (10 Being the highest), what would you rate your SMV compared to hers? Regardless… I’m glad you’re basically asking yourself why you’re with this woman, and so am I. All in all, this OYS is shallow. There’s so much more to this than wanting to have more sex with your roommate. Look kid… We get it, you’re weak and unattractive. You say faggotty shit, and you wouldn’t fuck you neither. Hear me out… You’re 33, with a roommate that won’t fuck you. If you do this right…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/22 10:56 AM
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I have decided to move forward and formalize a D/s relationship with my woman. My journey led to the current road you’re in. This OYS might give you some insight. Edit: Attached correct link.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 08:04 PM
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Social butthurt : Whenever anybody (friends, family, …) speaks about “patriarchy” I react with my own view of it -Not only do you not know the difference between hearing noise vs value, you also take noise and eat it like paint when you submerge yourself in stupid fucking debates about dumb shit. If what you’re hearing doesn’t add value to your life, such as wisdom, amusement, fellowship, or curiosity… it’s just fucking noise. Turn it down. Don’t take part in it. Good work on passing that weeken…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 07:27 PM
1

Nice post Nice dick
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 06:36 PM
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You don’t have to rationalize your relationship to me, but I’m glad you did. At least we know where your mental point of origin is anchored. It’s anchored to your relationship. That’s why it’s all fucked up. To me, the most important book I’ve read was TWOTSM. If you haven’t read it, do it. If you have… Revisit a couple of chapters: “Your purpose must come before your relationship” And… “Be willing to change everything in your life”
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 06:17 PM
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Sure. You are the epitome of “If you don’t know your pupose, discover it, now.” (twotsm) Men without a purpose are lost, drifting and impotent. You have nothing to anchor your discipline.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 05:47 PM
3

> Things I failed to do Reading NMMNG ​ - You failed at the one thing you need the most. Be someone you care about.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 04:26 PM
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> As I mentioned in the other comment she just came back like if nothing happened some hours ago almost asking sorry for the puke (in female way..). ​ - If you did anything other than STFU and displayed you are unphased by her emotions, you lost some yards. ​ > I also need to aknowledge that it fucked up my mood today so I still have work to do. - And by it you mean she. Look man, it's YOUR mood. Why do you let external influences dictate? You won't get things right until you button down the sma…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 03:51 PM
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I am also aware that I am continuing to be in her frame too often. You tried so hard to dance around that fact. Iron Rule #1: Frame is everything. If you continue to fuck around on this fundamental, you will keep failing to launch.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 02:29 PM
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I was told is that I might have improved my attraction part (this was quite overt) but I'm killing the stability part You we’re told you’re passing shit tests but failing comfort tests. Therefore… here’s a shitty comfort test, you dick bag! I went through what you’re going through. It looks like your 1000ft rope snapped. She’s dead in the water. Feeling confused and left out. Maintain your boundaries but It might be time to start reeling that rope in and put some effort in validating good behavi…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 01:05 PM
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practising STFU in all areas of my life - so if something would have annoyed me and I would have bitched about it, I just take it in my stride and get on with it. Know the difference between complaining with your mouth and addressing -your- issues/problems with deliberate action. When I say “your” issues, it includes children and animals who cannot care for themselves. I've heard a few people on here talking about fucking without coming - holy shit. That is my goal for new level of control I wan…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 12:42 PM
1

I just finished the book. This was solid information! Thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 11:12 AM
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Scared of confrontation - especially the scenarios I make in my head. Impacts me physically with my nervous system firing (mouth goes dry, sweaty arm pits and palms, my voice faults, DEER big time). -It would help to read up on The Gottman institute’s study on “flooding”.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/22 11:08 PM
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**~The cold has been a deterrent to the type of running I'd like to be doing,~ ideally I'd be doing 20 -25 miles a week, I'm only pulling 15 - 20. I'm focusing more on the gym since it's not snowing in there. -Why start an OYS with DEER? You seek the utmost validation. Nobody cares about what you usually do. -With your horrible eating habits…You will get so much more out of eating like an adult and lifting heavy, rather than running 20 miles a week. I haven't tried to initiate in the past month.…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/22 10:47 PM
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JF Christ! Fogging while absolutely butthurt doesn’t work. It will always look and sound faggotty. Always go back to the drawing board after an L. With this pity-party of a post, and it’s confetti of verbal intercourse, even if the stars lined up and you became the man you have always wanted to be tonight, you would fall apart by sunrise because your knees would buckle from not having the foundation to support the burden and weight of what it takes to perform at your highest imaginary level as a…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/22 02:40 AM
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I thought more about the court situ and why it’s affecting me so much. One reason is I put effort into being a good dad. -This is how covert contracts work.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 06:15 PM
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Congrats! Send us a pic of your wife.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 06:12 PM
1

I get frustrated knowing how long fixing myself is going to take. I want the results immediately. You’re dreading the amazing journey you’re moving through while fixating about the imaginary finish line that doesn’t exist. Clearly this is my problem and I just need to make it clear I’m not going to settle for the same thing anymore. It’s not the problem. You’re afraid because you know you’re not attractive enough to get duty sex. You’re also not attractive enough to make it her idea to fuck you.…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 04:24 PM
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OYS It’s been approximately six months since I checked in. It’s a good time to do an inventory. I have an orgy of self reflection that needs to get banged out. Here we go. BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Never Split…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/22 02:48 PM
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What can I do to keep from losing my shit in these situations? My deficiencies will follow me into future relationships. Why do I lose my temper over the phone, and then settle down over text? you’re looking at the wrong issue. I asked my wife to make an appointment with a real doctor. I didn't get the answer I wanted. I asked "Did you make an appointment with (primary doctor)." I still didn't get the answer I wanted. I also said that my only focus is getting kid real medical help. Anything that…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 02:41 PM
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Still focusing on control. Very calm household the past 2 weeks. Even when events from my kids would have historically put the FO in a heightened state of drama, my calm norm appears to be slightly contagious... -I like it. Just be careful with the word control. You’ll never have everything under control all the time. Maintaining control in calm waters is one thing; being STEADY when things are out of control is another. It commands respect, it’s attractive, and It serves your masculine purpose …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/21 11:22 AM
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Do you look at porn to satisfy yourself? No, I’m not a pathetic cuck, like guys who are addicted to it I’m no cuck… I fuck. -You’re insecure. Almost comparable to an openly homophobic fag who is secretly gay. Mistakes like this are avoidable by STFU. If you just can’t find it in you to STFU, I have three potential better answers for this and I hope you see some value on what sounds attractive and what sounds unattractive. “No” (A simple “no” that stands on its own is powerful.) “No. I don’t need…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 03:29 PM
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This OYS is wonky. I don’t know the progress you’ve made, but at OYS #14, it seems like you’re fucking around with multiple false mental models. As a metaphor… you’re doing a thousand reps of 5lbs dumbbell curls to grow your arms. I mean… come on, man… I started practicing reverse kegels during masturbation - then tried to incorporate it during the real thing, and it was fucking disastrous.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/21 02:27 PM
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You’ve climbed the peak of the mountain. Find another mountain. There’s no finish line.
/r/askMRP03/08/21 05:54 PM
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My wife dislikes that I do not take her seriously. -The ground gets wet when it rains.
/r/askMRP09/07/21 09:30 PM
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Typically I'll be in auto pilot during this phase in other aspects of my life however, that will not be the case this time. Good. Autopilot is lazy and sloppy. Be deliberate. Always. After reading your Marriage section, I can tell you the you’re not ready to… delegating more workload to the wife / kids. "Managing" has always been easy for me outside the home, now it is time to make it translate into the household. Do what you want. Just know before you eat your dick that a lot of work comes befo…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 09:01 PM
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Mission To find meaning in my life To give my life meaning. It doesn’t seem like you “like or enjoy” your gf. You might have to spin plates and find someone you like and enjoy, instead of wasting each other’s time because of familiar and/or obligatory love which is only anchored by length of relationship.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 10:39 AM
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CONCLUSION: I need to get my crap together, find my mission, lead my family, screw my wife with abandon, and be a High Value Man. Stop letting my or her BS push me into places I know I am better than. What are you going to do about your new found conclusion? How are you going to go about doing that?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 01:29 AM
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OYS It’s been a while. I eventually ran out of shit to write after a little over 40 OYS’s. I initially perceived it negatively, like it’s some kind of writer’s block. After a hard look, I realized I fixed the fucked up shit I’ve been blabbing about and there was nothing to write and no need to post all the good shit. I still intend to check in. I’m here today for a quick inventory. Maybe expose some holes. BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/07/21 04:14 PM
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I hear what you’re saying. I’ve been there’s. I’ve done it; however, It wasn’t a fitting strategy/approach. As a developing father of an only child, I’ve found what’s best for us are win/win situations (this first, then that) instead of do as I say because I said so (she loses) or give her what she wants so she stops* (I lose). The very first step is reasonableness. I’ve found myself as an unreasonable father which bit my ass more than anything. Half the time I said “no, because I said so” to he…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 08:53 PM
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"If you're going to have a fit, please do it in the other room, where it doesn't disturb everyone else." I used to do that. I’m sure there’s a place for it with a different child, different setting, different father. I didn’t work for my daughter and I. She just escalated. I face her tantrums now. It’s been working. What I’ve been doing is what I will be sticking to until it falls apart.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 07:06 PM
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This made sense and it made a difference last week. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 02:11 PM
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#43 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203, 14% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 3x1 Standing OHP: 135lbs 5x5 Barbell Squat: 225 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/21 12:42 PM
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Finances are shit. Read “Millionaire next door” then “Total money makeover.” Mint.com is a free budgeting app.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 12:48 PM
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#42 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203, 14% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 3x1 Standing OHP: 135lbs 5x5 Barbell Squat: 225 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/21 12:18 PM
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DIET Decided to switch up my Lental sacrifice, so instead of not eating Chocolate at all for Lent, going forward I'll only eat it in the week starting on Easter Sunday. Solid goal for a 4 year old. Keep it up! You’re doing pretty average.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/21 05:38 AM
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being a guy who lives intentionally!!! Solid
/r/MarriedRedPill08/04/21 12:46 PM
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I fumed Your wife is crying for help. Feelz are dead and you fumed because you could not stand your inability to lead her out of loneliness you’re causing.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 03:17 AM
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I had no idea what I wanted. It will come. Be patient. If you do the fundamentals correctly, you will be well equipped with the proper mental model to follow your vision when it comes. For starters, borrow this... I want to be respected.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/21 02:56 AM
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I get it. It’s strange but none of the possibilities like lacked positive masculine influence or a group of close male friends and never learned to interpret male social matrix cues properly Or there's a social class mismatch between you and your wife exists... I just prefer to take a punch in the face than allow anyone to freely smack me around my face or head. I agree, it’s pretty autistic. If I’m going to guess, it’s because I’ve always valued respect, to include boundaries like my head and f…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:16 PM
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#41 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203, 14% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 3x1 Standing OHP: 135lbs 5x5 Barbell Squat: 225 1…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/04/21 08:04 PM
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"What do you do for work?", "Why do you do that for work?" There’s value in this; however, it is too cliche. Use a different what , how & why questions when talking to strangers. People drop this question within the first minute of a conversation too often. It’s boring.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/21 01:53 PM
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You sound insecure in your leadership: I agree to a point. I’m still actively thinking about the act of leadership, unlike breathing where it’s subconscious. but don't make requiring your wife... We have a D/s dynamic. I hate to label it that way but we have agreed our marriage works best when in line with traditional values and extreme gender polarities. Her kneeling is our agreed upon way to deliberately slide into depths of masculinity and femininity. Our agreed way of fostering attunement, a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/21 02:48 PM
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#40 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 1x3 265 1x1 (plateau) Standing OHP: 135lbs 3x5 (T…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/21 02:18 AM
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I understand. It’s really easy to look at the school or others to blame, but I’m owning all the shit I can own first. I’m going to make sure I did my part. Understand my daughter. Learn how to lead my daughter at home that she can bring in school. For contingencies... 3. Gather options and resources in terms of intervention. (I have her old school ready to take her back as well as a child behavior doctor to see if there’s anything beyond being good parents that I need to address.)
/r/MarriedRedPill26/03/21 04:57 PM
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How do I tackfully turn women down? How do I DEER to women I don’t give a shit about? -If there’s something you’d rather do or already doing, say it. That’s all there is to it. But don’t lose the opportunity in building alliances and resources by friend zoning women. Good to have, bad to need.
/r/askMRP26/03/21 03:12 AM
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Thank you. Everything I’ve read and currently reading primarily point to the path you mentioned. I’m beginning to understand how genuine attention or lack thereof leads to behavioral issues. Unless you were to find she is autistic or something along those lines. I’m the autistic one.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 04:25 PM
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I'm curious to her need. (Barring a behavior disorder) I’m not too sure but I haven’t had any problems with her since I’ve been giving her a heads-up before moving on to certain things like “after this we will be doing that. Hardly any issues with that approach. As far as her true need goes, I haven’t figured it out yet. My wife and I agree that there seems to be a relation to sugar. She tends to misbehave on sugar. It’s pretty sensitive, like syrup on pancake. That usually causes bad behavior w…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/21 05:07 AM
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#39 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 1x3 265 1x2 Standing OHP: 135lbs 3x8 Barbell Squa…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/21 06:56 PM
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I see everyone else posting bf% in their OYS but I really don't care what my bf% is. Should I leave it out of the next one? It seems you really don’t give a shit about the fundamentals of improving your life. "is my action RP approved?" which was helpful when I was first learning this stuff, but keeps my frame weak. Lol. Put a lollipop in your mouth and think about this long and hard.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 08:26 PM
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34y 193lbs 6'0", no noticeable body fat Congratulations! You’re ZERO body fat. I stopped eating candy when I started lifting and stuck with it for a long time, but over the past year I have slowly started to eat a little candy here and there, and over the past couple months I have really gotten weak about it. Are you 4 years old? Wtf. My concern with our relationship is that once I put a ring on it things will change. That’s controllable. It’s nothing to fear, unless you plan on being a pussy as…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 12:42 PM
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Have not posted to OYS since November after being rule 9 banned. Took that time to stop going on Reddit, and start doing more instead of reading more. It’s hard to not fuck for validation with an ego like this.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/21 12:13 PM
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You sure sound ugly, and that’s absolutely fine, women will work with ugly. Men are not supposed to be beautiful. The issue is you sound unattractive as fuck, which you probably are. I need all the help I can get. You’re no different than a post wall woman relying on Instagram filters to hold on to their youth. IMO, action shots, travel, animals, and photos that frame you as a fun person with resources and social value will do just fine or even better than a photo of a dude who hires a photograp…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/21 02:40 PM
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#38 BOOKS: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: Never Split the Difference. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 255 1x3 265 1x2 Standing OHP: 135lbs 3x8 Barbell Squa…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/21 01:37 PM
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Well. Tomorrow is Tuesday! It’s a great day for OYS #1.
/r/askMRP15/03/21 12:38 PM
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Who approved this? Thank you!
/r/askMRP14/03/21 05:45 PM
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my wife posted a blog about her business and her divorce There are many other things you could be doing. Her: “You bought a car?!?” Me: “Yes.” Her: “When were you going to tell me?” Me: “Tonight, I picked it up an hour ago.” STFU. That question and your answer placed you in her frame. Her: “Can I get one? How much was it? Are the payments cheap? How good is it on gas? I want out of my truck!” Me: “Probably not, you owe around $35k on your truck & it’s only worth $20k, plus you keep deferring you…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/21 03:30 PM
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If an older but still attractive neighbor flirts with me in front of my wife, will it still cause dread? If my wife thinks she is more attractive than the neighbor will there be no effect? Asking about the effect on your wife tells me you’re playing with dynamite. Although the phrase “application of dread” is found in MRP, dread is not really something you apply to your wife. That’s a false mental model that will blow up in your face. Dread is a result of overall self-improvement. It’s a seconda…
/r/askMRP14/03/21 02:48 PM
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The hard and fast answer is yes. However, there are some variables, boosters, or complexities in measuring ones SMV. Resources (income or wealth), Physique, Intellect, Social Value and Availability to the opposite sex (musicians, gym trainers) are a few variables that impact the measure of SMV. The best bet is to make your life better all around. Women will follow later.
/r/askMRP13/03/21 05:22 PM
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I've been depressed a lot lately and I suspect it has to do with my journey. Last realization was when I caught myself phantasizing she did cheat on me (there was some social flirting with my friend a few years ago but never any solid evidence. I might know a guy that can shine some light on this. u/impatienzen if I ask directly for what I want, she will see it's alpha Alphas don’t say. Alphas do. For fucks sake, don’t DO retarded shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 05:25 PM
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OYS 37 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: I’ve felt the pull to read one chapter of the Bible every night before bed. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 235 1x3 245 1x3 25…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/21 01:56 PM
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Weren't you the guy who had shit anger issues w.r.t parenting to start with? That’s not me. Do you have any goals with your punishments? Does she understand why she's being punished? -Primarily consequences. I made her understand that misbehaving in school or at home leads to her tablet and tv privilege being taken away. Do you have any idea why she had a tantrum? in school, it was sharing. at home, it was bedtime. What exactly do you think you're teaching her? Seems like she's following behavio…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/21 04:12 PM
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OYS 36 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: ... STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Bench Press: 225 1x3 / 235 1x3 / 245 1x3 / 255 1x3 / 265 1x3 / 225 1x8, 1x6, 1x5 Standing OHP: 135lbs 7x5 Barbe…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/21 01:58 PM
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Fucking love posting here on Tren. I see. This guys is a fucking fool not worthy of my time. Oh man. I was going to clarify all of the things you misunderstood, which was basically everything, which induced your word rage. What am I supposed to do now that you won’t give me your time? I’m gonna go masturbate in loneliness in my leggings.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/21 05:23 PM
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During sex she told me her pussy was sore from the last time. I guess I pounded her too rough. So I told her to go slowly, but then she moaned and making a rough move herself. Don’t listen to what she says, watch what she does. She also said she wanted to limit sex to monthly. I told her no deal because I'm horny everyday. Don’t subject yourself to negotiations about the frequency of your sex life. Last week I made a goal for looking into my boundaries. I didn't do anything about it. Don’t activ…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 03:44 PM
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I completely agree with everything. This “allowance” is $109 of found money that I tossed her way for her “wants” that are not part of the household expenses, like Sunday brunch with her girlfriends or if she decides she wants a new set of leggings for the gym; Starbucks, whatever it might be. Otherwise, I plug her expressed needs in the budget. I call it an allowance because it’s a repetitive occurrence; however, instead of a limit on spending, it’s more of a gift and encouragement to spend mon…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 02:53 PM
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Age 31, w 224lbs (+4lbs), Easily 30% bodyfat. It has been 10 weeks. When are you going to stop being fat? At no point in your week did you try to be a winner. You fucked your diet, you didn’t sleep, you didn’t train. I'm responsible for my family. They’re fucked. You can’t even take responsibility for yourself. Valentines day - I decided to not take part in the whole "flowers and chocolates" thing. I had to fight that pussy side of me that told me to go buy the gifts/cards/flowers like all the o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 01:47 PM
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OYS 35 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Total Money Makeover Currently reading: STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 135lbs (7x5) Squat: 245lbs 5x5 Barbell Row 225lbs 5x5 RELATIONSHIP: Married 5 years, One daug…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/21 12:22 PM
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Back is my jam. My pulls are significantly strong because I have retard bicep size and back strength. When I row weight like 225 with disciplined form... it’s not even my arms or lats that lose power, my lower back strains before my lats and arms fatigue. On the down side, my pushes are lagging in strength. It has always been that way. Always been a weak bench presser and squat pusher. My excuse? I have really long arms and legs. I’m working on it. Like any retard... I avoided shit I suck at and…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/21 01:23 AM
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Thank you. I will highly consider this. I did StrongLifts 5x5 and always wondered why DL was only 1x5.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/21 04:01 AM
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Help with motivation Wanting help with motivation just means you don’t want it bad enough.
/r/RPChristians10/02/21 03:57 AM
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tells me that you're doing partial retarded shrugs. I’m not.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 10:39 PM
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This should not be something you have to enforce through brute Dominance or power. It’s not. I meant enforcement by means of not allowing failure by alternating between reminding her or telling her before I join her in bed. The game that I’m seeing her “play” lately is trying to beat my reminder or direction. She races to be in position, which is an improvement. It should be an undercurrent that simply becomes "this is what we do". I agree. This is the goal. It is just something that we do. It’s…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 10:30 PM
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No, I have not considered hiring a coach because of the cost. I’m on a path to cutting expenses and learning to be frugal. I’ve always been ahead on physical fitness and a little behind on financial fitness. If I were to choose what to prioritize, what’s important to me right now, it’s financial fitness. I’ll have to deal with that choice and play around with my lifts to see what works best. I did add DL to my routine this week. Just like squatting, it takes so much of my time in the gym. I work…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 04:32 PM
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OYS 34 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Currently reading: Total Money Makeover STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 135lbs (6x5) Squat: 245lbs 5x5 Barbell Row 225lbs 5x5 I only went 3 times this week. I just h…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/21 12:26 PM
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OYS 33 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Currently reading: Total Money Makeover STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 135lbs (6x5) Squat: 245lbs 5x5 Barbell Row 225lbs 5x5 Good lifting week. I feel strong as fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/21 09:01 AM
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OYS 32 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Currently reading: STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 115lbs (3x10) Squat: Pyramid of 3 reps, from 135 to 315 for a total of 9 sets. Then I dropped to 245 and did 5 set…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/21 07:04 PM
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Goal until next OYS: Refocus getting improvement on career and finance. Dude had sex for the first time since fucking forever and next goal is career and finances instead of more sex. That’s awesome. Good on you for not getting sucked right back into making her pussy your universe.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:14 AM
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OYS 31 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Currently reading: STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 115lbs (3x10) Squat: 225lbs (10x5) Barbell Row 225lbs (5x5) Deadlift: 315lbs (1x5) I could not prioritize the gym …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/21 02:07 AM
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I think that if you let this "forgetfulness" go on too long it will undermine the current of the D/s. I agree and I am leaning on the same corrective measure. I was thinking about moving it back to the floor until I reach the ratio of forgetting:remembering that I desire. The basic structure required of reward and punishment is either out of wack, Yes, it’s out of wack. My mind wasn’t right and I’m fixing it. I haven’t embraced my role as well as I should and I’m checking back in. There were tim…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 04:03 PM
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Examples? We’ve agreed at the end of the day, upon deciding we are heading to the bedroom to wind down, if I’m in bed before her, she is to get in a “Nadu” position before being granted to join me in bed. If she’s in bed before I am, she is to welcome me in “Nadu” position before joining her. Instead of correcting it on the spot, I STFU and focus on not showing butthurt. Its autistic. It’s wrong application of STFU & O.I. I began correcting this week. It’s been smooth. If she remembers, great. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 02:34 PM
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OYS 30 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Think & Grow Rich Currently reading: STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 115lbs (3x10) Squat: 225lbs (10x5) Barbell Row 225lbs (5x5) Deadlift: 315lbs (1x5) No change. Just upping the set …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/21 01:43 PM
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I am still a bit confused. I feel like I’m missing something huge here. RECAP with disregard to past financial set up... here is the current. We are both employed. Both making large contributions to retirement investments. Before our salary hits our banks. We both have investment portfolios. We both contribute equal percentage of our individual salaries to supplement the joint account to pay all of our financial obligations. (I manage the bills and only task her to pay a few. Edit: meaning I tas…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/21 02:35 AM
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From where I am sitting, you are BS'ing yourself, below my analysis FWIW. I can see why you’d say that. Every week, I needed to change something. I kept adjusting. Every time I thought I got it “worked out” an oversight would come up. Over and over again... week after week... I make justifications to save. She makes justifications to spend. Correct! Because all she sees is a large pool of unbudgeted money (non of it was hers) but now that her money is also in the pool and the pool had been regul…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/21 02:06 AM
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in the event of a divorce. You're rationalizing why it's ok for you to sacrifice for her benefit. I’m not doing this with divorce in mind. I’m doing it because there’s nothing wrong with putting away my extra money after I’ve contributed to my retirement accounts, paid my bills and taken my family to the movie theater. I have a couple of hundred dollars extra. It’s up to me to drop $100 on a family dinner or invest it into something. It’s whatever I feel like doing with the extra. These days, I’…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 11:39 PM
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So her "surplus" is hers to spend on herself, Yes, but no. I wouldn’t call her “frugal” but she’s pretty intelligent financially. Sort of a "whats mine is mine and whats yours is mine as well" kind of thing? In a way. It’s basically “Hey, here are our financial obligations. We will both contribute an amount of money to satisfy our financial obligations to the household.” What’s left from her salary is here. What’s left from mine is mine. It’s up to us what to do with our surplus. I invest most o…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/21 12:05 PM
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Yeah married. No sort of setup. What I was trying to say was I don’t plan on being a spender. I’m trying to get ahead of our finances by investing into retirement or whatever it may be. I’m trying to accumulate money. That’s my goal.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 10:55 PM
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Do you think the result of what your wife changes into after two drinks is entirely due to her, Yes. It’s not rare for her to ask me the next morning what she was mad about. do you think it could be a result of your failure to handle the situation as her buzz ramps up? -No. There’s hardly ever a “situation” to handle. It’s random drunk babble. No rhyme, no reason. It shifts quickly. or she has shown to fail to respond to leadership... -It’s this. I did some elimination by pros and cons. My bigge…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 10:45 PM
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OYS 29 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Currently reading: Think & Grow Rich (Completed Yesterday!) STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. I’m back at it. BP: 225lbs (6x5) OHP: 135lbs (5x5) Squat: 225lbs (Reps of 2,4,6,8,10,8,6,4,2) Barbell Row 225lbs …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/21 04:45 PM
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A daily dose of 5mg of cialis is an awesome supplement. Especially if all you need is a mild supplementation. I only got a headache the very first time I tried it and it was fairly mild. Unfortunately, I am one of the 20% of men who complained of back and leg pain when I took it daily for a week. I only take it recreationally on Thursday, Saturday and Monday. It’s got a 36 hour half-life. You don’t have to take the pill and immediately jam your dick in someone. Another result I saw was extra pum…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 09:38 PM
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This is what I do. My direct deposit goes to my personal savings, then we both contribute a set amount each month to the joint account. Some version of that. Beginning now, my wife and I have an obligation to contribute an amount of our salaries to the joint checking to be solely used for obligatory bill payment. It’s no longer going to be a catch-all account with no regulations.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/20 08:08 PM
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My plan is to do something similar but backwards. She has her account, I have my account. We both contribute to the “expense” pool which is the joint. She will have a surplus in her account, I will also have some. I don’t give a fuck what she does with her surplus, she shouldn’t give a fuck what I do with mine.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:30 PM
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I feel like I should have read this book before reading “The richest man in Babylon, Millionaire Next Door and Rich Dad, Poor Dad.” This book just doesn’t captivate me the way those three finance books did.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:25 PM
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Wife started dropping comments about divorce and everything comes to a head about two weeks ago. We talk about the divorce and how it would play out. Know your way and have a plan but don’t talk about divorce with your wife unless there’s a paper in front of you to sign, regardless of who brought the paper. Also, just have your wife write your next OYS since it’s all about her.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 05:05 AM
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This was significant because I was try in the moment, i took what I wanted without covert expectations, and got more than what I wanted. Revisit this after you’ve tried but did not get what you expected. That will give you a more accurate measure of outcome independence.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 04:19 AM
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but I still don't see what keeps driving this behavior. You’re moralizing sex. Bad - you’re moralizing your feelings towards sex. Worse - you’re moralizing her feelings towards sex. She saw this as her good Christian wife's duty, mostly out of fear that if she didn't give it to me I would find someone else who would. Look at what you have. You’re spinning this into a dark winding road when you don’t need to. You’re wife’s values, by default, already guides her to have sex with you. At the very l…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 03:59 AM
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Of course wife requested we watch porn to get in the mood. Her porn interest is vanilla compared to mine. I decided to allow it, Congrats! You’re a DILDO.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 02:54 AM
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I do feel a sense of relief and freedom that it’s out but I’m not sure it was ever necessary. 48LoP - Law #4: Always say less than necessary. Your revelation about a pee pee in your mouth did not do anything. You explained why you’re weak instead of getting stronger. ”Oh well, I’m moving forward, come if you want” -too soon! Lol
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 02:35 AM
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OYS 27 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Currently reading: Think & Grow Rich (This read listen pains me.) SUMMARY I just mostly coasting for the most part with some tough humbling turns here and there. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 208, 15% body fat. I’m back at…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/20 02:26 AM
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From the sidebar —> STFU Law #4: Always say less than necessary.
/r/askMRP28/12/20 04:44 PM
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LITERALLY... None of this matters.
/r/askMRP28/12/20 03:44 AM
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This wins r/askMRP. OP, it’s only gay if you liked it all three times.
/r/askMRP27/12/20 07:02 AM
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Beats by Dre Beets by Dwight
/r/askMRP26/12/20 06:21 PM
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OP popped smoke. I was rooting for him.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/20 03:48 PM
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1: To no longer derive my sense of self worth from other people and their actions. I want to truly have myself by my own mental point of origin and have my own sense of strength within. -And then you followed it with... 2: To be with a partner that wants to be with me. I want to be with someone who compliments my life and does not actively detract from it. I want to be genuinely desired. -This is just a big fat covert contract for your next shitty relationship. For now... Just be a better man. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 07:31 PM
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I am more confident and dominant, but it is still shit. It’s very likely that you’re still unattractive. Although confidence and dominance have their place in being attractive to women; those two traits are just one side of the cube. Dominance from an unattractive man could be seen as tyrannical, or domineering. Confidence from an unattractive man could be seen as smug, cocky (not cocky-funny). Which makes you even more unattractive. Look at your weak points and improve them with dread levels. s…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/20 05:13 PM
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...and for fucks sake, do it without saying a fucking word.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 06:21 PM
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sex: -This is a fucking dumpster fire. This is duty sex at its worse. -You’re so fucking annoying that she’s obligated to pull a tit out and put it in your mouth so you would stop fucking whining. Do you think that’s attractive? No. So stop being unattractive. Your wife is having sex with you just so you’d go the fuck away. You need to change that and there is no other way than being found attractive by being attractive. Turn your wife’s obligation to have sex with you to her genuine desire to f…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/20 02:47 PM
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OYS 26 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Currently reading: Think & Grow Rich (I’ve been fucking around on this book. I need to zone in.) SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. I stalled, lost altitude, but I’m on a recovery. STA…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/12/20 01:28 PM
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Spock? Is it really you?! There’s a reason why you’re here, Spock. Something brought you here and its not because things are fucking amazing on the Spaceship Enterprise. Take your mask off. It’s ok. It’s easier to receive help when you speak the truth and be honest about yourself. somewhere along the lines their is a smear on the windshield, with a eye aiming for sex but denying it as the goal. -You judgmental little fag. Sex is not the goal. The goal is becoming high value men. Sex just comes w…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/20 08:40 PM
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wanting to know that she still wants me. -Wanting to know if I still want her.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/20 06:12 AM
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I quarantined and got tested in November due to mild flu symptoms. I tested negative and returned to work the day after I got my results. I got in a car with a coworker for about 3 hours. The next day, that person showed my symptoms, and tested positive for Covid. Every other coworker got sick since then but only one other tested positive. The consensus from all of us... COVID is not as bad as it’s made out to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 04:55 PM
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OYS 25 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Currently reading: Think & Grow Rich SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. My energy is coming back up. I’m seeing my normal lifts again. It is s…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/20 04:23 PM
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Goal until next OYS: Initiate sex, if she refused, laugh it off and try again next time You’re not genuinely who you want to be yet. I would caution you. It’s better to not have any reaction than busting an incongruent laugh which is louder to your wife than an actual butthurt cry.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:45 PM
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OYS 24 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Millionaire Next Door Currently reading: Next book is “Think & Grow Rich” SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. I’m starting to struggle with fuckarounditis. My energy…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/12/20 03:24 PM
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I’m on day two of Cialis. Just got home from the grocery store. My dick was like a fucking heat seeking missile. I’m sure this will level out.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/20 04:21 PM
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I never had dick problems. ...ever again? Or did you take it for no reason and prevented any problems? Anyway, I’m at the dick-doc now. I’m about to ask about T levels and dick pills.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/20 03:12 PM
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OYS 23 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Currently reading: Millionaire Next Door SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Nothing to report. Maintaining lifts. RELATIONSHIP: Married 5 years, One daughter. MARRI…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/20 04:24 PM
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Well regulated caloric surplus + mind/muscle connection + progressive overload. This all depends on where you are within your lifting maturity. Here’s an example... Military Bootcamp is mainly running, push-ups, sit-ups. A non experienced lifter will gain muscle mass there. An experienced lifter who reps out 225 on the bench and 315 on the squat rack will lose muscle mass there. In your experience, which mode of training gave you the greater growth. -You should go your own way on this. We don’t …
/r/askMRP29/11/20 06:21 PM
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The greatest thing about this week was the interactions with my wife. Just fucking sad.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/20 03:10 AM
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Ultimately I want to redirect that energy into the bedroom To be honest, I don’t think you/anyone can actively do that. What Horns and I are talking about is the natural order between a men and women, which is subconsciously rooted into our genders. It is why no matter how much a feminist thinks she’s fighting for her rights to be equal or better than men, that subconscious pull to want to be objectified by a high value man will always exist. She just has to encounter one.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 05:33 AM
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I’ve lurked around around feminism fueled threads and from time to time I would see a question within the lines of “I’m a feminist. I like to get degraded by men. I feel horrible. Blah blah blah.”
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 04:12 PM
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how you dealt with it. STFU and do MRP shit. Edit: Feminists have this imaginary fight against men that they’re fighting. Don’t go there. It’s irrational and illogical. Don’t talk about it and don’t force it but Show you are the dominant gender and STFU after every majestic display of masculinity. Make it seem effortless. Act like you’ve been in the end zone before. Validate display of femininity. My wife literally says train me like a dog. Lastly, the MAN-COLD. Yup, it takes us down because it’…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 04:09 PM
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OYS 22 Books: No More Mr. Nice Guy Married Man Sex-Life Primer When I Say No I Feel Guilty The Way of The Superior Man Mindful Attraction Plan The book of POOK The Rational Male 48 Laws of Power Can’t Hurt Me The science of trust Rich Dad Poor Dad Love & Respect Currently reading: Millionaire Next Door SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 205, 15% body fat. Nothing to report. Maintaining lifts. Relationship: I’ve been married to what I would ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/20 01:13 PM
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I wish I could say that I strategically put everything else into the rainy day and other funds but no, I just let it float in the bank account. Read “The Millionaire Next Door” or “Rich Dad, Poor Dad”. It will square this away, and many more.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/20 04:31 PM
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For the love of god Donuts! Don’t get caught unless it’s part of your plan. It’s a fucking hassle.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/20 05:37 AM
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You are very reactive to your wife. She lays down the beat to the tune you’re dancing to. That’s why you were happy last week, and ready to throw it all away this week. Also... You concealed your HUGE covert contracts very well in this OYS. Impressive.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/20 05:09 AM
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I will try to say this with respect to your faith. Religion is probably the most streamline way to get a woman to respect her husband, submit to him and never deny him of his needs. However, you as a man need to be a tip-fucking-top dude. You leading your woman is just the natural order however you cut it. So yeah, the Bible is MRP! “The husband should fulfill his wife’s needs. The wife should fulfill her husbands needs” -Corinthians “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 09:38 PM
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I know what we once had. I want it back. I knew who I once was. I want it back. mediocre infrequent sex. I suppose this mediocre infrequent sex you’re talking about is the sex life that the woman is in control of? The sex life where you’re mostly fearful of even initiating because she might say no? and when you get the privilege of getting to fuck her instead of ravishing her, and using her for what she is made for, (getting fucked) you go inside her head and try to figure out why she lacks enth…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 02:37 PM
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there are a lot of LARPing dudes here who see D/s as a shortcut and some weird frame to win I can’t say I didn’t view having the contract as LARP’ing or inauthentic. “ You cannot negotiate genuine desire “ was a sticking point to me. A contract wasn’t going to make me something I’m not and not having a contract wasn’t going to keep me from being who I am. The kind of world I live in now, the meaning of life, the kind of wife and family I want/have... they’re all just a reflection of what I do wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/20 12:23 AM
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A month ago wife left with our daughter. Today she decided to go back because of the pandemic. Am I allowed to be happy? I know a lot of people die, or losing their beloved ones, or losing jobs because of it. I guess I will no longer need this TA account. This is your post history? What is this about? It looks like a failed “branch swing”. Do you know what that is?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 04:05 PM
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Mental - I'm responsible for myself. No one owed me anything. Feels great, doesn’t it. Internalize this mental model. It’s a gift that will keep on giving. she ordered a watch for a Chad's birthday that is coming in two months. First, it’s either he’s fucked her well, he’s currently fucking her well, or she’s wants him to fuck her well. A woman gifting a man a watch is a very intimate present. It’s equivalent to a man gifting a woman a necklace. We don’t give our friends necklaces. Lastly, TWO M…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 03:55 PM
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OYS 21 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust, Rich Dad, Poor Dad Currently reading: Love & Respect SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 209, 16% body fat. Back to my workout groove. I’m generally feeling better after I lowered my weight, lowered my sets and added some reps per set. I basically brought it back to the absolutely basic. 3 sets of 10 reps. Aiming for mos…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/20 03:12 PM
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I have tried the initiate and if you get rejected just go to the gym or do something else.. But she catches on to that... “you don’t get what you want so you’re just gonna leave?” Ok. And? When you go to a restaurant and they say “We are not going to serve you. We don’t want you to come inside.” Do you just stay there and profess how much you like their food? Do you just stand there because maybe they’ll feed you? No. You go somewhere else where your time is better invested.
/r/askMRP14/11/20 04:50 PM
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She started a bit of an emotional affair when she thought we were getting a divorce. You mean “Just the tip” ? Tell him there isn't shit between them, lose his number and delete his messages. You pretty much just asked your wife to “unfuck” that man. She wants to see him just one more time because he’s that important. She probably longing for that last hug? Last kiss? The odds are endless. Quite frankly I want to go back up to my town and kick the shitbag she's been talking to into a coma but I …
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/20 01:34 PM
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Hi Married Red Pills! Ew. Go away.
/r/askMRP13/11/20 01:21 AM
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Her response is that she “shouldn’t have to tell me what to do, I should just do it” She’s right. Let’s break her down. It’s simple. She’s frustrated. Hypergamy doesn’t care about your diabetes or your open heart surgery. Your woman is frustrated that she is with a defective man who is a failure in terms of the leadership she needs/craves. In addition, you’re sick and weak. She’s 33. You’re not the best possible mate for her. That surely will bring contempt. -Fuck a shelter. It’s stupid, cowardl…
/r/askMRP11/11/20 04:15 PM
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OYS 20 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust, Rich Dad, Poor Dad Currently reading: Love & Respect SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203lbs, 14% body fat. Not much lifting this week. I was on a camping trip for 4 days. No harm, no foul. I’ll just call it “rest”. I stayed pretty active in the mountains; hiking, chopping firewood, and cave exploring. Relationship: I…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/11/20 12:49 PM
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I should be clear with her afterward that it’s unacceptable behavior. You can do that but you probably won’t accomplish anything other than communicating all sorts of beta. At the end of your speech, no matter what message you convey, she’ll walk away with “It pokes his weak parts when I'm contemptuous and it’s how I get my point across.” You have to handle contempt as it is happening. In my opinion, the way to handle contempt is to STFU and leave. A reckless abandon of time and attention. Don’t…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 02:08 PM
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Her anger, judgment, and complaints were discouraging and I let it affect me too much. Why? Her emotions are HER emotions. Don’t be retarded. didn’t get pulled in when she was yelling and slamming doors. I didn’t make excuses or argue. But I also didn’t use my strengths to lead her. -Your woman is being contentious to you. That is not the time to “lead”. This is when you go for a run, or hit the gym. Thinking about leading during the event might inadvertently end up validating unacceptable behav…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/20 03:13 AM
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OYS 19 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust. Currently reading: Rich Dad, Poor Dad (I finished it yesterday) Any suggestions on personal finance books? I’m hearing “Richest man in Babylon” is good. I need financial literacy. SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203lbs, 14% body fat. Workouts are still steady. Still maintaining what I have even after lowering my weig…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/20 02:43 PM
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Stats: 6'3 160. I plan to get to the gym but don't wanna be the weak fuck that can barely bench his body weight. You don’t deserve an advice. The fact that you know you’re a skinny faggot who needs to lift hard and heavy but don’t, is the same reason you’re struggling to internalize everything else here. You’re driven by your sorry excuses. See you in OYS Tuesday!
/r/askMRP29/10/20 04:49 AM
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I want to people to submit to me so I can lead and am frustrated when they don't. But no one wants leadership from someone like that. To be a leader, you must have an attractive vision YOUR people can follow. my real dominance. This reads inauthentic as fuck but I get what you mean. You’re ahead of yourself and Your spine is still weak. Strengthen it with NMMNG and WISNIFG and then double down on owning all of your shit hard as fuck. Especially the ones that have nothing to do with your wife or …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 07:23 PM
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I've been on the FIRE path for some time. What is that? A book? An acronym? A figure of speech? I want in! EDIT: Disregard. I got it. FI/Retire early
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 03:05 PM
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My core values used to have God and Family first, above everything else. Since MRP those priorities have shifted dramatically. Right now I put Myself as my first priority, followed closely by my familial responsibilities. I’m not religious at all but I grew up catholic. The order stays the same if you reframe it to a hierarchy. Your God, You, your family. Serve your god then serve yourself by maintaining your needs. Only then will you be able to fully give your gifts to your family. Your are the…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 02:48 PM
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Treat the shit tests and rejections as a “check engine light”. Passing shit tests usually turn into sex under genuine desire. The fact that you’re getting tested and not having sex is not the normal result of these tests. Bring it back to self work, Attraction & Desire. You seem to know what to do, you just might be overlooking something.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 01:16 PM
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OYS 18 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust. Currently reading: Rich Dad, Poor Dad SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203lbs, 14% body fat. No lift numbers this week. I’ve been all over the place in terms of weight I’m pushing and pulling. I’ve been playing with rep ranges and paying attention to my body due to concerns of over training. I still made it to the gym…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/10/20 12:34 PM
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the wife my wife Fast minimum of 72 hours a week. Results: avg about 3.21lbs per week. Do what is working for you but remember to pick new habits that are SUSTAINABLE long term. You might be able to pull off 3lbs/week in the beginning but I’m almost sure you’ll bottom out, binge, and get fat again. Especially if you’re not doing your fasting correctly. My advice to you is simplify it... caloric deficit + heavy compound lifts. You can’t go wrong with that. Add a daily 16 hour fast when you see th…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 08:37 PM
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I told her exactly what I wanted her to do: block some guy she was flirting with (including one she cheated me with) You should listen to yourself talk. You girl can’t un-cheat on you. You’re forever her Cuck. Nothing will change that. This flexing you’re doing doesn’t change your truth. She blocked + deleted them Ok? And? You’re still a cuck. You should really think about what you’re doing. Goals: Trying to improve things or end the relationship if I see it won't improve/go anywhere Dude! WHAT …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/10/20 01:12 AM
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I was happy with her behavior, and old me was tempted to point this out to her after everyone left but caught myself and stopped those thoughts in their tracks. STFU is the best policy. At some point you will need to learn to give your verbal/non verbal validations toward preferred behaviors your wife shows you. It’s like giving a puppy a treat. Your validations or praises are likely the only guidance she will receive to know that what she did pleases you. If you do it right, by becoming an attr…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:37 PM
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there's no way that should take anywhere near 90 minutes. I should have clarified. The work I did today was my first “not so long” workout at a little less than an hour. 1.5 - 2 minute rest times.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 08:16 PM
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I should really know better. I just left the gym. Lighter load. 3x10 on five back exercises. Hit 2 exercises for biceps. I’ll consider alternating days to spread the days out.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 04:39 PM
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OYS 17 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust. Currently reading: Rich Dad, Poor Dad SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203lbs, 14% body fat. Squat: 225 5x8 Bench: 225 5x7 OHP: 145 3x8 DL: 315 5x5 Bent-Row: 225 5x5 I’ve been averaging about 90 minutes lifting as frequently as 5 to 6 times a week. I don’t plan on making any changes other than cutting my lifting minut…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/20 09:34 AM
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What are some good tips to deal with it? What a joke. You did your best to make it sound like this event was well within your control. You got dumped. Now you’re on the internet making an autistic fucking list to stop making your feelings hurt. You’re one romantic comedy away from apologizing and getting back together. Stop bullshitting us.
/r/askMRP16/10/20 03:00 AM
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Blah blah blah! Why don’t you Own Your Shit, instead of DEERing about your shit. Get it together.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/20 04:21 PM
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Hey Rambo! Relax bud. You’re wanting too much too soon. It’s not going to happen in OYS #2. Wipe the tears and snot of your nose. Last week, I fucked around on askMRP and got triggered. That was pathetic and a waste. You got nothing out of that? I saw the posts and comments. There was a lot of good counsel given to you. The best advice you’ll receive here are usually the ones you loose sleep and cry on your porch. Man the fuck up. Put your ego away. I got an owie when my wife also starfished the…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 09:19 PM
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No value to add. Don’t mind me. I’m just warming my cold hands over this dumpster fire.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 08:24 PM
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I guess because we haven't done it in a while cus of the pregnancy/birth. Bullshit excuse! Average post birth waiting period is 6 weeks. It’s been eleven weeks, Pussy! I'm scared of actually trying and getting rejected. Any particular reasons outside of being a pussy who’s afraid of a girl?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 05:29 PM
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Sundays are starting to be the day where I dress up, when we go to have our family meal at my parents’ house. Being every week, it tends to be more of a casual get together, however I’ve been creating an excuse to look decent. Half Ass!!! There are 7 days in a week. There’s looking decent in home clothes, work clothes, and gym clothes. Be high value every single day. Experienced more physical play this week. Tried not to come off as thirsty. bullshit excuse. You’re afraid to fuck your woman. Why…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 01:52 PM
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MEDIC ! ! !
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 12:51 PM
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Stick to established gaming hours You’re skinny, weak and a man-child. Grow up. You have 4 kids, one is sick as fuck, you’re teetering divorce, you have no real friends, people are dying in your OYS and you want to establish gaming hours. What a faggot!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/20 12:08 PM
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I grew a mustache I think it works for me but wife doesn't like it. This has been cause for some threats of withdrawal of kissing/ sex, although I don't think our frequency has really tapered off. Haha! I was on this boat in December. I was not allowed to grow facial hair in my marriage. I suddenly decided to grow a full beard for 9 months with MRP. No fucks given. Nothing happened. Month #10 came... my wife gifted me a beard grooming kit.. Just because. I shaved it all off the following week...…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 08:36 PM
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I am having zero success with leadership. Any decision I make goes down like a sack of shit. Listening to tWotSM again, concepts on mission and leading a woman emotionally. Make significant gains with your value as a man, things usually follow. Including your woman. It seems like your dropping the ball. Making bad calls and bad decisions. Fix your shit. Square yourself and your action first and have an attractive vision your people can follow before you question why they’re not following you. On…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 08:09 PM
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I felt in the moment that STFU was working so I stuck with it. it wasn’t wrong. Good deal. In the future, Somewhere along your progression, your wife is not going to know what to do or how to act around the high-value version of yourself. She will be lost. There will be times when she will “come off” disrespectful to you and times when she will blatantly disrespect you. It is up to you to decipher both and apply a proper response. Remember this. Both are crucial to the dynamic of your marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 07:14 PM
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One evening last week she came to bed wearing only a thong (this never happens – it’s always t shirt and shorts to bed). She laid in bed and cuddled up to me. You didn’t like that? If your did, You failed to validate a “preferred behavior”. I was expecting her to initiate at this point but she did not. The only thing I can figure is she believed all she had to was be available and I would initiate. I did not. I feel it’s better for me to turn down what was assuredly going to be starfish, than ac…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 04:23 PM
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OYS 16 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me, The science of trust. Currently reading: Sex God Method SUMMARY Steadily getting better, but the progress is much slower. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 203lbs, 14% body fat. Squat: 225 5x8 Bench: 225 5x7 OHP: 145 3x8 DL: 315 5x5 Bent-Row: 225 5x5 Good week in the gym and in the kitchen. I am getting a lot out of lowering the weights, focusing on tempo and mind-muscle connection. As I mentioned last we…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 11:16 AM
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The Wife -> Pedestal That’s all I was hoping for you to key up on, but then this came up... My Wife -> Just my turn No bud. You’re a high value man. She’s yours. It’s just HER turn and and she’s being evaluated. Cheers!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/20 10:23 AM
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That is some heavy shit. You knew that coming in here but you didn’t come for sympathy. That’s respectable as fuck. I’ll separate myself from the emotional aspect of this and just give the best counsel I can... I can't bring myself to push myself at work for that promotion I want, or go to the gym, or even eat. I've lost 40lbs this year.... fuck that promotion (for now) but you have to make it to the gym. It’s where we all started. It’s where the lightbulb sparked for many of us during the worst…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 08:16 PM
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Why do you refer to her as THE wife? I’m curious.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/20 02:39 PM
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See you in 14 days.....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/20 01:40 PM
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Stop arguing with your wife but it mostly looks good dude. Especially the family side of things. It looks like you’re really owning some shit on the home front which is a good way to display value and give your masculine gifts to your family. Just be mindful of the dancing monkey. You’re a great candidate because of.... Got a date night with wife tonight. It’s little shit like this that shows where you’re really at in terms of SMV with your wife. It’s like you won something. It’s like something …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/20 03:10 PM
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my frame vs hers. Forget about this for now. You don’t stand a chance. The man isn’t built yet. Your frame won’t hold. Partly because you’re full of LARPing shit. It’s been 10 weeks and you’re still a fat fuck. You have an impressive sidebar consumption but you’re not embodying the knowledge. I think you will get so much out of lifting hard as fuck, stfu, and NMMNG. Just master those right now.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 11:10 AM
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Thank you. They went real deep on this one. Great post and discussion.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:57 PM
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That shit was spot on and motivating.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:44 PM
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Sex is on demand but starfish as usual. objectify her. I have to own that I am still frustrated with this. don’t idealize her. Did some rough stuff... “I liked you choking me.” she’d rather be objectified than idealized. Validate that.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:53 AM
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OYS 15 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me. Currently read: The Science of Trust. %95 It’s a long dry book. I need to get over this hump so I can move forward. SUMMARY Steadily getting better. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15% body fat. Squat: 225 5x8 Bench: 225 5x7 OHP: 145 3x8 DL: 315 5x5 Bent-Row: 225 5x5 Instead of actively capitalizing on good genetics, I’ve passively acted on it. Although the gym has been a steady part of my life,…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/20 11:29 AM
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Counseling has not gone how I expected or hoped, and has actually accelerated us toward divorce. let’s take it back to your OYS 17. Our first counseling session is finally here this week. Maybe things will improve—I’m prepared either way.” Nooo!!!!! Counseling is all about feminizing and blue pill conditioning you to conform to the female agenda. That is literally their cure. You’re going to be given advice by some chick or a blue pill faggot on how to please a chick. She came highly recommended…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 01:48 PM
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What would be the correct response in this case? Didn’t say you responded wrong. Just reminding you of the non-verbal side of handling a rejection. The best response is the response (or lack thereof), that makes her hamster wonder why you’re way more than ok with her rejection. Iron Rule #8 - Always let a woman figure out why she wont ƒuck you, never do it for her. I’ll add this... while she’s figuring it out... you should be doing something that makes you a better man or something that makes yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 01:01 PM
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I am failing 95% of shit tests that I notice, and that's just the ones I notice. I need to slow down my replies and not just say the first thing that comes to my head, Just STFU. You don’t have to say anything. Don’t take the test if you can’t pass it. You’ll sound autistic. You’re better off faking a seizure than saying something that’s going to make you unattractive. so I just shrugged and went to sleep. I’m being critical. Maybe this wasn’t the case but that “shrug” can still come off as a ne…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/20 03:32 AM
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We've had sex twice in the last week, after the first time she told me she didnt enjoy it How does a conversation like this even happen or start? Since your scenario lacks context, I’ll try to toss some possibilities. Tell me which one hits home. a.) because you’re a sex validation seeking faggot, you wanted to know how sex with you made her feel and she told you the truth you couldn’t handle. That’s your fault. b.) She literally sat there, knowing you’re a sex validation seeking faggot, and dec…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 11:57 PM
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New born baby is 8 weeks old. Life is even harder now, and wife isn’t making it easier. Excuses. And speaking from a place of disadvantage. New born baby is 8 weeks old. Life has new challenges. That’s all there is to it. I can too easily get dragged down into her pit of despair. there’s that lack of frame. Did you know that when your wife jumps into a pit of negative emotion, you don’t have to jump in with her?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/20 01:12 PM
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I think my life is too easy, and I have to make an effort to create challenges in my life that push me to reach my potential. I needed to hear this.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:53 PM
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I think a lot of us hyper focus on what was lacking. That’s fine. Problem is we are blind to our progress. The sparring partner is tapping out but we don’t release the arm-bar and help them up.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 06:29 PM
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Goals: Be the oak for my family. This takes a certain amount of Beta behaviors. You won’t achieve this until you get beyond hating your wife. Being the oak takes “care” , “service” and “masculine leadership”. I got in one brief argument with my wife You can’t oak up while getting in arguments with your wife. This shit is basic sidebar. It’s unattractive as fuck. Her attitude was so bad that I actually stopped mid-thrust and said it wasn’t working for me. I initiated again an hour later, and the …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 05:09 PM
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Don’t get too hung up on whether it’s a shit test or just general disrespectful behavior. -Yeah, don’t get hung up on them but make an effort to identify each and act accordingly. Otherwise, you’ll treat them the same and step on your dick each time. Better to master them. Been in my head a little too much. Based on recent behavior, I’m feeling the urge to end things. But I struggle with the dilemma on whether: a. b. c. You’re so deeply stuck in your wife’s frame that your only solution to have …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 01:42 PM
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Sleep is almost normalized, which would be the first time I can say that since I started the unfucking process about two years ago. Is your fixation on sleep and MRP based on some scientific fact or is it just personal bro-science? It’s there on most of your OYS. I’m curious.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 01:01 PM
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OYS 14 Books: Sidebar, NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, 48 Laws of Power, Can’t Hurt Me. Currently read: The Science of Trust. 80% SUMMARY I’m better. STATS/LIFTS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15% body fat. Squat: 225 3x10 Bench: 225 5x7 OHP: 145 3x8 DL: 315 5x5 Bent-Row: 225 5x5 I’m rearranging my lifts. I scaled down from the heavier end of what I’ve been lifting (-25 to 50lbs) to focus on form, tempo & hypertrophy. At least that’s what I’m telling myself. The truth is as the weights get he…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/09/20 12:08 PM
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I started to read the sidebar whole day The sidebar takes more than a day. I really want to pull myself together if someone is willing to give some general guidance Go back to the sidebar and REALLY read it.
/r/askMRP21/09/20 01:36 PM
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You're a newb and you take the time to respond to a lot of people. This is true. I try to catch early OYS as they step-in with the wrong foot. It keeps the fundamentals fresh. It can be easy to avoid one's own issues by focusing on others. I understand. It helps me stay accountable. It keeps me close to the sidebar. but watch out of those oft-seen behaviors. I will. I appreciate the warning.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/09/20 01:40 AM
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There’s only one evidence that OP is a male. He wanks. It’s also evidence that he needs a chastity belt. He wanks for hours.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 11:06 PM
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Sounds like a good time to start posting OYS weekly. C U Next Tuesday!
/r/askMRP17/09/20 11:04 PM
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that’s all she ever has been, I’ve said it to her. -Saying that gets you nothing. STFU. You’re only allowed a few words here. Don’t use it on retarded statements that gets you nowhere. but the easiest way financially forward is what for the lease in December and use her as a sparring partner to try learn some game and DNGAF. -Stop bullshiting yourself. Other times I’m back to betadom thinking everything will get better -Thats the only honest thing you’ve said about yourself. Sidebar, Lift, STFU.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 10:22 PM
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Mission: live life filled with adventure, fun, and meaningful relationships. I will accomplish this by being attractive, financially successful, provide good leadership as a father, and live without fear. -I invite you to zone-in on your “purpose“ as a human being. This should lead you to a deeper “vision and a mission.” Example: Purpose: Be a pirate. Vision: Sailing the ocean, singing pirate songs with my pirate friends. Mission: Find a pirate ship. Poke eye To blindness. Lose an arm, find a pa…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 05:12 PM
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I was about to go to Europe with my partner for 6 weeks Are you a lesbian? she also was planning to propose to me while there You are lesbians! I fucking love hopeless romantic lesbians! This woman is nothing. She’s not your PARTNER. She’s JUST a roommate that you fuck here and there which is kinda cool if you have the right mindset. Nothing about your roommate should dictate any decision you make from here moving forward. No more to it than that. You have a roommate. A plate, at best. Treat it …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/20 02:14 PM
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You must be fun at parties. Edit: If your energy had a birthday, it also wouldn’t get sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 02:49 AM
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mentioned previously that the typical recommended tactics do not seem to work (A&A). I lack congruency That is correct. Although A&A is an invaluable tool, it requires talking. You can easily fuck that up. STFU for now. In time, A&A will come natural with your progress. If it lags, practice with people who aren’t your wife. Thanks for the assist. u/threekindsoflucky
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 02:41 AM
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You make sex a mental math problem. Where you currently stand... Fuck your wife because you want to. Fuck her because she’s a woman and one of the reasons she exist is to get fucked. Everything else is bullshit. This whole “she’s not focused on me” , “did not lust for her body” , “treat/prize” and “emotional connection” are just mind fucks that you’re wearing as a hat. Later in your progress... the time will come when you might learn to use sex to build her emotional attachment to you. That’s ov…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 02:22 AM
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“It’s nice to see that I can now tell my wife that not being intimate does not work for me, and there being no other message, not a threat, just a fact.” -You’re squatting 150. SHUT THE FUCK UP. LIFT. You’re not there yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/20 01:46 AM
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It’s not. It’s just something I find amusing. We need to learn to receive compliments graciously without self deprecating. I was looking majestic as fuck. Nothing I can do about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 05:33 PM
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Continue with your OYS. Use it as a reference. Let your OYS progress alongside your side bar knowledge.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 02:00 PM
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OYS 13 SUMMARY I fucked up but I’m better. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. STATS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15% body fat. I scrapped my lifting benchmarks. I’ve plateaued and raised my rep ranges from 5-8 reps to 8-12 reps instead. I’m gonna see what progress this leads me to. Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/20 12:01 PM
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“My wife has a poor habit of interrupting me while speaking which is a huge pet peeve of mine.” -You have a poor habit of yapping about everything. Shut the fuck up. “I will admit, I occasionally do speak to topics that she isn't in love with” -STFU. She doesn’t care about what you’re yapping about. “I've been trying to positively reinforce her not to interrupt me by giving her withdrawn attention for five to ten minutes after she interrupts me.” -What is it that you have to make mouth noises fo…
/r/askMRP12/09/20 05:38 PM
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A community of men who are usually quick to give the “Next Her!” advice are collectively telling you to hold of on the Divorce. Pay attention. You’re missing something everyone else is seeing.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/20 04:20 AM
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The goal is to get the relationship there. I’ve been pushing the masculine/feminine dynamic further and further into a structured D/s outside of the bedroom. Inside the bedroom is perfect. Total power exchange. Consensual non-consent. Outside the bedroom has a few sticking points but is slowly developing positively. I’m also careful as to not get lost in titles because that’s not where my work is at the moment. Im building the foundation. Im working on my decision making. Im working on managing …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 04:35 PM
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Wtf, Horns! You’re so on point that sometimes it’s just fucking creepy. Those two words... empathy and vulnerability has been the chief complaint about me. I always preach that shit tests are harder to pass when they are true. Things are clearing up to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 02:56 AM
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“My mission is to become the type of man that has a real mission - this means gaining discipline in my life.” -Your mission is to have a mission? Don’t bullshit yourself. You don’t have a mission at this time and that is ok. What is not ok is bullshitting yourself which prevents yourself from finding the true mission. The discipline you seek might be hard to find because it has no true mission to anchor itself to. You probably already have a mission. You just haven’t realized it’s manifestation.…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 02:40 AM
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“her needs -> your needs -> your wants -> her wants.“ -That’s one heck of a concept for MRP, but I get it. Once again, I think I’m caught up on mismanagement of the feelz. It a sticking point for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 01:50 AM
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I’ll take it.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 01:46 AM
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“ are you in a formal D/s relationship? “ -No. it mirrors closely though. And it pulling me toward that direction. Right now we enter formal D/s protocols intermittently, mostly during the weekends. Outside of protocol, we stay deep within the bounds of Masculine and Feminine polarities. “ she IS entitled to explanations as to my logic when I make decisions, as long as it is not time dependent or disrespectful. “ -Thank you for shining light on this. This is the current sticking point. “ feeling…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 01:29 AM
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“ writing 90% about your dom sub relationship is not at some point a rule 9 violation. “ -ask the mods, then tell me. “I know you keep saying everything is in your frame, but it doesn’t read that way to me.“ -Frame in D/s is unique in that way. It has the illusion of oneitis in terms of the amount of comfort, security and stability you’re required to give for another person to submit themselves fully to you. “What else are you really trying to accomplish in your life other than fucking your wife…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/20 01:05 AM
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OYS 12 SUMMARY I fucked up but I’m better. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. STATS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 5x5 , OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 225 3x10 DL: 315 5x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-15% body fat. Pretty yoked! MARRIAGE/SE…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/20 02:44 PM
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“I'm pretty strict about it because of my massive insecurity“ you’re going to have to de-weaponize this by tackling it head on and getting comfortable. DNGAF. Otherwise, this will always be a shit test she will have in her pocket and you’ll fail it each time. This is an ego issue. Somehow, in you egotistic faggot brain, you want to believe that your woman is enchanted and no man has rubbed jizz on her forehead like baby Simba as she giggled. Is she in the 8 ounce club in terms of sperm catching?…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 12:39 PM
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“ I need to really monitor how to maintain more joy in my life. As I push to become better I can easily drag my self in a bad place. Maintaining a positive outlook is crucial. “ -You and u/impatientzen are doing the same shit. It might help to read each other’s OYS. While things are good, your heads are pulling you both under. There’s an inability to maintain a positive outlook.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 05:04 AM
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“ Drinking to excess just isnt for me anymore. “ -I hear you!!! Shit hurts. Lol “ every time Im around him I see where I was and where I could still be and it just fucking boils me. “ No, dude. You don’t get to rationalize faggotry here. You got drunk and had a drunken rage. That needs to be your last. That shit is so embarrassing and unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 04:53 AM
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“ Wife is starting anti-depression medication for the first time in her life today. ” -You becoming the best version of yourself might inadvertently mitigate her depression. Don’t make it a goal. Just know it’s possible. -Nice job on the STFU = caressing arms after 10 minutes. -Be careful with using sex for validation.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/20 12:45 AM
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Me: “If I was to move in with someone I would get them to sign something to protect my assets.” -this statement was a “thought” that had no purpose being said. STFU. “I know you want me to reassure you right now but I don’t feel like soothing your emotions after you deliberately tried to hurt me.” -This statement was ALSO useless. No purpose than to show butthurt. STFU “ she tried to hurt me because I had SAID something that hurt her. “ -She tried to hurt you after you failed to STFU. ”That’s no…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 11:06 PM
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“ sometimes great sometimes shit. ” -if you take this seriously enough. You will develop habits that will create consistency in your life. “ I often succumb into it and start nagging back. “ -STFU “ I'm a giving lover with a big dick and got blessed with decent looks. She orgasms a lot and is sexually satisfied. “ -Sex for external validation. Drop it ASAP. “ I've still not gotten over my ex cheating on me “ -This is not the time or place to cry about your Ex. “ she got a new colleague she's fli…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 10:37 PM
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Yup! I agree. I can’t say he failed it no matter how retardedly ape’ish it was.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 10:09 PM
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“ so I walked up toward her intending to wrestle a bit, turn her upside down and bite her ass (What? Felt like the right thing to do) “ -There are many teachings here. None of those say wrestle her, flip her upside down and bite her ass in the middle of a shit test. The saddest part about this is I can’t even really say you failed it! Bahahaha! ...I do have to say, Sir, you are a retarded ape for opting to do that out of all the options you had. Jesus. Your woman will feel this way often during …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 08:23 PM
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What are you going to do about it? Do you have a plan? It’s keeping you from seeing your own progress. You’re head is NOT where you currently are. There are usually two parts to your writing... 1.) The descriptive part where you draw a picture for us of what it looks like at face value. This is usually good. 2.) The analytic part where you analyze things that are not tangible. Some ideas, some imaginations, perspectives, etc. This is usually bad and almost always irrelevant to the present time a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 08:07 PM
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You have to fix your head dude. You’re bouncing off the walls. You also have a tendency of sabotaging your progress. I’ve followed your progress or lack thereof. Week after week, your mind has aimlessly taken you to dark places without any congruence with your rather bright reality and what’s “currently” happening in your marriage. Your TL;DR: “I’m THINKING I need to divorce my wife. I’ve been finding my wife pleasant, sexually open and seeks my approval and validation. But I’m on a witch hunt f…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 04:37 PM
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“This is happening. This is what I’m doing about it. I’m good. Some changes... but we are fine.” Edit: Boy, what a great vetting opportunity.
/r/askMRP01/09/20 02:16 PM
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) You’re not equipped for anything above STFU at this time. ) I see you are on your way to oneitis. Have a safe trip.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 01:44 PM
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OYS 11 SUMMARY I fucked up but I’m better. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. STATS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 5x5 , OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 225 3x10 DL: 315 5x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-15% body fat. Pretty yoked! Coming off …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/20 01:17 PM
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"Still only getting 2-3reps on pull-ups," "starting to get some decent definition in arms" -This isn't congruent. We know what the arms of a person who can do 20 reps look like. Probably decent. 10 reps, nice but nothing special. 2 reps...? Decent definition? No.. It looks like you're progressing but don't cut yourself short by not being a crucial judge of yourself. Your arms are far from looking decent at 2 reps of pull-ups. "Ultimately my mission is to embrace suffering" -be careful. David Gog…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/20 12:44 AM
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“ her Constant Complainer tendencies, with most of her shots aimed at me. “ -A woman often seems to test her man’s capacity to remain unperturbed in his truth and purpose. She tests him to feel his freedom and depth of love, to know that he is trustable. Her tests may come in the form of complaining, challenging him, changing her mind, doubting him, distracting him, or even undermining his purpose in a subtle or not so subtle way. A man should never think his woman’s testing is going to end and …
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/20 01:59 PM
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“ I asked her to get some nicer clothes for the night, “ -I don’t know where you’re at with your frame, but always be mindful of it. Be mindful of how you say things... “Can you get some nicer clothes tonight?” You’re in her frame. She may deny or grant your request. “I’d really enjoy seeing you in nicer clothes tonight.” -This is pretty neutral and a good gauge of where the frame is at. You clearly communicated what you want. It is up to her to make the choice to go out of her way to make you h…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 12:24 PM
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The answer to your question, relies on the frame and who holds it. I’m going to assume you’re in her frame and she doesn’t have enough respect for you to yield to your opinions or directions about XYZ. Be patient. Don’t throw a tantrum. You’re just not going to get what you want right now. Keep digging on your progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/08/20 01:03 AM
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"Yeah we wont be doing this again. All it does is stress you out and you cant deal." That set off a major shit storm Well no shit!!!! How about saying "I see that its stressing you out." You see the difference? Same message; however, one is criticism. The other provided comfort and empathy. This was a major STFU failure. 1.) Why did you open your mouth? 2.) If you SHALL speak, at least choose to say something attractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 09:24 PM
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"I was told during sex no doggy. I just pulled out stopped said that’s it and went about my business." -Why didnt you turn this to something funny, exciting or amusing? Why the butthurt route? Why did it matter so much that you shut down the whole party? Think about it. You might get something out of it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 09:08 PM
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"I need to give my wife space to focus on the new kid" -Faggot -While you're at it, instead of chasing your wife around with your dick missile, give your wife some relief so long as there is no material injury to yourself in terms of caring for the new born. Do it because you are a high value man with plenty of masculine gifts to give. Do what needs to be done. Make shit happen!!! "How do I kill off validation seeking through sex without subrogating my sex life to my wife?" -Aim for receiving re…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 06:50 PM
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No. Its there to prevent relapse. Keep myself accountable for the ground I've conquered in not giving any fucks about it. Just like "no fap". Its done but it takes on-going accountability. This affair used to be a giant hawk fanning its wings inside the house. Now its a tiny bird outside. Present but irrelevant. It doesn't move us anymore. Its deweaponized. Edit: Perhaps I should change "plan" to something more fitting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 05:05 PM
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“ I went for a walk alone and I set a goal: figure out specifically what I want out of my relationship with my wife. I walked around for an hour, and I was shocked that I still had no idea. ” -YOU WANT TO BE RESPECTED IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP. There! Borrow that for now. It might get you somewhere. “Sex has been up and down the last few years, but the last few months has been up. It has been simple: I've asked for it with authority.” -Mommy! I want sex! And I (stomp) want (stomp) it (stomp) NOW! (St…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:36 PM
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“still cannot get herself in a "spontaneous sex" mindset.” Let her figure out why she won’t fuck you. “she's constantly at a 0 in terms of sexual interest” -Who cares?! Be attractive. Don’t be unattractive. “I cannot get her to a 5 (sopping wet) - without the date night" -Well yeah. It’s DUTY SEX. “ However, my goal is to create ... blah blah blah “ -You’re hung up on this dude. You’re stepping on your dick. Relax. Be attractive and outcome independent. Why do you care what level of sexual inter…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 02:13 PM
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“ I had a consultation with a lawyer. “ -This is Good! A new button you can push. This option is good for your OI. Do you even “like” your wife. Yup! “Like” not “Love”. Love doesn’t matter right now. If you like her, consider the 1000 ft rope. Remember she doesn’t have the coaching system you have. “ Still working on being less Nice “ -Remember that being a jerk is not the opposite of nice. “ being pushed to say ILY back. “ -I was on this boat. You don’t always have to say it back but don’t fail…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 12:52 PM
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OYS 10 SUMMARY I fucked up. Im getting better. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. STATS 36yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 3x5 , OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 225 3x10 DL: 315 2x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-15% body fat. Pretty yoked! MARRIAG…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/20 11:33 AM
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Your OYS... “The glass is half full. The end.” Dude, find out why the glass is half empty, then do something about it. There is a real reason why you’re here.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/20 01:20 AM
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“ Hi everybody, 6 years married hubby here. " -Have some respect for yourself! Geeez!
/r/askMRP20/08/20 11:25 PM
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We’ve had quite a few lesbians posting questions here lately. Amusing.
/r/askMRP20/08/20 08:15 PM
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The contract I’m working on is very simple. It begins with what it is to me. Some defined and enforced code of behaviors and rituals during BDSM sessions. I plan on expanding from those short sessions. The written contract gives instructions on how we enter and exit the agreed protocol during these sessions. A simple sub pose to be collared and another sub pose to be uncollared. It goes over my duty of care, safety, etc. She naturally slides into a submissive role during sex or sexual situations…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/20 02:58 PM
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“Is your vision incomplete and you're scared of it coming out retarded and being rejected?“ -Definitely this. I’m looking at it from an angle of (not self doubt) self-honesty that I’m new to this. I’m in OYS 9. I’m 3 weeks inside the best place my marriage had been in a long time. I need to button some more shit down. It’s going to happen. I know it. I feel it. It’s in my guy. I sense a time for it. I just know that time isn’t right now because I’m pretty sure I’ll sound retarded.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 08:53 PM
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“ You're scared of introducing it at any other time. Why? “ -MY vision is incomplete. It lacks the full picture. I did not expect to fall into this dynamic this quickly, yet alone push a D/s protocol immoderately. Part of it is letting us settle and sink into our new discovered roles. The other is making sure I have an attractive direction she can follow. In a way, what I think I’m doing is priming her to choose to submit. I’ve been pushing her deeper into submission without saying I want her to…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 07:26 PM
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“but given my history of being a lazy arsehole I don’t want to implement too much change at once.“ -Excuse.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 11:02 AM
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OYS 9 SUMMARY I fucked up. Typical Beta. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. That affair is and will forever be dread. STATS 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 225 3x8 , OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 225 3x10 DL: 315 2x5 (Deloading) Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfo…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/20 10:42 AM
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“ Estimate my old BF " -no
/r/askMRP16/08/20 02:31 AM
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“ Anyone have any experience with this? “ -No. I’m not in a lesbian marriage... sooo...
/r/askMRP15/08/20 04:29 AM
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“Weight has been up and down over the 2 weeks. But that's to be expected.” -No it’s not. You’re up and down because you’re a fat fuck who can’t stop eating. Stop bullshiting yourself. Your OYS is ejaculating procrastination. You’re out here on OYS 6....... “FOCUSING”.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 12:27 PM
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“I fapped a few times over the last few weeks.” Stop giving yourself permission to be a low value man.... “It confirmed what everyone on here has said.” ....and then say some shit LARP shit like your hypothesis agrees. Come on man.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 04:30 AM
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I agree and I understand. I’ve been slowly introducing that “look”. Although I need to improve myself to make her reaction crisp and instant, I see she hurry’s off of it when I give her that look. It’s all progressive at this point.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/20 03:09 AM
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Fake your death. Duh.
/r/askMRP12/08/20 12:03 AM
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“did the dogs normally stay in the room and you would just take our when intending to fuck?” -dogs normally followed where people went. I took them out before I fucked. “I don't like there being any barriers“ -lol. There will always be barriers. Be smarter than the barriers. Especially if it’s a dog.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 11:58 PM
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“the kitchen sink gets thrown at me. It becomes chaotic, illogical, and east to recognize. STFU and fogging work,” -You can’t fog real flying objects being thrown at you. It will fucking hit you. Have a plan to remove yourself from those situations for a prolonged period. I’m not saying a week, I’m also not saying go for a walk and return after an hour. That is absolutely unacceptable behavior from your woman. But shit bro!!!! YOUR LIFTS BRO! We are the same height and weight, and probably the s…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 05:10 PM
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That stung a bit, because it’s true. My fear is toward doing things too fast. I’m leaning toward introducing an “intermittent high protocol” structure during the weekends so we both can get a feel for it. A lot to consider like a 3 year old running around the house.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 03:42 PM
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I am definitely not there yet. I taught a puppy not to bite and sit. I’m working on it’s focus, attention and willingness to please. To be completely honest, she’s obedient, but only up to a point, and I have no clue how to take her down that deep deep state of obedience that you have.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 12:03 PM
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“I should be having fun with these conflicts.” -Yes you should! It will be far fetch until you stop seeing her as an enemy. Providing comfort is hard when you see her as an enemy. STFU is hard because you want to hurt her feelings too. AA just comes off autistic and butthurt. “I later engaged in what I thought was a comfort test.” -Half of those were shit tests. I don’t know if those tests were dropped in the same conversation and if they were, I found that those kind of rapid fire tests are bes…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 11:44 AM
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“Hit 11% BF, I still want to keep going with the cut and will give it another week then reassess.” -I’m seriously curious. I’ve heard people in physique competitions get emotionally out of whack the lower their body fat % gets. Have you taken into consideration that your cut might be affecting your mood/motivation/feelings? “we go into the bedroom and she invites her dog up onto the bed. She knows that doesn’t work for me” -I had this problem. (6years pre-RP) It stopped when I began to take char…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 11:09 AM
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OYS 8 SUMMARY I fucked up. Typical Beta. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. That affair is and will forever be dread. STATS 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 5x5, OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 260 5x5 DL: 315 2x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-1…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/08/20 10:29 AM
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The moment I stopped being angry was the same moment I stopped trying to annihilate my sparring partner. It don’t know which event came first. It doesn’t matter; but, I can definitively say it was also the moment MRP began to gain its traction in transforming my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/08/20 10:19 PM
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“Fat: low (not measured)” -Why? Don’t halfway OYS. “Keep up gymnastics rings workouts instead of going to the gym. Run 3 times this week.” -Why? Prerequisites include Lifting. Lift heavy. Squat, Deadlift etc. Don’t halfway OYS. “LTR works in a bar“ -LTR is in a very rich SMP. Regardless of her HB rating. She’s being validated by low value bar rats and she’s exposed to HV men all the time. Hyper gamy is active as fuck! You need to be better than this “gymnastics rings workouts instead of going to…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/20 02:04 PM
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Fuck yeah! Before you post it make sure nothing reads like... Because of this (insert excuse), I did this (insert very controllable failure). Or... I’m a faggot, so I failed at (insert controllable failure) Teehee! :) Fuck that! Until you become a critical judge of yourself, you will live your life trying to please people that have low standards and remain within those low standards that others set for you. You’re an intense motherfucker! ...but your intensity is outwards and uncontrolled. Bring…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 09:12 PM
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“SQ: 495x1, BP: 335x1, PR: 225x1, DL: 495x1” Recent? Recent is subjective. We want current. Also, there is a lot of strength in being a fat fuck. By your numbers, I can tell you’re a “no-neck” “big belly” refrigerator looking physique. Strong as fuck but unattractive naked. Fix it. “NMMNG Unit 731 (unrelated to MRP, read at your own peril) 12 Rules for Life“ -FOR NOW... stick to the basics. There’s a reason. You don’t want to “halfway” the sidebar because everything connects. You’re going to fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/20 04:14 PM
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“I’m not gonna believe the lie “people should just like me for me” anymore.“ -External validation seeking faggotry. “(a witty, masculine, confident vibe that people like to be around)“ -External validation seeking faggotry. “Biggest asshole in town died in a car wreck and the girls all cried. One said “I miss how he used to throw French fries down my shirt.” -Out of all the dead outstanding men out there. You pick some bro, that throws fries down women’s shirts. Epic! “Now I know better. Girls a…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 02:01 PM
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OYS 7 SUMMARY I fucked up. Typical Beta. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. I chose to stay with my family. STATS 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 5x5, OHP: 135 3x8 Back Squat: 260 5x5 DL: 315 2x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-15% body fa…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/20 12:18 PM
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I almost wasted 2 cents on you. Good thing I read the comments first. C U NxT Tuesday in OYS weekly. We’ll talk there. Jesus Christ. This guy is fucked up.
/r/askMRP30/07/20 08:19 PM
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“Just remember that self-discipline is not self-suppression. Suppression is when you resist and fight against your desires, keeping them as buried and unexpressed as possible. Self-discipline is when your highest desires rule your lesser desires” -TWOTSM
/r/askMRP29/07/20 11:51 PM
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Dude! Too much thinking. You have analysis paralysis to a point where your dick joined the thinking and got soft. A lot of good points but IMO you’re doing a disservice to yourself and taking the fun out of it by thinking too hard. It’s just a girl. Treat her like a side chick. You are your main squeeze. Cheers!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 09:32 PM
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I agree with all of this, especially.. “Domination begins with being able to dominate yourself, first and foremost.“ “not done through force” “responsibility to provide the safety” All of it, Horns... as far as doing it for “control” I don’t know if it will make sense the way I intend to articulate it, but no, I’m not doing it for control. It’s more so for “order”. The status quo. Maintaining polarity and the responsibilities within. Masculine man, feminine woman. Deliberate man, yielding woman.…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 05:35 PM
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This fag is a feisty one! Somebody give this man-child the answer he came for! Put a baby in your best friend, OP! That’ll do it!
/r/askMRP29/07/20 12:32 PM
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“ To get my needs met “ -To meet my own needs.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 12:17 PM
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OYS 6 SUMMARY I fucked up. Typical Beta. Had a two-year affair to get external validation. Affair was discovered in 9/19. I chose to stay with my family. STATS 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 245 5x5, OHP: 135 5x6, Back Squat: 255 5x5 DL: 315 2x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Books: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently reading The Science of Trust. PHYSICAL I’m doing good here. There’s nothing to see. I’m comfortable at 13-15% body f…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/20 11:23 AM
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First, find a real girlfriend And have a real relationship. Fuck that up royally, then come back here.
/r/askMRP28/07/20 11:41 PM
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You’re pretty fucked up. Hold what you got! Don’t move. Don’t make a sound. STFU! Go to the sidebar.
/r/askMRP28/07/20 03:11 PM
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Weird. You're telling us something you should be telling her. Don’t be scared. She’s just a girl.
/r/askMRP27/07/20 07:01 PM
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I don’t know where you are on your journey in MRP but you should know we don’t become better men overnight. Women don’t follow men they love. Women follow men they respect. Raise your value and have an attractive vision. There is an issue of frame. You haven’t owned your shit, and your wife doesn't give two shits about what you think about her parenting. “I have to fill in when our daughter is calling my wife for something.” -This happens to me often. I say, “Mommy (that’s what my child calls he…
/r/askMRP26/07/20 05:07 PM
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There is some fault at making a person do something you can do yourself and being upset at that person for failing you. “The problem is my wife doesn't want to be a mother to our daughter.” -This is false. You mean your wife doesn’t want to be the kind of mother you want her to be. Frame is everything, right? (Maybe) you are in her frame? (I doubt) she is in yours? (It’s very likely) you are in two different frames? I don’t know. But until you establish a frame she can be in, it’s going to be di…
/r/askMRP24/07/20 03:00 PM
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It’s looks like you’re about ready to fuck a second marriage up. You have my permission. Lazy, two-finger salute!
/r/askMRP20/07/20 12:22 PM
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“You tried to negotiate with her to self-enforce your own boundary, because you find it difficult to enforce it yourself. This is really weak.“ I completely agree. It felt like a shitty move as soon as I opened the can. She called my weak ass bullshit and rightfully so. “You feel unable to refuse to give comfort or guilty for not giving it, and then feel resentment at being "forced" to give it.” -I’ll try to pay close attention to this and try to catch myself in the moment.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 05:27 PM
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Thank you! I needed that example. As stated in my OYS I fucking despise comfort tests. Im working on though.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 03:22 PM
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“Physicality and Health” This whole paragraph is fluff. Put your dick down and lift heavy. “I walk 3x a week...” Wtf? Are you in a fat people scooter? No! Go find the drive to get under a barbell as much as you can. Go Lift!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 03:18 PM
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That’s the course I’m thinking about steering toward. I’ll stay tight on giving the praise to reinforce the behavior. Thanks!
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 01:46 PM
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“Saturday was my birthday and it was the worst. I was in a sour mood all day.“ -Yeah mate. Don’t do that mood swinging. It’s unattractive.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 12:54 PM
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OYS #4 SUMMARY I fucked up. I’m working on myself. Typical beta. Nice Guy traits led to “not so nice guy” rationalization to have a two year long affair for external validation which was eventually discovered in 9/19. Upon discovery, I decided to stay with my wife. STATS 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 230 5x5, OHP: 135 5x5, Back Squat: 235 5x5 DL: 315 2x5 Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM. Currently re…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/20 11:27 AM
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You hit the gym harder so chad knows not to fuck with your wife. Other men’s IOI toward her is her problem. Let her navigate that. You’ll see where you stand by how she handles it. Navigate for her if she’s stuck. Outcome independence if she’s not putting effort in handling it how she should. Hit the gym harder.
/r/askMRP13/07/20 08:17 PM
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“34 yo, 6’1”, 171 lbs. Married 10 years, together 15 years. 1 kid (5). 12% B.F (Navy method). Squat 185x3, Bench 160x5, Deadlift 255x5, OHP 100x5, PClean 135X3“ “Cutting back on some of the running and HIIT workouts this week to allow for more rest between lifting sessions.” -You’ll be OKAY! You can cut back a lot more on your cardio and HIIT. You’re tall, skinny and weak. Get under a barbell and push it until it gets gnarly. Build some mass. Until then, don’t sweat your cardio. “I had a big shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/20 02:44 PM
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“Sex hasn't really been a problem with us though, she never turns me down, and it's not really a reason I'm here. But it's something of a metric for my own attractiveness.“ -Your physical strength, your physique, your outcome independence, your mental state, your intelligence, your congruence, your confidence, your display of higher value and your stoicism are SOME of the metrics of your attractiveness. Not your wife. "you're not getting any of my gold then", then left to go flatten the aforemen…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 06:24 PM
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“However, in hindsight when she's asked for my help, those could be good opportunities to tease. So I'll have to keep that in mind for the future.” -Hold off on this. STFU. If you really wanna say something teasing after providing assistance, Keep it very light. Actually, no. Just STFU. At most... covert communication should be enough. Provide assistance... Solve the issue like a boss... Follow up with an ass grab/spank, or something playful... maybe something as subtle as a flirty wink... Don’t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/20 04:23 PM
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Yup! I’ve read and re-read them. It was great to hear a breakdown and a lecture on the topic.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 04:13 PM
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“I think secretly this whole date was a covert contract in my subconscious. I need to enjoy myself, let her worry about her feels, and not have expectations that I deserve things.” -It surely was a covert contract. I know, because I did the same thing. You thought nice dinner = appreciation for the effort, no shit test, etc. -Feelz are tricky. I’m learning It’s better to provide SOME comfort, but only up to a point. When you reach said point, and the behavior does not improve, that’s when it wou…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 02:54 PM
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OYS #3 SUMMARY I’m working on myself. Typical beta. Nice Guy traits led to “not so nice guy” rationalization to have a two year long affair for external validation which was eventually discovered in 9/19. Upon discovery, I decided to stay with my wife and family. STATS Me: 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 15%bf, BP: 225 6x5, OHP: 135 7x5, Back Squat: 225 5x6, DL: 315 2x5 Run: 2 miles (8min/mile) Relationship: Wife is 38, married 5 years, we have one three year old kid. Reading: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/20 01:21 PM
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Let me know how that goes. Lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 03:18 PM
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We went through marriage counseling the day after my affair blew up. It was her way to cope and heal from my affair. For someone who’s two year affair aired out the way mine did, I feel I got off quite easy on it so I didn’t mind the counseling. We went from weekly, to bi-weekly and later decided to go monthly because it seemed she didn’t need it anymore until it completely stopped three months ago. Then this hamster sprint happened out of nowhere. It seems to happen whenever I’m on top of my ga…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 02:53 PM
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“Our first counseling session is finally here this week. Maybe things will improve—I’m prepared either way.” -Nooo!!!!! Counseling is all about feminizing and blue pill conditioning you to conform to the female agenda. That is literally their cure. You’re going to be given advice by some chick or a blue pill faggot on how to please a chick.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 01:35 PM
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“I am still an entitled little shit with my wife. I get pissed at stuff she does or doesn’t do. All the usual shit I whine about. Small things usually that I then attribute way more meaning to than I should. This makes me withdraw.” -This sounds oh so familiar. Here is how I overcame this. ISTFU and I did those things on my own with a smile on my face. It diminishes my NEED for her. It also showed independence and High Value on my end. It will rock the boat a bit though, as she finds her role in…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 01:13 PM
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OYS #3 READ: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, MAP, POOK, TRM, currently listening to Rian Stone’s interpretation of NMMNG on YouTube. STATS: 35yo, 6’3, 205lbs, 16%bf, BP: 225 5x5, OHP: 135 5x5, Back Squat: 225 5x6, DL: 315 3x5 Run: 2 miles (8min/mile) Intermittent Fasting: 18-6 BACKGROUND: Married 5 years, 3yo daughter. GIANT RED ELEPHANT - I had a discovered affair on 9/2019. This card keeps getting pulled. Weekly RED: -Stop ignoring broken shit (Met) -Kill the dancing monkey (Met) Weekly YELLOW:…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/20 12:34 PM
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“We did a workout together“ Don’t do this yet. Go solo for now. Raise YOUR value. Get it equal to, or above her, or waaay above hers until you’re respectably more attractive than your current self. “I told her not to rudely interupt me and i started back on what i was about to say. She interrupted me again.” At your current stage, this is not holding frame (yet). Your intentions are clear. I get it. I understand. But because you’re still a faggot, it just comes out as a verbalization of your but…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/20 07:41 PM
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This made me slow-smurk lol I’ll leave this quote here: “Self-discipline is when your highest desires rule your lesser desires, not through resistance, but through loving action grounded in understanding and compassion.” -The way of the superior man
/r/askMRP27/06/20 01:31 PM
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OYS Year 2!!! I respect that. But unless you were just completely fucked up in year one, For a year 2 person, You seem to not be in line with your purpose/mission that’s why you’re drinking everyday, skipping something so simple like dips, and lacking mastery of yourself and losing your shit. Go back to the basics and tighten yourself up. “Limit social drinking. Not sure what is a good number to shoot for but maybe 2 drinks and then switch to water.” -Nothing. Order two waters and then switch to…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/20 12:24 PM
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I’m sure you’ll get to reading The Way of the Superior Man at some point. It quotes something about a man Not having a mission will tend to only react to events instead of creating events. It’s the difference between controlling your life and and your life controlling you. So find your purpose, vision, mission, whatever it is, and stay true to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 06:39 PM
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Smiles You’re failing my shit test. Instead of fogging, AA, STFU, You let me in your head. You even DEER’d. I don’t even know you OP. You shouldn’t care that much about what I have to say. We are/were all faggots here, OP. Once you stop being offended by people from the internet, you might begin to absorb good counsel from the men here. You just haven’t had that honest self realization and humility to be trainable. Based on you post history, you lack the basic fundamentals to be a functioning hu…
/r/askMRP25/06/20 04:51 PM
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-Fuck your own mom since you still live with her, Faggot. -Hypergamy doesn’t care about the corona virus. Your ex has found a higher value man than you. She will swim through corona virus infested cities for a higher value man than you, faggot. -I’ve skimmed through your RP post history. It’s pure poetry of faggotry, faggot.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:46 PM
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“ haven't lost any weight, miscounting calories, get better at estimating“ -reframe this to become ACCURATE!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 03:26 PM
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Copy and paste your question in the corona virus thread. Your faggotness is contagious.
/r/askMRP25/06/20 03:11 PM
1

“ Her reply has been some variation of "not for another six months" Not sure how to respond to this so just shrugged and said your loss to most of them before continuing what I was doing. ” -You’re butt-hurt and you showed it. Just Shut The Fuck Up! Don’t verbalize your butt-hurt! -Also... what’s the whole six months about? What’s that number? Is she healing from surgery? Anything? “ shes the one with the smellier breath, “ -what in the actual fuck?!!? Are you hobo’s? -You kinda didn’t do anythi…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/20 02:43 PM
7

Can't remember where I saw it but it's a compliance test. It still falls under a shit test to kinda see where you stand as far as your frame. "Honey, do this! Because I want to see if you'll stop whatever you're doing for my request." and "Honey, Do this! Because I need your masculine to get it done because my feminine is truly incapable." Granting one builds frame, granting the other established her frame over yours.
/r/askMRP24/06/20 07:33 PM
2

I’ve been lifting for 15 years. I’ve seen my body at 239lbs, just yoked with muscle. I’ve also done a clean cut to 187lbs. Neither of those fit my vision anymore. 200lbs will be somewhere in the middle where I can maintain a healthy body fat % and strength. I may still add weight, but not until I’m pushing 225 at a stupidly high rep range. You are right. I’m going to need to find some sort of joint strengthening program. To be honest. I need some mobility programs too.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 12:50 PM
1

“I’m always checking myself out in the mirror. “Admiring the progress, taking BF% measurements, etc. But I realized that I’m trying to do it in secret, when my wife won’t catch me in the act. “ -I would caution you. There is nothing wrong with taking your measurements in private and admiring yourself in private. With where you’re at in your stats, the mass and muscles just aren’t there yet. You might unintentionally and covertly communicate negative self consciousness and lack of confidence. Whi…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 04:26 AM
2

“I let my vetting process go because my now-wife is hot. It was extremely validating to have exploratory, exhibitionist sex with an incredibly hot, educated woman who waxed her pussy.” -First, You have to get over your wife. She’s way over the wall at 39. So, in terms of hotness in the SMP, she wouldn’t be near the top in hotness. You’re framing this by saying your wife is hot. The reality is this post wall 40 year old is the hottest chick you can fuck right now because you’re not attractive eno…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/20 12:09 AM
1

“My fiancée has been having a big shake up at work which is making her stressed, and I think I’ve used this as an excuse to make us more comfort food.“ -You hurt both of you by leaving your mission to feed your fiancé who is in her feelings about something that has anything to do with you. “so this week my aim is eat extra clean, to lose as much water weight as possible.“ -go for a sustainable goal. You’re eating clean for your wedding. What are you gonna do in your honeymoon? Get fat? Eat clean…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 07:48 PM
1

I have. Sometimes, it takes other people’s prospective to clean up the sticky parts. I’ve made a lot of progress from NMMNG. I’ve done a better job of setting boundaries regarding what I’ll sit and listen to and what I’ll walk away from. However, after I walk away and return, she is still waiting there for the verbal intercourse. I end up sitting and talking about feelings anyway. Like right now... She’s in timeout for misbehaving during verbal intercourse over her complain of “You never let me …
/r/askMRP23/06/20 03:23 PM
1

“ When going to the gym I asked if she wanted to join me” -Why? She’s just gonna slow you down. You’ll have to wait for her to get ready and when you get there, she’ll complain and talk your ear out while you try to set a new PR. If you continue your progress, she will eventually come. Wait for her to ask to jump in that frame. She’ll be more likely to listen and remain in your frame during the workout. Meaning she’ll understand that the gym is not the place for her to talk about how much of a b…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 01:54 PM
2

“Waist - 40 inches at belly button. I don’t have a big concern about my weight at the moment. I don’t see myself wanting to cut until I’m DL’ing over 350lbs and Squatting near 300lbs as well” -This is a fucking bullshit ass excuse you’re telling yourself, Faggy! You don’t need a 40 inch waste to make those lifts. Stop being a fat lazy faggot. You love food too much. “ won’t look me in the eye” -why are you so fixated with this? She probably won’t look at you because you’re being a weirdo just st…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 01:38 PM
4

Where the fuck are your lifts? You talk like you don’t lift! If you do lift... you talk like you stop about 5 reps short of failure because you are so afraid of the barbell. You’re separated from your ex but here you are writing about her. She’s not even your wife! Wait, ah! Are you thinking about digging your Dead Puppy out of its grave to play with it? You want to, don’t you!? You also talk about yourself from a place of disadvantage. Pump that chest out man. Broaden those shoulders. It’s grea…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 12:53 PM
4

“We joked, laughed and that was the end of it. It hasn't been brought up again, and I've held my foot on the gas.” -Highlight that conversation. It’s not over. It’s going to come back if you ease up on that pedal. “My bday and fathers day certainly helped set the stage, but I came to the red pill looking for this.” -Be careful with counting this as progress. You may have negotiated it which falls under an obligation for her, instead of coming from genuine desire. But hey! I’ll take it! A face fu…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 12:06 PM
4

Ok, gotcha. I’ve always had a hard time with this part. I never had the confidence to know if I’m doing it right. Most times, it just feels like AA makes the shit test worse for me which turns into a full blown emotional meltdown by her. <=== You know what... (laughing to myself) as I wrote that response, my problem just manifested itself. I have a fear of being the bad guy. I’m afraid of my wife! IM AFRAID OF MY WIFE! Ha! I’m an idiot.
/r/askMRP23/06/20 11:48 AM
2

OYS #2 PRE-REQ: NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, TWOTSM, POOK, Current Gym Audiobook: TRM Reading: MAP STATS: 35yo, 6’3, 204lbs, 18%bf, BP: 225 5x5, OHP: 115 5x5, Back Squat: 225 5x5, DL: 315 1x5 Gym: At least 5 times a week, ending in moderate 10 minute cardio. Intermittent Fasting: 18-6 FITNESS: -Get down to 200lbs and Evaluate. -Get comfortable with pre-covid lifts. BP: 225 (5x5) <==met Squat: 225 (10x5) OHP: 135 (5x5) deadlift: 315 (1x5) <==met. Once all are “met” I’m not going to add any weight. I wi…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/20 11:33 AM
1

I don’t know if this counts... but... when my affair blew up and was discovered by my wife... (yep!) During the initial trauma of me admitting to the affair... My wife was like “I don’t know how you could do this to me! To us!” “I also don’t know why I want to fuck you so bad right now.” So we fucked. After a year of comfort tests and shit tests since that day... I’m still here :)
/r/askMRP23/06/20 03:32 AM
1

“ It doesn't require you to fix her feelings. You just give her the emotions and let her hamster do the rest.” Can you elaborate on this?
/r/askMRP23/06/20 03:26 AM
1

Sex: Not happening. It's been over 7 weeks. -How are your initiations? Have you tried a deliberate attempt? I hope you’re not “hinting” or “inching” like a teenage boy on prom night with initiation anxiety. Don’t rape her, but fucking take that shit. Deliberately and overtly.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/20 05:57 PM
2

Licking your lips while slapping jelly on a sandwich is not flirting, OP!
/r/askMRP21/06/20 03:21 PM
30

Yawn Let’s start with “you’re nothing special.” This is a typical first post. “I was that, then this thing happened, now I’m this.” You didn’t ask a question and you obviously didn’t read the sidebar or at least the guidelines for posting. Let’s unfuck some of your beta just to give you a prospective of where your head is at. “But I’ve always been in relationships. I realize now that the red pill comes to me easy naturally,” It doesn’t. Don’t fool yourself. You’re about as blue as a viagra pill.…
/r/askMRP20/06/20 02:18 PM
1

I agree with you. I'm already writing my OYS #2 with specifics about the week. I have added specific scenarios. Failures Success and some goals. P.S. the more I write, the more its feeling like I'm just a dancing monkey. I don't have quite the finger as to why.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/20 04:00 AM
8

Wow! OP had a puppy, it died, and he kept playing with it for years and years. Don't do that anymore, OP! Dont play with dead puppies. Puppy = Your dumpster fire of a relationship.
/r/askMRP16/06/20 09:30 PM
3

OYS #1 Books - NMMNG, WISNIFG, MMSLP, RM, TWOTSM, Can’t hurt me, 48LoP. Physical -35yo, 6’3, 205, 16%bf, I took a break from lifting due to COVID. I just picked up weight training again last week and decided to take it fairly easy on week 1. Bench: 225 5x5, Squats: 225 5x5 Deadlift: 285 5x5, OHP: 135 5x5. I’ve also been running about 10 to 15 miles a month. Emotional/Mental: Pretty solid. I’ve been walking a lot and it’s been great mentally and emotionally. Despite everything that’s wrong or rig…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/20 03:25 PM
2

Shit tests are very unattractive when they are true. Own your shit.
/r/askMRP16/06/20 02:08 PM
2

Brother, you need to hit the side bar some more and get to reading, understanding and applying... at a slow to moderate pace. Although you can... I wouldn’t absorb the “red pill” tonight and dump all of it on her tomorrow morning. It gets to be too confusing for both of you. During the application, try taking small bites. It’ll be easier to correct your errors. The Pill is about remaining aware. Knowing your wife is JUST a girl. She’s playing stupid little girl games with you for your lack of pr…
/r/askMRP04/06/20 05:05 PM
1

Thanks for this! This brought so much clarity. I’ll need to brush up on WISNIFG.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 04:27 PM
1

“I’m unhappy that I’m not getting my way”. For those cases, you need to internalize that listening doesn’t mean agreeing. “I have listened but I’ve also made my own decision.” -This right here! This is it! You nailed it. “ Can you tell us why your wife doesn’t want you to work more hours? If not, you probably aren’t actually listening. ” -Because she feels all the money should go in a big pot that she controls. It’s now unacceptable to me.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 02:12 PM
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NO VALUE.
/r/askMRP06/01/20 02:03 PM
1

I fucked up early in the marriage by letting her manage the finances. I fucking regret the fuck out of that decision. We are an upper middle class family with 1 young child. We are living a very simple life. I make 60% and she makes 40% of our income. ALL of my income goes to a joint account she manages. Four years of beta shit later and I’m asking permission to transfer some money to have lunch with coworkers here and there. It was one of the things I realized after NMMNG. I can’t live like tha…
/r/askMRP06/01/20 02:01 PM
1

This is solid! Thanks!
/r/askMRP06/01/20 12:48 PM
1

Ah!!! I see! I’ll have this for the next time the issue comes around. Thank you.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 10:24 PM
1

It’s very rare that I get drawn but it happens. By my standards, I’m doing way better with it now. I was reactive as fuck to arguments. Whenever I slip up, my downfall always seems to be the “you’re dismissing my concerns!” I can’t STFU my way through it. It follows me like a heat seeking missile. I’m stuck on that one.
/r/askMRP05/01/20 07:17 PM
2

“being dismissive of her side of things is pretty weak.” I need to find the balance of STFU that’s not coming off as dismissive. I need to practice that. “but at least pressure flip "what is it about me working extra to have something for myself that bothers you?" -I went that route... I was told something within the lines of “All finances are our finances, and you can’t just work and keep the money.” I politely declined to agree and STFU. For now, everything is back to normal. She ended up just…
/r/askMRP05/01/20 07:13 PM
2

LOL! You’re Michael Phelps in the water! You’re so cool!!!! You got your group a table!!! OMG! What a hero!!! You’re butt-hurt because your wife made jokes at dinner and there was another guy who cooks better than you. You’re here for validation.
/r/askMRP04/01/20 03:55 PM
2

“When I nodded in agreement she fucking flipped out and said she wanted a divorce. I said "that's fine with me" and announced I was going out for a few hours to run some errands.“ -You missed an opportunity to STFU. “When I came back I calmly told her that if she wanted to get an attorney she could take out a credit card in her name and use our shared account to make the minimum payment until the divorce was finalized.” -You missed another opportunity to STFU. “I immediately recognized this as a…
/r/askMRP03/01/20 12:43 PM
9

“Thanks. For the record: 6’2” 195 ~10% BF Bench 225 1RM Dead 405 1RM College lacrosse player Traps are legit and I have the farmer walk palm blisters to prove it” -THIS IS HOW WEAK YOUR FRAME IS.
/r/askMRP02/01/20 03:23 AM
5

WHOEVER CARES LESS ABOUT THE RELATIONSHIP HAS THE POWER IN THE RELATIONSHIP. Your wife subconsciously knows this. You're going to need a polar shift where she cares about you more than you care about her. She’s your #1 and she knows it. That’s never good. Work on making her your #3, 4 or 5. First 8 paragraphs.. TL;DR - Your woman does not respect you. This “child-abuse” might be a shield to create distance from YOU, not from all men. She’ll go jaw to jaw deep-kissing with a man she respects. She…
/r/askMRP02/01/20 03:16 AM
1

"I'm not ok with my SO having one on one meetups with a guy, especially if he's interested or thinks she's available" -Put absolutely no importance to that shit. “Meh, Let’s not do that, (Redirect w/ game) how about you take me out for coffee.” Make it into a frame developing move.
/r/askMRP31/12/19 02:42 PM
7

It appears you have bigger problems in your marriage than this DEBT. You’re using this DEBT to justify your exit. I’m hesitant to even call this a Red Pill issue. To give you a red pill answer to your question is like giving a kid a grenade to kill an ant. “It came up when we were arguing about when to try to have kids. (I want to start now, and she wants to wait til she's out of debt.)” -First... Why are you arguing? There is never anything to argue about. Stop that shit. STFU. -Women choose th…
/r/askMRP31/12/19 02:25 PM
5

This post belongs in the Red Pill Women category. It seems like your boyfriend is your life mission. Don’t do that. Your partner is never #1. Forget about other men’s SMV. Worry about yourself. It’s the only SMV you can control. “ I know I should NGAF but at the same time ” -you’re basically saying, I should not look into the barrel of this LOADED gun with my finger on the trigger but at the same time...” Dude... you are not getting “IT”. You need to REALLY read the books in the sidebar. Also...…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:49 PM
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YOU ARE A NICE GUY!!! (Not a compliment) “She introduced it to me by saying that she felt worried when she read the email because I've been jealous in the past” -This was a fitness test and you failed miserably. “Before I replied she said that she wants to be in a relationship where she doesn't feel worried like that, and wants to have the freedom to have a coffee with an old friend” -I hope this is not happening through text. Anyway... Remember, a woman’s seeks love and devotion in a relationsh…
/r/askMRP30/12/19 03:29 PM
1

“this is pure for her selfish needs of wanting me to hold her hand at a social event she may find uncomfortable.” You’ll have to identify if your wife is asking for your assistance because she is incapable of the task and truly needs your help or if she’s just trying to see if you’ll bend backwards for her. Identifying which side she’s on will give you clarity on your next move.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 04:52 PM
3

“The thing that ticked me off was just two weeks before she said those would be good for him since he sweats a lot. So it's clearly some sort of test.” Nothing should be ticking you off. Being ticked off by it is the quickest way to fail a shit test. Remember your frame. Anything outside your frame is amusing.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 04:37 PM
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