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11

No need for this at all. No one can help their height and being under 6 foot is in no way a reflection on manliness or who they are as a person. Have your preferences but don't shame anyone just because they don't fit yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:04 AM
38

He is obviously not a native English speaker so I think proposing in this text means asking out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:07 PM
13

I've always used faking to try to get it to stop. Something to try and spurr them on to just fucking finishing already. And if me "orgasming" hasn't turned them on enough to finish, I have to pretend to be in pain so they'll be turned on enough to finish. It's always one or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:40 AM
23

I kinda love that. It shows that taking advantage of a woman really is lower than the lowest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:55 PM
0

When I was breastfeeding, I was the one who wanted my partner to go at my breasts. He was disgusted by them. No one can judge me until they've had the pain of their lacto-filled G Cups driving them mental whilst the baby is already full and asleep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:16 PM
1

There's actually no scientific evidence that our nipples can somehow detect exactly what a nipple sucker needs from their saliva. It's just a wild theory with nothing to back it up to try and promote breastfeeding as the best source of nutrition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 03:12 PM
10

I use the word panties because the other word we commonly use in England for them "knickers" just isn't attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 02:04 PM
28

Yep. I read somewhere that basically the genes responsible for long labia minoras are the same as the ones for larger penises in men. Basically, women with larger labias have that Big Dick Energy and will help populate a future world of well endowed men. God bless those women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:42 PM
28

Haha yeah I got the notification that my comment was automatically removed to be reviewed and I was like "Yep. Good."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:49 PM
72

The first 3 words always being "AS A MAN..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 11:22 AM
12

I'm always glad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 06:42 PM
16

Should have told him no blowjobs since you don't want him comparing your mouth and vagina too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:08 PM
1

I'm ready to be downvoted but this is just super contradictory to what I generally see here. We agree that Daddy Issues isn't to be blamed on women for not picking a better father for their children since men will lie and pretend in order to get what they want. And they're not the kid's fault either. Daddy Issues are the dad's fault. But Mummy Issues... also the dad's fault? Like, this is just a reverse of the way men try to blame all their problems on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:48 AM
7

I don't lose my calm because I don't take anything they say personally. Same reason I don't freak out when my toddler gets mad at me for not turning on the sun. They have no understanding of why what they're saying is completely illogical and so I can't really get mad at anything. Nothing they're pissed about has anything to do with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:26 AM
5

Tbh I see where she's coming from. Probing these guys about their thought processes and what they think their actions will achieve is FASCINATING. To see that little self-awareness and logic in someone that is supposed to be a fellow homosapien... it makes you sit and ponder how they learned to communicate at all. I'm endlessly interested in the tangled, sorry-excuse-of-a-brain mess that incels have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:49 AM
23

This makes so much more sense from my experience
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:33 PM
47

Yeah gentle femdom is more "You did a good job eating me out now, for being a good boy, you get to cum." And not "Here's your worship and pampering, little one!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:56 PM
26

I'm guessing them using the false argument that watching rapes will prevent men from going out and actually raping, ergo, being against rape porn is being pro-rape in their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 05:05 AM
11

Not even anything specific. Just saying what he thinks we want to hear. Does chores mean fixing a broken lightswitch? Does it mean mopping? What are you actually good at?! No one "likes" chores anyway so that's a lie right off the bat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:29 AM
39

Right? Get off Tinder and get on a job site. Stop arranging shitty dates and start arranging job interviews. Where the fuck are this guy's priorities?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:19 AM
18

The exact same fucking thing happened to me only I had just turned the age of consent- 16
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:13 PM
2

Oh so he'd be willing to convert to Islam then to date you? Since the goal of dating is to find a committed partner and it's obviously important that you have a Muslim family. Right? Pffffft. Yeah as if he would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:00 AM
21

Once again thankful I put 0 effort into my appearance 99.99% of the time and never get hit on. The times I do put in effort? A guy wouldn't take "I'm waiting for my boyfriend" as a sign to back off and tried calling my bluff. I thought "oh this will be fun..." and so I just let him keep chatting me up since he insists it's fine I have a bf and he just wanted to chat. Well, my bf at the time shows up and I introduce him to the guy who was hitting on me. Creeper dude practically shits himself and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:14 PM
4

I know. I feel we'd both be much happier apart since he obviously has a major issue with me, despite him assuring me he loves me, but we have a kid and neither of us can raise him alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:57 AM
6

Yeah. It's not a perfect relationship. I get a nice periodic "nothing you do is good enough or meets my requirements" from him. I can spend my days off cleaning the house but get an F because I forgot to polish the skirting boards or something similarly random.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:46 AM
25

My bf looks almost exactly like him but that's about it :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:27 AM
58

Ugh. Sexonlyzoned. The FWB arrangement. At least the Friendzone is like 'I love you as a person, you are an amazing person to be friends with, but the sexual/romantic spark just isn't there. Sorry it's not." The sexonlyzone guys put you in is "Hey, not only do we work well outside of the bedroom, but we have the spark inside as well! But I find you fundamentally unlovable despite clicking in every way!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:10 AM
91

One of my ex-bfs was planning on proposing and I broke up with him. I was his first and only and he had already mentioned previously that he had Fear Of Missing Out and sometimes wished he could have been with more girls before finding and wanting to marry me. I knew that marriage would not last. It wouldn't take long before he'd truly resent me for holding him back from hypothetical fields of women desperate for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:08 AM
29

Same. But then honestly I think I'd just feel too inferior to be with her. Look at that queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:08 PM
23

It does a body good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 09:06 PM
36

If you'd be happy with a gumball machine ring, why even want a ring anyway? If it's the gesture of proposing is the only thing that counts anyway? Jesus Christ. My grandad was the most stingy man ever. He hated putting his hands in his pockets for anything. The engagement ring he bought for my grandma is white gold with 3 massive diamonds. Her wedding ring? Almost worn to nothing because the gold is so pure. The eternity ring he got her after the birth of their first? Gold and platinum with diam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:08 AM
15

Any time a man complains about no sex post-partum, they're basically shouting to the world "Hey! I hate women, what the woman I love has done for our family and I very obviously do not lift a finger to be a parent since I still have time and energy to want sex!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:01 PM
38

Me and my sisters have this. One of my little sister's tumours in her neck mutated and became stage 1 head and neck cancer. And here's this dude trying to fucking emotionally and mentally destroy a woman for the condition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 09:43 AM
16

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:36 AM
6

If I was single, I'd keep the fact I have a son off of OLD because if I state in publicly then I would be getting paedos matching with me only to get close to my child. I actually think keeping a child off OLD is good. t Then once you can set your mind at ease that they haven't only matched with you to get in a position of trust over a child, I would gently break the news that I have a child and let them know I completely understand if it's a dealbreaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 07:32 AM
0

My boyfriend is constantly on me to dress sexier. Always going on about how I have a great body but I hide it in baggy men's clothes. He doesn't even at least buy me the shit he'd like me to play dress up in. I'm meant to spend my tiny amounts of disposable income on uncomfortable clothes, looking like a sexy doll for him, and he gets all the enjoyment for free. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:18 AM
9

Nope. Toxic people don't always know what they're doing. My abuser genuinely believes that he's being victimized by me as he tells me I'm a useless and unfit mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 02:46 PM
37

It's fucking dinner porridge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:13 AM
8

He picks her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:02 AM
94

Derek has to choose between his wife and Meredith. Meredith cries and pleads with him with this line.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 06:29 AM
93

I have never been with a dude who hasn't at some point ignored the safe word "Ohhhh but everyone has the wrong idea about BDSM. It's the submissive who has all the power really! One word from them and it all immediately stops!" Ha! Yeah because a man who can physically overpower you and is turned on by raping and dominating and having power is going to 100% listen to a word every time. Sure, Jan. Never met one who has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 05:50 AM
26

I do not get the period "joke"/argument for women leaders. Like... are there a fuck tonne of all female Fight Clubs for women who's cycles are the same? Am I missing out on this apparent thirst for combat as part of PMS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:12 PM
15

I'm in two minds. Men begged to be chased but are also the first to freak out when a woman so much as double texts and call her clingy and ghost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:11 AM
29

Does not rhyme with duck :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:06 AM
14

Fuck pics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 05:53 AM
36

Modern Western cultures are actually the only ones that insist a woman go from birthing a baby to taking total care of it. Other cultures generally insist the new mum stay in bed for a specified period and her and the baby be taken care of by her female relatives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 01:56 PM
3

I'll get a hair tie and and the wire cutters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:24 AM
33

My son has my last name. My partner was 100% supportive. Understanding that I have far more right to hand down my surname as it's incredibly unique and yknow... I RISKED LIFE AND BODILY INTEGRITY TO BRING HIM INTO THE WORLD. When his parents found out our son would be having my name they were just completely blank. Totally stunned and confused. Like we'd told them a scan showed the baby was a cat. "But... why is the baby getting her name?" "Because she's carrying and birthing him and said from b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:28 AM
48

He has autism. The story is incredibly sad. They adopted a child from China with autism and gave him away when it was tougher than they expected. Then posted online asking something like "what's a medical condition that sounds like it would be hard to deal with but is actually easy to look after? So they could try and adopt another disabled kid and collect sympathy without the hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:18 AM
55

Would be better in JusticeServed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 06:28 PM
31

I saw this posted in DeadBedrooms and they're usually good at supporting women there and encouraging them to leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:26 PM
38

"I want one good stable partner that doesn't mind me having casual sex with other people often."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 02:43 PM
54

I honestly think it's a genuine difference in sense of humour. Like, in the UK it's very popular for main characters in shows, especially comedies, to be people you're meant to hate and cringe at. You're not SUPPOSED to think the character is a protagonist and root for them. You're meant to laugh at how pathetic they are. It reminds me of a critic I watch talking about the show Bottom we have in the UK. It was hugely popular and the two main characters were disgusting, sleazy, misogynistic and c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 09:44 PM
16

This is the scandal that really brought it to light and shocked the nation evidence and allegations ignored and brushed off for years because they were disadvantaged girls, easy to ignore and blame and it would have involved work and accusations of racism/Islamophobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:38 PM
6

Oh it's totally all subconscious. In their conscious opinions of themselves, they're utterly respectful and perfect boyfriends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:47 PM
23

When they think they're better than you because they know they're worse than you. "Pffft this b**ch is after me? Ha what a fucking desperate loser she must be."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:52 PM
73

Forever probably. Pickmeishas become Pickmums who will do anything to be the one their son picks over all other women too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 08:47 AM
12

Same. Degree in Chinese and Chinese Culture. I've still had dudes completely misinform me about China whilst pretending to be experts. Even (sometimes especially) after they know what my field of expertise is in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 02:59 PM
81

My little sister got head and neck cancer at 26. Her boyfriend was there for every appointment, every session, helped her when the radiotherapy was kicking her ass and she was crying from the bald patch. He scheduled a trip to Prague for after she was due to find out if she'd get the all clear and she was. He proposed in Prague to her. I didn't used to think he was a HVM but I'm liking the boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 10:20 PM
12

Bacterial Vaginosis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:20 AM
27

Back in the 1930s when my grandmother was a child, her mum died in front of her horribly in a fire when her skirts caught in the fireplace and the material was insanely flammable. My grandma was traumatised. Her father remarried that year to a woman who was divorced because she couldn't have kids of her own. It wasn't a love match, but she wanted a family and support and he was a sailor who was away most of the year earning and needed care for his kids. Suddenly there was this brand new woman sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:45 PM
20

They think "doesn't smell like a meadow of flowers and doesn't taste like sweet cantaloupe" means poor hygiene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 11:48 AM
6

To me, it really seems men have a thing for recessive genes. Red hair, green eyes etc. Basically traits that their genes would be dominant over and passed on through a child between the two. Like a subconscious need for a child of theirs to have more from them than the mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:40 AM
1

I think it's to distinguish between rape with physical harm/force as opposed to also including raping by using manipulation/coercion to get the victim to relent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:02 AM
1

Men: "Women can rape too! Also women are always physically inferior to men and could never overpower a man no matter what."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 06:00 AM
10

Anyone grateful for their partner and sex knows it's so worth going through the rough to get the green, if you pardon my golf metaphor :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:50 PM
5

Did eventually land guys with that attitude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:47 PM
7

Tbf he was 6 months younger than me and also 15.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:18 PM
85

Worst part is he later shaved himself out of curiosity and said it was awful and itchy and time consuming and he's never doing it again. But I absolutely had to, despite him now having a full awareness of what a pain in the ass it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:48 PM
103

My very first boyfriend at 15 told me that pubic hair is "manly" and I need to shave it all for him. I had a landing strip. I wish I'd had the self esteem then to have laughed in his face and left him that second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:38 PM
55

"But... but... we told you what you need to do to please us. WHY AREN'T YOU DOING WHAT WE WANT?! What do you mean you don't want it. When exactly did we ask what you wanted to do with your body?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:36 PM
77

When wanting to fuck children is such a typically male thing that calling out paedophiles is considered an attack on all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:20 AM
28

She definitely has. Reading her experience and reaction to it really struck a nerve with me. Far too close to home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:10 AM
196

You can't just randomly decide to drop by poop's house and be surprised when he's at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:06 AM
8

All my life my friends have been exclusively men and I can definitely confirm this. They will never jerk off to nude photos you send. As guys have put it to me "It's a warm up to get you in the mood and then you watch porn." They don't want you. It makes them feel good that you'll bend over backwards for them and put yourself on display for their fleeting entertainment. That's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 10:18 AM
2

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 05:20 AM
6

Damn straight. I have a toddler of my own now and it makes it so much harder to see good in her when I think about how much I would do to protect him at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:54 PM
16

It was one of my mum's boyfriends and she was trying to protect him and her reputation because she was in the middle of a custody/divorce battle and her boyfriends were usually teens. Worst part is, she was raped by her older brother from childhood to teens regularly herself. Edit: and yes, my mum is the ultimate Pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:49 PM
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I was raped when I was 4. I don't remember the ordeal. But I remember trying to call the police and say there was a bad man in our house and my mum grabbed the phone just laughed and said I was just being silly. I remember the song that was playing when he raped me and it still makes me sick to my stomach. I grew up sexually precocious and did not have a healthy, normal experience of childhood. My innocence was taken from me before I could even properly form sentences. No, she might not remember…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:37 AM
17

An ex of mine told me his was 12. Fucking 12. He was 26. Lost his virginity at 18. 12 women in 8 years. Maybe I'm too much of a "prude" but when he said that I think my vagina clamped watertight shut. Nope. Edit:13 including me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:25 AM
76

I am never for women letting themselves become entirely dependent on a man, but still. Even men will admit that teenage boys are the fucking WORST for just caring about their dicks and using girls for sex. Why is the mum in the wrong for promoting that their daughter should want evidence of him being invested in her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:10 AM
7

In the words of the all-powerful Automod: "NOTE: This sub does NOT support the commercial porn industry, as it is an institution that promotes and normalizes sexual aggression, incest, pedophilia, violence, racism, degradation, low sexual satisfaction, and objectification of women and girls, many of whom have been drugged, raped, misled, trafficked and otherwise coerced to appear on film."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:52 AM
2

"Porn is a big problem for me. Help." "Lol no it's not because I like it."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 05:47 AM
6

Had a FWB years ago. Can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:28 PM
83

"Hahaha white wine amirite ladies? We all just want to sit around and pump out babies nonstop right? Hahaha ughh don't you just hate sex except if it's with an asshole with a big cock? Hahaha speaking aS A wOmaAN I love paying for my man's illegitimate children. Me and every other girl in my circle of totally biological women hate this trend of women wanting men to commit and show enthusiastic investment in us."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:58 PM
12

I remember that AITA wedding dress thread. All the commenters were tearing him a new one. It was glorious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 01:38 PM
25

I spend more on my friend's birthday presents than he spent on the most important piece of jewelry in his girlfriend's life. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 11:54 AM
26

Jesus Christ. Bringing an innocent baby into the world just to satisfy a cuckholding kink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:16 PM
52

So many things wrong. That article saying "some of the images contained rape" No. They all did. All child porn is rape. Why isn't he charged with committing rape when there is photo evidence of him doing it? Why will he be in jail like half a year max with good behaviour?! Fuck the "justice" system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:59 AM
7

For real though. Some of the best lovers I had were virgins when I met them. They didn't have that "Well my last girl loved this so you must too."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 02:09 AM
6

My grandad used to tell my mum "Men won't buy a cow if they can get the milk for free." I used to think it was harsh and horrible, but now I see it's absolutely a true insight into how men think. If they can get emotional support and sex from you without any effort, they're not going to go out of their way to put in any more unless you set that requirement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:42 AM
11

Unpaid interns, evaluation periods etc. For my first job I had to work half a shift unpaid to see if I learned the ropes fast enough before I was officially hired :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 06:07 PM
43

Unfortunately, lots of business do actually think that way :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:41 PM
4

I've seen your previous post on this topic and I saw this coming. I completely hear you and agree. Grown women can have small boobs, girls can have big boobs and boob size does not dictate age. However, in combination with wanting a 5 foot tall, delicate, submissive and permissive, innocent and playful girl- I don't think the fact that they wanted someone with no breasts and no hips is a coincidence and unrelated to the other peadophilic preferences they had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:33 AM
11

My current guy is 6'7". He completely digs my height and shape 🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:29 AM
11

5'9" is the average male height (at least where I am). I don't think a lot of them liked that they couldn't lie and say they're 6 foot like the could with a shorter girl or that I was taller than them with or without heels. That and the guys I dated were extremely socially isolated and nerdy and so their preference could be charitably described as "borderline paedophile." Their ideal, when described, was that of a child. Small, dainty, thin, flat chested, innocent and playful etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:23 AM
91

Oh God no, I'm getting flashbacks to 16 year old me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:12 AM
46

Makes so much sense. I was a pickmeisha and a Charity Worker- (I would always date guys who were very nerdy, shy, inexperienced and had no luck with other women) so I was so easily attainable and my personality was agreeable enough for them to think "Well, she's good company and gets my dick wet so it'll do." But of course because dudes tend to lack tact and emotional intelligence (especially the ones I dated, see previously mentioned lack of success with women), they just can't help blurting ou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:07 AM
59

He had one fucking thing he had to do. Or not to do rather. Just don't eat these cookies. There were other fucking cookies! That 'I just wanted a small one' excuse is obvious bullshit. Just eat half a big cookie then. He did it to mess with her because there is literally no excuse for eating the fancy cookie. Hell, getting up and going and getting a cookie takes effort so it's not even him being an asshole because he's lazy and doesn't do anything- HE HAD TO MAKE SOME EFFORT TO BE AN ASSHOLE AND…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:02 AM
64

I've been with so many guys who have straight up told me they'd prefer me smaller and more petite (I'm 5'9" and hourglass). Like, I do not get it. I don't get why guys date girls they're not attracted to just so they can utterly emotionally destroy them and their self esteem later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:18 AM
6

... er... yeah I've only got the film Pretty Woman and that's about as real life as Avatar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 12:03 AM
3

Well you're the one who brought up your bf learning to braid like it's some big thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:30 PM
3

There is literally no difference between this guy learning to braid because his daughter asked him and your guy learning to braid because you asked him. He didn't learn because he suddenly saw women as human. He learned because he was asked but he doesn't know how. Your boyfriend learned because he was asked but didn't know how.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:26 PM
7

Wow. She sounds like the IRL Dr. Nora from Frasier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 12:00 PM
47

And that dad learned to braid hair because his daughter asked? I'm not sure if you're judging the guy in this post or your bf tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:21 AM
85

I had a FWB who seemed to want to keep me a forever FWB. I was just as desperate and pitiful as this woman. Even if one day that guy does turn around and go "OMG I'm a fool! The One has been right in front of me all along!" It won't be genuine. It won't be love. It'll be panic and settling because it does not take that long to find something to love in someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:40 AM
43

Hell, Beyonce too. Fucking Beyonce.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:27 AM
1

I really needed to see this. Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:19 AM
155

First crows, now cockatiels. The HVMs I've seen on this sub are mostly birds 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:13 AM
3

Nightcore Take A Hint is also really good and very FDS :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 03:27 PM
7

I've only listened to the Nightcore version of this and it's catchy as all hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 08:53 AM
141

"No, but I do now after you've said that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:02 PM
26

I've had two guys who have sexually assaulted me pen apology letters. Thanks for the empty gesture, but if you really feel bad about it you wouldn't have done it. Your fake ass apology doesn't un-assault me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:29 PM
2

Brilliantly said
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 09:38 AM
5

Omg don't even get me started on clothes when you're an hourglass! I really need to get a sewing machine so I can tailor my own clothes. I'm very fortunate that I'm very tall and very pale so cellulite and stretch marks aren't as much of an issue but yeah. Men in general chase that hourglass physique but don't want to deal with what it means to have thin skin stretching over fat deposits, even if those deposits are in places they find aesthetically pleasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:06 AM
19

Only about 6% of women have an hourglass figure. I only know this because I'm in the 6% and I've still been made to feel bad repeatedly for not being tiny and flat chested like a good nerdy girlfriend should be according to my exes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:59 PM
12

I've seen it with my exes. One of my longest relationships. When I started dating him he was underweight, not very good at dressing well, not conventionally attractive and an insecure virgin. After being with me and growing a lot into himself- dressing better, presenting better, being more social- he got this attitude of "Well if I could get a girl like this when I was like a 5, now I'm a total 9 or 10, I can get an absolute dream girl, surely!" A decent looking girl gives an objectively less th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:49 AM
12

I gotchu, honey! https://www.google.com/amp/s/mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSTRE5AB0C520091112 https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.fatherly.com/health-science/why-sick-wives-increase-divorce-risk-not-sick-husbands/amp/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 10:29 AM
10

I'm not getting "dispensable" from this in any way. He still wants to marry her and wants to keep the pre-nup she wrote that I assume she made to stipulate that no one can claim the other's inherited funds, since she insisted on it because her family is wealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:12 PM
81

Meanwhile I was raped at 4, emotionally, mentally and physically abused by my dad since birth til I ran away at 16, raped and sexually assaulted by my first boyfriend at 16, blatantly cheated on and used at 17... And yet still I have been open and trusting to men because I haven't wanted to tar all men with the same brush and haven't wanted to close my mind and heart. Men have one, ONE, even slightly negative experience with a woman and that's it- apparently traumatised for life and all women ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:59 AM
4

I didn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:22 AM
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I've done a toilet paper tampon. I find it works way better as a very short term fix because I need less of it than I do making an improv towel. Can anyone who's downvoted me explain to me what's wrong with stuffing some TP there while I run to the corner shop for some pads for like 5 minutes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:13 PM
148

This. I had a FWB situation (because I was an idiot) with a guy I was head over heels in love with. But to him all I would ever be is a good friend and a welcoming body. He told me straight up it would never happen when I shared my feelings with him but I stupidly carried on waiting for him. I was so sure he just needed time to see we were soulmates 🙄 Now, whenever I would bring up that I've only ever been his friend and he was just fucking me because he could, he acts all offended and is like "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 10:52 AM
38

I haven't seen that but that is exactly my react to fast arm movements from men after a childhood of being beaten by my dad. She is suffering or has suffered from physical abuse and from what I've seen of his body language, it must be from him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:40 AM
22

Exactly. Can't blame a wild bear for attacking a human. It's what they do to protect themselves and feed themselves and their young and even then they attack fewer humans than men who have no excuse for their violence against the women they supposedly love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:11 PM
44

Not to mention he is also immediately a stupid, irresponsible LVM for having people over to his house for dinner during a fucking lockdown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 06:28 AM
9

Oh shit. My son is gonna regress back to newborn-hood and remember lots of grunting and panting and be forever afraid of weightlifting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:43 PM
3

So glad my partner is delighted for me when I earn more and encourages me to take new opportunities and get ahead in my career just as he does in his work. We both make the same money and it's massively reduced his stress levels from what they were when I was stuck in my crappy part-time job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:33 PM
10

Or a girl who's had her self esteem worn to nothing by these user, loser men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:37 AM
10

Mae West is one of my heroines. She was so incredibly smart, funny, brave, kind etc. A FDS superstar in an era where women were under even more pressure to be demure and submissive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 09:16 AM
8

That's so bizarre. Every overweight guy I know and have dated are exclusively only into tiny, thin women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:39 AM
12

"You're worth less than the going rate of a prostitute and only worth as much as my balls decide."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:29 AM
2

I'm so glad I'm with an older guy. Porn isn't a thing for him. He prefers just having sex with me or using videos and photos of me instead of strangers if sex isn't possible. I started getting lots of ingrown hairs on my mons a while back and apologetically said "I think I need to stop shaving the majority of my bush. It's getting too painful and inconvenient." He just wasn't even phased. He was like "I grew up with porn magazines where women had full grown pubic hair. I didn't see shaved pubes …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 08:24 AM
1

No, he said she should smile LESS which is even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:41 AM
1

No he did the "You should smile LESS"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:39 AM
5

Cultural differences are so wild. Like in the UK, we don't really do the whole dating multiple people at once and then having the "Are we exclusive?" talk. It's considered very low value and disrespectful to date multiple people at once. We also have far lower hang ups about saying I love you than in America I've noticed. Like, here it's a bad sign if it hasn't been said after 2-3 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 05:37 AM
10

Exactly. Picture a toothless crack whore. Now consider that she makes money having sex with many men who all have no trouble getting an erection and reaching orgasm with her. Men absolutely have the capacity to fuck anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:10 AM
11

It's kind of a pear cut big yellow stone surrounded by little zirconias. Not OP, I just happen to be in the same FB group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:45 PM
26

Oh she knew. That's WHY she panders to the guys and only has guy friends. Pickmeishas like that love knowing she's surrounded by people desperate for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:44 PM
203

Yep. Dude with big nose? Can still be considered handsome. Thin lips? Can still be considered handsome. Extra pounds? Can still be considered handsome etc. Whereas women can't be anything less than perfect without "Yeah she's alright BUUUUUT..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 09:23 PM
5

I had the same lies about me from my ex. Not necessarily to get out of things. Just to justify why he would flirt/hook up with girls behind my back and show me no commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:25 PM
41

It's no wonder he's never had a girlfriend from looking at his attitude and behaviour. If he thinks butting in to a comversation a group of girls are having about their Halloween costumes to try to put the thought of him nude in their head while making a completely weird and inappropriate suggestion/comment in the workplace is fine- what must his fucking flirting be like!? :S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 06:17 PM
2

Oh yeah. Truly one of the worst, most deceptive and two faced people I've ever met but likes to play the soft, sensitive hipster dude. He was raised by two women, I would have thought he'd come out better. But I guess he must have got his "Do anything to get my cum out there and in as many women as possible." attitude from his sperm donor father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:06 AM
19

I'm in my late 20s and have a few greys at the temples. I love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 02:26 PM
34

They were a bit reluctant but when I needed to go I was still stuck at 6cm for hours so they were fairly confident it would be okay. I climb back into the hospital bed after and immediately start giving birth. Turns out the baby's path out was blocked until I voided my bowels. Once that was gone, it was full steam ahead. So top tip! If you're going into labour- poop as soon as you can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 07:00 AM
73

Oh man that was my worst fear. I had to poop while I was in labour so I staggered to the bathroom and the midwife made my partner come in to watch me poop because she was convinced I was too dumb to tell the difference between needing to drop a 1lb deuce from my behind and an 8lb baby from my vagina. Your job is to make sure my other half doesn't witness me pooping! When women crap the bed while pushing, midwives are adept and quickly covering and cleaning it. And if you're so convinced I'm goin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 06:40 AM
1

Guys like this would have become school shooters if they were bullied further
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:12 PM
6

And if he happens to be reading this- as someone who has done both the looking after a kid constantly and working near constantly to pay for them I ABSOLUTELY CHOOSE THE WORKING OH MY GOD THERE IS A REASON NEW PARENTS CONSIDER RETURNING TO WORK LIKE A FUCKING VACATION. WORKING FULL TIME AND PUTTING MY KID IN DAY CARE HAS FUCKING SAVED MY MENTAL HEALTH. Ahem... so yes. Working to financially support a family is much preferable to having to do literally everything else that goes in to raising a fa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 10:10 PM
3

Nope. I just have a small vagina and he has a growth issue that means he's over 6 and a half foot tall. And the growth issue affected EVERYTHING that grows... it's never easy at first, even with all the foreplay and lube in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:34 PM
16

Several thousand years by my count
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:16 PM
63

Right? Wtf logic is that. I'd rather just have great pleasure all the time using my vagina than put myself through hell for ages before it feels... still not as good as vaginal anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 08:07 PM
22

Even vaginal childbirth isn't guaranteed to change it. I ripped my vulva in two but my vag is, sadly, still as tight as it ever was. I was kinda hoping it would loosen up because my partner is huge :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:08 AM
9

And if women DO do that? "Oh you made him pick out what lingere he'd like you in? That's no fun. Men want to be surprised. They don't want to have to plan sex. You took all the fun out of it for him!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:03 PM
13

Urgh. I had an ex who left the country for about 2 weeks or so for a wedding and we arranged to meet up at lunch time the day after he got back. I start calling and texting as it's hours after we were supposed to meet. He starts saying it was wrong and weird of me and how he hadn't had time to see his friends before seeing me. Like... okay? I personally miss being without the person I love more than my mates but sure, if those are your priorities. Then he started lying about me to all his mates …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:19 PM
36

Only other Racheal I've seen with the same weird spelling as mine. Proud to share a name with this boss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 09:07 AM
17

Ugh. Same, girl, same. I cringe so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 07:30 AM
15

Right? First place my mind went to was "Okay, no talking while on the toilet. Duh, yeah, no problem." Then I realised it just means let him come and go like a stray cat and never question it at all. That is a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:24 PM
2

Thing is, we started our relationship long distance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:10 AM
38

I had a bf who made me cut all contact with my best friend out of jealousy. Then about a year later I was offered a full scholarship to a top university in China (studied Chinese in the UK) and was so excited to take it. All expenses paid plus a generous £500 monthly allowance from the Chinese uni to live while studying with them. He told me while I was planning my trip that he would not wait for me and was already scrolling through Facebook to line up the women he was going to hit up as soon as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:20 PM
14

This. If the excuse is he's a man and not good at using words to verbalize his feelings and is stoic and communicates with action- then he's already told her his feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:32 AM
26

This is actually really spot on when I think about it. All the best guys I know are thrilled at being called cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:57 AM
24

Pffffft but going for a jog is cardio! That's women's shit! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:09 AM
7

"You've given me too much of what I asked for showing that I'm wrong! I'm not going to read this!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:02 AM
42

You guys got oral?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:43 PM
11

I have a one year old son. He is going to be getting taught ALLLLLL about periods and women's anatomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 06:47 AM
62

I had a FWB who mastered The Look so well it's unreal. He could look at me like I'm the only woman in the world for him. That warm, content, adoring look. Except he didn't love me. The only thing I can think is that he would look at me and pretend I was his roommate who he was in love with. But damn, that look was killer. Gave me false hope for far longer than I should have had.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:16 AM
28

Some research suggests that testosterone is just fucking terrible for a traumatised immune system
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 07:00 PM
6

Me and my bf share because we live together and it makes sense to not have two accounts for one household. If we split up though, I absolutely wouldn't have the audacity to keep using it. Guys mostly absolutely do have that audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:28 AM
14

"You should give me your Netflix password." "You should give me the time I wasted on you back."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 09:25 AM
66

Accomplishments and things in common with you doesn't mean someone is a good person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:48 AM
3

Holy shit. I used to be such a fan of his. USED to be. What a piece of absolute shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 06:26 PM
51

I have a theory incels are so repressed that what could be just a healthy attraction to men becomes a hatred of women and their genitals and a deranged obsession with male attractiveness and dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:06 PM
5

There is a subreddit I won't link but think portmanteau of a word for extreme discomfort and a word for buttsex. An entire subreddit for videos of women crying and screaming from traumatic anal sex. Men absolutely only like anal because they're sadists and/or it strokes their ego to know they have so much power over a woman that they can make her put herself through agony just for his own sexual whim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 11:19 AM
46

Take out Pornhub and I feel very called out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:27 AM
53

But seriously- why are skidmarks seemingly such a male only thing??? Why can't they wipe or shit properly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:46 AM
1

So the best thing to do is assume the victim is guilty instead and question everything about them while protecting the accused's feelings as much as possible? And way to completely miss my point entirely. My point is not "It's just as wrong to commit insurance fraud as it is to rape!" Jeez. My point was that if someone has their house burned down, statistically, they are more likely to be making a false allegation than a rape victim. But you wouldn't go asking someone who lost everything in thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:46 AM
33

Yep. I had an ex like this. Funnily enough, it always got better if he abstained from porn! But that never lasted. A quick tug to some upskirt porn was easier than just abstaining and actually having mutually enjoyable sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:48 PM
45

It's well known that building fires can often be done for an insurance claim (failing business needs to recoup costs from insurance) so much so that insurance companies spend lots of money to investigate if the arson is a false allegation and it was done by the owner. However, when there's a fire, people still take it for granted that it's genuine, as they should. Funny how for the crimes were false allegations are more common, no one is like "Well maybe the business owner is making it up to get…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 11:46 AM
6

I'm in this comment and I don't like it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:09 AM
17

Way, way less pathetic than being butthurt that women don't like to be told "Hey! Look prettier for no reason. How you actually feel doesn't matter because this is what I want to see."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:08 PM
3

This. My boyfriend thinks it's the coolest, sexiest thing ever that I have a knack for languages and am conversational in a few. In the past though, the only dudes who thought it was cool fetishized it and asked me to speak Chinese in bed so they could fantasise that they were fucking an Asian girl instead of me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:53 AM
25

Flipside- I have a history of multiple guys who are batshit crazy... like... end up stalking me crazy. The common denominator IS me, but it's because I didn't think I could do any better than the "looks like they're about to shoot up the school" type. I was attracted to them because I felt like they are the only ones who would appreciate having someone as fucked up as me as a gf. My partner has a history with two LTR that turned emotionally abusive towards him and I don't doubt these for a secon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 09:43 AM
38

Ugh. This. Before my son turned one and I made the decision to quit my flexible part time job and get a full time career and have little one in daycare, I worked overnights at work a couple days a week. Meaning I would look after my infant son all day, work all night, come home, maybe have an hour sleep if I was lucky and then my son would wake up and my endless days would start all over again. It was exhausting, painful, my health was suffering. But my partner thought I was having the easy life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:52 PM
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Part of my degree was English Language and you are entirely correct. It's well known in Linguistics that women and girls are more likely to use these, what are called Hedging Words, to soften sentences and make them less direct or authoritative. We absolutely need to keep conditioning ourselves to stop softening our opinions and wants just because we're raised to make it more palatable that a woman is daring to make herself heard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:11 PM
98

If porn was really so empowering, all these rich, white billionaire men would all be making/have released sex tapes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:46 AM
18

This. I have only ever just said yes to literally any man who has asked me out when I'm single. I'm 28 and the longest I've ever been single since I was 15 is a month. The relationships have generally been good but jeez. I was raised to literally be grateful to anyone who showed an interest in me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:19 AM
26

That line fucking killed me "I know some of these guys care about me. Just not enough to be my boyfriend." Fuuuuuuck. Why did I ever lower my standards to fall in love with someone who made it explicit to my face that he would never love me and convince myself being his FWB was a good idea because "We're best friends and so I'm sure he must love me deep down in his own way!" So glad I'm over that shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:16 AM
12

I got shouted at til I cried for being upset today that I hadn't had so much as a "Happy Valentine's!" said to me. I've literally given up on the idea of a HVM or even a benign man so this is just what I've come to accept as the counter to having a man who won't cheat/beat me/steal etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 08:40 PM
4

Wasn't me downvoting, I was just pointing out a fact. These are features that humans have innate responses to. Just like we know acne doesn't mean someone is unhygienic or sick but seeing spots all over someone ignites an unconscious response in people that they must be ill and it's unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:26 AM
23

LVMs typically go for skinny, pale girls because they're physical traits indicative of being weak. And there's nothing that turns on LVMs more than weak women. Source: am a pale anorexic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 12:02 AM
23

It's actually a very manipulative sales tactic. By framing it as though he's interviewing her, he's making her sell herself to him, meaning he doesn't have to try to impress. It's supposed to put someone in a frame of mind of "Oh shit! I have to impress them! I'm gonna make such a good impression!" and tries to put a subconscious notion in someone's head that the "interviewer" is above them and someone the "applicant" really wants to join. I'm almost 100% sure he knew exactly what he was doing w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:36 PM
184

"People come in and I deposit their money in their pension savings account so y'know... I'm an investment banker."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:35 PM
203

I like how his messages made it seem like his job and preferences in women were connected... like... how?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:34 PM
74

Got you, boo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 07:32 PM
25

There's nothing wrong with unconditionally loving and supporting your son. It's just fucked up that men expect every woman to love them like they birthed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 10:06 PM
41

Never seen a truer sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:08 PM
31

My grandma hit my grandad with a chair for saying her cooking was worse than my mum's. She also broke my dad's nose when he swung for her because she stood up for my mum while my dad was abusing her. My great, great grandma beat her husband with a cast iron skillet around the head for beating her. She was about 4'11" and my grandad would constantly come home late drunk off his ass. Great, great grandma kept telling him not to and one day he came home, super drunk, pissed off that she was telling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:05 PM
158

"I'll sleep on the couch!" Okay. So I come over and we spend the night in two different rooms, not interacting, me without my home comforts and you sleeping uncomfortably all night... so why are you so desperate for a night of us both uncomfortable and not speaking?" Then just watch them gape like a fish, unable to explain that they just wanted to manipulate and coerce you into sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:06 PM
6

Hahaha that's awesome. I'm a tall woman and that's tickled me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 08:58 PM
185

Men: I want a petite woman. Someone who makes me feel tall and strong. Women: I want a tall man. Someone who makes me feel small and safe. Men: HOW FUCKING DARE YOU NOT ACCOMMODATE ANY MAN WHO WANTS YOU!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:02 PM
17

Exactly this. I like husky people but I can also appreciate a ripped body but have I ever said so to any of the fat guys I've dated? Fuck no I haven't. It's all "Ugh. Gross. Muscles." Why do I do this!? Every fucking single one of them has had no problems pointing out exactly how I'm not short and thin and dainty enough for them! Why do we spare men's feelings when they knowingly stomp all over ours?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 10:00 AM
7

That quote though! That sent me. I couldn't read any more. I peaked. That has to be a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 09:44 AM
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