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[–]persephones_torchFDS Disciple276 points277 points278 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Lol I'm cool with the free publicity. Women check this sub out and are surprised when our views align to what they always kind of knew within themselves but never has anyone voiced it out because... patriarchy.
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Exactly how I found it
[–]Sol_Asteraceae28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same!
[–]jmaydizzleFDS Apprentice25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here!
[–][deleted] 58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Exactly how I found the sub. I was like this isn’t a hate group??? This is just common sense lmaooo
[–]duckfeatherduvetFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmao did we both end up here through the same commenter on the anti-hate subreddit?
[–]VirtualSpacedCadetFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here! I came to check out how “terrible” it was and it changed my life for the better
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I commented on one of those dumb r/unpopularopinion posts about who should pay for dates saying that I won't see a guy again if he doesn't pay. Someone mentioned FDS and I was like wow this sub is not extreme at all.
[–]QuickJellyfish2FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I found FDS linked in another sub a few weeks ago and couldn’t understand at all why everyone was going “OMG THAT SUB IS SO AWFUL ITS DISGUSTING”
I even sent it to my boyfriend without context asking him what he thought to try and understand what was ‘disgusting’ and he wasn’t offended at all.
You’re only offended if women having standards and self esteem scares you. Be worthy and you’re not worried, easy.
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie309 points310 points311 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
The only time men care about feminism is when the bill arrives
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist154 points155 points156 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Or when they want to justify being violent towards women.
[–]thedrunkcuteblondeFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol. Too true.
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So true! They went us to give up these small benefits of being a woman even though we haven't even come close to achieving equality in the corporate world or in society. When studies show that men do 50% of all housework, and 50% of all Fortune 500 CEOs are women, that's when I'll be okay with paying on a date.
[–]daisyv83FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS!
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple169 points170 points171 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
They really hate this sub. I got called a femcel today because I post here lol.
[–]theseviraltimesFDS Newbie113 points114 points115 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes, I am a female and voluntarily celibate because men just are not worth it.
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen to that!
[–]jmaydizzleFDS Apprentice13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup yup.
I’m considering going celibate for a year to grow and learn, I was gonna document the process too
[–]CSardothien_1FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
PREACH!
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's cute that they try to paint us with the same brush as male incels but it's literally not possible for a woman to not be able to get sex if she is open to it without commitment. Unless she lives on a deserted island, maybe.
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True lol. They're "involuntarily celibate" which I could also argue is BS, since they're just mad they can't get sex from someone who looks like their ideal woman, aka porn star type, whereas women are voluntarily celibate because we don't want sex or men lol. No way in hell can you paint us with the same brush.
[–]thedrunkcuteblondeFDS Newbie143 points144 points145 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Fascinating how they always want to call out this sub but never any of the plethora of truly, misogynistic subreddits that spread misinformation and pure hatred.
[–]AyemHerselfRuthless Strategist52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're just depressed guys lashing out. Not worth saying anything until they actually do something to women.
-- some guy on r/askpinkpillers actually said that to me the other day. And I'll guarantee you the only thing they feel worth saying about those tragedies is "not all men!!!"
[–][deleted] 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They're bothered by us asking men to pay for taking us out yet not bothered by subreddits that say women shouldn't be able to vote or that if a women cannot overpower her rapist then it should be legal to r*pe her.
[–]SslimReaperrFDS Newbie172 points173 points174 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Men are eager to split the bills/rent but go radio silent when it comes time to split the household chores, cooking, cleaning, and childcare.
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie101 points102 points103 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They want all the benefits of traditional gender roles and none of the responsibilities
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🏅🏅🏅
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😭 crickets
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth75 points76 points77 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I am never for women letting themselves become entirely dependent on a man, but still. Even men will admit that teenage boys are the fucking WORST for just caring about their dicks and using girls for sex. Why is the mum in the wrong for promoting that their daughter should want evidence of him being invested in her?
[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points 6 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Every single creep out there was a "shy" little 14 year old once.
[–]MulkvisteeFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Preach. I find it bizarre to the point of fake that he's a "dad" who doesn't see the sex crazed potentially violent abuser in all of them. So much of it looks like a Reddit rage-bait karma farm. If he really feels this way why is he on Reddit looking for good boy points while allowing this (totally not fake!) character flaw to continue?
Unless of course it's been video games and porn while his wife raised her and now as a teen she'd laugh in his face for trying to "learn her good about men." Fake karma farm or lazy dad seeking validation...it's so hard to tell!
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have never met a genuinely shy male.
[–]glazedhamsterFDS Newbie64 points65 points66 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Choice comment from the AITA thread:
Im sad to see this in "controversial". I think people associate r/pussypassdenied with women haters or something when in reality its pushing for more equality
Uh huh. Ladies, this is what your "male feminists" think when they talk about equality.
[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
that is an absolutely disgusting sub. makes me sick to much stomach there literally is no ‘pussy pass’ for us women in any case. i stg they are delusional
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't think this is real whatsoever
If it is, he's scared she's going to divorce him now their daughter's grown up, because surely he'd want his daughter to be treated at least as well as he treated her mother, right? So therefore he never treated her properly. He's scared about his wife applying high standards to her own life.
But I think actually he has never been married and never will be.
[–]chungkingxbricksFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I mean...it just makes no sense. I can’t think of a dad who wouldn’t want a guy to take care of his daughter like that. I mean pay for dates. Obvs just another “feminist” man who’s actually misogynist if true.
[–]CorruptSoulGemFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m 90% sure this is a fake post written by a man who stubbled onto FDS and got triggered. 😂
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hi boys ;)
[–]Candy_VenomFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
just saw the AITA when I logged on and started reading the post and comments and came straight here bc I knew it'd be posted lol
[–]Nina-Nina-FDS Newbie10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol imagine wanting to convince your daughter that she isn’t worthy of being taken care of. Men are so loyal to one another that they will teach their own daughters to accept less to ensure that the next guys load is lightened.
[–]i_squanched_todayFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I saw that post and read a comment saying that was “exactly the same as if his (the boyfriend’s) dad told him that if she really loved him she’d give him blowjobs”. IT’S NOT THE SAME THING. In what world is encouraging a kid to “treat” his date and be generous the same as telling them to expect sexual favors?
My mother always encouraged me to be generous growing up. How is paying for a date any different than saying “I’ve got this, don’t worry about it” when you’re grabbing a meal/seeing a movie with a friend? The whole point is that you don’t need to get something out of it, it should make YOU feel good. Since men generally pursue women, they’re the ones paying in order to express their gratitude. It’s completely different to raise your kids under the impression that it’s not worth hanging out with someone unless they can get you off—one of these things is teaching selflessness and the other selfishness. How do people not get this?
[–]bootybootybootymeowFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is pathetic. All he said was "I'm a feminist" (dubious) and people already groveling THANK YOU FOR BEING SUCH A GREAT FEMINIST AND DAD. Literally what?? You don't know anything about him??
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[–]persephones_torchFDS Disciple276 points277 points278 points (8 children) | Copy Link
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie111 points112 points113 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Sol_Asteraceae28 points29 points30 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]jmaydizzleFDS Apprentice25 points26 points27 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–][deleted] 58 points59 points60 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]duckfeatherduvetFDS Apprentice8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]VirtualSpacedCadetFDS Newbie33 points34 points35 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]QuickJellyfish2FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie309 points310 points311 points (5 children) | Copy Link
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist154 points155 points156 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thedrunkcuteblondeFDS Newbie48 points49 points50 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]daisyv83FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple169 points170 points171 points (6 children) | Copy Link
[–]theseviraltimesFDS Newbie113 points114 points115 points (3 children) | Copy Link
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple42 points43 points44 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]devoushkaFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple9 points10 points11 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]thedrunkcuteblondeFDS Newbie143 points144 points145 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]AyemHerselfRuthless Strategist52 points53 points54 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]SslimReaperrFDS Newbie172 points173 points174 points
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[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie101 points102 points103 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]steerfcsFDS Newbie28 points29 points30 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie24 points25 points26 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth75 points76 points77 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]Geocities_SEO_ExpertFDS Newbie70 points71 points72 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]MulkvisteeFDS Newbie44 points45 points46 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]glazedhamsterFDS Newbie64 points65 points66 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple40 points41 points42 points (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]chungkingxbricksFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points (0 children) | Copy Link
[–]CorruptSoulGemFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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