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[–]howdoilogouttFDS Newbie614 points615 points616 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hey I see you as a baby, but a baby I can have sex with. Noice...
[–]2340000Ruthless Strategist228 points229 points230 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
His rationale means nothing....who cares.... He doesn't respect her (that's the reason), but his respect is cheap and is no badge of honor.
The power is what he wants....
[–][deleted] 136 points137 points138 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeh it's highkey pédophilic... "you are young and naive and you remind me of babies.... I cant perform any type of emotional labour but you must, and also give me some sex while you are at it" 😷😷😷😷😷😷
[–]discretevalorFDS Newbie92 points93 points94 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Men out themselves 😷😷
[–]coolestgirlyouevermeFDS Apprentice53 points54 points55 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see you as a baby, but I rely on you for emotional support
[–]AlexamariaFDS Newbie391 points392 points393 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“I almost see her as a baby” that I like to fuck.
“I regret telling her the real reason” because now I can’t fuck what in my eyes is a baby.
I can NOT wrap my mind around how depraved guys are - let alone how little fucking shame they have to freely admit how depraved they are.
He is so far removed from honor, integrity and guilt that he doesn’t even hear the vile shit coming from his mouth.
I hate this person immensely.
[–]cirrus_cloudRuthless Strategist183 points184 points185 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don’t let them go for months just using you for sex ladies!!!
[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie345 points346 points347 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
She’s mature enough for him to profit off her emotional support, but yet he still rationalises she isn’t mature enough to date 🤡
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie142 points143 points144 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I would leave immediately after a D appointment. I’m not your friend and I’m def not free therapy. This pissed me off immensely.
[–]discretevalorFDS Newbie143 points144 points145 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
NEVER LISTEN TO A MAN’S WORDS, ALWAYS HIS ACTIONS!!!!
He’s bold faces lying to her and he has no shame. Ladies, never be so desperate for a self esteem boost that a man calling you cute, attractive, and someone he wants to hve a relationship with ruins your perception of reality. This man is not making any effort to do so but this poor woman believes him and probably finds his words romantic!
This is why FDS always advocates leveling up yourself as well as setting a high standard. When you love yourself enough and feel secure and fulfilled in your daily life, a man calling you attractive and saying he wants a relationship with you has no effect. Hell, you’d have a relationship with yourself too!
[–][deleted] 48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen sis. I wish I had known this while I was in university, instead of sleeping with/dating a lot of losers and found myself in these “situationships” like the woman in the post. I was also sleeping with a guy who I fell pretty hard for, and I thought he felt the same way because we had these really deep conversations, cuddles after sex, dates that he’d pay for, calling me beautiful, etc. When I told him I wanted a relationship, he said that he wasn’t into me like that. But he said he wanted to keep doing what we were already doing, if that’s ok with me. I can’t believe I still kept sleeping with him after, ugh younger me had such a shit self esteem that I would let guys use me like this.
[–]LateNightLattes01FDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is so important! This is also why I’ve stepped away from dating. I have to work on my myself. It isn’t that having relationship is incompatible with that but that it can be frankly too much to have to honor yourself and then get other people on top of that. Sometimes it works out and you encounter the right person for you who can support you in that, but it can also be a time when an abusive person or just underdeveloped person side tracks you. You don’t want that. You need to be on your best game to attract the kind of person you truly deserve. I love that this sub constantly reinforces that.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I literally remember before my last guy I dated, I was saying to my friend how at peace in my life I felt. Then this guy came in, and instead of improving and adding to my great life which is what I thought after the first few dates, he just added drama and treated me like crap. The peace was ruined by dating a LVM that was not good for me! I'm open to dating, but only a good man who will add good things to my life, rather than ruining my peace and what I've worked hard to build around me.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
YES QUEEN!
[–]ceilingkatwatchesusFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I love your flair!!! ahaahah
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Thank you, I made it myself💖
[–]mscristalconnorsFDS Newbie129 points130 points131 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m not hurting anyone 🤪 Fucking clown
Oh the kicker?! He regretted telling her cause now he can’t fuck her anymore!
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[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As if women come flocking the moment a guy has more than $10 in the bank
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[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
ShE wAnTs Me To BuY hEr A lAtTe, ShE MuSt Be A GoLd DiGgEr
[–]idiosyncrassyPickmeisha™️9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Gold leaf diggers
[–]oddcharmFDS Newbie16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This reminds me of when I was younger, my roommate's 25 year old NVM ex tried to lure her back by saying he just got his first "adult job" and would be making decent money. His salary was 30k LMAO. We had a good laugh at him trying to use that as a bargaining chip. Like the dude really tried to imply this made him some hot commodity.
[–]just_takin_the_dFDS Apprentice5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, she's probably a catch but because she's still studying she's below him. Fast forward a few years when she's graduated and making money, and I bet this clown will be coming back to her saying how he regrets not dating her etc. They don't want to be there when you're working on yourself, only when you're the "finished product". Meanwhile, she's caughr fixing his mental state and being his emotional support after his break up.
[–]Aurora_BorealizFDS Newbie72 points73 points74 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“...but she has given me a lot of emotional support during this time as well.”
I don’t think he realizes how immature he actually is. He has been stringing this woman along because he wants to be able to fuck a “baby” that gives him free therapy too. Invest some of that “decent amount of money” in your mental health. Go to a fucking therapist like an adult. I can’t even with this.
[–]absoluteunitpussyFDS Newbie56 points57 points58 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
disgusting
[–]saxophonepaxFDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Another reason why you should NEVER sleep with Aman who has not committed to you OR tell him repeatedly how you feel for him.
Let him lead on both things, commitment and feelings!!
[–][deleted] 52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good on her for calling him out !! He's clearly a loser
[–][deleted] 51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Eww what the fuck idk about you guys when I see someone as a baby I would never fuck them once. No sexual thoughts at all period. I hope this woman ain't shredding tears on creepy pedo undertone ass. Like I would never cry over a man who says something that creepy and ridiculous lmao. I'm around this age and I'm so over dating older men. I remember some of these idiots try to say they like mature women. I call one of them out saying women should have the right to act their age. Why is this society so insist that women have to be more mature ones while men can goof off and enjoy themselves. But when women do it it's a problem? like the fuck where do these older piece of craps get off by telling younger women who are closer to the age of 18 to grow up. Dude you grow up and date someone your own age smh.
[–]BasieSkanksRuthless Strategist48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is just another variant of the logic of men when they engage in FWB/situationships. It all boils down to “good enough to fuck, but not good enough to be held accountable to.” Its offensive to all women.
[–]LooseUnderstandingFDS Newbie14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel like we need a lot more posts about this. Heck, maybe I’ll try to make one myself. I still have SO much anger from a situation like this that I walked away from over two years ago now. These are deep, painful wounds. Guys that do this are truly heartless, and yet it seems most of them operate this way these days. It’s been really hard for me to find anyone I’m attracted to who actually wants emotional connection.
What’s sick about it is how they lead you on to make you think that that’s what you have. You think to yourself that everything he says and does suggests that the two of you are falling deeply in love, and surely it won’t be long now until he confesses his feelings and you begin your romance in earnest. By alternately breadcrumbing, then withdrawing affection, then breadcrumbing, then withdrawing affection, he can keep you hooked and miserable forever- or until you figure it out.
Men are selfish enough that they will inflict this level of hurt just to get sexual access. They may even get a kick out of your suffering. Just like this guy says, they will conceal their true feelings and motives and behave in whatever way they think will allow them to keep sleeping with you; they can’t handle that you would say no if you knew the truth, so they lie. Could this be considered rape by deception?
[–]Evening-EmploymentThrowaway Account1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thaaaank you.
[–]Milobear27FDS Newbie50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I regret telling her the real reason.
So he can’t use her anymore.
I don't normally go for girls that young. I actually prefer my women older, but she pursued me heavily and we met through a mutual social group. I thought it was okay.
And this is why we don’t pursue. If he doesn’t want you, he doesn’t want you! Why why why do that to yourself???
[–]CorruptSoulGemFDS Newbie46 points47 points48 points 6 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
He better not be upset when she leaves. 🙄
[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The moment she leaves he’ll come begging back
[–]pissed_afFDS Newbie36 points37 points38 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
"Omg i literally just realized I was just confused i want to be with you forever"
[–]cherrybombfieldFDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
My favorite is "I didn't realize how much I loved you until I lost you" barf
[–]upgradingjewelFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The sad part is he probably wasn’t even going tell her his feelings, as he claimed she “pressed him” for answers, which probably means she asked him one time...men love to act like basic communication is the equivalent of nagging. Plus if he’s so mature, why was she the first one to actually ask what the deal was? LVM are so delusional. Making more money than someone doesn’t make you a catch and I hope this girl chewed him out and never speaks to him again. It’s not a woman’s job to play Oprah for emotionally stunted men who can’t even communicate what they want.
[–]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Her question is valid but it also drives home why you usually can't start off as FWB and hope he catches feelings for you. Men will make up the stupidest reasons for why they will regularly fuck a girl but not date her. That's why you don't owe them any explanation whatsoever for why you blocked and deleted them.
[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
FWB has zero benefit for women. No healthy relationship ever starts from there. Men will not value the sexual experiences
[–]hilariouslystatedFDS Newbie5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This, EXACTLY.
[–]MakingBadDecisionsAt-Risk Pick Me Youth5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My grandad used to tell my mum "Men won't buy a cow if they can get the milk for free." I used to think it was harsh and horrible, but now I see it's absolutely a true insight into how men think. If they can get emotional support and sex from you without any effort, they're not going to go out of their way to put in any more unless you set that requirement.
[–]juliet-eliaFDS Newbie31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She left. Great. It's going uphill for her from now.
[–]Tatpixie13FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Personally I’m against FWB. I’m sure it works for some people, but for the most part you’re giving a man the green light to use you. I also feel like it’s part of the “cool” girl trope. The “cool girl” trope is not actually being a “cool girl” (ie. shared interests, fun, emotionally stable), it’s about being low maintenance and expecting nothing from your partner. A one sided male fantasy wherein the male has the benefits of a relationship with no effort or commitment on his part.
[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
A vibrator is a much better casual companion than a man
[–]fuckCharDMacDennis2FDS Newbie25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is just gross.
[–]idiosyncrassyPickmeisha™️13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"I refused to validate the relationship I was in to the person I was in it with, because she's a whopping 4 years younger than me. She dumped me and now I miss the relationship I refused to reciprocate"
[–]galian84FDS Apprentice12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh, this was just gross to read. There is no logic here. I bet in his mind he's thinking "At LeAsT I wAs HoNeSt"
This is why you don't sleep with a man before you're in a relationship with them. I slipped up and slept with one guy before we were even actually dating, only for him to tell me a month later that he wasn't ready for a relationship because he had to 'find himself', and refused to even say we were dating.
Yeah, never made that mistake again. And unless the guy is an amazing lover and the woman is truly benefitting off it, FWB is a joke.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He has zero respect for any woman if he does that. He was confusing her, playing her cause she’s young, KNEW about her feelings, but desired to be a selfish piece of fuck. He would be honest IF he truly respected women.
Men can fuck any woman if they can, his dick is not a compliment, his time, investment, care is cause men are super nitpicky with commitment, investment, etc. They give it to mothers, other males, and a woman who makes him children. They don’t even owe it to their kids sometimes.
Every other female is disposable to them...they either dismiss, fuck, mistreat, use as emotional tampon, sexualize, make fun of women but don’t care about them. It’s a resource, not to be taken seriously, but used and discarded.
[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just the way he infantilizes her while also using her body makes me want to vomit. He makes a huge point about how incompatible they would be due to age difference but still sticks his dick in her.
The depravity
[–]sadpourtoujoursFDS Disciple10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The legit reason is likely because she gives him free sex and emotional support. He likely would have no issue dating a 21-year-old or younger in a different situation 🙄
[–]WestAtmosphereFDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Again another reason to solidify not having sex with a man you are interested in before he makes an actual commitment.
[–]FitncurlyFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
They say things like this and wonder why people don’t trust men around children? 🥴
[–]Trillian_42_FDS Newbie[S] 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I call his way of approaching his reason for not wanting to date her for real pedophilic because he makes such a point of highlighting her age and how much of a “baby” he views her as yet is totally okay with fucking her. That’s just twisted, he would fuck someone he by his own admission sees as a baby. The bar is set ever lower for how gross a man can get
[–]ThatGirl60FDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
We should start linking to these posts. I want to send these people some private messages. We as women get garbage in our inboxes time to let these nasty ass scotes know what’s what.
Hope the commenters defended her.
[–]LadyGrimesFDS Disciple7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ugh
[–]ashleecakesFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Omg they are only 4 years apart!!! Lmao!!! My boyfriend is 11 years older than me but treats me as his equal.
[–]wowzerlol19Throwaway Account2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy is a retard
[–]lemon_heartsFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The hilarious thing is she's at least as emotionally mature as him - probably more so. Yet he refers to her as a baby. The fact that he thinks of her this way is WHY he believes they have such strong sexual chemistry. It's a turn on to him to infantilize her.
[–]randomgirlimokFDS Apprentice1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To have sex with someone you see as a child/baby is disgusting
[–]Unlikely-MarzipanRuthless Strategist1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wow what a total fucking selfish prick! And she’s more mature than he is with her response. Queen, I hope you stay away from that useless, abusive creep.
I hate the way these fucktards write in such a holier than thou tone, so they come across as mature and intelligent, but really they are just users and manipulators, turning their own shit onto someone innocent. I’m so angry!
[–]Mean_Green_KweenFDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What tf is he on??? 🤡
[–]lickyblickyuhhFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What a weirdo
[–]MagnoliaMirageFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So.... What are comments like on this?
[–]ivy176FDS Disciple0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What in the absolute hell?? Exactly what she said - you can fuck a baby but not date??
The relationship mostly "revolves around sexual intimacy" yet she says she likes him over and over and provides a lot of emotional support. So, it revolved around sex for HIM, but he gladly took a free therapist. And these types get upset over us wanting them to pay for dates??
The way he calls it INTIMACY shows how poorly he communicates and how ingenuine he is.
[–]VaporwaveVampirePickmeisha™️0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think people are slowly waking up to how toxic FWB is.
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