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1

Youth diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:12 AM
1

Youth diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:12 AM
2

That's messed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:07 AM
1

That rhymed! :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:04 AM
5

I've met the guy on the right. He's weird AND a fuqboi. edit: and also kinda u-g-l-y. Dude never had an alibi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:52 AM
1

he threw his head back and cackled Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:51 AM
5

offer me up I'm sorry. Wut?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:38 AM
3

Exactly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:35 AM
12

They're pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:35 AM
8

These people are unbearable I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:34 AM
8

"Bisexual" women and they partners are guilty of this trashy low brow behavior as well. I had to stop online dating altogether because I would meet up with a woman and next thing you know, she's trying to get me into a fuq buddies threesome thing with her and her boyfriend, knowing we met and she said she was gay online. This happens in Atlanta a lot apparently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:33 AM
5

Ewww. Gross! I feel bad that happened to you. :' (
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 12:24 AM
8

No. They get the point. They just don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 12:20 AM
11

He impregnated and married that pickmeisha Better her than you. She's stuck with him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/21 08:24 PM
2

sometimes Only sometimes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:21 PM
6

Beautiful story, like a phoenix rising from dusty partner ashes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:07 PM
2

What he's doing is textbook example of something he learned from one of those PUA. It's not even good reverse psychology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:28 PM
2

I blame Disney movies and my own pickme mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 09:21 PM
2

Me explaining that I was r-worded when I was a child. Boyfriend's response? "That's hot." Honestly, I don't even think I could even call that scrote a boyfriend to begin with. I don't know if it matters but he was white.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 06:11 PM
2

"I'm seeing someone. Sorry."
/r/askFDS17/08/21 07:25 PM
2

This! They're too low IQ to be the master manipulators that they both despise and admire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:02 PM
2

The 10 second hug and run shithead at the end is what made me thankful that I'm not into men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/21 08:00 PM
6

Hit dogs holler and if it don't apply, let it fly. The men clearly have some personal self esteem issues to deal with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:48 PM
1

I'm mildly aspie, so if someone I was dating was trying to play games I would usually have no clue Same, sis! Most of those negs go over my head like WHOOSH and they just sorta make me think they're kind of dumb and my ADHD just has me focus on something that's not as boring as this guy who thinks he's so cool and his shit doesn't stink. So boring. NEXT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:15 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:04 PM
1

Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 05:10 AM
6

Guys like Kevin Samuels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 02:49 AM
2

I think it's Leonardo Decaprio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 05:53 PM
1

Holy fu*k!!! I'm glad I stopped dating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 07:08 AM
10

the self awareness of a Cheezit Hey! That's an insult to tasty cheesy snacks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:26 PM
3

This text is a clear cry for help. Don't help him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:08 PM
3

I wish you was dead. If some scrote I "dated" in the past wrote that to me, I would write back in return, "The feeling's mutual, sh*thead." And then block. Blockitty block block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 07:07 PM
1

Yes. A hard one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:33 PM
9

Dude sounds like an absolute pig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:26 PM
9

I wish I had heard this in my 20s. I told a guy I was "seeing" that I didn't like it when he called me sexy. He called me a bitch and said it was a compliment. It was degrading to me but I didn't know any better and didn't want to be alone so I kept tolerating his shit. It got worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 06:22 PM
36

And then when we rebuild ourselves up into even stronger women, they come back on their hands and knees begging us to let them break us again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 01:02 AM
18

Excatly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:51 AM
1

Reason #9,999 not to get married if you're a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:24 AM
35

Exactly. We're entirely sick of men's projections, insecurities, and mistreatment and we don't HAVE to take it anymore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:26 PM
2

Mollify. I learned a new word today! Thank you, Lilithwon! 💚
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:51 AM
9

Because it's none of their business if you're not in an exclusive relationship with them. They don't tell us every single girl their dating, let alone every girl they're effing on date 1.
/r/askFDS04/06/21 06:08 PM
8

Don't tell guys you're seeing other guys. edit: I don't understand why I got downvoted. A guy doesn't need to know every single thing you do in your life when y'all just met.
/r/askFDS03/06/21 01:54 AM
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😂 😂 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 10:41 PM
1

Oh! Thank you for explaining. I never really watched Friends but my sister used to watch it religiously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:57 PM
18

Men cutting off friendships with me because I didn’t want to fuck them. I stopped being friends with men in my late 20s after realizing they all only wanted to fuck me. I stopped dating and even associating with them in my early 30s after I realized #allmen and now female separatism is looking mighty fine to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:21 AM
5

...or being forced to "smile".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 09:15 AM
6

It's all of them. #allmen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:47 AM
6

people in the crowd start mocking it. Wait. Wut?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:44 AM
1

Read posts like this then consider lesbianism and female separatism. I'll DM you a youtuber to start listening to that someone from here recommended to me and it has been a godsend since then. Make sure to listen to them on 1.25 speed because they do talk slowly and they have a lot to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:32 PM
2

Same. Same I want to see this dude get force-fed slugs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:19 PM
3

Compliments from women make me feel good about myself and make my day. Compliments from men (or boys because, you know, the wall and junk) always lead to awkward and meaningless conversation, asking me where I'm from, how old I am, and me having to go out of my way to uncomfortably end the conversation or suffer through it if I'm in a line at a grocery store or some isht.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 04:36 AM
7

Many Asshole Pedophiles MAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 05:35 AM
4

People like that use drunk as an excuse to be a rude asshole to everyone. I don't talk to them either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 11:56 PM
1

Wow...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:25 AM
8

Why does the doctor smack babies on the butt after they are born? To make sure the dicks get knocked off the smart ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:00 PM
4

sexist jokes against men I googled "penis jokes" and found gold! A whole mountain of it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:59 PM
4

I've been there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:29 AM
3

Holy shit! This woman just transformed into a whole GODDESS before our eyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:24 AM
5

I think women need men I think you're in the wrong subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:20 PM
3

BRB gonna go "research" these Amazon thrusters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:10 PM
6

For this and that. I've yet to meet a man who did ANY of "this and that". I've always done "this and that" by myself and will continue to do so for me, my mom, and my cat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 08:57 PM
1

Of course! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:46 PM
1

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:44 PM
1

Can't trust him either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 07:37 AM
1

into RP Role play?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:22 AM
3

Third.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:53 AM
1

Any side effects?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:51 AM
1

Any side effects?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 04:51 AM
7

Why are these men who push for pregnancy so badly ALWAYS the shittiest fathers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:17 PM
30

Jesus Crispy Christ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:33 PM
26

When someone says "trust me", don't trust them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:31 PM
2

mine would be too hideous to share Did you date Shrek too? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:49 PM
1

I hope I'll get to your level one day! You will. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:18 PM
3

it’s really only men who talk about “the one who got away”? Exactly. Every guy I've ever dated and left was "the garbage that took itself out".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 08:14 PM
3

Do men really think they can get older all the while still attracting 19 year old girls? That's what they've been told their whole lives, so of course they're going to believe that bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:17 PM
2

25 matches You know he inflated the number, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:14 PM
2

hi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:57 PM
3

they still want us to give a shit The problem with that is that most of us had all of our shits taken away from us by LVM or NVM. So now, we have no shits left to give these dudes which I think pretty much encompasses FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:15 PM
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They can "sense" the wall but can't tell when they're hitting on someone 15-20 years their senior. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:02 PM
28

😂😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:41 PM
12

How much y'all willing to bet his messages aren't that witty and he has no personality?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:37 PM
1

I just recently found out I have pretty bad cat allergies and am willing to go through the desensitization process for my fur baby. I theoretically have a severe scrote allergy and have given up ALL men at this point. I ain't taking no chances! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:38 PM
1

Too true. How sad. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:36 PM
2

I got the single part down pat! Now I just need to be rich now. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:34 PM
6

It's especially nice being able to wear whatever you want without worrying about whether men find you attractive or not. Comfy loose button downs, loose/straight leg pants, and all flats, no heels. Wearing masks forced me to give up makeup too and I don't miss it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 07:49 PM
5

I wouldn't cook for them ever, not even after the ring AND the wedding at this point. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:52 PM
2

A male "friend" of mine sent me a Kevin Samuel video via text with NO context. I thought about it for a few seconds and said "eff this!" and blocked his stupid azz. edit: This was AFTER he sent me a middle finger emoji.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:25 AM
2

“I guess we’re just not compatible!” A person like this isn't compatible with anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:22 AM
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having to deal with him keeping me awake and continuing to argue for hours Holy crap, the sht we put up with from these LVMs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 08:29 PM
13

I'm glad those days are behind me. I'm glad I'm done with men too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 03:47 AM
3

for on hour Dude... I wouldn't make it passed five minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:03 PM
10

Nobody would miss this dude if he just suddenly disappeared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:01 PM
2

Google "google voice".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:58 PM
3

Jeezus chris. It's like I'm tryna find out if my mom's okay and you hit the phone out of my hand because YOUR mom didn't pay YOU enough attention as a kid!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:50 PM
3

This is why I used to only give them a google number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:27 PM
3

the place where they can get attention and positive feedback from a person without doing anything to earn it. This is probably my biggest pet peeve of all peeves and I didn't even realize it until you worded it so well. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:14 PM
2

Understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:15 PM
9

Unfortunately, I let text conversations get boring between me and a male friend and I let it escalate from him sending me a middle finger emoji to him sending me a Kevin Samuels video with no context. I should have blocked him at the middle finger but it was the Kevin Samuels video that broke the camel's back that I blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:17 AM
8

But why was it still there, if he did that years ago? Because he's lying. It probably happened days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:29 PM
3

years ago And he hadn't once thought, "Gee. I should probably at least try to patch that".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:28 PM
8

There have been a few photos here and there and based on those, yes, we really are hot asf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:17 PM
8

Jesus christ. At least give a trigger warning alert before making us go blind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:10 PM
4

Great idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 02:33 PM
1

they become overprotective coz they ARE what’s out there ftfy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:59 PM
2

dick can be nice Dildoes exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:01 PM
1

They always say no to FMM. Hypocrites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:54 PM
1

It takes having a daughter to actually start to care about how the world treats women because this would directly their own blood But by then, it's too late. Societal damage has already been dealt by these fuckbois and now they feel guilty for all of the rotten shit they've done to women just because they're raising girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:42 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:35 PM
2

xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:27 PM
5

*dabs pretend tears on beautiful stress free cheeks with wads of cash* *drinks said pretend tears from expensive crystal glass after going on a clothing haul with wads of cash*
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:54 AM
5

That happened to me a lot in high school. I would be smiling thinking about something and some random chick or dude would say some rude backhanded compliment or make some snarky comment about my skinny no-ass-having body. Now Im in my 30s, that sort of shot rolls off my back and Im always smiling even out in public.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:59 PM
3

Sounds like Kevin Samuels. He radiates self hate and projects it onto insecure but beautiful women to make himself feel better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:30 PM
1

Is pfp profile pic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:47 PM
11

"You'll end up single!" Don't threaten me with a good time! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:42 PM
18

I didn't realize this until peak Covid (March 2020).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:15 PM
12

No such thing as a good or nice guy. They're all just biding their time until they find an opportunity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:08 PM
1

I third this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:04 AM
1

Can confirm. Pets are nice, especially dogs and cats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:03 AM
1

How'd it go? Did you get human contact from healthy sources such as hugs from friends and family, hand holding, etc? I love holdings hands. It's not sexual and it feels nice holding someone's hand and them returning the favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 05:02 AM
2

Muh d!¢k!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:43 AM
2

🥂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:34 AM
5

Not to mention the yeast infection after all that lube. Last time I ever did PIV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:30 AM
3

And here I was thinking I was the only one who went through the horrors of "dog lapping". Guy I was with really thought he was doing something licking down there like a dog licking icing off a cupcake. I never let anyone down there after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 04:29 AM
3

"I thought you was cool" I am. I'm just too cool for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:56 PM
3

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:49 PM
6

marred with kids This should get an award for Best Freudian Slip of the Year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:02 AM
3

My cat and mom are also nice companions. Men are TERRIBLE companions and they are WORSE than newborn babies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:59 PM
4

men aren't nice Bingo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:58 PM
4

But through growth and self discovery, I have been learning that I am the love of my life. It's a wonderful feeling, isn't it? ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:52 PM
2

I’ve gotten that compliment more in the last year or two than when I was younger. That's probably because males are becoming more repulsive by the day and turning you off with their pornsick dicks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:47 PM
3

🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:43 PM
2

They certainly wouldn't like it if we told THEM to hurry up and that their whack in-and-out game is taking too long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:40 PM
2

They know exactly what they're doing when they give dumbass replies like this. Only Pick-me's would take that bait. I used to be a pick-me. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 03:41 PM
5

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:33 AM
4

In January of 2020, right before Covid and right before I decided I'd never do OLD again, I was on Okcupid. I change the filters to slightly younger to much older than I just to look for female friends. Well, I didn't have any success with that so I switched back to the dating scene but I forgot to set the filters back to MUCH older than me because I didn't date men my age or younger (I'm in my early 30s). I was looking at this dude's picture and his age was like 28 or 29 but he looked like he w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:09 AM
3

#momoftwoboys Ewwww. xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:59 AM
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I always ay if they don't have the money, I don't have the time. After all, this is a man's world, right? So be a man and pay for my dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:35 PM
5

No problem. And I know what you mean by wanting to know and not know at the same time. I usually just chuck the thought to the wind and live my best life hoping that if we ever meet again, they'll see that I'm doing SO much better with out them. edit: living well is the best revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:17 AM
5

How's that working for him? Did he find that the other side has greener grass or nah? Spoiler alert: the grass is usually NOT greener on the other side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:33 AM
2

lol. Relevant asf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:31 AM
6

He followed you guys back to your home? Jeezus Christ!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 01:31 AM
8

Same, but they can't be decent if they're thinking about cheating, so just dodge that bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:52 PM
8

Well said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:51 PM
12

I don't fit their beauty standards and I STILL won't take their bs. ⛔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:46 PM
8

Hey! Im not complaining. Even with Crohn's and Adhd, these are some of THE best (single) times of my life! There are still some dark periods of life here and there, but it definitely beats being in a "relationship" with a poor, ugly, mean asshole. I love my mom and my cat. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:39 PM
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With comfy flat-heeled shoes I got rid of all my high heeled shoes in favor of comfortable but tasteful flats and kitten heels, so I feel this one on a very deep level. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:00 PM
3

I wish! I can barely find videos of couples making out with their clothes on and just lovingly and naturally enjoying being in each other's presence, let alone having intelligent and fulfilling conversations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:53 PM
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xD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:10 PM
5

It’s crazy Seems quite sane to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 08:18 PM
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Why do some men have to make everything so difficult to understand -_- They think it makes them look complex and deep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 12:38 PM
4

Small town professor. That's all I need to hear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:40 AM
5

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:33 AM
34

I have no desire to procreate with any of these loser males at this point in my life. Between trying to balance a lemon I got from Carvana, a job that physically stresses me out, and 20 years of chronic illness, I'd rather be a spinster cat lady for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:41 AM
14

Gamer move, queen! Always drop the dead weight! ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:13 PM
10

As a fan of yaoi, I've never been nearly as obsessed with it as these porn sick dudes are with lesbian porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:34 AM
2

I thought it was because grown men and boys were afraid of a lil bra strap peaking through our shoulders. They say they're the stronger sex but are complete punks if they catch a glimpse of undergarment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:08 AM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:54 PM
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In middle school (circa year 2000), we could wear tank tops but weren't allowed to wear camisoles. They blamed us (pre-teens to early teens) for wearing "distracting" clothes, but it wasn't the boys my age who were staring at the young girls. It was grown men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:50 PM
5

😂😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:36 PM
26

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:40 AM
1

I'm trying to PM you but my computer is on the fritz atm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:35 PM
1

I've had Crohn's for 20 years and I wholeheartedly agree with everything you've said. I have no patience for men at this point and I'd rather just focus on my health, staying (permanently) employed, helping my mom around the house, and taking care of my sweet dark beige tabby cat. ❤⭐🌙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:00 AM
38

Anger doesn't even begin to describe how I feel reading this. I'm glad I never got married and I never will. 😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:56 AM
16

Agreed! He probably WAS the cancer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:38 AM
27

I'm glad his life sucks. I love to hear these karmic stories. ⭐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:11 AM
4

Hashtag noexcuses2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:51 PM
11

We were waiting for you. ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:44 PM
15

Hell, atp, marriage and men ain't even the starting goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:50 PM
2

He was always a ducking a-hole. It just took FDS for me to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 09:19 PM
1

I'm literally seeing a therapist who is trying to help me get a diagnosis so I can start treatment. This dude is just full of excuses and doodoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:44 AM
1

😂😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:29 AM
1

Bingo! Dude is a grade A Loser with a Capital L.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:20 AM
6

You could always say "I'm mimicking a psychopath. What does that make of you?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:08 AM
24

I had to stop going to a veterinarian because he was so busy telling me to smile and cheer up that he wasn't treating my cat. I had to tell him I had just recently gotten out of the hospital after being treated for a recurring abdominal abscess for nearly a month and a half. Fugging prick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:05 AM
10

Saved comment. 💮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:59 AM
1

Lvm free and childfree!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 07:41 AM
5

Ask yourself "Do I really want to have sex with this guy or am I just giving him sex in return for some sort of reward? (the reward is usually bad sex)". Have sex because you want to have sex, not because you feel pressured to do it. Contrary to what you've been lead to believe, guys won't respect you just because you put it on them. Date multiple guys but DON'T have sex with them. That way if one flakes out, another is available for dinner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:43 AM
4

I'd explain but I'm lazy, so I'll message you the name of the youtuber I used to get my dating advice from, which along with FDS lead me to being pretty much permanently single because of my high standards. Once you realize you can give yourself more than what most of these scrubs can provide you, singledom just becomes that much more comfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:38 AM
41

I make a guy invest in me first. Pay a few bills, get my car fixed, give me shopping money, take me out on dates to nice upscale restaurants, etc and then I will decide if he deserves to get any. And I make sure the sex is very vanilla because I am NOT a porn star!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:52 PM
5

"I bought you flowers so you should open yourself up to STDs, unwanted pregnancies, and possibly being murdered."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 01:57 PM
56

They don't care because they're assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:13 PM
103

It's like males think "How dare you ask me for anything but my peen, madam?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:43 PM
7

Okay. You're right though! It's like hanging out with that one friend in high school who would try to get a little clout by making fun of you at your expense in front of the cool kids, but then tells you to calm down and that they're just joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:31 PM
22

Exactly! They want a live human being to RESPOND to their physical and psychological abuse!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:41 AM
7

Distracting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:37 AM
23

I didn't tell a guy once that the reason I ghosted him was because his breath smelled of hot garbage and butthole. I think I was a little afraid of hurting his feelings and him getting irate and violent with me. edit: He probably had tonsilloliths but that's a sign of poor oral hygiene and I wasn't finna be his dentist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:49 PM
12

Same. Cats >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:05 PM
17

aLL tHe pErFeCt PpL aRe aLrEaDy mArRiEd. Literally no one is perfect. I look at guys I've dated in the past who are married now and I feel sorry for their wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:59 PM
17

It's no wonder a lot of women have decided that 2021 will be the year of no dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:07 PM
28

Or sex traffickers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:57 PM
2

🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:47 PM
6

Women liberate themselves from abusive men. Men most affected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:58 PM
6

I'm almost certain he made up the whole life coach thing as an excuse to try out polyamory with you after "getting to know you". That is instant NVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:06 AM
7

🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 05:00 PM
5

😂😭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 04:02 PM
6

Same. It's refreshing not being surrounded by pickmeishas and barbara the builders and actually getting good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:39 PM
21

You dodged a major bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 07:51 AM
10

Prepare for trouble! 🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:19 AM
13

Tropes. Tropes and copes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:16 AM
19

I block anyone who just boils me down to body parts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 12:04 AM
30

I know for a fact that they say that to every girl! An exbf used to tell me he slept with some ugly girls. A few months later one of my female friends started dating him after we broke up and she said he said I was one of those ugly girls he fucked. At the time, I was shocked and that made me cry because I was a major pickme. Now I just shrug and go #allmen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:12 PM
4

Males think that only women who look like porn stars deserve respect. Those kind of males treat women like shit, REGARDLESS of how they look.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:09 PM
1

Oh yeah! I've mostly lurked on r/childfree since my early 20s. I know about the list but I didn't have insurance at the time. I have Crohn's and so many issues that currently come with that, so I have to deal with that and therapy at the time being. Thanks for the reminder though! I love that subreddit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:43 AM
2

You don't understand. This was my FuTurE hUsBaNd (white woman doctor talking down on a black woman in her 20s like a child) and whAt AbOuT hIMMMMMMMMMM. I was too livid to answer such a stupid fucking question. I just left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:57 AM
3

For sure, it's weird asf! Me being 5' and still look like a teen in my 30s doesn't help either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:54 AM
1

No. I lost my insurance, and after 4 doctors denying me, I gave up. I was enrolled in college and super poor at the time too. Ironically, I haven't felt the need to have sex since then, so that helps I guess. : /
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:52 AM
13

Shiiiiiiiii. Mansplaining is just a cute way of saying being nagged by a man. My god! Men can out-nag women any day of the week!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 03:58 PM
25

I was told that I needed my future husband's permission (who I haven't even met yet and probably never will at this point because I don't want a husband) to get a tubal ligation. So yeah. It doesn't sound extreme to me when I've been told all my life that I'll change my mind and want children someday, even though I've been saying that I don't want children since I was 9 years old, and I am now 34 and feel even more strongly against having children at this point in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 02:46 PM
23

Cosign on the block and delete suggestion!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:27 AM
35

At least he showed how LVM he truly was. I'm glad OP recognized it before things got more serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:26 AM
39

Technically, vasectomies aren't supposed to be looked at as a form of birth control or temporary sterilization. They're supposed to be permanent like getting your tubes snipped or clamped. Edit: That's what I was told by a woman doctor when I was trying to reason with her that I should get a tubal ligation at age 23 because men my age get less pushback when they want to just walk into a clinic and get a vasectomy. Then she started talking about my fUtuRe HuSbAnd and my UnBorN chILdRen. I also re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:17 AM
7

They're worried about gold diggers when they don't even have any gold to dig. Edit: They're worried about you digging out their pocket dust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:09 AM
5

Exactly. They used to be good providers and apparently lovers too. The cake was a lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:06 AM
7

Spoiler alert: If it weren't for my mom, the whole family would have fallen apart. Thanks, dad. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:04 AM
7

Exactly. Submitting is for dogs. Cats won't even have it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:32 AM
22

That's a whole list of reasons why I'm permanently single. I refuse to be their free anything, let alone free cook, laundromat, wedding planner, and appointment maker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 09:41 PM
4

And minus the pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:03 AM
24

Don't you just love it when scrotes remind you to treat yourself to the small pleasures in life once in awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:21 AM
3

Indeed. I'm not the sad and pathetic pickme I was back in 2010. It's been a long journey, but it has gotten MUCH better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 07:54 AM
1

They just flat out lie for no damn reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 04:33 AM
17

Yes. She is truly blessed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:05 AM
1

As a black woman, me and a white guy were in what seemed like a "nice" relationship. He dropped me the moment his white exgf started sending him messages over fakebook months after they broke up. In the mean time, he was complaining to me that his ex wanted to "take time off from the relationship" and he suspected that she might've been cheating on him. He used me as an emotional tampon and a temporary replacement girlfriend and then tossed me in the garbage and ghosted on me once he was done wi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:00 AM
2

He looks like a slightly less uglier version of one of my exes. That dude had a lot of negative things to say as well and was just generally a horrible person to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 08:42 AM
18

Or phone sex operators...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 01:49 PM
6

Congratulations! Now is the time to rebuild your self-esteem, treat yourself with the love you give to others, and be as selfish as you want to be, honey! When I left the last asshole I dated 5 years ago, I dedicated every second of my life to being selfish and treating myself like a princess. Life's been pretty sweet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 09:01 AM
2

I'm pretty sure my mom has that book as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:50 AM
22

So, like most men, he was conscious enough to know he was hurting you. Just goes to show you that when men tell you they don't mean to do the things that they do to you, they're freaking lying out of their freaking skulls!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 08:49 AM
15

Yes and the prognosis isn't good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:52 AM
6

Men who need protecting are weak asf. Get you a hvm and have him protect YOU!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 07:07 PM
5

That's the first thing I thought about when I read OP's post!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:26 AM
2

I'm sure the dude OP is talking to realizes he's handsome too. Nah. From my experience, guys who feel the need to pull at your self esteem have low self esteem themself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 12:15 AM
2

Same. It feels so good not having to deal with someone I have to negotiate my human rights with all the damn time. I'll probably stay single for good this time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 12:50 AM
2

Cat food is gross.
/r/MGTOW01/08/17 07:31 AM
13

I almost wonder if there should be another term for a man a woman is choosing to submit to and allow to captain, even if that's not what he actually is based on TRP. SO
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/16 09:26 PM
1

I drink whiskey because weed is criminalized in Georgia and I'd ask my friends, but they think I'm too "square" or "innocent" to smoke weed and won't let me join in and try it.
/r/MGTOW23/09/16 02:43 PM
1

I guarantee you she's had sex outside your group of friends though. She playin' y'all.
/r/MGTOW23/09/16 02:03 PM
-3

I've heard that before. xD lol
/r/PussyPassDenied15/05/15 02:03 AM
2

No. They just want to be able to milk the system for all that child support and welfare money. That is all. edit: HINT: That money doesn't go to the children AT ALL!
/r/MensRights22/08/12 02:59 PM
3

Same here, in Georgia.
/r/MensRights30/04/12 04:14 AM
3

I wish I could lose "friends" that easy. The word friend is used VERY loosely these days.
/r/MensRights30/04/12 04:06 AM
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