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| 1 | I found something interesting I supposeHi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Is the overall resistance towards the n count, promiscuity, casual sex, etc. argument due to the hypocrisy for saying it’s ok for men to do, just not women? Or is it that you believe these things really are good things to pursue and/or have no negative consequences?There is a study that says there might not be negative effect but the positive effects are minute and short lived Our findings also support the hypothesis that CSREs have no major short-term impact among adolescents, with a small effect for girls only. This study underscores two points of discussion: 1) the importance of using caution when arguing that CSREs are detrimental to psychological well-being and 2) the importance of not being too confident that CSREs are harmless, especially for adoles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do you women want romance in life?You are not worth my time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 07:54 PM |
| – | are women allowed to have fun in their youth according to the red pillPeople can have fun without sleeping around you know that right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Yeah I would love to read your sources | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Yeah no one wants to or can do that anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Where is your evidence for that claim like do you have peer reviewed studies to back up your claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?Got it, I am on it, empathy rangers roll out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:59 AM |
| 3 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?I apologize I am addicted to giving people uplifting advice lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:53 AM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beThis isnt men vs women this is romance vs ant romance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:47 AM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beWhy are you so smart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?Why worry about what could have, isn't what you are something to treasure you are the way you are for a reason. Instead of saying I could have been better say I am awesome but what can I do to get better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:38 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the signs that someone is unhappy in their relatioship?Not that book but they are more than corny they are cringe and come off as elitist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:36 AM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?I have empathy, I cried when I read post about lonely women or women struggling in sex work. I cried when I saw the deaf girl getting bullied and hating herself in that anime movie. I understand these men here lack empathy and it sickens me but we must not perpetuate apathy as apathy is a sin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:35 AM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Empathy is a scare resource these days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?How do you really know you aren't a catch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?Love animals and creative?! I thought I was the only one lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?Marxism Leniinism Maoism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?No that's not sjw that's the bourgeoisie letting us have it cause they can afford it and to shut us up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:21 AM |
| 8 | Women - what makes you a catch, and why should a man give you a chance?I date someone like you even though I am not a feminist and pro contigent. You seem like an awesome person I hope you are proud of yourself ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:20 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the signs that someone is unhappy in their relatioship?I read one of their books | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What hobbies in the opposite gender are attractive?The hobbies in the opposite gender I am attracted to are sewing, painting, sculpting, cooking, decorating, scarp booking, video games, books, and hiking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:09 AM |
| 0 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.I care about you 🤗 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:01 AM |
| 3 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.Thank you! The past is important we cannot ignore it, the past is after all responsibile for the present and future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 05:01 AM |
| 4 | Discussion : Women moving on faster than men.So we cannot be sad over the things we cannot control. Hey man my family was killed by volcanoes but I toughed up and took it like man, in fact I am happy the volcanoe killed my family it makes me stronger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?What I think makes me a catch is my empathy and compassion. I get happy and excited when I see other people or animals get happy and excited. I especially feel happy when I make others happy. I genuinely love helping and loving people. I also find many things interesting from philosophy, science, world building, video games, books, and drawing. I am relationship oriented person. My friends and family members are my life and I treasure them. My down sides is that my insecurities can get the best … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Wrong? To me you are coming from a normie philosophical approach which is like discount philosophy you find in a broken down thrift shop that is broken itself with many holes and broken pieces. Instead the correct question is how will casual sex as a social norm affect commitment culture and people who are raised to want commitment, should casual sex as norm even exist if people are already happy with romantic/commitment culture, does casual sex actually have meaningful advantages over romance i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:What is it with immigrants being based like wow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:No it's not that women want stability and emotional safety of long term partner it's that romantics want those things. I admit women would identity with that political identity but as a man I would say I strongly identify with that identity than most women I see online. The gender war has blinded us to the real war which is the romantic war. I personally believe romance has become political in our culture and us romantics must unite and resolve our differences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Study: female sexlessness is also rising:Yeah this is really good news actually, it so cool in our hypersexual society we are seeing less sexual activity which again is based. This could show how hedonism isn't compatible with human psychology and that we earn for something meaningful dare I say humans are eudaimonic rather than hedonistic. The decoupling of sex from romance has negative consequences. By alienating sex from relationship you are alienating pleasure from self in my opinion. In my opinion how humans enjoy pleasure has to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Would men and women be better off separated into neighboring monogender societies?I am really scared about this scenerio actually happening it's big fear I actually have. The toxicity between men and women I hear from online and theories I read make me believe women and men are only hear to have sex with eachother and that a relationship between the sexes are not possible. I hope my fears are wrong because I want to live a happy life with a wife oneday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?What about green pill men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 04:58 AM |
| 2 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?They are ok but too busy or too different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:45 AM |
| 3 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI have some disorder I suspect autism or ocd but I don't know. I have a bs in cognitive science. I am trying to self learn UX research. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:12 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI apologize if I came across like that mate I didn't mean to. I just got frustrated because you don't seem to be understanding what I mean. I meant I want people who want relationships to be happy. I do think you are being unfair here mate. Some people don't experience the affection and commitment that other people get. I don't see a problem with voicing their discomforts to others. If you don't want to indulge them then don't mate. You don't owe us anything nor do we owe you anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:08 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame women for my singlenessBro you are taking things too seriously ok what about a PS5 instead of bread. I need enough people to be happy for me to be happy you will never understand people like me I am not only concerned for myself I care about others. I reject individualism as philosophy. You are lying there are pressures to make people conform. Then why are people complaining so much about modern dating culture then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?I sort have friends | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI am not meeting women regularly though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:48 AM |
| 3 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI don't blame myself or women just the unfortunate circumstances we endure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:47 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI only took from a Buddhist story here. You cannot sit here and say you can enjoy your wealth while everyone suffers. No I don't need everyone to be in relationships but I want people to be happy. But I am more concerned about being pressure to conform to the specific dating culture in western nations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:46 AM |
| 3 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI am trying to be a bookworm I used to think I was introvert but I am more comex than that I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:43 AM |
| 8 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI cannot accept the first premise, the world or more specific human society in this era is too cruel. I am not talking about dating I am talking about human cruelty. I want society to change I want to be part of something that can bring about meaningful change. I am working on it, I am making a manifesto of my beliefs and values. Ever since I was in highschool I wanted to become a saint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:42 AM |
| 3 | I don't blame women for my singlenessThank you for your advice! How can I find these online community? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 04:35 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame women for my singlenessLet me give you an example. It's hard to enjoy bread when you are surrounded by people starving. Once people are no longer starving your bread is taken away from you. When and where is the reality you can enjoy your bread in area where everyone gets to eat bread and not starve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I don't blame women for my singlenessThank you for understanding where I come from I appreciate it. What do you mean changing perception and behaviors in this context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 3 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI am world builder and I like reading books with romance. I like animals and prehistoric animals I usually watch YouTube videos on those. I also like going to reginol parks looking for animals. I cannot get a job yet I have to learn skills which I am too dysfunctional atm for. I am sure I have a cognitive disorder which makes reading comprehension difficult for me to do. Last time I had coworkers they were awful some where misogynistic perverts who would make me uncomfortable. I did make friends… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:31 AM |
| 0 | I don't blame women for my singlenessIt doesn't matter if I remain single forever what matters is my culture persisting as long as it can so others in a better future can enjoy a healthy life long relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?I don't have anything else to work off honestly so I just take them for face value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:22 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Wdym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:22 AM |
| 2 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI respectfully disagree we don't need to know what we want from experience alone. I didn't need to experiment with superficial romance to know what I want. I knew what I want from early age not everyone needs to conform to your dating regiments. Other cultures through time have different ways of working romance. And romantic culture changes so it's very incorrect to claim your way is the only correct and eternal way of finding love. I only judge people who enforce their romantic culture onto oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 03:21 AM |
| -3 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?I don't know who writes those articles but they are hell bent painting hookup culture and casual sex as norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:58 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?They might be but the media is making it feel like they are common. I often see girls complain men only want to sleep around so it must come from somewhere. Even false interpretations come from aspect of reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:57 AM |
| 8 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI need a job first, I have habit of giving up to quickly like I make events in discord group chat but no one shows up everyone only shows up in other events. I am trying out a new group on discord I hope it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:56 AM |
| 2 | I don't blame women for my singlenessI apologize friend I was coming off as harsh and misinterpreted what you said. No it wouldn't be because I don't want to have romantic relationship in environment full of unhealthy relationships or lonely people. I rather be single in healthy environment where everyone else has healthy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:53 AM |
| 4 | I don't blame women for my singlenessIn my 23 years of life I only asked about 7 girls in total. I don't think anything is wrong with me or my approach I am just not asking the right girls. What do you mean by concluding so much so quickly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:50 AM |
| 6 | I don't blame women for my singlenessThank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:40 AM |
| 10 | I don't blame women for my singlenessWhy does my age matter to you, you are being hostile for no reason. You could have said "hey mate you could use paragraph breaks to make it look more neat" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 4 | how to address gender entitlement?You speak the truth people should really learn about emotions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:16 AM |
| -6 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Article I read from websites like bustle or cosmopolitan and people defending the right to have casual sex like they would die in a hill for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | how to address gender entitlement?Is it ok to blame culture though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:09 AM |
| 1 | how to address gender entitlement?As a man I am more depressed than angry about this whole situation but reality internalizing and externalizing are problematic. Reality is a relationship between external world and internal world. We cannot just blame one or another. Is it the dolphins fault for living in desert or the desert fault for existing. Neither the circumstance of that dolphin is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 02:04 AM |
| 3 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Where is your evidence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:56 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Yeah because I apply the same standards for me for the women I am looking for. I also said prefer not entitled to so... Is it that wrong for me to be with someone with similar experience as me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:48 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Yeah I don't want to participate in casusal sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:39 AM |
| 0 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?I am a virgin and I prefer a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:37 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?No you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:35 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?May I offer my perspective on this matter. I get depressed knowing if a women I was with had casual partners or seperated sex from romance. I cannot be with a women who contradicts the culture I grew up with or triggers my paranoia. I think society makes the pleasure aspect of sex more important than connection and bonding with through sex. I am not jealous of men who have sex with her quickly I am scared that she doesn't value sex the same way as I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?No I dont | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:23 AM |
| -1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?That's what the internet makes me believe. Is it correct maybe not but the fact people are so defensive about this topic makes me think otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 01:03 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?What about guys who hate the concept of casual sex and hook up culture but want to spend rest of their life with a women who he loves and support her dreams and goals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?Can we just all make this simple standards are not same thing as compatibility or attraction. You cannot change compatibility or attraction people need to understand this. I have been rejected by 7 girls in my life and I just have to accept that and move on. I rather be single than be in a relationship with a women who doesn't share my values and doesn't meet my standards. Sure we can change our standards to be realistic but essentially standards are boundaries coupled with expectations. If a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?So I shall deliver | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:44 AM |
| -1 | So you want women to "lower their standards" but at the same time "not settle" for you....HOW is that possible?This sounds depressing as hell and it sounds like broad generalizations rather than a universals law in my honest opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 12:25 AM |
| 4 | if you're single but dont want to be, why?Thank you brother! I might not get that studio ghibli relationship but I am still gonna try. Relationships are dependent on the characteristics of the people involved in them. We need to find people who match our characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Do wholesome, romantic relationships based on genuine love exist in adulthood?What romantic movies have you seen lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:51 PM |
| 13 | if you're single but dont want to be, why?As a man I grew up enjoying romance in media particularly in cartoons, fiction books, and some movies. Mind you I wasn't obsessed with Hollywood or Disney but rather stuff like Studio Ghibli. I want something like that for myself. 1 the fact we call it a dating market is the problem 2 I cannot find a women who interests me because I don't meet new people and I don't know how in the city I am in 3 I am working on myself by enjoying my hobbies like world building | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Older guys are not dating young girlsWhy do women date older men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:35 PM |
| 2 | If a man isn't interested in exclusivity/monogamy, how is he supposed to not get labelled a "jerk"?People's values are being threatened by pressures from modern dating culture so they resent those who they were in situationships so it doesn't surprise me they resent you for it. Try to understand where they are coming from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 11:31 PM |
| 7 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedIt is dying, people getting more busier just to stay alive, consumed by consumerism and instant gratification, adopting different attitudes on sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:44 PM |
| 13 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedThat will change, everything changes nothing is free from change. I am a man I love romance more than sex. I want to be affectionate, loving, and supportive for my partner. I hope men like me are out there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 1 | New article: 50% of single US adults are not looking for relationships or casual datesThis is heart breaking to hear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men that are tender and loving in the bedroom instead of rough and dominant are doomed to be mediocre, forgettable loversHold on why can't you be dominant and tender at the same time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 12:56 AM |
| 0 | The "80-20" rule claim is incorrectWhy are media making it seem like girls are having more sex specifically casual sex? The specifically normalize this behavior making it seem it's common and what all girls just do? What do they gain from lying to men like this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | The "80-20" rule claim is incorrectWhy are articles from bustle, cosmopolitan and other sex positive articles making it sound like all women are having casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/22 04:23 PM |
| 11 | Is there truth in this - If a woman doesn't give you her body, she isn't interested in you?I want to add nuance a little bit and say it's also the men's responsibility to not decieve women for sex. Some men like having sex with women early on for intimacy and bonding, wait men can see sex as more than pleasure shocking I know. If the men cares about his partners comfort over pleasure and cares about his partners pleaser as well throughout relationship that seems like a green flag. I noticed we only look at red flags but don't really talk about green flags. But also traits are not only… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, how do you feel about the argument “men created society so men can’t complain about society”?Men are not a unified collective. Even if men did create society it wasn't all man. In fact the top men created society on the labor of other men. The top men not only mistreated the bottom men but actively punished them. Like in China they would sever a man's hand if the cart they build was not met expectation. | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.I am pro biological father hood mate relax I am on your side | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 07:00 AM |
| 4 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.Well said friend, you said it perfectly. I like the culture around biological fatherhood it makes me feel closer to wife. I like the tropes about how people would tease the girl that she wants the child of her crush. These tropes make me happy and I don't understand why progressives want to abolish these tropes | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 05:04 AM |
| -22 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.I am going to play devil advocate for a little bit, but why do you care that the child your raising is yours. I am on your side I believe in biological fatherhood but the reason might be different from yours | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 03:49 AM |
| -4 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.Hey do you want to discuss in dms I think you have interesting points | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:37 AM |
| 0 | Chinese man seeks divorce from wife of 16 years after learning his 3 daughters are not his biological children.Wdym? | /r/MensRights | 12/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?Bro they shave their legs wear makeup, get their nails done, and amongst other things for us. Come on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 06:06 AM |
| 2 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?Because women should do that to us | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 05:50 AM |
| -4 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?You might have misogynistic traits you aren't aware of and might have toxic traits you aren't aware off. Most people think they are good people but don't realize they may have toxic traits? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:42 PM |
| -5 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?That might be true but we still have toxic traits we might not be aware of correct? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 11:41 PM |
| -4 | How Can The Gender Pay Gap End When Women Won't Date Men Who Earn Less than Them?Why not make men more attractive not physically attractive just not misogynistic. There is your solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | The importance of not oversharing about sexAs a dude I wouldn't mind my girlfriend bragging about my skills in bed to her friends personally. I would only have a problem if she ridiculed my skills behind my back you know. But that's just me but I do think it's awesome you are respecting your boundaries. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/22 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Opening up about your pastIn my opinion just be honest with your partner and your partner should work out their insecurities with you in a healthy manner. You have to reassure him that you won't do it again and that you will teach your kids good morals and values. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.How did this post get passed and mines didn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/22 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Finding RPW Community LocallyDefinitely there are more community focused churches out there. I know it's overwhelming but I recommend make a list of churches closest to you and visit each one from the list. Like visit one every week. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Finding RPW Community LocallyI understand the pain that comes with the kind of loneliness you feel and man it really hurts. I know you are not religious but I recommend going to local church and finding women like you. I am not religious myself but I plan to go to church to meet people like me. I am really glad you have a boyfriend who is supportive 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Yeah it's my fault I should have not replied to your comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?I could throw that back at you right, no amount of reasoning will change on how I view sex and romance. I apologize if I came off as that. Let's agree to disagree and move one with our lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Sure but they still bring pleasure of a different kind. A good burger isn't pleasurable as a candy but they both bring pleasure. Plus hugging and cuddling releases dopamine maybe not as much as sex but it still does. Also in animal kingdom animals also have sex for bonding reasons other than pleasure. Some animals don't even have sex for pleasure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?By your logic I could argue that cuddling and hugging aren't expressions of love. I soley do those things for pleasure alone. Buying flowers for someone isn't expression of love because I buy stuff for people to show off my wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Why do you say it's not an expression of love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/22 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?By that logic it would be creepy for women to teach men how to have sex then right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?Do you mean like asking girls out yeah I have always made first move. I asked out 7 girls and I got rejected 7 times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?Your welcome 😁 I hope you find the man your looking for soon and are able to overcome your insecurities I believe in you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?What ever you say man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?I am just saying the liberals I have met have abelist undertones omg | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 05:03 AM |
| -1 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?It is but liberals hide their abelism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Isn't it weird a few men seem to have it so easy with women, while the rest of men talk about it as if it was mission impossible?Yeah their is heavy abelism in progressive comunities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?For men everything is a competition thats how modern society works unfortunately and we should do something to change that. But thank you for being understanding I appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Thank you for sharing your experience, man that sounds rough I should know because I had similar experiences. I have respect for virgin women because they stick to their principals and that's a very attractive quality in my opinion. You are correct society shapes what we find beautiful it's too narrow. I feel like me as man my cognitive disorder is what made me unsuccessful. I may have autism, ADHD or SCT but I don't know yet until I get treated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?Hello, teachers don't only teach students but adults. I have taken classes in which adults taught adults. Your never too old to be a student. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Is virgin shaming common in women groups if one is a virgin at a “late” age?How come you don't attach value to sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | People in the manosphere are deeply ungrateful and victims of their own mindsAs a man I can relate so much and it's very disheartening to me. I am principally romantic too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:57 AM |
| 2 | women and men with obvious red flagsI respect your opinion 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do women often hate men playing videogames?I think men are insecure of women beating them in games because video games are structured for men so when a women beats them they feel as if all the hard work they put into something they worked passionately for feels wasted. This is not excuse for us to be hostile and lash but we ought to communicate our insecurities in healthy manner. I hope you understand where we come from. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:32 AM |
| 1 | How valid is Psychology?I say psychology has liberal bias in that it follows liberal understanding of problem. My main issue it sort of discounts soical and economic reasons for mental illness and tends to blame chemical imbalances or negative thought patterns. But in my opinion negative thought patterns and chemical imbalances could be contributed to harmful cultural norms that exist in society or poor economic conditions. If we want to help people therapy is not enough we need to foster healthier environment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:28 AM |
| 0 | How many relationships are really “successful?”I would reflect on socieconomic and culture factors that contribute to does behaviors. Behaviors are more than genes and genes are more complicated than once thought. We have epigenetics to thank for. But also examine what are social and cultural factors that influence toxic behaviors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | How many relationships are really “successful?”I don't think it's bullshit we just are given the right circumstances to grow happy healthy relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | How difficult has dating been for YOU?You have the right to have insecurities and expressing your insecurities. I know how insecurities can be challenging and difficult to manage from experience. My advice is to reflect where your insecurities come from and what your insecurities are telling you. Just listen to your insecurities and do what they tell you. For example if your insecurity says you are bad at math then practice doing math problems and have realistic expectations of your results. And if you have to get help. To me I need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W. How hard do you think it is for men to date in modern dating between 1-10? Why?I don't think that's fair we are struggling with depression and other cognitive disorder and we live in unfortunate circumstances where it's hard to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 03:07 PM |
| 2 | [CMV] Women get exactly what they want from the options they have.Why can just tech the future generation healthy relationship skills and teach them to spot unhealthy signs you know. I feel like no one is talking about preventative abuse it's always about blaming women for getting into toxic relationships or blaming men for their insecurities rather than toxic culture norms feeding on those insecurities. I feel like gender war makes us neglect who the real enemies are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Do you believe in love?But there is no encouragement from society to achieve or maintain that love in my opinion. We need to change that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Do you believe in love?No I don't believe in love. People these days are hostile, defensive, apathetic, and narcissistic. But I believe we can create love for future generations to come. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 06:49 AM |
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