I regret my post so let me explain

kokorwqac · 2022-08-19T03:40:25+00:00

I do also dislike hook up culture myself, but i feel like women are blamed too much for it and men were the ones who played a part in normalizing it through media and escorts

RatDontPanic · 2022-08-19T03:24:34+00:00

I will say it unapologetically: hookup culture is trash and it really, really hurts men. Anyone who disagrees needs to go back to basic economics and study supply and demand. Sex is the supply and men are raising the demand to the moon and stars and beyond. No wonder women's standards are out of control. Look in history what happens when there's not enough demand for women - the end of World War I, women were crying about dying alone. World War II, the average height of a married man declined by centimeters. Japan is overrun by effectively asexual men, well guess what, there's more openly operating male escort bars in Tokyo alone than the rest of the world combined, all serving thirsty and deprived women.

Female privilege is powered by thirsty men and thirsty men are driven by hookup culture.

Come at me, bros!

rurunoa · 2022-08-19T09:15:08+00:00

i commented on your other post before. now i want to say i completely 100% agree with this one ESPECIALLY this part

changing marriage from an economic contract to a solely a union of love, coupling sex and romance in media, teach relationship and emotional regulation skills, abolish porn (current porn industry and how porn is depicted)

this would also prevent men from suffering financial losses through divorce. If you think about it, the fact that marriage is an economic contract just really shows that sex and commitment are viewed as transactional

Antisocial_Nihilist · 2022-08-19T05:55:30+00:00

It will not work. Hookup culture is the result of the sexual revolution and female choice. So unless you want to get rid of those 2 things, hookup culture is not going anywhere, my friend. It is basically a casual return to hypergamous/polyamorous societies, which is what we naturally engaged in for the longest time in human history.

So by advocating for the elimination of hookup culture, you are by extension advocating for "enforced monogamy". That's a big NO-NO. A lot of guys in the Redpill community on YouTube have been cancelled for advocating for a return to that, Jordan Peterson almost being one.

ManWazo · 2022-08-19T04:24:20+00:00

Hookup culture doesnt exist. Its just a term the boomers have invented to slutshame free women.

IHateNormis · 2022-08-19T03:38:30+00:00

Hook up culture will exist as long as there are Chads

BumblingBeta · 2022-08-19T03:52:29+00:00

I don't see how hookup culture can stop. The natural course of events over history is for humans to gain more freedom and rights. With that comes the right to have as much sex with whoever you want, in whatever context you want (as long as the other person agrees to it).

The genie is out of the bottle and by preventing casual sex, you'd basically be regressing people's rights and liberties. You would face huge resistance, largely from women. The only way I can see it stopping is some sort of government regulation, like 1920's prohibition in America, but that would be extremely difficult to enforce.

plaguedoctor_21 · 2022-08-19T05:27:39+00:00

I don't think that will work. People will still do the impossible to get their hands on porn just think of other countries with strict regulations. Even the most religious or "proper" people will go their way to finds stuff. It kinda reminds me how some religious people say porn isn't haram, to justify it. Or how some teachers/ school officials fire or suspend people at seeing a student or another school officials on only fans. It's like something in their heads telling them to do something they shouldn't. They are like lured to it more. For instance China has a shit ton of regulations on internet, but I know many who found their way around that.

KirthWGersen · 2022-08-19T08:38:36+00:00

"Hookup culture" is just another word for what men and women have naturally done throughout history. When they meet people they are attracted to, if they can do it without social consequences, they will.

If you read literature going back anywhere from a hundred years ago to 3000 years ago, you will see that nothing has changed. Sure, in many cultures, marriage was expected of people; but sex outside marriage was rampant. For a woman, once you were married, and there were no DNA tests, it was safe to have sex with other men. Obviously, some men would lose their shit and beat/kill their wives; but plenty of men do that to women they are not even living with or married to.

The sex drive is an extremely powerful force. No-one can stop it happening any more than Cnut could turn back the waves.

All you can do is carve out a life for yourself in the way you like best, and enjoy each stage in it while it lasts.

You can't abolish porn. The biggest growth in porn in England, ever, was during Victorian times. Rates of prostitution were also through the roof. You can establish a hypocritical, respectable veneer, but humans are humans. Even the most vicious of dictatorships have never managed to control human sexuality; they merely make people better at hiding it, while perversely encouraging it by making it more exciting.

Some people are less attractive than others. They feel envious and bitter. Ultimately they are making themselves unhappy.

Simply improve yourself to get the life you want, or stop complaining and enjoy the life you have.

Glad-Discount-4761 · 2022-08-19T10:11:53+00:00

As long as there is alpha Chad's,hookup will continue to exist.Some are just biological instict.

SaltyGeekyLifter · 2022-08-19T11:56:14+00:00

Nope. You’re ignoring the differences between male and female sexual selection strategies.

MarBitt · 2022-08-19T19:16:28+00:00

So let me explain what I think. I think hook up culture will not exist in a hypothetical better world I thought up. By eliminating poverty, reducing crime, increase free time, changing marriage from an economic contract to a solely a union of love, coupling sex and romance in media, teach relationship and emotional regulation skills, abolish porn (current porn industry and how porn is depicted) I think hook up culture would either wither away completely or it's pressure will be greatly reduced.

This requires not only a hypothetical better world, but hypothetical better people. And if there were better people like that, communism can easily work. Or free love.

But the problem is that we have real people and not hypothetical better people. And whenever someone came up with an ideology that wasn't for real people, but for hypothetical ones, it resulted in those real people having to suffer and die so that those hypothetical, never-existent people would be better off.

It is one of the worst evils when someone prefers his own illusions and dreams to reality and then is willing to destroy reality so that his illusions can live. They will never live, they are just illusions, so the promoters of these religious beliefs, morals and ideologies only harm real people.

You claim it could work. I'm saying that it wouldn't even work as a game, a fantasy world that should feel realistic and have real people playing in it. And that's even if you could set things like poverty and free time there to your liking, in that simulation.

Title	I regret my post so let me explain
Author	gardenfan167
Upvotes	6
Comments	54
Date	August 19, 2022 2:46 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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