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I found some interesting things from my posts in purple pill debate

August 16, 2022
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I asked romantic man and women on this subreddit about why they think that they want romance and how did they protect their values from the pressures of hook up culture. To be honest I couldn't find any significant difference between the genders, you can look for yourself but I did notice something. Also I want to say what I fond is not meant to be generalized to entire population of humans. So here is what I did notice about gender differences

The men who participated in casual sex seems like they regret it and or go out of the way to say romance is way better. Women did not say this at all, they saw both casual sex and romance as equal or that romance was only slightly better.

Both genders who did not give in to hook up culture were not slut shamed into being prudes. Romantic women described romance in a casual but cozy way while romantic men spoke in a poetic and profound way. Not saying either are wrong but I found it interesting. I noticed some women who said they like romance but they described romance in a way which off as nonconfromist type which I am not demonizing by the way.

Now what I found across both genders to be interesting as well. People who stuck to romantic principals were not slut shame to avoid casual sex or hook up culture. Romantics if better gender tend to respond to the question how did your desire for romance develop. Most people responded with media and the people around them which is a very interesting response in my opinion. And I think one women mention that the see sex different from romance because they learned sex separately from romance which is also an interesting response. There are some that did say it was biological reasons but they did not negate social reasons. These were the main trends I noticed which again I found interesting.

I don't have an ulterior motives here or at least I don't think I do, I just listened to my curiosity.

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Title I found some interesting things from my posts in purple pill debate
Author gardenfan167
Upvotes 9
Comments 11
Date August 16, 2022 5:47 PM UTC (3 months ago)
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[–]RStonePTRedPill 3 points4 points  (23 children) | Copy Link

What people say != what people do. Never forget that.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (22 children) | Copy Link

I can understand that but I am giving people the benefit of the doubt here. I feel like there is no reason for me to doubt these claims unless you have doubts yourself. If so why not share them if you don't mind.

[–]RStonePTRedPill 1 point2 points  (21 children) | Copy Link

unless you have doubts yourself.

I have doubts. Don't forget, PPD had a former escort who settled for her 'betabux' and they used to cheerlead her for years, showing how she was the reason redpill was wrong about women ... until she did exactly what everyone said she would, for exactly the reasons they said she would, and justified it by saying the exact oppositte things that she used to.

Then they collectively pretended she didn't exist.

And honestly, the only reason I trust anyone spouting strategies or theories is because I've tried them out myself in my life and found them to be useful. No statistic ever got me laid. No research paper ever got my girlfriend hot for me. No middle aged stem soccer moms rants ever made my life better. In fact, doing the exact oppositte of that is precisely why I am happier now than I have ever been.

The blues are arguing for truth. the reds are arguing about utility. As far as sharing them, I've got about a thousand videos, a book (almost 2) and more than 300k words on here about what I've done, what others have done, and how it works. You're more than welcome to search yourself.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (6 children) | Copy Link

I have a folk theory and I want to prove it that is all. I want to understand why people desire romance is it a biological or social phenomena and if it's both who has more influence than other and why some people stick to their principals and others don't.

I don't mean tell me your doubts about PPD, I am mean specific doubts with my results.You have not brought up any information that might cause me doubts about my posts's results from yesterday. Like how does your story have any bearing on my posts from yesterday? You are not really engaging with my text instead you are go off into your own world hear

[–]RStonePTRedPill -1 points0 points  (5 children) | Copy Link

What results? you pondered somethiing and came to a conclusion. Great. Do you know how many of the pick up artists did that for some crazy openers, or some wonderful new game and bragged about how great it was?

Until you can replicate it in real life, it's just conjecture. Like I said earlier, if I can't replicate it I don't care.

The men who participated in casual sex seems like they regret it and or go out of the way to say romance is way better.

I have zero regrets from any woman I've ever fucked. I don't think about them as mistakes, failures, or anything other than fun and learning experiences. What I do see in life though, is men who try to impress women by pretending their caddish ways were a mistake and that they are better, more sensitive men now. So yeah, I would interpret your 'research' as men are lying to women because they want validation, nothing more.

[–]no_bling_just_dingWhitePill (self aware MSTOW) 0 points1 point  (2 children) | Copy Link

this is waht truly matters tbh. im no redpiller but im a strong proponent of "if it works it works"

[–]RStonePTRedPill 1 point2 points  (1 child) | Copy Link

Agreed. My biggest gripe is people who avoid things because they want to ponder, think, and discuss so damned much.

[–]flash131313131 points [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

PPD had a former escort who settled for her ‘betabux’ and they used to cheerlead her for years, showing how she was the reason redpill was wrong about women … until she did exactly what everyone said she would, for exactly the reasons they said she would, and justified it by saying the exact oppositte things that she used to.

What do you mean?

[–]RStonePTRedPill 0 points1 point  (9 children) | Copy Link

People swear they aren't like that, until they are. Afterwards it's because of 'reasons'

Don't listen to people, trust your own eyes. People lie and people are inexperienced.

[–]h1shman 0 points1 point  (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s my opinion that for those who chose causal sex the men prefer romance because actively having causal sex is harder than actively trying to date seriously.

For the women the contrast is less as they have an easier time overall on average however casual sex for them is even easier than finding a relationship due to being used for sex.

I think the results shows there is merit to the “women are gatekeepers of sex and men relationships” saying.

I much prefer romance myself as trying to have regular sex with 7+ young women is a hassle. My opinion likely would be different if I had 8s and 9s falling into my lap on a regular basis with little effort

[–]SaltyGeekyLifter 0 points1 point  (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. It all depends on the SMV of the men and women in question.

You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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