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| 32 | I wish it was easier to block and delete NVM/LVM family.Wow this almost sounds exactly like what I’m dealing with! I literally just told my best friend I’m pretty sure my brother is an incel. Even if I try to ignore the little things he just starts making it harder and harder on me by escalating his behavior. My brother is just abusive and nasty at all times, no matter what I do for him. Then yells about how I should accept him how he is, despite going out of his way to embarrass me in public. This time I just left but it caused a tantrum my parents … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Guy I was talking to defends his misogynistic comments and covers them up as banter and jokes with his friends and tells me if I won’t accept him then to leave which I did. I can’t accept him for who he is because I don’t reward pornsick, misogynistsWhy even respond to his first text? Huge waste of your time, nothing about this shows your high value. Don’t even entertain these kinds of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 03:14 AM |
| 39 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.I’m kind of shocked at the amount of stories in this thread. In my darkest pick me days I would have been actually insulted if someone expected me to travel on my dollar to see them across states and countries. Even if I was madly in love and committed. We need to start teaching young girls this is NOT okay and not romantic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:07 PM |
| 351 | Don’t travel for a man. Especially on your own dime. If he was interested he would travel to you or at very minimum pay for your flight and accommodations.Also one thing that stands out to me is that she is more nervous to travel alone than to travel to see and spend time with a male stranger she has never met. Sis, that is WAY more dangerous than traveling solo. Vetting can save your life in an instance like this. I keep thinking of the girl who traveled to Phoenix to meet a man she met on OLD and ended up dying on Camelback mountain when he abandoned her on a hike. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 04:03 PM |
| 19 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)No it’s just the result of being a NVM who feels entitled to whatever he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 08:56 PM |
| 135 | This insta account is great to see the entitlement that LVM have. (She’s 28 and only matches with old men for science)Breats actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:02 PM |
| 36 | Twitter finds an FDS post and scrotes are madLol it was my post and it’s just funny to me the backlash it got. It’s pretty simple, don’t date me if you have a problem with it! “Guess she doesn’t get any dates…” I was ON a date 😂😂 and it wasn’t even the first one with this same person! Or the first one that week! But go on. They really want to believe we are these hideous cave trolls with no prospects anyway, but honestly I have a good life and a lot going for me, enough that I don’t want to involve someone who isn’t going to add to that to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.Well your safety and well-being needs to come first but if you can find a way that’s great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 08:03 PM |
| 23 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.Find screenshots if possible, give specific dates and times and events if you can. Make it irrefutable and point her in the direction of where she can find the proof! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 04:01 AM |
| 152 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.I thought so based on the username! I’m happy some men still have the decency to do things like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:17 AM |
| 60 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.Stick to the facts and keep it anonymous if possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 01:04 AM |
| 110 | Normalize narcing. Women deserve to know who they’re married to.It was posted a lot regionally and reshared in local groups, just didn’t seem relevant for this thread :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:17 PM |
| 32 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.Explains why I got a lot of messages telling me to kill myself 😂 oh well! Hopefully some women will see it and find their way here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:22 PM |
| 938 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.I was literally thinking that! “I bet you wouldn’t want to go slow sexually, which is 100% why you specified emotionally slow” 😂 they’re too easy to read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 93 | The “personalities” of the contestants on next season of The Bachelorette... I think I would just go home early.Imagine you are trying to find your soulmate, and a TV show picks a bunch of options for you out of thousands of applicants and you end up with a bunch of man children that are scared of extinct animals, “skin salesman,” still eat Dino nuggets, hate all vegetables, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:14 AM |
| 32 | Having a HV father doesn’t automatically prepare you to gravitate towards HVM.I’d go kayaking with you anytime and you can tell me lots of stories about your dad! He sounds great. I’m sorry he passed. ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:03 AM |
| 51 | Women are better parents even when they aren’t the parent.She sensed something was off way before dad did though 😂 but yes you’re totally right! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 51 | Leave him Rachel!Hope it’s okay that I left the artist’s Instagram in the photo, she is hilarious and very FDS minded! Definitely follow her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.“Joke.” Yep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 68 | This woman is **79** years old and found a way to run a business empire around traditionally domestic “women’s work” starting in an even worse time for unequal gender roles.Martha Stewart :) she is in Harper’s Bazaar this month and looks stunning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:52 AM |
| 9 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.And your dog will ACTUALLY be with you for a long time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 13 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.But how could you turn down a WALK? That’s so special, what a once in a lifetime opportunity. A walk!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 199 | TW: DV. And these are just the things they are willing to post publicly.The first woman commented on the thread: go to a fur farm and steal all the animals. Women and men are not the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 10 | Is it just me that takes not even putting a ? At the end of a question as a sign of laziness and low value?Right, I took that as a neg. So I was just fine with roasting his punctuation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 01:10 PM |
| 5 | RealizationDamn good job lady!!! It’s all up from here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:57 PM |
| 11 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.It wasn’t a predatory loan at all. I was trying to keep things general but he bought a new car from us and traded in an old one. We had paid off the balance on the old one and sold it already, the new ones loan had been funded, and he had even hit something already with the new one. It’s a very standard loan through a reputable bank and thousands of people sign these kinds of loans on a daily basis. You are being ridiculous spreading the idea of me being some kind of loan shark putting people in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 01:25 PM |
| 306 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.I do too. I lost my best friend to suicide in April and there is a special place in hell for people that threaten this kind of thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 02:10 AM |
| 44 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?Ladies, I really feel like I have found my people here. I have long LOATHED beards and every single one of my girl friends irl is a total beard chaser who doesn’t understand my dislike and distrust for bearded men. THANK YOU for validating my preferences. All of these men look like they still own Pokémon cards and tweet about how no women over 150 lbs should wear crop tops. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:35 PM |
| 311 | This whole post is a dumpster fire of immeasurable levels but the amount of red flags in the background info alone is mind blowing.31M engaged to 21F who dies. 🚩 Swears off marriage 🚩 8 year gf 🚩 Doesn’t let 8 year gf move in until they have had a second kid 🚩 Lived separate from his gf and his daughter for 1.5 years 🚩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 28 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.I wouldn’t call that a long term hookup then if it was only a month. I still don’t think starting as a hookup is ever a good idea though, short term or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:15 PM |
| 21 | In other news, at least 64% of women are delusional pickmes.It’s just an Instagram poll from a podcast about dating. That was the results when I answered the poll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 03:03 PM |
| 11 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.A plastic one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 1 | A collection of women who have all hit the wall according to scrotesI had them saved too! There was literally a massive abundance of beautiful women to post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 2 | A collection of women who have all hit the wall according to scrotesFYI I had actually saved over 50 pics but realized Reddit has a 10 picture limit. There are so many ethnicities and backgrounds represented, proof it’s not “black don’t crack” or “asian women don’t age.” Women in general are beautiful. Sorry I did you dirty with a blurry picture Jennifer Connelly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:09 PM |
| 237 | Y'all, they literally don't stop 😂 I've already posted here a couple days ago with a screenshot from their sub about the rings people are posting 🖕Lol nice cars trigger men a lot more than buying ourselves jewelry, because they attach a lot more meaning to cars. I drive a nice car, paid for by myself of course, and the amount of men that assume I have a rich husband or sugar daddy is disgusting. One time I even had a scrote knock on my window and ask which detail company my husband uses? Fuck off. Good for her, that car is gonna take her to a lot better places than any LVM will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 6 | CMV: guys who are overly competitive about everything think sunglasses make them look cooler than they areThey’re competitive about everything except advancing their careers and performing job duties well, cleanliness, hygiene, treating women with respect, learning/reading, etc. But they’re SOoOoO competitive about video games, fantasy football, and bragging to their friends over who can find the most depraved porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:32 PM |
| 38 | Ladies this guy is on to your games! He knows you want to dig his gold and he will NOT stand for it.Right the prenuptial agreement is actually to make sure us females don’t take any of his inches. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:16 AM |
| 102 | Ladies this guy is on to your games! He knows you want to dig his gold and he will NOT stand for it.I am not making fun of anyone’s job, just thought it was funny that we joke about men with no gold being afraid of gold diggers and then I stumbled across this charmer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:32 AM |
| 15 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮I get my name necklaces from zales! Surprisingly decent quality for that. But imagine never getting gifts from your HUSBAND and when you do it’s a 40$ necklace that he probably used a coupon with too. Gross. This would be cute if it came from a little kid to his mom, not a whole ass adult man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 09:32 PM |
| 35 | I’vE cHaSeD a LoT oF tAiL 🤮🤮🤮Eh I think it’s still tacky, slightly offensive, and lame but even if someone thinks it’s a cute present the fact that she says he never gets her gifts is LVM anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 9 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!This is literally 100% her and you just put into words something I knew but never really fleshed out! This kind of friendship is exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:53 AM |
| 32 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Right. I’ve tried to steer her here so many times and it’s just futile. But what the fuck is she even getting out of dating this way?! It sounds painful and mortifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:09 PM |
| 61 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Right! We are neighbors and go on walks and hikes together outside often. She didn’t hang out with me once for like 3 weeks because the son of one of my employees was on quarantine. Like. There was no way I had it from that kind of degree of contact. Yet she is meeting strangers on the internet and having them come to her house?! And she is very very invested in finding her soulmate!!! I just don’t get it. She’s literally doing everything wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 41 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!Sorry I was confusing, she is actually my neighbor. He is someone who she met online but he is not our neighbor. Not that it makes it a ton better but thank god for her she doesn’t have to see him in/around our neighborhood!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 144 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!You’re not wrong. She probably already has and just isn’t telling me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 117 | My neighbor had sex with a guy she was interested in really soon, they had a condom slip incident, and he immediately changed. This is why we vet!!When she’s talking about “all the crazy” she means he literally had to fish the condom that fell off out of her vagina. The FIRST time they had sex. Which was the second or third date. 😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬 I tried to make her feel like it wasn’t a big deal because she is my friend but like, it’s a big deal because you don’t even know him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 44 | This idiot made one of his dating profile pics the “crazy hot scale” 🤮🙄🤮🙄And probably a porn addict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 90 | This idiot made one of his dating profile pics the “crazy hot scale” 🤮🙄🤮🙄He was fat and short | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:39 PM |
| 37 | I hope her divorce lawyer has a wonderful time with the public photographic evidence of his cheating.It was from a relationship advice thread not AITA but I’m sure people ripped him apart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 06:31 PM |
| 17 | From Halsey’s poetry book “I Would Leave Me If I Could.” Don’t turn your trauma into adventures for someone who will leave you anyway.I’m reading Lana Del Rey’s poetry book next and I bet she’s even worse! 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 5 | I hate reminders of my pick me past.Amen sister. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 216 | I hate reminders of my pick me past.Sometimes I can’t believe the things I used to put up with. On dates (and just in life in general) my ex would constantly sit on his phone texting his buddies or watching YouTube videos or reading articles and never pay attention to me. Now I demand attention and if someone goes right back to having their nose glued to their phone when they are supposed to be spending time with me I move on. I’ve also found that it’s impossible to build anything with someone who is addicted to social media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Even just publicly linking online harassment to mass shootings and violence against women is a huge step. Let’s send all of our good vibes to this initiative!I agree with you, If he doesn’t we will vote him out :) but this is a start and a lot better than the policies towards women before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.Also “sexual activity” with 5 year olds? You mean RAPE?!?!!! This guy doesn’t even use proper horror about abusing a 5 year old! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.I wish it wasn’t doxxing to show his username. Legit incel who for some reason still posts on r/tinder too? What a fucking scrote in all ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 10:35 PM |
| 50 | Ladies he wants to split the bills and might even make you a HARD BOILED EGG 🥺🤗🥚😮Hahahaha I posted that one too. Some amazing culinary masters popping up out there lately 🤤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 04:14 AM |
| 87 | Ladies he wants to split the bills and might even make you a HARD BOILED EGG 🥺🤗🥚😮make me deleted this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 03:33 AM |
| 11 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.You’re beautiful ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.There’s no dog food in the field! 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:49 AM |
| 58 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.I actually think the girl may have gone over there and had to pretend to eat that disgusting meal. 🤮 pickmeisha putting up with dog food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 09:52 PM |
| 161 | When your dress lasts longer than your marriage to a LVM.It’s so awful. She has been so exploited and taken advantage of her whole life. I hope she gets some peace and independence someday soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 04:09 AM |
| 127 | Megan Fox calls out Brian Austin Green( who groomed her when she was 18 and he was 30) for doing LVM things.Agreed. He also posted an Instagram calling her an absent parent so I can’t even imagine how fuming I would be in her shoes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 25 | Megan Fox calls out Brian Austin Green( who groomed her when she was 18 and he was 30) for doing LVM things.I’m sure that’s probably the case but I just went by the timeline that she has confirmed which was that she was 18. Either way, disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 171 | Megan Fox calls out Brian Austin Green( who groomed her when she was 18 and he was 30) for doing LVM things.Also: I made sure to censor the child in the photo but it’s really annoying that the outlet who posted her comment didn’t even censor his picture when that’s what her rant was about!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 27 | Men complain about women dating only tall guys and then immediately bring up height as an issue unprovoked when talking to a tall girl like me... also no way would a tall guy be this insecure- stop lying about height !!I literally almost posted something like this myself today! I’m 5’10” and I disclose it in my profile. I truthfully do not care if someone is shorter or the same height as me, but it’s ALWAYS the short guys that start with a neg “You seem too vain to like me because I’m 5’9” or say something controlling like “I’m the same height so you can’t ever wear heels.” But when I unmatch or block immediately for the neg or for being controlling they just assume it’s because ~bitches go for tall guys only~… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 29 | paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩Paultrick Baitman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:11 PM |
| 132 | paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩Disclaimer: Saw this in a Facebook group, it is ABSOLUTELY not me. She should have blocked sooooo quick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 20 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.Walmart bouquet for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 50 | Man terrifies woman into blocking him on multiple forms of contact. Cue him whining and hundreds of comments calling her a bitch without hearing her side of the story.He was the kind of gentleman that wears fedoras and lists Mountain Dew as the one thing he couldn’t live without probably. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 20 | Three profiles in a row on Tinder 🤮 I’m deleting my OLD profiles, anyone with me?Hopefully no one but then it’s “no women will match with me because they only want chads!!” And then they become women hating incels so we never win | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:24 PM |
| 7 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.You’re the one disregarding the message because a small part of it doesn’t fit the narrative you like. Masturbate to your heart’s content, but when the message is that that’s a small part of your sexuality but your sexuality should also include sleeping around, making and watching porn, getting money for sex, being naked in front of people/showing off your body, it’s NOT a pro FDS message at all. Make and post your own graphic or find one that’s pro FDS and pro masturbation about masturbation if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:50 PM |
| 9 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Oh please. I didn’t co-sign every aspect of the post but it’s not like they are encouraging masturbation for women’s empowerment, it’s just a throwaway thought for them. One little part that you agree with doesn’t mean the overlying message isn’t flawed and bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:53 PM |
| 176 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Because you don’t have to convince men to oppress and take advantage of a woman but it’s a lot easier if you convince women to let themselves be oppressed and taken advantage of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 51 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.SLUTS FOR FALL? Groundbreaking 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:42 AM |
| 130 | Thank god this girl realizes he wants a new mommy. Stay strong girl or you’ll be participating in #kickhimout2020Yeah the not knowing how to budget is a complete red flag too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:37 PM |
| 4 | His profile was literally an advertisement to rent him as a boyfriend. Do they really think we are so desperate that we would hire these cave trolls to pretend to date us?No no no I think you misunderstood- he wants women to PAY HIM to TEACH HIM how to crochet because he thinks that is what women want to “rent a boyfriend” for. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:10 AM |
| 77 | You can’t buy a LVM’s love. This is disgusting.Divorce attorney. In fact it’s probably a good idea to have a divorce attorney in mind before you even get married just in case. And never take on anyone else’s debt! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 32 | Some woman must have thought at some point that this guy is safe to reproduce with. I’m equally revolted with him and saddened for his kids. If I had her contact, she’d be getting this screenshot just in case she had any doubts about moving away.Yes but they are from the past. 🤷🏼♀️ ... god these men are incredible. I wonder what their female ancestors would say if they could see what a deadbeat their lineage ended up. Hopefully that mother changed their last names to hers because he doesn’t deserve children with his name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 34 | This was on a feminist sub. 🤮A Mypillow 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Be balanced ladies 😂Oh as soon as he asked if I was a good cook I made sure he knew I was not cooking for him 😂 I read that and knew we were going downhill fast | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 12:30 AM |
| 13 | Be balanced ladies 😂Somehow the men who say “I speak fluent sarcasm” don’t realize when they are walking right into being answered with fluent sarcasm 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:35 PM |
| 1 | WeIrD sItUaTiOn 🚩🚩🚩💍🤰🏼👬👨👩👧👦🚩🚩🚩I downloaded tinder after my friend urged me to last night. Literally everyone is terrible, just terrible 😂 being alone is much much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 294 | My profile mentions I’ve played tennis since I was a toddler.It reminds me of this article about how 1 in 8 men think they could score a point in a match against SERENA WILLIAMS. https://www.thecut.com/2019/07/poll-1-in-8-men-think-they-can-beat-serena-williams.html | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:25 PM |
| 58 | My profile mentions I’ve played tennis since I was a toddler.Of course! Immediately! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:19 PM |
| 64 | FDS Approved Must-Have Products??Ok this is going to sound weird... but get yourself one of those grippy jar opener silicone things. You will never need a man to open up a hard jar again 😂. Best $6 amazon purchase ever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 06:21 PM |
| 88 | I found the One!!!I’m glad you’re having a better experience dating but please do not let your guard down or immediately assign him HVM status. “we haven’t been dating for so long” = you don’t know if he’s “the One.” Determining if he is high value takes a lifetime of vetting and in my opinion the only “the one” in a HVW’s life is herself. You also don’t have a good track record of determining quality relationships so without working on yourself there truthfully isn’t a good foundation for you to find your own va… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 1 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮This is unrelated but I thought that dog was ET at first. ET deserves better! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:21 AM |
| 44 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020Ladies I have been trying very hard to help my neighbor who is the worst pickme of all time with her endeavors on OLD. On Sunday a guy asked her to meet up for a quick drink THAT EVENING. I told her that she absolutely should not agree to that, because a) drinks is not a date b) it was not pre-planned and c) she had plans to get caught up on some work stuff and you should NEVER change your plans for a man. She said she wanted to go because she wanted him to know she was spontaneous and fun. I to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:20 PM |
| 38 | Pickme culture is so pathetic. “Act like puppies”? Like pee on the floor in excitement for a trip to Target? 🤮Drink a milkshake I bought with my own money? 😮🥳🙌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Calling all FDS experts! We need your help over at r/AskFDS to help answer personal relationship questions.I would like to be able to comment! I am working on assisting my friend and neighbor but they seem like lost causes so it would be nice to help someone asking for help! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:38 AM |
| 23 | Anyone else have serial add-er LVM? 😂I almost made the title “it’s not even worth opening the notification” 😂 I’m sure part of it is that or part of it is the “fine I’m over this bitch anyway” and then “damn I miss creeping on her” seesaw that goes through their minds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:02 PM |
| 10 | 62-year-old snake lays eggs without male help, is FDS goalsFor some reason this slays me. I go to this zoo often and knowing there’s some badass lady snake popping out kids as a senior citizen without a man snake dragging her down makes my life so much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 2 | How dare he?! 😂Thank you! I’m not going to lie, the first time I read his first text I almost threw up. Then the anger kicked in so I’m glad I was calm enough to be firm and not sound super crazy and bitter. I really appreciate your comment! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.Yes! Just NSFW tagged it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 10 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.Mods- someone anonymously put a “take my money” flair on this post. Anything you can do about it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 32 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.I didn’t even think about that but you are right. This little girl and any other little girls that look like her are at risk. If I was this mom I would be taking her right to the salon! “Ok sweetie, let’s pick out a fun new hair color! Any color you want! Maybe we can do Mermaid hair?!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 86 | Child sex dolls based on real children are freely available online. Child. Sex. Dolls.Agreed. This mom needs to actually sue and press charges. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:01 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered September 1 2020Way too pickmeisha. It’s not necessary, you don’t have to explain what you are doing to keep yourself safe to anyone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 32 | Your timeline is non-negotiable.Even a broken clock is right twice a day! 😂 I co-sign the quote, not the person it’s coming from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:05 AM |
| 22 | You can’t even use LinkedIn anymore without being targeted by old scrotes.Oh my god I love this. Heroooo!!! Thank you for your service. Fuck that old scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 5 | How dare he?! 😂“Btw I have a new car for you to pay for.” Slayed me 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:25 AM |
| 35 | How dare he?! 😂Right. I fucking dumped him and never reached out to him again! Why would he EVER think this would fly? The day he totaled the car that was in my name and I knew insurance was paying for it I CRIED IN RELIEF because he NEVER had an excuse to talk to me again. Yet he gets dumped again and thinks I would be there for him? HAHA. Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:29 AM |
| 30 | How dare he?! 😂Right, like I would care even a little bit about his career or any other aspect of his life. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 56 | How dare he?! 😂He’s already blocked! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:02 PM |
| 128 | How dare he?! 😂Yes I blocked him after this! We were together 3 years and engaged, when I ended things I had no further contact with him except about a car loan that was in both of our names that he was late on constantly. He put me through the ringer and used my credit cards often and I had to pay it all off myself but I knew it was worth it to be away from him. I never looked at his social media a single time until my friend asked me how I felt about how fast he moved on. I had no idea what she was even talk… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 08:58 PM |
| 182 | Hollywood big shot started an acting school. Married one of his students when she was 16 and he 51.Her experience makes me really sad and I always feel a twinge of guilt for at one time believing that she was a trashy gold digger because that’s how she was portrayed in the media, instead of the groomed child that was failed by her parents and over sexualized and then sold off to a rich man. She was a pretty child who had her life stolen from her before she was old enough to consent to it. I hope she finds peace. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 11:35 AM |
| 82 | The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄Definitely much more stressful than raising kids and a manchild. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:06 AM |
| 132 | The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄I unmatched so fast I barely remembered to screenshot for FDS lol 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:00 AM |
| 16 | Is anyone else getting checked out by desperate men on public transport that think they're invisible if their mask covers their mouth and nose? I can see your eyes you pervert!I went to an outdoor event on Sunday and was wearing a mask and sunglasses when some scrote screamed at me from 100 feet away “hey hot girl in the red dress- do you want a coffee?!?!” It was literally 95 degrees outside and it was so embarrassing because I was there because my work hosted the event and I was around so many of my coworkers! Nothing is more uncomfortable than being leered at though. It’s not flattering, it’s objectifying and creepy. I’m so glad I don’t have to take public transpor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:46 AM |
| 19 | I think I was taken advantage of.I second this. Start a paper trail, take plan B, and keep your friends in the loop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 06:14 PM |
| 31 | I’m quitting birth control.I am also child free and love this perspective. I have already decided I won’t marry anyone unless they are willing to get a vasectomy, because long term commitment to me means long term commitment to avoiding pregnancy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:25 PM |
| 3 | A local DJ posted this one 😂 she followed it up with a definition of negging.The girl who posted it is a super popular local radio DJ. No idea what the guy does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:25 PM |
| 74 | A local DJ posted this one 😂 she followed it up with a definition of negging.Do yOu LiKe ThE mOvIe ThE nOtEbOoK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:47 PM |
| 33 | A local DJ posted this one 😂 she followed it up with a definition of negging.I doubt she responded, she seems very classy and probably would fit in well here. But I definitely chuckled seeing this reposted on her story with a big flashing “NAH” gif and then a definition of negging so her other followers knew what he was trying to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:46 PM |
| 15 | This snaggle toothed little bitchI saw it in a Facebook group about red flags 😂 I hope someone reported it though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:05 AM |
| 31 | ** TRIGGER WARNING ** We mean nothing to them.Or heaven forbid, “daughter” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:07 PM |
| 106 | Yesterday, I was literally surprised that a attractive man hold the door for meThis is really really sad. Doors should be held open for anyone who needs the door held open for them. The fact that you anticipate a man, attractive or not, to NOT hold the door open is just a sign of how far our society has crumbled. I hope you realize your worth a bit more because even if you’ve gained some weight I’m sure you’re still a beautiful and amazing person and anyone decent is going to look beyond just your weight to treat you well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:23 PM |
| 57 | ** TRIGGER WARNING ** We mean nothing to them.Just pure disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:09 PM |
| 65 | Humanity and vulnerability and love = essentials during sexI’m sorry I keep posting passages from the same book! This is from “Untamed” by Glennon Doyle and it’s a passage on advice she gave to another mom who was worried that her middle school aged son was looking at porn on his phone. She really hit the nail on the head and I immediately thought of FDS’ perspective when I read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Lack of timely response = lack of respect and interestI keep my notifications off but I also have a job where my employees are in and out of my office and I’d rather them not know I use OLD apps. But I also check in private and contribute to conversations. I would agree with you for the most part though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | A message for lurkers....you're not the centre of our worldsEvery relationship I’ve ever been in I was over the breakup before it even occurred. Breakups just brought relief and a feeling like a weight was lifted, not real sadness, maybe a little sadness for the wasted time and effort. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 3 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”Let me know how you like it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 3 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”Let me know how you like it when you get it!! Would love to have someone to chat with about it 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:08 PM |
| 17 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”I love your perspective so much! I agree 100%. I wish it hadn’t taken so long for both of us to prioritize ourselves. ❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 66 | “A very effective way to control women is to convince women to control themselves.”From “Untamed” by Glennon Doyle. Great reading for any of you ladies looking for a new book! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Proving their point: Guy feels attacked on thread lamenting men's hygiene, says it is 'unfair' to claim that never washing one's hands is unhygienic. O.oWhat in the Dwight schrute is going on here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 97 | just... gross. “wE sHoUlD gEt LiT”ANY date with this fool is a no but a beach/pool date where we ~get lit~ is an extra extra extra no 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 35 | From “Untamed” by Glennon BoyleI’m about a quarter through this book so far and absolutely love everything about it. So refreshing to see a woman’s journey to live authentic. Highly recommend so far! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | What a lame way to ask a woman to continue conversation off an app. I’m not “snap messaging” a 35 year old. 🙄Love it! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:09 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend suggests a prenup to “protect” his house, OP drafts her own prenup that also protects her assets and investments. BF doesn’t like a prenup that doesn’t solely favor him and they break up.I was engaged to a LVM at one point. My younger brother is special needs and my parents have lived very frugally so they could leave me the money to take care of him for the rest of our lives when they die. When I told my ex that I wanted a prenuptial agreement to protect any inheritance I might get during our marriage just because I wanted to make sure my brother was protected he LOST IT. He kept saying he wasn’t trying to steal my money and that asking for a prenuptial agreement basically veri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:13 PM |
| 40 | What a lame way to ask a woman to continue conversation off an app. I’m not “snap messaging” a 35 year old. 🙄Snapchat has a reputation as being a platform for sexting or sending nudes or cheating because the messages and photos disappear when you open them. So Snapchat in my opinion is not really for getting to know someone. If someone asks for my Snapchat I don’t think they are mature enough to converse with honestly. Being an almost middle aged male and trying to add women on Snapchat is just sketchy and shows you aren’t looking for anything deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 01:36 AM |
| 99 | What a lame way to ask a woman to continue conversation off an app. I’m not “snap messaging” a 35 year old. 🙄Probably to cheat on a partner with less evidence hanging around | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:24 AM |
| 83 | What a lame way to ask a woman to continue conversation off an app. I’m not “snap messaging” a 35 year old. 🙄I responded “I don’t use Snapchat and I don’t give out my number unless it’s to confirm plans we have already made. I appreciate direct questions though and leaving it up to me to add you means I never will.” And unmatched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Help me break my Pick-me urges!It won’t feel like a date if you guys are doing the same things you already do just without other people. I agree with everyone saying you need a real date. If he suggests the same activity that he already does with his friends then he probably considers you a friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 124 | My mom sent me this. I thought it’d serve as a good reminder for everyone on this sub.100%! This is why you need to make sure you enjoy being with yourself so much that you never feel lonely. Self improvement will spare you so many bad relationships and so much wasted time on men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:39 PM |
| 85 | A HVW in my life gave me this book when I was younger and it helped ease me into ending a bad relationship with a LVM.From Wikipedia: “Dr. Dan Kiley popularised the Peter Pan syndrome in his 1983 book, The Peter Pan Syndrome: Men Who Have Never Grown Up, about individuals (usually male) with underdeveloped maturity; his next book, The Wendy Dilemma (1984), advises women romantically involved with "Peter Pans" how to improve their relationships.” Reading this book actually made it much easier for me to end this relationship with very little heartbreak for myself. I paid more attention to how his mother treated h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:19 PM |
| 3 | This is the kind of guy that would say "wOmEn aRe ToO pIcKy" despite listing TWENTY-NINE extremely specific things he wants in a woman...Damn, he’s manic pixie dream girl-ing HARD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:43 AM |
| 6 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.I think about this often too! I have an amazing father who I’m very close with. If he knew how men treated me most of the time he would want to go on a Rambo style spree 😂 if someone isn’t at least half as lovely as my dad, I don’t want them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:28 AM |
| 36 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Right!! And I said something along the lines of, I really don’t feel comfortable with that and take my sexual health really seriously. I told him I didn’t think we were a good fit and he backpedaled in person with similar things like “I’ve only been in two long term relationships” and “I’ve recently been tested” etc but he was obviously like... trying hard to sleep with me too? And if you’re trying so hard to sleep with me on the first date I HIGHLY doubt you have only had sex with two long term… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 39 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Okay so I probably should have told this whole story better because the reason this came up is sooo ridiculous. This happened in spring and I have bad seasonal spring allergies and I was all sniffly and when he asked me if I was sick I said that it was just allergies. Then, unprovoked, he said something along the lines of “oh that sucks, I don’t have any allergies except I used to tell people I was allergic to latex because I don’t really dig using condoms” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:59 AM |
| 19 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.The only single men who don’t sleep around are HVM (he is not), or such LVM that no woman wants them. I would MAYBE believe he is the second example but he was absolutely not the first example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 106 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.That’s what I did! Felt great | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 10:18 PM |
| 128 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.It actually was the span of like 10 minutes, me ignoring the first ones obviously pushed him over the edge lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 427 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Also, HE was the one who was much chubbier than his photos, extremely sweaty, shorter than his photos, etc. I was way out of his league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 62 | Just another tip for wading through the vast sea of garbage men on OLDAn “emotional rollercoaster” for a man is literally just like, more than 1 emotion. Women actually deal with emotional rollercoasters and handle it better than men handle the mental equivalent of the Ferris wheel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 10 | And where is the lie?😂 so true. You mean I have to comb my hair, brush my teeth, and put on clean clothes to get this woman who has maintained her figure, put effort into her appearance and spent more time than me getting ready I pay attention to me?! Fuck you feminism!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 15 | “I can’t think of a specific neg so I’m just going to keep it general.”Already did sister! 🙏🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 81 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.He also answered the question “which award should you be nominated for?” With “flirtest person” - yes, spelled like that. 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 66 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.It lives near me!! 😫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 47 | “I try to be very accommodating and low maintenance” RUN GIRL100% my first thought too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?I’m even more taken back by his audacity knowing that! I was already soooo far out of his league 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:00 PM |
| 15 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?You guys are so good at catching this! I was more just like... why is this guy asking a woman her AGE?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:23 PM |
| 29 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?I’m the highest boss in this store but if your surveys are too bad it can cost your company a lot of money because you can be penalized by the manufacturer. Plus reviews and that kind of thing are huge in this business and even social reviews are watched carefully by the manufacturer. My superiors/owners are definitely great at empowering me to make decisions but ultimately I don’t want to be in the position where I chase someone off who is paying our store for a service, ya know? Men should tak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 7 | *barf emojis everywhere*Unkempt scrote immediately jumps into talking about being horny in his OLD profile? You think that’s an appropriate way to represent your character when appealing to women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:47 PM |
| 44 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?I’m actually the manager here! That’s the most annoying part! I’m the one that has to deal with the complaint or the bad survey that comes through when his feelings get hurt and he blasts my dealership. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:45 PM |
| 81 | Does anyone else find it repulsive when men hit on you at your work?Ooh good call, I like your response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:27 PM |
| 30 | *barf emojis everywhere*Leprechaun cosplay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:00 AM |
| 30 | In addition to questioning my modesty he also told me I wasn’t submissive enough and that he thinks it’s fine to hit children. Dodged a bullet here 🙃If the choice is between yoga pants and a man I will literally always choose the yoga pants. ✌🏽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 9 | A quote to live by!Sending peace your way lady ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:10 PM |
| 39 | Bro either ask me out or don’t wydI wouldn’t even make it past “Soz” like he obviously can’t even use the word sorry, he will be nothing but disappointment at every turn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:09 PM |
| 58 | A quote to live by!I first saw this quote after a friend of mine did something especially heinous to me (slept with my boyfriend on my birthday, at my birthday party after I went to sleep) and it was the first time I was inspired to block and delete and never talk to either of them again. I just saw this again scrolling through my camera roll and thought it was a good reminder for all of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 123 | “I wAS GoInG tHrOuGh SoMe StUfF PeRsOnAlLy”barf emoji trio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 169 | “I wAS GoInG tHrOuGh SoMe StUfF PeRsOnAlLy”I know you’re not supposed to respond but I did block and delete immediately. He’s tried to reach out on every medium possible but I didn’t realize he hadn’t been deleted on this one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 15 | Has anyone seen Netflix Love on the Spectrum?I would watch it before you assume it was cringey. They actually had a woman dating coach come in that was working with them on being realistic, toning it down, and having respect for boundaries. They also had just as many women on the autism spectrum in the show and I think they did a pretty respectful job of showing the differences in struggles and not romanticizing it. They didn’t show them chasing after people who were uninterested, at one point she even helped one of them understand that he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:24 PM |
| 63 | Has anyone seen Netflix Love on the Spectrum?It was so striking because all the men put so much effort into their dates. They went to nice places, dressed extremely well, really tried very hard to be perfect gentleman. A lot of it was Jodi’s coaching and guidance but every single one of them said they wanted to be a husband. Wasn’t it Michael that talked about how the person he falls in love with will be the biggest treasure of his life? It was SO sweet. Some of it was awkward, but it was so genuine. I know I come from a different place of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Don’t ever let men tell you it’s your fault for getting raped. It has nothing to do with what you wore, said, past history, etc. Men will rape and abuse actual monkeys. (Warning, the story on this link is depraved and horrifying)I hope that poor baby finds peace. How depraved and horrendous can men be? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 02:21 AM |
| 59 | I’m so tired of the “all women are crazy” narrativeAlso idk how you all feel, but a man even watching the Bachelor is a red flag to me. A bunch of pickmes falling over themselves for one man? Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:13 PM |
| 20 | At least the comments were telling him how big of an asshole he is.No matter how damn good I make a salad, the restaurant salad is always better. Also “American” food? The girl knows what a damn burger tastes like, let her have her salad. What an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 02:44 PM |
| 52 | 10 years off and on... sis let it go.Yes, the amount of low effort and exceptionally low value proposal stories is insane. It’s full of women who need FDS. And ugh she totally does. Poor girl just seems... broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 03:04 AM |
| 10 | LVM dress low valueWhat the fuck, barf. Anyone who buys and wears that should be on a list somewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:28 PM |
| 14 | LVM dress low valueHaha probably! 😂 he was a doctor but I don’t care, I make my own money and being a doctor doesn’t mean you can disrespect me on a first date. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:18 PM |
| 20 | LVM dress low valueAte a nice dinner and finished my drink while being polite but ended things quickly. Then block & deleted! I thought about telling him that was inappropriate date attire but ultimately I’ll let him work out why it wasn’t a match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 46 | LVM dress low valueExactly. Also this was a first date AND a nice place. Not only was it low value but it was exceptionally embarrassing for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Here is the follow up to my post from last nightI’m dyingggg 😂 this is the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | What are your proudest dumping LVM moments?He didn’t have toilet paper and when I asked for toilet paper he went and got me his last roll of paper towels to wipe with. I took the paper towel roll and left with it straight from the bathroom. Then he didn’t have toilet paper or paper towels or a girlfriend. (He had many other flaws but for some reason making me wipe with a fucking off brand paper towel just drove me over the edge.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 04:22 AM |
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