paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩

Sage_Planter · 2020-10-31T04:35:02+00:00

How sad is it that he thinks it's too much intimacy to share his name, but it's totally fine to swap bodily fluids while risking STDs and pregnancy? What's worse is that we all know this is a pretty common attitude nowadays, not some odd fringe scenario.

How did we end up here as a society?

elainejay82 · 2020-10-31T05:55:28+00:00

I love that he equates knowing his name with swapping insurance policies.

Paultrick! What are you hiding?! I'm sure the list is extremely long.

randomdazee · 2020-10-31T04:29:30+00:00

Disclaimer: Saw this in a Facebook group, it is ABSOLUTELY not me. She should have blocked sooooo quick

bumbumboleji · 2020-10-31T05:17:57+00:00

So much of this going on with desperate COVID times, it’s like they are going through the list of contacts...circling back lol. Like “haaaaaayyyy remember we met 46 thousand years ago that one time? My pee pee wants a sucky” EWWWW.

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2020-10-31T04:46:50+00:00

Pretty soon we will be asking for ID to talk to a guy due to this shit.

moralxdilemma · 2020-10-31T04:31:38+00:00

*you're

ninetiesbaby16 · 2020-10-31T05:07:29+00:00

Ok Patrick Bateman

xdecadent · 2020-10-31T07:28:38+00:00

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Platipus6 · 2020-10-31T06:53:10+00:00

Mods can we have a rule that if you post a text exchange with red flags, you have to list & translate them to help women who can't see it yet?

We haven't talked in a long time-

Forced teaming, wistful, reminiscing as if you're old friends.

was thinking about you today

We interpret this in a positive way - aw how sweet. NOPE he didn't use the word "I". his dick was doing the thinking.

how are you?

Typical sandwich. He put the important (manipulation) parts at the beginning and end, and the part he doesn't give a shit about in the middle.

it's paul from x Casino

He uses the accurate location but a false name. He slips that in to confuse you - maybe YOU got his name wrong? Hell, maybe he can't even keep his own lies straight. If you let this lie slide he knows he's golden and the lies will never end. He knows you're easily gaslightable and willing to take the blame during "misunderstandings"

I met you and your cousin

More accurate memories to prod both recognition and confusion. Also familiarity (you have warm memories of being with your cousin, he's just sliding right in there) and delight. He remembered YOU and chose to contact YOU even though cousin was there (I assume female). Triangulation.

Confusing opening salvo

He bombed her with 5 things at once to confuse her, which one to pick? Relied on our forced socialization of politeness, expecting her to skip to the end of the paragraph and simply reply "oh yes, I remember, how are you?"

Gets called out. She clearly remembers everything

yes it is...

He knows there's no way he can gaslight this one. Pretends to be truthful wtf and ploughs on.

watcha up to

I don't actually give a fuck what you're up to lol. Are you willing to entertain me immediately.

Goddamn this btch isn't letting go of my fuckery

your a bore

Better insult her. The implication is that she's not "playing along" and "being a good sport" about his "jokes". Re-engage and earn his approval or he'll withdraw! panic!

Oh no she's still onto his shit. What a Queen

all I want to do is bang you

Minimizing what he's doing. The classic trio of abuse. Minimize, re-name and blame her. (If you've read the handbook, you know "just bang" is repulsive, demeaning and dangerous. It's not a compliment).

and you wanna swap life insurance policies

Maximizing and re-naming what she's doing so he can blame her and call her reaction as too much, out of proportion for the mild, safe, normal "just want to bang" he wanted. Wanting to be safe is ABSURD! A classic red p*ill tactic - amplify to ridiculous proportions to dismiss it. You're shamed into saying "well no I don't want to swap that much detail" and you drop the whole thing.

not interested

Here he goes, withdrawing his attention and approval, oh no! (Looking over his shoulder like a 3 year old as he promises to leave home lol)

2nd implication - he's not interested in your basic wish to know his real NAME because then you can find him again after the coercive sex. (If I can't get away with telling you a fake name and swinging around for a pump and dump, I'm not interested)

Ah, the coup de grace rejection from an amused, unbothered woman. A delicious retort to the "we need to check sexual compatibility" bullshit

manipulative men start their shit tests from day 1

UNeed2CalmDownn · 2020-10-31T07:30:12+00:00

Ew, what a douche. Why do some men feel entitled to speak this way to women?

Fucking Paultrick, man.

Averyhvw · 2020-10-31T05:10:55+00:00

Guys named Paul tend to suck, I can see why he’s trying to be a Patrick 😂

KitKat1705 · 2020-10-31T07:16:27+00:00

I love it when guys hit me up and are incredibly rude. Blocked and forgotten.

thinktwiceorelse · 2020-10-31T09:40:17+00:00

I swear if we had an audacity and a confidence men have, we'd rule the world by now.

apple_cores · 2020-10-31T08:44:55+00:00

Da fuck. This guy really thinks this shit will work? He sounds hideous

2020-10-31T13:24:04+00:00

This is where I haven't given a shit. If I know anything else about him.... This is when this is screen shotted and send to his friends and family via a DM. And most likely his boss if I know where he works.

DieIsaac · 2020-10-31T10:16:24+00:00

Typical LVM sadly the whole world is full of these idiots

Half_Halt · 2020-10-31T13:50:30+00:00

Alas, poor Paultrick. I knew him, Horatio...

🤣

discoveringliberty · 2020-10-31T12:03:55+00:00

The audacity in this one is strong.

FURYOFCAPSLOCK · 2020-10-31T16:26:58+00:00

Multiple false names. Such a great sign

Adawritesrules · 2020-10-31T21:40:17+00:00

Flip a coin. Heads rapist tails cheater.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-01T03:58:47+00:00

Paultrick 🤣🤦‍♀️

ChocolateBiscuit96 · 2020-11-01T13:16:47+00:00

Men love getting defensive when you call them out on their lies, and he really had no reason to lie about his name 🙄

im_made_of_pizza · 2020-11-01T14:00:49+00:00

🤮

sekhmetwisdom · 2020-11-06T05:08:05+00:00

I don't date any more but find myself on dating sites, I make sure to have them take a pic with them holding a pencil or pen ...and I return one .THIS eliminates the lies of looks . Also my profile says no hat pics or sunglasses I want to see them eyes.

Title	paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩
Author	randomdazee
Upvotes	412
Comments	66
Date	October 31, 2020 4:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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