👏🏽more repercussions for creeps👏🏽

sleepysiri · 2021-03-23T12:54:39+00:00

They have to pay the price OF HIS ACTIONS, did he forget that?

nothing998 · 2021-03-23T12:48:51+00:00

All this tells me is that all married women should be smart and make their own money in case their husband decides to be a sex pest and gets himself fired. Imagine if you had to rely on this man financially.

2021-03-23T13:03:15+00:00

at least over here we literally have to sign a contract saying we can't use any patient information we're given for literally anything other than work related stuff. he got himself fired for being a creepy fucktard. the fact he's creeping on patients while having a wife and kids makes it so much worse than it already is. hope he gets his ass divorced.

eatchickpeas · 2021-03-23T13:00:33+00:00

if ur married wtf are you doing hassling women you dont know at your workplace. why should she care if you lost ur job? i swear some men are so immune to their own stupidity its almost depressing

logickilledthecat · 2021-03-23T12:48:59+00:00

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Lavender_flow · 2021-03-23T13:03:59+00:00

This sounds so passive aggressive.

"Soooooo sooooooorrrrrry you were hurt, bitch. But now you ruined my wife's life and my kids' lives too. Hope you're happy. And I guess I'm sorry again."

The tone of this message is cold and he doesn't take responsibility for his action at all. Notice how he is pushing the blame on the woman who reported him too. This is a fake apology.

Edit: I work at a financial institution and I have access to all our members' information. Financial and personal. I would be fired in a heartbeat if I did this to a member of where I work. Which will never happen because I know how to not be a creep and it's so freaking weird to imagine propositioning a customer/member from my workplace. How did he not think this was wrong? Jesus.

HeavyMetalLobster · 2021-03-23T12:46:16+00:00

Tbh I would report this message too

What an idiot this guy is

pickadaisy · 2021-03-23T12:53:14+00:00

We will not be bullied into silence!

ivarteefies · 2021-03-23T12:51:29+00:00

Hopefully he continues to pay the price by being taken to the cleaners in a divorce. What an absolute shit thing to do to your wife and family. he never considered their wellbeing in acting unprofessionally to satisfy his pp.

Woman_on_Pause · 2021-03-23T13:10:21+00:00

Men take a lot of things.
Responsibility isn't one of them.

K0rla · 2021-03-23T12:55:13+00:00

Maybe don’t be a creep at work not to lose your livelihood? There are no repercussions for being a creep if you don’t behave like one.

CowgirlMolly · 2021-03-23T12:55:59+00:00

He keeps saying ‘my kids and my family’ instead of ‘my kids and my wife’ lol yeah buddy

TheFinalGirl_21 · 2021-03-23T12:56:54+00:00

What the HIPAA?! I hope she sued, also.

Pasdepromesses · 2021-03-23T13:23:03+00:00

"I'm sorry you did that to them too".

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-23T13:10:16+00:00

I feel like these posts should be posted with a picture of the person in question that did it, so everyone can publicly ridicule the fuck out of these perverts. Maybe a NSFW reddit called "outing creeps, its my kink, dont kinkshame" I mean clearly reddit is fine with peoples nudes being shared with 0 consent and promoting rape. But I guess outing creeps like that would be "crossing a line"

akashyaboa · 2021-03-23T13:17:19+00:00

Oh no, your family has to pay the price of your lack of professionalism. Should have thought about it before choosing to behave like a creep. You family is paying the price of your own choices as it's not a stranger's responsability to look out after you and your family.

2021-03-23T13:31:06+00:00

And even after being fired he still had the utter audacity to send her yet ANOTHER message. He hasn’t learned and shouldn’t be allowed to work in the medical profession, where privacy is key.

volcanic_equation · 2021-03-23T12:54:15+00:00

I can’t with this. So having children means that he can’t ever be held accountable for any wrong doing?

Sir, you cost yourself your own job for choosing to cross a serious line. Blame yourself for the repercussions of your actions. Think about your family, the next time you get the urge to creep on a patient.

He’s acting like a teen who got fired from their job at the Olive Garden, for taking too long to bring Karen her iced tea. Not the same thing, my dude.

taschana · 2021-03-23T13:33:18+00:00

After this message, you should find his wife's number and tell her she should make him stop texting you. Didn't he get the message when being fired for contacting people that don't want or should be contacted? How dense is he?

tallwomenneedlovetoo · 2021-03-23T13:14:19+00:00

Lawyers are so fucking skeevy that we had to make professional ethics rules specifically about NOT using sex as payment for services and also about how it’s okay to continue to sleep with clients as long as the relationship started before the representation. And even then, that rule only came in around 2002 in the US. 🤮

Conversely, doctors, social workers, psychiatrists and other medical professionals including massage therapists have ALWAYS had that bar on the patients themselves and their family members.

Taking all that into account, consider how brazen this scrote was to actually ADD her on social media instead of just doing the standard scrote-lurk. I’d be willing to bet she’s not the first woman he pulled this shit with if he was that fucking confident.

logickilledthecat · 2021-03-23T13:11:59+00:00

L M F A O

Ruby_5lipper · 2021-03-23T13:41:21+00:00

Ugh. What a fucking creep.

favoritesound · 2021-03-23T13:43:08+00:00

He’s not sorry. He’s just looking to blame others. Sounds like the typical person who doesn’t take responsibility. He SHOULD be fired. Patient confidentiality is important.

superderpina_ · 2021-03-23T13:45:31+00:00

Sis did the right thing

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-03-23T13:48:31+00:00

His OWN actions got him and his family where he is today. Also why add radom girls on FB when you have a loving family?

Gerltofen · 2021-03-23T13:42:53+00:00

That's what you get for being a creep

purasangria · 2021-03-23T13:47:16+00:00

What an asshole. They always manage to make themselves into the victim.

minti1994 · 2021-03-23T13:51:33+00:00

I wish I had her courage.

One of the instructors at the gym got my number from their files. He was smart enough to text me after he quit his job there. I stopped going there because I didn't want him to find me outside, I should have done more.

Scotsburd · 2021-03-23T13:50:48+00:00

I'm going to let you know the disaster you caused me bitch but I'm scared you go to the Police, so I'm giving plausible deniability by typing the word sorry.

Fkthekirit · 2021-03-23T13:59:35+00:00

Yes because it’s always the patients fault when a pervert healthcare worker stalks his patient online breaking ethics codes he sweated by to be accepted into this profession. Men are volatile and untrustworthy. This is why medical professionals should be women primarily. Not the other way around.

Worldly_Sell · 2021-03-23T12:58:50+00:00

I honestly don’t know how to feel about this. This is weird as hell. I can’t imagine any of my doctors adding me to their social media. The audacity....

Can someone explain to me how he got fired tho? Im ignorant about the law he violated. I’m assuming they actually spoke to each other and then he added her later. Also assuming he did not disclose personal information, how is it a violation of privacy?

MeanWhatISay · 2021-03-23T12:55:20+00:00

“My kids and family apologize for the inconvenience as well”. I am sure they don’t, but you obviously need to make it seem like you are a “nice, repenting family guy”, by playing the emotional card. I feel bad for his children.

PartySong · 2021-03-23T13:34:28+00:00

"And I have such poor judgement and self-control that I'm continuing to contact you because I'm incapable of learning my lesson and shutting tf up."

I'm worried he's not going to leave that woman alone now, since he places all of the blame for his professional ethics violation on her.

spicypng · 2021-03-23T13:50:13+00:00

"Your call ended up getting me fired" lmao NO, you got yourself fired

fairywakes · 2021-03-23T14:11:16+00:00

That was certainly no apology at all! Be creepy, get fucked dude! Leave us women alone, we want medical treatment not a professional to stalk us!

Impossible_Parfait21 · 2021-03-23T13:17:51+00:00

Well well well, if it isn't the consequences of his own actions! Maybe next time he'll think of his "kids and family" first before violating someone's privacy.

bleda_princezna · 2021-03-23T12:47:24+00:00

Damn, some people just can't take responsibility for their actions, can they?

Sonshinesas54 · 2021-03-23T13:52:35+00:00

UGH, these men kill me. Point the finger at anyone else but themselves. Had a service man at a car dealership I took my car to decide he would try for a date and got my info from the file and called me. I lost my chit on him and ask WTH he thought he was taking my personal information for his own gain? He was shocked at my response!? I should had reported it to his employer. Crazy weirdos just sitting in wait.

Villanelloh · 2021-03-23T14:17:06+00:00

He doesn't give a damn about his kids otherwise he would not have risked his job for such a stupid reason

DallasM19 · 2021-03-23T15:00:34+00:00

Much more minor than this, a (male) server at a restaurant I used to love to go to and was a regular at, found me on FB and messaged me, asking me out. I called and spoke to the (male) owner, who thought it was funny. Lovely. The server was very rude to me upon my next visit, so I stopped going.

Another place I used to enjoy - the owner did the same thing. Found me on FB, asked me to hang out.

I'm so sick of guys like that ruining things for us. I enjoy my own company - me taking myself for a meal or drink isn't an opportunity for owners or staff to "shoot their shot". Leave me alone.

KateJ1982 · 2021-03-23T14:35:20+00:00

Woah, talk about taking no responsibility for his own unprofessional, unethical actions! This sounds very threatening. I hope you forwarded this message to his former employer, it will confirm for them that they did the right thing and dodged a major bullet.

If you haven't already, please file both the original complaint and a copy of this message with your state board of pharmacy (or whatever the equivalent is if you're not in the U.S.). This guy shouldn't have access to humans at all, much less their medical records.

Title	👏🏽more repercussions for creeps👏🏽
Author	randomdazee
Upvotes	555
Comments	73
Date	March 23, 2021 12:35 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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