Original Post:

Everything Men’s Rights Activists label as “female privilege” is really patriarchy backfiring against men.

The gender-specific rule that men shouldn’t hit women is caused by the misogynistic belief that women are fragile.

The belief that men can’t be raped is caused by the belief that men always want sex and the belief that men must always be strong, which are the same gender norms that enable men to sexually harass women.

The belief that all men are rapists is caused by the misogynistic belief that a woman who is quick to trust a man is asking for it.

The belief that statutory rape is worse with an older man and a younger woman than with an older woman and a younger man is caused by the misogynistic belief that society must protect female virginity.

Custody favoring the mother is caused by the misogynistic belief that taking care of the kids is a woman’s job.

The fact that only men can be drafted is caused by the misogynistic belief that women are too weak for combat. Also, most feminists are against the draft.

The belief that the man must pay for the date is caused by the misogynistic belief that women are helpless and need men to do everything for them, and it’s often used as a way to guilt-trip her into having sex.

Feminists don’t support any of those. All of those are caused by patriarchy. Men’s Rights Activists can stop blaming feminists for the problems that patriarchy causes.

My Reply:

I’m sorry but no,

because the Men’s Rights Movement (MRM) is so much more that that.

The belief that all men are rapists is caused by the misogynistic belief that a woman who is quick to trust a man is asking for it. No its caused by women saying all men are rapists. And don’t label all men as these “sexual beings who are only looking for a woman to get him off” because you must not know men very well if you really believe that. Very little men actually think that a woman who is quick to trust is asking for it. You are generalizing. In fact most of the things in here if not all are generalizing.

You know why I need MRAs and the MRM, its because i am scared to death that one day a girl that I am with or dating is going to say if I don’t get her something or do something than she is going to tell everyone that I raped her or she is going to punch herself and say I hit her. Because that happens a LOT. and guess what, no one ever believes the men.

The fact that a woman can put a hole in a condom or steal sperm, get pregnant and force the man to be a father, while there is a movement country wide to allow women to get an abortion if she doesn’t want to be a mother. Why is it that women get that choice but men don’t? If I don’t want to be a dad yet, I can be forced into it , either help raise it or be forced to pay every month for 18 years because she poked a hole in the condom. THAT is why I am an MRA because that is messed up. Oh and if I lose my job and can’t pay child support I go to jail, can’t pay even further, lose everything I have, gets put on my criminal record and my credit report and get labeled a deadbeat dad for the rest of my life.

The fact that I can get married then the woman can get bored and decide to take half of everything I have and then demand payment from me for a long time, and I legally have to do it…

This is the world we live in, and This is the world that is pushing more and more men to be afraid of commitment and afraid of relationships, and you wonder where all the nice guys went.