Thomas James Ball ( no need to link to this one as we all know who he is ) a man so traumatised by being the victim of domestic violence he killed himself ( http://samuelobour.com/2012/06/08/man-commits-suicide-after-his-wife-beat-him-up-in-public/ ) and a young man commits suicide after he was raped in prison ( http://www.dailymotion.com/video/xabx0e_young-man-commits-suicide-after-tor_news ) I at more than a few points when i was at home as a teen suffering abuse tried to add my name to that list , tried a few more times when the bi polar became a real issue in my life.

Now we are not going to use the tried and tested feminist cop out phrase of oppresion olympics here , the point behind posting these is simple, people commit suicide , and you cannot stop someone who really wants to do it , they dont tell you , they dont give time to help or even a way of stopping it , they die.

If Krista is dead she is dead because she chose this , she put herself out there saying things that were evil, she advocated a lot of things that were sick at the very least and worthy of the feminist hall of fame hate category at best but by her own admission she did what she did because of her own wants and needs , and they were selfish , let us not forget that this is someone who wrote on her child and posted pictures of her , the child is the one who deserves the thoughts not the parent.

Im worried as this is something that some are going to use as a tool to try and beat us over head with and it is majorly, majorly important that we do not stop challenging people who promote hatred in there words and actions , we cannot tread on eggshells and let them do what they want with impunity based on a what if , this creature, and i use the term because to me any parent who abuses a child in any way is less than human put hatred of people based on a defining characteristic on the web , on a public forum and everyone has the right to challenge this, we have the right to speak out against what is wrong , its not something we have to deny if we dont challenge things like this it becomes normal.

No matter what crap krista and her kin will throw at us , we havent done a damn thing wrong, be it here or at avfn .