If a woman's not attracted to you, she's not attracted to you, end of story. (xpost from TwoX) Thoughts?

misseff · 2012-02-23T06:42:31+00:00

I find it to be somewhat true, in that a "nice guy" isn't entitled to a relationship. That being said, when a woman starts to basically use the guy for things, knowing he likes her, but "We're just friends!" that's when it gets out of line. But as Exaliftin said, just as a guy being emotionally nice to a girl doesn't entitle him to a relationship, having sex with a guy doesn't entitle a woman to one either.

IHaveALargePenis · 2012-02-23T15:57:58+00:00

That's fine, I just hate it when women complain about men not liking fat girls. But then they turn around and treat men like a checklist.

TheDongerNeedsFood · 2012-02-23T04:49:55+00:00

Yes, feeling entitled to something you don't have definitely makes you an asshole, and I genuinely agree with that. However, tell this to a woman who feels like she is owed a relationship just because she gave up the pussy, and you are still labeled as a misogynist or whatever. Some people are so inconstant and hypocritical with their beliefs that it's despicable.

dakru · 2012-02-23T03:37:14+00:00

I'm bothered by the hatred of the friend-zoned nice guys. They're not entitled assholes, they're hopeless romantics who have all of the pressure of making the relationship but no confidence, experience or knowledge to actually make it. And so they get frustrated. Some women might not understand this frustration, because for them, if they don't make a relationship happen, there's a good chance someone else will. Guys don't have this luxury.

V_Ajra · 2012-02-23T04:01:50+00:00

Ah, beta-hate. Some women exude so much of this you can smell it through their pores.

gprime · 2012-02-23T07:57:59+00:00

Well, my first thought is that it'd be a stretch to even call this tangentially related to the actual purpose of this subreddit.

misseff · 2012-02-23T02:45:25+00:00

Beating a dead horse, just like most comments on TwoX said. I think this one said it best. Also, literally literally, literally.

ExistentialEnso · 2012-02-23T02:46:01+00:00

Seems to be a good critique of white knighting.

C0CKPUNCHER · 2012-02-23T07:50:16+00:00

It's impossible to argue about the exact nature of the faeries that live in someone's head.

boywizard · 2012-02-23T20:52:57+00:00

I hate the friendzone label because now it means so many things, but typically women choose the worst case and apply it to all friendzones.

Title	If a woman's not attracted to you, she's not attracted to you, end of story. (xpost from TwoX) Thoughts?
Author	fogu
Upvotes	11
Comments	37
Date	February 23, 2012 1:19 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/q1sep/if_a_womans_not_attracted_to_you_shes_not/
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