I'm an RN in a hospital, a CNA floated from another hospital to our unit, she was cute and petite and seemed smart(find out she is in nursing school). I asked her number and set up a dinner date after work. Sat outside at a table since it was nice and it allowed me to sit closer at the corner rather than across from her, allowed me to touch her.
I turned the conversation sexual, basically mentioned I couldn't grow a full beard and if I don't date a girl that doesn't shave her bush I'll never know what one feels like. She thought it was hilarious and talked about how she gets hers waxed. I touched her tattoos(foot/thigh). Made fun of her tiny feet and played with her toes (I'm 6'4 shes 5'2 and wore sandles so my hand was bigger) she loved it. Generally she laughed a lot, played with her hair a lot, good eye contact and was receptive to any touch. It went well.
Held her hand back to her car and before I could even try to kiss her she tells me, "It's ok if this is a deal breaker for you but I am a christian girl and so are my parents. I had a bad experience and I'm not having sex again until marriage. It's been three years."
I took a couple seconds to digest that, I told her I didn't share those beliefs and asked her how many vibrate batteries have she blown through since then. She laughed and said none. I hugged her and told her to drive safe and I left. Today I texted her "Unfortunate you had a bad experience but thanks for not leading me on" She replied with a generic statement about not wasting people's time because she doesn't like hers wasted. Then I replied, "How you gonna drive a car without buying it though?" No response to that yet.
Should I just drop this girl? What's the best way to play this in the future? I don't believe for a second she hasn't had sex.
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