28 year old from India . I've been seeing this guy on and off for the past one year, we met on Tinder. Due to strict quarantine rules our meetings used to be at his place, and now mine after I moved into my own apartment. He used to stay in my city when we first met. Then with multiple lockdowns he moved back to another city with his mother and sister, quoting that he would not want to be stranded here in case of another lockdown (it can get pretty strict in India). Now I work 6 days a week, leaving home at 7.30 and reaching back at 7, sometimes 8. He is aware of this schedule and how i want to restrict our dates to weekends. Today he messaged me saying he's in town, "let's meet tomorrow 😋" I said, not on weekdays. He expressed some sympathy for my tiring schedule and said he's here for two days (with that big eyed face emoji 🥺). I asked him why, he said his car has to be serviced. (Not even here to visit me). He said he would extend his stay but he has early morning cricket with the boys over the weekend, shy face emoji 🤭). He then sent me a screenshot of the boys' group planning their games, and captioned it "guys 😂".

I ignored the rest of the messages, hope he gets the message. He ain't the one. If he can't sacrifice his weekend for me, I am not sacrificing a second of my very disciplined schedule for him.

Apologies for the idiotic emojis, they are direct quotes.