Thoughts on r/femaledatingstrategy

a-man-from-earth · 2021-05-19T22:40:50+00:00

Removed as low-effort and rage bait (rule 11). FDS is an obviously misandrist sub. And that's all we need to say about it.

fruitypopin · 2021-05-19T16:17:05+00:00

It's incredibly sexist and the only reason reddit allows it is because apparently 'sexism against men doesn't exist'. It'll eat itself up someday so it's better not to give it attention.

Omoikane13 · 2021-05-19T16:02:15+00:00

Do you feel that it's just just filled with misandry and sexism?

Yeah, that seems pretty dead on to me. If you're cooking up your own specific community slurs for a gender, you're not a non-sexist group.

TEL-CFC_boi · 2021-05-19T16:28:38+00:00

I spent 10 seconds on there, and already I want to cleanse my brain from their misandrist filth

Skirt_Douglas · 2021-05-19T16:20:32+00:00

You’re setting the bar way to low if you seriously think they have some good posts there. It’s complete gutter trash, the lot of it. They are Redpill for women. Men are ATMs, and a woman’s purpose to score the man with the deepest pockets, and a man’s purpose is to empty those pockets for her. There are no redeeming qualities there, they are literally walking diarrhea.

AmericanBoy505 · 2021-05-19T18:12:32+00:00

They’re literally the most misandristic subreddit of all time.

2021-05-19T16:48:43+00:00

Many have misandrist tendencies, and they won't help men anyways, so why care about them?

ByronsLastStand · 2021-05-19T17:47:33+00:00

"You will never find a more wretched hive of scum and villainy" came to mind as an artful way of putting it

RingosTurdFace · 2021-05-19T19:45:51+00:00

It’s a bunch or sociopaths with zero empathy and the female equivalent of an incel (admittedly they can probably get sex, just not with a man they feel of high value for themselves).

If it was a subreddit for men, it would have been quarantined/shit down ages ago.

ferahm · 2021-05-19T22:03:35+00:00

They are basically toxic black femcels/inspins venting about how they can't get in a relationship.

They don't even try to self improve, they just stay perpetually angry and do nothing about their situation.

Mustbeaight · 2021-05-19T16:35:47+00:00

Tbh their existence isn’t surprising.. and atleast they don’t hide their motives and try to virtue signal.. unlike menslib.. I hate menslib with a passion.. it’s easily 10 times worse than FDS.. and that says a lot.. nothing Fds says can make me angry as much as menslib..

Ein_Sam_Kite · 2021-05-19T19:43:50+00:00

Even some feminists find them repulsive for misandry, which should tell you all you need to know about them.

Tank-o-grad · 2021-05-19T16:12:47+00:00

Worse in its excesses than the red pill or mgtow, easily as bad as incel but because they hate the right group they're allowed to continue.

reverbiscrap · 2021-05-19T17:15:03+00:00

It's likely going to be banned soon, so laugh and grow rich.

PsychologicalInjury2 · 2021-05-19T16:20:06+00:00

Wolves do not concern themselves with the opinions of sheep.

Ok-Dragonfruit-697 · 2021-05-19T20:39:36+00:00

It's an imitation of male incel forums. Women often mimic men.

thatonealtchick · 2021-05-19T19:30:40+00:00

as a woman, we don't claim them

BloomingBrains · 2021-05-19T22:45:43+00:00

I'm sort of new to them, but what little I have seen makes me think they are basically the female version of MGTOW. For instance, a quick trawl through their sidebar and FAQs told me that they are very anti-fuckboi/PUA, which I would normally find very admirable. On the surface they seem to present as women that want to be treated well and not taken advantage of for sex. But theory is often very different from reality. I also saw plenty of stuff like "never pay for dates" etc. and other methods of outright promoting aggressively hypergamous mating strategies.

So in the end, they basically encourage traditional gender roles that harm both women and men. The same way a lot of MGTOW guys are men who got hurt by women in divorce courts, and think they are all selfish parasites, I feel like a lot of FDS users are women who got hurt by fuckbois and now believe ALL men are like that. AMALT, if you will. And when you think that kind of cynical way, it justifies any sort of sexism, which is what we see with both groups.

There are definitely some potential insights to be found there, but unfortunately it is buried in lots of radical ideology swinging too far the other way.

2021-05-19T16:46:10+00:00

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Title	Thoughts on r/femaledatingstrategy
Author	DokiMin
Upvotes	15
Comments	27
Date	May 19, 2021 3:48 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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