Why play hard to get when you are in a relationship???

awsumsauce · 2021-03-28T06:13:40+00:00

Why do so many women play the silent game? It never works, It just builds resentment and distrust.

How the fuck are guys supposed to know what they did wrong if you wont tell them!?

(Edit this is now my top upvoted comment on reddit. So I will say this, if your girl/wife or sister/mother pulls this stunt on you? Tell them they are being immature and you will not play this game. COMMUNICATION IS KEY for any sort of relationship. They are completely removing the very first and vital step for improvement.)

P.S? I'm not saying guy's don't do this, but compared to women? They are the main offenders.

You have feelings and worth my friends, don't let anyone make you feel like shit.

mrinkyface · 2021-03-28T07:06:00+00:00

When you don’t show up for 2 weeks at work without notice and you expect to keep your job

dae_giovanni · 2021-03-28T02:24:14+00:00

r/winstupidprizes

HiramNinja · 2021-03-28T11:34:22+00:00

...psycho-ex blew me off for three weeks, told me she "needed space." After three weeks, she figured it out when I changed my FB status to "single" and blew my phone up...I asked her, how long did you expect me to wait? "However long it takes," she tells me.

Nope.

But I was the asshole. OK.

Evonos · 2021-03-28T09:28:17+00:00

Literarily every women in the female dating strategy sub "why does my shitty or borderline abusive dating not work?!"

SystemFolder · 2021-03-28T07:34:41+00:00

Don’t play hard to get if you don’t bring anything to the table.

KingMysoFutureHdrx · 2021-03-28T05:10:46+00:00

Probably read it somewhere in a forum or on a dating video. You played yourself

HoneyGunner007 · 2021-03-28T10:23:38+00:00

She literally ghosted him. I don’t think she understands that most men take the L /rejection in their stride. So my guy bounced back real quick

Pilotboi · 2021-03-28T08:11:53+00:00

Her friend is a good candidate for r/femaledatingstrategy

Nephty23 · 2021-03-28T12:29:50+00:00

a very close friend of mine was in a relationship, and all of a sudden his girlfriend somehow dissapeared, after a week, she said "we'll talk in a week" and the next week she still didn't show up. Another week later, she finally comes to speak with him, she says horrible stuff like "you're hiding your real face behind a mask" "you're a sadistic manipulative person" while he has been standing there for THREE WEEKS without any information. He just dropped her and all their group of friend did the same, so he lost like 6 or 7 friends and his girlfriend. But damn is he better now, without that motherfucker of a girl and thoses hypocrites. She gets what she fucking deserves

Ullyr_Atreides · 2021-03-28T02:48:21+00:00

Lmao. Get rekt thot

mmkzero0 · 2021-03-28T07:55:16+00:00

You are in a relationship. How the fuck dare you to not reply to your partner, let alone have no communication at all? I would be worried sick if I didn’t hear from my SO in two weeks.

Not only is this incredibly immature, but also godawful and a major breach of trust. I too would be pissed, if not end the relationship.

Edit: I should retract my last sentence. Ofc I‘d never straight up end the relationship without talking it out first. Communication is so damn important.

Yeast760 · 2021-03-28T10:08:25+00:00

the fuck did she expect

d_nijmegen · 2021-03-28T02:13:31+00:00

Finally something that sort of fits the sub

doonspriggan · 2021-03-28T09:41:54+00:00

Life's too short to play games people.

bubblebubz · 2021-03-28T08:57:16+00:00

Play stupid games winstupid prizes.

Tbh can't comprehens why anybody would play such a game with someone they care about. I would instantly be done. But maybe some people enjoy the power? Narcissistic ;)

Jonthux · 2021-03-28T08:34:01+00:00

What a chad

funjunkie1 · 2021-03-28T10:18:22+00:00

I would love to see the replies to this. Lol

fata1w0und · 2021-03-28T12:27:37+00:00

No response for 3 or 4 days I’m assuming it’s over and I’ve been ghosted.

panzerox123 · 2021-03-28T14:40:56+00:00

As a great man once said, "You can't play hard to get when you're hard to want"

IFightBitchesToo · 2021-03-28T07:49:34+00:00

Stupid Bitch!

Teknikal69 · 2021-03-28T11:18:29+00:00

Don't blame him if I was with a woman who did this I'd take it as being ghosted, best case scenario she's probably cheating so that's a nope from me.

LordRedBear · 2021-03-28T13:00:11+00:00

I woulda payed to see her face after she found out lol

LanderG34 · 2021-03-28T08:24:50+00:00

stupid woman

6footgeeks · 2021-03-28T12:01:07+00:00

The whole make him wait business.

Had a girl do the whole, no sex till the third month. To which I said, ok, so I'm just going to go have sex with other women for three months.

That was another argument all together.

fantarts · 2021-03-28T12:29:09+00:00

Im a dude. Im the one liking her. We got into relationship. So the ratio of passion is like 60:40 or maybe 70:30. Usually i got my reply late or the reply is short. So one day i do that to her. I reply her message 1 day late like her. 3 days later she ask for a break. The end.

SabrielRaziel · 2021-03-28T13:02:38+00:00

She didn’t play hard to get, she played hard to want

Arnoux · 2021-03-28T11:43:00+00:00

Probably she broke up with him in her mind, that is why she did not reply. Got pump and dumped by another male. Then wanted her ex back and said I did not answer only because I wanted to teach a lesson. So she won’t look like a whore

monk201 · 2021-03-28T10:58:31+00:00

Does this work for men if I ignore her for two weeks will she go away or is this a women the monk would like to know

marceusaurelious · 2021-03-28T15:34:49+00:00

She got what she fucking deserved. LOL

BarklyWooves · 2021-03-28T10:56:07+00:00

Giving them time to miss you is real to an extent, but it's more like "don't be needy af and initiate texting conversations 10x per day"

TreeChangeMe · 2021-03-28T10:49:32+00:00

Women, why do you do this shit? Also. When you break up for whatever reason you don't need to tell everyone I am diseased or crazy or whatever. Just go, move on. No need to hate.

2021-03-28T12:38:20+00:00

Wtf?

JustTheRegularOtaku · 2021-03-28T15:03:38+00:00

Distance isn't good because "out of sight out of mind"

gjvf · 2021-03-28T15:48:12+00:00

2 weeek no contact in a relationship? You had it coming.

Frontfart · 2021-03-28T16:01:07+00:00

Because women play games in relationships.

maskup73 · 2021-03-28T16:15:24+00:00

i play the silent game back too .. fuck em .. if i see a woman doing it -- ill return the favor which drives her mad .. but ill be sure to get a last word in so its her fault :)

robjmcm · 2021-03-28T16:16:39+00:00

Good lmaooooooooooo

SealTheHeavens · 2021-03-28T16:44:47+00:00

As someone who's a true introvert and places her privacy on a very high pedestal, I've never needed more than a day or two to reset myself. If you need a whole week away from your significant other, you're either cheating or your personality is so twisted its not worth trying to resolve.

Jordanmac7 · 2021-03-28T16:45:30+00:00

Had a girlfriend in college I was dating for 6 months up and do this. Straight up emotional abuse

NekoStar · 2021-03-28T16:52:06+00:00

So one of my exes told me that they basically want to be shown that you appreciate/love them pretty much every day with their little games like that. Like you have to win their affection each day cuz if you don't it means you don't love them. Wasn't long after that convo we broke up.

2021-03-28T17:10:04+00:00

And girls playing these ridiculous games is why I'm glad to be single.

escalopes · 2021-03-28T14:26:50+00:00

No pussypass attempt here, just stupid tricks that some idiots believe

Ciocomo · 2021-03-28T15:48:08+00:00

A couple weeks ago I asked a girl out. we were already chatting. said I tihnk she is a nice beautiful person would she want to go out w me someday.? I am gonna coppy paste her exact answer right here: She said:

dukunt · 2021-03-28T16:20:46+00:00

I was seeing this woman and she was getting pretty mean. We had some arguments and I said something along the lines of "either change your attitude or I'm going to leave". She replied with "well I don't want anything from you anyways except friendship and for you to help me with things blah blah blah.." she was a single mom surprise surprise. So I left and blocked her on social media. Before I could block her on my phone she sent me a message saying that She really liked me but at least now she can get over me..

I don't play stupid mind games. She sent me a friend request on Facebook 4 months later under a new account. I just told her that I'm done with her. I had already had sex with her. The challenge was gone. She had nothing left to offer me. I sure as hell don't want her as a friend. I don't need friends like that.

WhiteHattedRedditor · 2021-03-28T16:21:12+00:00

I was with a Greek girl once, we started a relationship and after 3 days, she ignores me for 3-4 months.

Jsl50xReturns · 2021-03-28T16:26:00+00:00

Life is stressful enough. Having to chase after someone who’s supposed to be your “other half” is just not worth it.

It doesn’t matter if they’re incredibly hot, or if they have the exact same interests as you. If you two don’t make a great team, find someone else.

Took me forever to finally realize this.

Nookon-san · 2021-03-28T16:26:08+00:00

I swear i hate people like these, my first ever girlfriend did this to me and like and Idiot I actually fell for it twice, first time lasted like a month, and the second time it was turning on three months until I was done with all her bullshit and broke up with her, still the best day of my life when i did. She was really toxic and abusive to young me

Strypes4686 · 2021-03-28T16:58:12+00:00

Men don't play games. Best dating advice? Straight,to the point and be crystal clear.

Skyleena101 · 2021-03-28T17:32:58+00:00

I’m so glad my ex is out of the picture. He played so many games. Made up every excuse in the book and now he’s just a deadbeat. So really I’ve never been more happier 😃

Curia-DD · 2021-03-28T14:13:45+00:00

Why is she laughing, what kind of friend is she?? Not the kind I want

Title	Why play hard to get when you are in a relationship???
Author	tech510
Upvotes	11134
Comments	253
Date	March 28, 2021 1:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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