I would like to compile a list of terms and phrases that we have heard women use in the past to watch out for when attempting to find a long term relationship. Many of us would like to get married even though its highly controversial within the red pill. Please do not turn this into a debate for or against marriage in the comments.

To start, Ill state a few. I will add more from whatever gets commented to a larger edited list within this post

  1. "Seeing" - When a woman uses the phrase "this guy I was seeing," "When I was seeing this guy," "A guy I used to see," etc, she is essentially announcing that she used to be or still is a slut. Why? Because none of these men were her boyfriends. These were all men that she was fucking short term (definitely under 1 year, likely under 6 months). The term "boyfriend" is a positive because it indicates that she may be capable of long term relationships. "Seeing" indicates a season pass to the cock carousel
  2. "Im usually not like this" - She is always like this. Ive heard this term consistently used within the first 3 dates from sluts. She is stating this phrase as an anti slut defense to portray innocence because her behavior indicates the complete opposite
  3. "Im looking to settle down," "Ive had my fun," "No hookups , looking for something serious (more of a dating app phrase and is particularly a red flag post 30)" - Here she is screaming to us that she was a slut for many years in the past. Hot guys are no longer interested in her, so its time for her to change her strategy. "Settle down" indicates that she was the complete opposite of settled sexually in years past. As we know, she's an alpha widow. You will never be her combined alpha man, so the relationship is doomed from the get go

Fell free to debate my terms. Also please comment terms and phrases youve heard in the past that signaled a major "No" for a potential LTR