I think in this era, prostitution and paying your way to sex makes access to sex a bit more ''equal'' for both sexes and should not be frowned upon.

I think it's fair to say that getting a relationship for both sexes is quite hard and involves a lot of energy and concessions for both man and women.

Obviously the same cant be said for sex; a fat /out of shape/ girl can pop into a bar, club with a bit of make up or hop on Tinder, simply write out that she's looking out for a bit bedfun and she will railed with available suitors within minutes; and moreover contenders out of their looks leagues.

A fat becky or an old post wall cougar can easily, get a quick hook-up with Chad, Brad and Tyrone and some can even make a living out of it (yes, fat escorts are a thing).

Now as empty as those experiences might be, they are still easily accessible and more power to them since they dont necessary have to hone their social skills, imprvoe their charisma or looks.

''I wanna have sex'' 🙋‍♀️

''Hit the gym'' 👨

is rarely something a fat femcel will hear when horny.

''Just hop on Tinder''.😉

In the age of casual hook up, ONS and young 20s year old girls having more sex than ever, I think it's simply fair for men to be able to easily get access to sex wihtout having to play the whole courting/chasing circus as well.

Thus why, while paying for sex still implies they have to pay, it allows average/lower average men to have sex with girls, and mostly girls they wouldnt even dream of having sex with.

''But..but..the girls arent even attracted to them, the sex is mechanical and it commodifies sex and women's bodies.''🙄

Well to that answer, do you really think the average chubby girl getting railed by Chad in the club toilets or his rundown studio has any love or respect for her?

I'm a young horny guy, I can go on PornHub, hit any subject I dont necessarily find attractive and still manage to finish somehow whether its a Sesame Street Miss Piggy Secret Sex Life parody and mecha evangelion hentai parody.

Alot of women themselves who do ONS often complains how cold, mechanical and loveless casual hooks up are since the guy is NOT attracted to her and simply using her as a temporary release; commodifying further their bodies in the process.

My question/debate is; why pretend that John who visit prostitutes are ''low-class, tasteless'' when the typically the exact same type of sex, value-wise happens with young girls who partake in hook-up culture, having sex with men who are not genuinely attracted to them (it's simply their penis who are attracted to any warm hole they can find). ?

I personally think if we are to shame John who at the very least, help a girl pay their rent, mutually using each other for their own benefit (release vs money), let's also shame the young folks who partake in casual sex who mutually use each other to satisfy their own personal need without being really attracted to each other.

Or is it simply that you think only men should have a hard time accessing sex?

Discuss.