Women don’t have to accept reality because they can simply decide to become a mother and will be loved & appreciated. Conversely, men cannot. Men have to forge themselves, women have to preserve. I’m not implying that woman can’t gather resources. In today’s time that is totally normal & possible, but it adds almost nothing to her overall quality as a woman. Her looks is the main factor of her quality. “The harshness of life makes a man, but breaks a women.” Experience is more beneficial to men. The failure to recognize & accept the significant differences between men & women (logical, physical, emotional, behavioral & societal differences) can sabotage your life as a man. I would love for the women in the sub to ruminate over this but especially the men because you’re gonna be harshly impacted by these double standards of you refuse to accept. Not intending to sound arrogant, but I’m not asking you to agree with me, I’m asking you to try to understand. You can’t agree with reality, you only can understand it. This subject is not opinion based.