What part of Game is bad? How is ugly short guy supposed to get anything or should i wait till i hit 30 to be settled for while the chick is done banging the hot guys and Chad is done with her?

cunningcaring · 2021-09-21T12:13:07+00:00

Whatever you like doing, - chess, tennis, hiking, art, music, running - join a club that does what you love and you’ll meet like minded women who might actually like you for you.

Skip the bar scene.

Don’t play video games all day.

cunningcaring · 2021-09-21T12:13:51+00:00

Adding to what I wrote: you don’t need game. You need intelligence.

JUMPsuperstar · 2021-09-21T11:43:09+00:00

Work out on your body to make up for being short. If you're short you need to make up for it in one way: personality, looks, whatever. Height is an excuse. I see fellow short men with women all the time here in nyc.

brztek · 2021-09-21T13:42:37+00:00

If your life is based on trying to get laid with people you don't know or care just because you have a inferiority complex, I pity you.

bishounensupremacy · 2021-09-21T13:24:58+00:00

A lot of people tried to help you in your last post but can't help those who like victimizing themselves. In real life people don't categorize themselves into those who get sex & those who don't and form their whole identity around it. Stacy who sleeps with a thousand Chads before settling with an ugly guy is a redpill stereotype that make up a very small part of the population. The average woman and man have a very similar number of sexual partners their whole life. Even if I tell you "Try to improve your looks, gain confidence and you'll find someone" you'll only listen to the people that say being short is the absolute worst thing that can happen to a guy and throw pity parties for yourself. Ever heard of the term 'learned helplessness'?

Yesm3can · 2021-09-21T12:28:58+00:00

Reading how so many guys (and some girls also), blaming the opposite sex for their genetics creating problems for future pairing, instead of putting the blame on their biological parents who gave that genetics to them , makes me sad.

I do not have the kind of lips I would love to have. My lips have two different colors and they are rather thin. The only one I can realistically blame for this is my dad though. It is his lips. Can't be bitter at randos for this. Know what I mean?

The game is bad if you want something long term. Because at some point you gotta show her who you really are. And if your personality was made up during courtship process, won't that be bait and switch though?

Apart-Image · 2021-09-21T15:28:47+00:00

Your first mistake is caring that much about women.

glassjaw95 · 2021-09-21T19:30:48+00:00

The part where you assume that it works, for one. Don't get me wrong, "game" is certainly a thing but it's something that either comes naturally or from lots of experience. Reading all these strategies will just cause you to overthink the situation. Instead of doing what comes naturally you'll be overly concerned with what some dork online told you to do and you'll just come off as more awkward than if you had just acted normal.

And being short is not the problem that you think it is. I've been tall and skinny my whole life, that doesn't make me some james bond-esque character by default, it just means I get picked on for different things. When I was younger I was called "scrawny," "crackhead," "scarecrow," etc. Now that I'm putting on a little weight people call me fat, despite the fact that I'm still a healthy weight. You can't let that define you.

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