If look indeed dont matter as much why is there such disparity between sexless men and men that have lot of sex?

AvalancheReturns · 2021-10-16T09:34:17+00:00

There are always extremes on any scale. Somehow these extremes (making up max 10% of the population) get ALL the focus and it becomes an either/or portrayal when commented on by either mainstream or social media.

In reality most people are just scrambling by and a genuine match is hard to find. Be it ONS (for which i assume it is easier to be less critical) or a full blown relationship.

I would be more interested in finding out why body count and all the perception around it is such a big deal to me and dig into that to get my head out of that mindset.

Inareskai · 2021-10-16T11:38:39+00:00

Generally speaking the men having lots of sex are sleeping with the same collection of women. It's sort of like the same 10% of men are sleeping with the same 10% of women. (I pulled these numbers out of my ass, it is not accurate).

There will then be the middle ground where the vast majority of people are.

Then a collection of sexless men and women, let's say also 10% of each.

No one is saying looks don't matter, especially for casual sex they do. They just matter significantly less than TRP makes out.

Booda069 · 2021-10-16T09:22:42+00:00

Sorta disingenuous when folks say that it doesn't matter. They are misleading the naive

zokahlo · 2021-10-16T13:32:19+00:00

I’m going to play ball a bit with you here-

I’ll make the assumption that you’re right- uglier men won’t get to fuck around as much. So you’re an uglier man and aren’t going to be able to fuck as many women as you want to- now what?

Well we’re left is where you accept that not as many people want to sleep with you and you move on from that- or you make a fuss about it and start complaining like you feel entitled to sex.

If you want sex so bad, just go fuck a dude.

HaymakerGirl2025 · 2021-10-16T14:11:45+00:00

Lot of guys out there that aren’t that great looking but are still having lots of sex? What do they have? Charm. Totally underrated here on Reddit because it’s something you have to actually work at.

UnitedIntroduction48 · 2021-10-16T17:56:21+00:00

Attractive dudes get rejected and ghosted all the time, and guys with body counts that high are fucking anything with a pussy. They most likely deal with shitty girls or girls you wouldn't enjoy being around. The Chad/s who hoards all of the hot women to himself only exists in your head. And you're probably not talking to enough women because they all have different tastes.

RedPillDetox · 2021-10-16T21:13:46+00:00

"see it all the time on any dating subreddit" lmao... of course you're gonna find dudes that don't get laid and women that get pumped and dumped in dating subreddits otherwise they wouldn't be there asking for help

Icy-Statistician2260 · 2021-10-19T14:47:22+00:00

I’ve been modeling, like fashion and runways, you name it. If it counts I’m 192cm (6’4) and athletic. I’ve been told that I’m hot by girls before. By my grandma as well (but that’s besides the point) Anyway, if I can talk for the “attractive guys”…. People assume I get laid a lot. Girls assume that as well. The fact is I can count it on one hand. It sound like I’m bragging but there are girls who don’t fines me attractive at all. I’d send you a link to my ig or YouTube if you want to decide it for yourself and maybe trust my words for it… (okay enough being narcissistic)

The fact is I’m shy so it takes time for me to approach a random girl on the street or make a move. I used to go out more and try approaching but that didn’t help. I’m practicing being Vulnerable. Makes me more confident naturally and more social. But people now assume that I’m confident just because I’m attractive so it’s not impressive to them… you see, looks does help. But that means nothing if you don’t have a personality to back it up. or you act as someone else or you’re very needy. People in general will notice this.

I also believe that aside from genetics. Taking care of yourself is far more important.

But at the end of the day your looks may attract girls and sure helps But, people connect to personality not some shallow things like looks money and status. Trust me working on yourself, Expressing who you are and being vulnerable will attract much more quality people to your life.

That’s why I made a YouTube channel to show how this mindset of ‘looks’ is bad and shallow.

Title	If look indeed dont matter as much why is there such disparity between sexless men and men that have lot of sex?
Author	No_Light8809
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Date	October 16, 2021 8:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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