Now that I've got your attention, humor me and give me a few more moments of your time.

Don't worry. You'll get something from this. I promise.

Afterwards, you can go back to reading 10,000 word essays regarding how to swipe right on Tinder, tri-weekly posts from certain redditors, or a 19 year old giving profound life advice.

Unfortunately, that shit's not going anywhere.

So, a bit of context. I've been on this forum for just shy of 5 years. Not even sure how I came about it to be honest, just looking to rebuild myself after a divorce and ended up here.

Really glad that I did. Learned a lot. Most of it was from the side bar and the contributions of the more senior members. There's some solid talent in here but as time's passing and restrictions are growing, there's a lot of talent leaving and not being replaced.

That just sucks because over time, I've seen people write amazing field report and solid tips to people pitching monogamy as the ultimate red pill, being worried about women's sexual satisfaction, or if it's dishonest to wear boots to appear taller.

While some of this shit is funny as hell, it's also concerning since I'd like for men to be men again. Each man that learns and grows passes it along.

So, here's my piece of advice for you.

If you're new to this sub or the TRP ideology, try to disprove everything on the side bar. That will open your eyes to TRP truths.

If you're not new but are struggling with some facet of TRP, I would implore you to get off your phone/ass and start to go out and create an interaction. Re-reading is just escapism and fantasy building. Nothing trumps experience.

If you're solid in life, try to help another man out. See if you can take a younger guy under your wing and teach him your ways. That's in person. Not over the internet.

The final Rule of Fight Club is that you have to fight. That means get off your ass and do something. There's only so much 'theory' that you can get.

Now, for something of value. Feel free to use this trick.

Next time you have a woman over to your place, toss her a marker and have her write on your wall (or buy a board if you're renting) and have her write a cute message and sign it. Repeat with each person that comes over. Younger women love that shit and she'll be bombarded with dread and social proof. Don't apologize, rationalize it, or justify it.

Bonus tip: If you're struggling with approach anxiety drive up to a part of the city/town that you haven't frequented before, go into the bar, scan for where the most attractive women are, walk up to the bartender and strike up a conversation. Have a drink (doesn't have to be alcoholic) and try to befriend that bartender. Make it your mission to approach ONE attractive women and make conversation. You don't need to get laid and if you get rejected don't fret. Who cares? Repeat for 3 bars then head home.

This is a great way to build up a thick skin, become witty and start to become naturally flirtatious. You'll stumble but you'll get the hang of it. It also helps you determine how objectively attractive you are since if she's into you, she'll let you fuck up openers and jokes.

If anyone wants to add (from experience) what's worked for you regarding pick up, sex, frame control, building a personality, retaining or developing masculinity, or a personal story from trying/acting out the side bar. Share your story, man.

If this gains traction, I may see about doing this sort of thing more regularly, if not then I'm sure there's going to be a quality post any day now.