When I was younger, I thought that I had to be perfect or master everything I set out to do. What ended up happening was I would give up and move on to something else and repeat this ridiculous habit. As I got older, I started caring a lot less about things that don't really matter. I stopped trying to be perfect and just focused on understanding the concept of things.

You Don't Need A High Lay Count To Be Good With Women

Some of you may think you need to sleep with 100 women who look like models in one year to feel good about yourself. You'll do the math and say,

"If I approach X amount of women for X amount of days, I will reach my goal."

When you do this, you turn something fun like interacting with beautiful women into a chore. I learned that fucking one woman consistently gives you better results than fucking new women on a daily basis.

New pussy is good, but when you fuck one woman on a regular basis, your sex skills improve. When you get familiar with a specific woman's body, you lower your performance anxiety. After you fuck one woman really well, it gives you the confidence you need when you get with the next woman. You fuck her really well it gives you the confidence you need with the next woman. Before you know it, you'll start to understand that it's better to fuck 1 woman 100 times than fuck 100 women 1 time.

"What are you talking about? New pussy is the best pussy"

I'm not arguing with you there, but new pussy can be more time-consuming to procure. You may need to go on a few dates first. You may be nervous because you want to make a good impression to solidify the lay. If you've been fucking a woman for a few months, and you are giving it to her good, you don't need to take her on a date. You don't need to try to impress her... you already did numerous times. All you do is call her up and she is ready to rock and roll as soon as she enters the doorway.

Physical Fitness Is All About Listening To Your Body

Some of you are struggling to get your physique in order and think you need to workout til you puke to get the results you want. I've learned that when you workout, you need to work with your body so it can work with you. This means focus on the habit before you focus on getting ripped. Working out with light weights for 10 minutes a day is a good start. Then you can work on lifting heavier weights about an hour for 2-3 days a week. Your body needs to know that you have it's best interest. Your body needs to send motivational messages to your brain that working out feels good and it looks forward to the next workout. This means if you feel shitty and weak, and don't feel like working out, instead of skipping a day, do a bullshit workout.

"What kind of advice is that?"

If you're starting out getting your body right, you want to keep up the habit for a lifetime. If you have a few weeks of a shitty workout at a time, out of a lifetime, but you're never skipping days, that's a fair trade if you ask me.

"Elaborate"

Okay, let's say you wake up and feel like hammered shit to get your morning workout in. Instead of lifting your regular heavy set (or go for a personal record), drop the weight drastically and do a few high rep sets that will only take 10-15 minutes to complete. This send the message to your body that you're not forcing it to do something it doesn't want to do. When your body understands this and feels good for the next workout, you may hit a PR the next workout.

Take your time when you workout. Don't try to rush to your next set because you may be too weak to get a good set in. As you get stronger, you may notice that your rest periods get shorter.

The Older You Get, The Wiser And More Attractive You Can Become

There are men with grey in their beard and chiseled physiques that have women who are 20-40 years younger than them who want to fuck them. Daniel Craig is 53 years old, and in his latest (and last) James Bond movie he looked like he's been hitting the weight room for his last role. Michael Jai White (played as Black Dynamite a few years back) is also 53 years old and knows many styles of martial arts. I say this because some of you have probably saw your fathers in their 50s and 60s thinking that your life is over at this age (old-looking, not dead), but for some men this is when they reach sex symbol status.

All of your favorite Marvel superhero actors are in their late 30s/ early 40s or even in their 50s. You always hear about women swooning over Jason Mamoa and The Rock. Jason Mamoa is 42 and The Rock is pushing 50.

If you are in your 20s or 30s, if you've been working out and eating right over a 10-20 year period, you're gonna notice a major difference in how women interact with you. You're gonna say to yourself one day,

"Holy shit! I'm a sex symbol"

Some of you may think I'm bullshitting, but when you were a kid, you thought that lifting a full milk jug was a huge accomplishment. You thought a cute girl giving you a hug was a huge accomplishment. Working on yourself consistently over a lifetime will show you how long you've come and also you have a ways to go.

What are your thoughts?