What do you say to a girl who feels really slutty for sleeping with you on the first date

Archwinger · 2016-07-07T17:04:24+00:00

Every girl says that she "has never done this before" and "isn't like this".

You met them on Tinder, you idiot. Do you really think you're their first hook-up?

AFPJ · 2016-07-07T17:05:17+00:00

If you fuck a girl who's super into you AND inexperienced when you're not that into her ...man, get pussy elsewhere. These chicks want and basically almost need someone that will date them after fucking them or they're going to get mentally fucked up beyond repair in no time. Or at least see/date them for a bit and let it fizzle. I know this is "soft" advice but we're here to fuck women, not ruin people. If they feel guilty then & there, cuddle for a hot minute & say some shit like "I do wanna see you again" to ease them a bit. Usually I go get food with a chick after fucking her

JackGetsIt · 2016-07-07T17:17:58+00:00

Women overate their vagina powers and they know that they have a limited amount of time to ride the cock carousel. Even the most deluded girl knows that the more guys that pump and dump her the lower her value falls...

Girls get on Tinder with one or two notches on their belt and they say to themselves, "I know Tinder has a reputation for being an app where lots of girls find hot seductive alpha guys who pump and dump tons of women; but my pussy is so sweet I'm going to either make Alpha Tom stick or Beta billy pay for 5 dates and two vacations before I give him my snatch."

It's kind of like a guy who starts using meth to work a little harder at his stressful job or a girl who uses coke or heroin at the occasional party..

When you as beta Billy seduce her into a one night she's sad because it didn't fit her game plan and now her notch count is higher. Her tears serve a dual purpose of coping with the sadness that she's a little less valuable and also potentially guilting you into into her original game plan of free food, vacations and an LTR.

So I don't have any advice besides don't fall for it. She made the decision as an adult to get on a heroin app like Tinder. Don't take her on another date because you feel bad for her. Only take her on another date if she's a genuine LTR candidate and that's your current goal. If your goal was to use Tinder to spin plates. Do it. Don't let a girl emotionally manipulate you.

2016-07-07T17:40:11+00:00

"I've never done this before" = "I've done this many times, but if I told you, you'd think poorly of me"

BPasFuck · 2016-07-07T16:54:25+00:00

Dude. These girls' problems are not your problems.

You understand?

If they're awkward the morning after, maybe it's because you're being awkward. If so, so what?

You can get comfortable with that and get on with things... or you can waste a lot of time and money taking them to breakfast the next morning and acting like you're in a relationship already.

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trpthroway123 · 2016-07-07T17:57:48+00:00

They only bring that stuff up because they fear being slut shamed, have to rationalize themselves as not being a slut.

Call them out on it. Get a rise out of them. Then, placate them.

What do you say to a girl who feels really slutty for sleeping with you on the first date?

"You're my little slut"

"I have never done this before"

"Won't be your last first time with me" or "you know you loved it"

Then, placate:

"It's our little secret, I don't kiss and tell" or "What we do is between us" or "Sluts sleep around, great girls are just kinky"

The-Ban-Hammer · 2016-07-07T18:40:36+00:00

Well, she has never done this before... with you. Now she has.

corsega · 2016-07-07T17:18:09+00:00

If you want to keep them around and let them down easier you need to display more beta traits post-sex. When the oxytocin is kicking in, cuddle with them and make out with them some more. Text them that you had a good night and want to do it again.

mordanus · 2016-07-07T19:38:58+00:00

Everyone knows that men value the innocence of women. It is what keeps them on the pedestal and allows them to extract resources from us. So when they are looking for a guy they will lie about everything to attempt to inflate their value in every way they can in order to get what they want out of you.

So in situations like this you will get women lying about being inexperienced or how low their number count is or that they "aren't like this" because they know being a slut is going to get them used and devalued.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-07-07T21:33:32+00:00

I just tell them it wasn't their fault, it's that I'm super-charming. Then I plate them until I'm done with them.

vicious_armbar · 2016-07-08T02:30:49+00:00

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Mastros34 · 2016-07-07T19:14:34+00:00

When she says that she's shit testing you to be a beta bitch so she can reframe the relationship. She wants to see if you'll bend over and say "Lets take things slow" that way she doesn't have to put out and won't want to because you'll have just made her as dry as a desert. She's also trying to push blame off herself that what she did was okay.

fort_wendy · 2016-07-07T19:51:16+00:00

I may have similar traits as you. I'm pretty sure a lot of girls see me as safe, LTR material. I am not. I hate LTRs. But I also have no experience in plating. Really have no plans to, but I would like to be able to have a safe fuck once in a while without having that guilt.

A lot of comments suggests cuddling post sex and letting her down slow. What if this reinforces her thinking it's bound for an LTR? How to avoid this?

2016-07-07T20:20:27+00:00

The key is you have to direct her hamster to the correct conclusion. Tell her that you just had such a great connection and it "just happened." You were so overwhelmed by how hot she is that you just couldn't control yourself. Even if you are judging her internally, do not let her know under any circumstances. She has to rationalize a reason for why she is not a slut; help her arrive at that conclusion through your masculine leadership.

ecosci · 2016-07-07T21:42:06+00:00

Because you are a slut my darling.trust me theres not enough paper to write down on, all the freaky things shes done sexually to alphas.

rot_barth · 2016-07-08T00:21:51+00:00

Thanks.

deci-mator · 2016-07-08T20:07:41+00:00

No girl is going to tell you she's fucked a whole football team of alphas. So do not be surprised when they tell you your the first. She doesnt want to feel bad for sleeping with you on the first date, she wants to go home and sleep knowing she is not a slut and her friends wont think of her as a slut. So all she is looking for , is for you to give her some validation, in most cases she can throw logic out of the window and tell herself it was your fault for seducing her. I cannot emphasize this enough, employ amused mastery and pass this as if its something stupid and make her chiill

long-lostfriend · 2016-07-07T23:22:28+00:00

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Title	What do you say to a girl who feels really slutty for sleeping with you on the first date
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Date	July 7, 2016 4:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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