Victim Blaming

oi_oi_oink · 2021-10-29T20:22:42+00:00

"Respecting their privacy".........hmm, I've heard that so many times in the same context, toxic and abusive people throw it around so casually.

Domestic violence is not a private family matter. You're not a peaceful person if you're picking fights outside pubs every night, drunk and drugged up. It's funny how people are still defending him ("we don't know the full story", "Yolanda was such a toxic person on RHOBH, she's doing it for attention", "poor Zayn") after he pleaded guilty on one charge and didn't contest the rest.

Educational_Pool_635 · 2021-10-29T17:39:30+00:00

The Deuxmoi sub is ridiculous. There are literally court documents showing he plead guilty. He said publically he would not contest Yolanda's claims. His stans are, no offense, mentally unstable fangirls. I'm hoping it's some bots too. Same thing with Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, whenever the female victim is complicated or has issues herself she deserves to be the victim. The courts found Depp abused Amber. The courts found Zayn hit Yolanda.

pukubr · 2021-10-29T18:43:42+00:00

I remember before FDS the patriarchy brainwashed me into thinking women really were weaker and deserved to be criticized more harshly. Now I realize they are criticized more harshly, but it's because it is easier to manipulate women into compliance not because they are morally weaker than men. Female celebrities have to be perfect, while Male celebrities get to be goofy and stupid so they can be "relatable" It's all so tiresome.

InspectorGadget07 · 2021-10-29T21:15:07+00:00

What happened really. I’m still confused on it

Kellbbby · 2021-10-30T04:28:06+00:00

I can’t believe so many people are blaming Yolanda and letting Zayn off the hook. Women are doing this! I get Yolonda is a psycho but no matter what she did or said to that guy she did not deserve to have his hands on her.

I feel really bad for Gigi. She really does seem like a nice person but she has a controlling mom and an addict/abuser for a baby daddy. I hope she doesn’t ever take him back.

grunge_64 · 2021-10-30T01:48:25+00:00

I've seen the endless hoarde of pick-mes that are SO quick to dismiss Yolanda and immediately assume Zayne is innocent. It's insane.

He's a "worse than useless" scrote.

sourcircus · 2021-10-30T08:31:06+00:00

The same pattern repeats for every single case like this. It’s insane especially assuming most of his fans are young girls/ women.

The victim gets blamed and gets everything dugged up about them to use against them. I mean recently too with Kim Seon Ho (Korean actor). Same thing with fangirls just defending.

I hope one day they wake up and realise men would never defend the same way they are going to such insane lengths to do so 😩

WorkaholicParty · 2021-10-30T11:58:41+00:00

Whenever someone was commenting "what about believing victims" these creatures come out saying they don't like Yolanda and we don't know both sides of the story. But the only side of the story we know is Zayn's and he plead guilty. Ouf.

Do they know you can be an unlikable person and still be a victim and it's not going to be "deserved"?

ApartPersonality · 2021-10-30T16:25:03+00:00

Def not a fan of the Hadids. But Yolanda, weird as she is, Gigi, and most of all the baby involved all deserve way better.

Title	Victim Blaming
Author	Educational_Pool_635
Upvotes	196
Comments	18
Date	October 29, 2021 5:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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