I've been on a handful of good dates with a few guys, and while I'm enjoying myself and there are no red flags as of yet, our conversations have been fairly superficial (about work, interests/hobbies, friends, daily habits, a bit of family). I feel like I don't really know what I need to know...but I don't know what yet. Going past the first few dates, what questions do you ask of your dates or directions you steer the conversation to get to know them better?