I'm talking about young men <30. In my experience they do. My ex would get rock hard quickly from making out at home, after sitting across from me looking hot at dinner. But he knew clothes would be coming off soon.

With the man I'm seeing now, we've made out a few times fully clothed, without fondling private parts (other than my butt) with me sitting on his lap for brief periods. I can feel that he's mostly soft. I know he knows it's not going any further that night, so that might be why? But it makes me suspicious that his dick doesn't work, maybe he watches a lot of porn, I don't know. The way he looks at me and kisses me he's obviously attracted to me so I know it's not that (and we all know men don't even need attraction to get hard lol). He treats me very well and respects my boundaries.

What do you ladies think?