Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-11-23T06:31:12+00:00

These are multiple red flags.

I would dump him just for the phone bullshit. You don't trust me why are you with me? Bye. But really he's just hiding creepy porn.

Platipus6 · 2021-11-23T04:25:27+00:00

None of them are marriage material. Next.

GlitteryMoss · 2021-11-23T06:33:49+00:00

Phone dude might have nudes from other women in the phone, or something else, that he does not want you to see.

Pewdiepie dude deep down agrees with scrotes and is probably one.

Friend of the slut dude admires his friend's sluttiness and wants to be like him, and probably is.

I'd block and delete and get new scrotation candidates.

europoor24 · 2021-11-23T06:31:26+00:00

1- is he hiding something on his phone?

3- so his friend is sleazy but because it's his bro he's a "good guy"?

tuberosetears · 2021-11-23T14:07:50+00:00

Honestly I didn't even read your whole post because my rule is that if I think about going to FDS to ask about someone's behavior then it's a sign for me to block and delete.

vitryolic · 2021-11-23T12:07:11+00:00

There are no yellow and orange flags, only red flags. We want to believe that something could be less serious and just be us interpreting things wrong, because that’s how society has conditioned us to be PickMes for male benefit.

Your intuition is telling you there’s danger here. Don’t second guess yourself, when you’re instinctively trying to protect yourself. If you have to ask if something is a red flag, or to analyse a man’s actions then he’s not a HVM, no further interpretation needed, just block and delete.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-11-23T05:22:38+00:00

1 - bad sign. Probably has nudes and didn't want you to scroll.

2 - My kids love Pewdiepie so not sure what he's done. But yes, following scrotes is a very bad sign.

3 - he thinks this behaviour is OK and actually commendable. Bad sign x 100.

Block and delete all the men in your three examples.

PaunchyPilates · 2021-11-23T05:20:55+00:00

What gave you pause? Dig deep into it. On a piece of paper, write down what was said and what you observed and how you felt. Figure out what you wish you could have said or done that you didn't and what you'd like to have seen instead.

What media and interests would please you to discover?

When you sensed he didn't want to touching his phone, what did you realize he was concerned about? What photos or texts did you think he'd be concerned for you to see?

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-11-23T20:07:51+00:00

An absolute deal breaker and a sign that a man is a lvm is if they watch and are a fan of pewdiepie. He’s sexist and low value, was caught searching up the ‘barely legal teen’ category, said the n word during a live stream and of course made an apology saying that he didn’t really know better, he even degraded his wife multiple times in videos and she was unsure if she wanted to fall through with the engagement after he proposed to her (Hmm can’t think of why) and she even looked so unhappy during their wedding video. Like she was forced to put up a smile. Hell even his old editor(I think) came out and started to reveal stuff about pewdiepie/Felix(His real name) and he said that Felix and his wife had a dead bedroom which shocked Felix when he exposed him for that and still talks about how much of a loser Felix is after being fired.

Just go ahead and watch the videos pewdiepie made that hated on feminism and how he talked about women in gaming and female protagonists and you’ll see why a man who is a fan of pewdiepie is such a dealbreaker and a huge red flag.

Softrito · 2021-11-23T15:02:44+00:00

Honestly I don't like people grabbing my phone but I don't have bad things in it I just get self-conscious; probably trauma from religious nit pickers

herbivorouscarnivore · 2021-11-23T04:17:17+00:00

I think you should review the FDS handbook, decide what you think, then advocate for yourself. I say this with all love and respect. One of the basics of FDS is figuring out your priorities. Asking us to interpret is a huge step backwards.

enchantedglow · 2021-11-23T21:38:05+00:00

All red flags worthy of blocking and deleting to me. It could be argued that you should give the 1st guy the benefit of doubt but men don't deserve that lol. Your first instinct is right.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-23T17:30:29+00:00

Besides PewDiePie being just...annoying IMO...the rest are red flags.

He shouldn't be encouraging to his friends hitting on other women. (for a second I thought you said he was hitting women and my hackles raised lmao)

ErikaNaumann · 2021-11-23T15:47:38+00:00

What's wrong with PewDiePie? As far as I know he is married, faithful to his wife, a self made millionaire, and takes good care of himself (health and looks).

I don't follow him closely though, so maybe there is something else?

Title	Ladies, can you help me interpret these yellow/orange/red flags?
Author	fogplum
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Date	November 23, 2021 3:57 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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