The madonna/whore complex is a male sexual strategy to ensure that a man can be as sexually reckless as they please, while simultaneously having a secure incubator to produce legitimate heirs.

It did not evolve because men thought it was the most moral or logical thing to do, or because sluts make God sad or because your pussy will destroy civilization.

It is a male sexual strategy that serves their basest interests. The response is not to show how this is self contradictory and how these contradictions hurt people. The response is not to show that we can totally have sex like a man, and that this is no threat to them, the poh wittle babes.

The response is to strategize for your self interest, without considering their interests or the fucking moral order of the universe or what the fuck ever.

Do not argue with these men. Think for self, act for self. That is all.