You are sick and you know it.

You, the reader, not even close to being a real man, are wandering on the internet to find that unique trick to solve all the problems surrounding you. Well, I am afraid that this post is not for you.
There is no substitute to reading the sidebar and lifting along with other habits like meditating, eating clean, socializing as much as you can, etc.
This post is for those who already have figure out the importance of the above-mentioned things and are religiously living a disciplined lifestyle.

Here are Some Don’ts for all men to make themselves good men, in the eyes of other and most importantly in their own eyes.

[Note: This post is based on my personal experiences as I continue the journey to better myself every day. These are not advanced level tips as I don’t consider myself very experienced. Take it with a grain of salt.]

Don’t Boast –
Or don’t brag. It is very beneficial to keep your achievements to yourself, as a result, you build your confidence to the point where you feel you don’t need external validation or people always praising you. Basically, STFU about your accomplishments until someone explicitly asks you about them.

Don’t Blame –
Or don’t accuse. The more you keep playing the victim card by calling other factors/people responsible for your current state, the more you fall in the rabbit hole of complaining and never making a move to uplift yourself. Sometimes, you are affected by external beings, but you need to treat such moments as mere obstacles. Be resilient.

Don’t Betray –
It is amoral to reveal others’ secrets. It is better to keep mouth closed if someone has asked you to do so. This way, you are not weak of a man to handle your urge to pour all your homies’ secrets. Be worthy of being a trustable friend.

Don’t Belittle –
Or don’t put down people. Or don’t abase people. Rather make yourself seem inferior and let other men slip out their valuable info. Also, it is not good to trash the person you are talking in their face. Be careful in social situations, have some tolerance but don’t tolerate too much, leave the setting if things start to ignite inside you. It is better for both parties if you don’t contact them after you find you are better than them instead of just showing who the boss is every time you meet that person.

Don’t Bust –
Don’t bust a nut. Also, don’t fight, win with actions, not with physical force or verbal battles. You need to win the war not the battle, so take time and do your thing and the result will make you superior. Don’t fight with other men in a social setting, it will lower your reputation and get you in further troubles. Ignoring the one who irritates you will make him/her seem insignificant and thus putting you in a better defensive position. Never fight even though you are learning Muay Thai and BJJ. Remember, we are peacekeepers, we are not fighters. (Just like how Master Rossi said Goku when first teaching Martial arts.) The more you are calm and composed, the more you are likely to win. “Strongest men are usually the most disciplined men.”

Don’t Babble –
Don’t speak nonsense, no one has time to listen to that. Your brevity will be admired. Being laconic is an art.

Don’t Bash –
Don’t destroy the serenity, the peace. You will be much more powerful if you can deescalate and end predicaments than escalating and leaving yourself with a potential threat/enemy the next morning.

If any of you bastards has read 48 laws of power, you would know this already. Read and reread the sidebar and DO! the things said there. I was only able to make this post because it hit me in my head as I encounter new challenges daily while I consistently follow the above-mentioned advice.

It’s a refresher kind of a post.
Feel free to discuss in the comment section.

Also, English is not my first language, and I am trying to improve. Any kind of advice is welcomed.