Do not let the negativity consume you

IllimitableMan · 2014-02-03T21:26:35+00:00

This is an important message to reiterate.

Life is pretty shit by default, realising a lot of the bullshit this society is constructed from and conveys (especially in relation to women) and seeing shit for what it is makes it even shitter as you don't have the fantasy warm gooey perceptions to anaesthetise the pains of reality. Reality is a pretty shitty place but you need to understand it to be able to have the power to cultivate your own reality into what you want it to be, to make that cash money, to fuck all them hoes, to jet-set, to be well-read, to have a family, to be a multi-millionaire, whatever the fuck it is you want - rather than let the system assign you a preselected power-limiting role which curbs your civil liberty, personal power, your own perception of yourself, your ability to hold influence and a bunch of other crap - likely the role the system would ascribe to you if you would just go with the flow is a role that does not fulfill the tenacity of your ambitions.

So taking the pill can actually make life seem worse, sure it's empowering to know the truth, but not everyone can handle the weight of that truth.

The truth is power, but with power comes responsibility and the responsibility of realising how truly fucking shitty women are, how pragmatic and manipulative they are, and hilariously, how only some of them are even self-aware of their own fucked up irrational natures can take quite the toll on a man.

This is why its important to develop a coping mechanism.

I encourage you all to inject positivity into your life. Watch stand up comedy, go join a comedy club. Honestly, stand-up for the most part is red pill as fuck, you can get away with saying what you like as long as it's funny. We've all seen it with Bill Burr, Dave Chapelle and the other greats.

Building your SMV can cause growing pains and you may need to lean on things like comedy and junk activities like "playing video games" to ease the growing pains, but as long as you have direction and are still growing and seeing progress that's OK.

Eventually when your SMV is high enough it will reward dividends in and of itself.

If a problem in your life is broke, fix it.

Overweight? Start jogging.
Can't workout because of injury? Find workouts you can do which wont exacerbate the injury.
Miserable fuck? Find shit that makes you laugh.
People in your life bring you down? Get the fuck rid of them. If it's not immediately possible eg: you cant afford to move out from your crazy single parent mother then just avoid her as much as you can.
Not got any friends? Socialise more, drink some alcohol, go to the comedy club.
Spending too much money? Downsize.
Can't earn enough money? Hustle. Get educated. Kiss some ass. Read 48 laws. Find an edge. Do something. Give up on yourself and the world will too.

Ironically all these problems are things which need to be solved in order to increase SMV, and once your SMV is high you will find none of these things are problems. We're all on the path and all of us are at different stages of the path in periods of life. Some of you are doing this for the first time, others of you have been burned before and are doing shit you've already done before to rebuild. Whatever.

Have a mission and fucking go for it.

Lethargic because you've got no energy? Drink water. Blueberries. One lemon in your tea a day. Make that green tea. Get at least 7.5 hours sleep per night. If you have an urgent deadline take power naps in 1.5 hour patterns (so 1.5 - 3 - 4.5 - 6 - 7.5 - 9 hours etc) as that's when your REM cycles end and that way you don't feel groggy.

Life is fucking hard and unfair and women are heartless ruthless observers of your value who will use you for basically any benefit you can provide, but then although perhaps not so competent in the art of machiavellianism as the average woman, men do the same fucking shit too.

The only reason you are mad/upset is because you were indoctrinated to believe that women are the fairer sex, that they were somehow more pure and that only big evil men do fucked up shit, that females are kind and gentle and "unicorn rainbow shitting fairies" who'll sprinkle you with motherly love and let you suckle on her bosom as she shields you from the world and your bad day slaving for the man. WRONG. Fact of the matter is if she didn't shit you out of her vagina she's got no unconditional love for you. It's tingles/cash or get the fuck out.

Stop feeling sorry for yourself, toughen the fuck up. Sometimes its tough, find a way to cope. I've listed a bunch of ways. Fix your problems. Stop finding excuses. Give yourself a slap. Feeling lazy right now? Go under the shower for 2 minutes, make sure its cold. Not freezing cold (you will get brain freeze) just quite cold. It will raise your T and make you motivated. Go on. Do it. Go. Now.

rarlcove · 2014-02-03T19:35:55+00:00

It's like the difference between Neo exploiting the Matrix to dodge bullets and Tyler Durden going nuts and hurting himself and blowing up a bunch of buildings.

Society sucks, but you can either use that to your advantage or destroy yourself trying to change it (which is basically impossible).

[deleted] · 2014-02-03T21:43:43+00:00

Negativity is red pill stage one. You woke up, realized this shit ain't equitable to you as a man despite the clarion call of feminism being, "equality", society has no use for you as a white, middle class male, the law system has no problems revoking your 4th amendment rights if it pleases a larger voting demographic, and you have every right to be angry.

Which is fine. You're human. You have every right to be angry. Now go do something productive with that drive. You'll never mature beyond the stereotype of some old bitter man / woman hater in the eyes of the wider public if you don't advance beyond the first stage.

When you're on a boat and the wind changes, you don't yell at it and tell it to go back, you adjust your sails.

When you give someone a gift and they reject it, who owns it? You do. When the wider society does something to piss you off and reject you, you own that. Society doesn't care. You need to do something.

Julian_Berryman · 2014-02-03T19:18:42+00:00

My thoughts are a bit scattered, but I think venting, ranting and bitching is exactly the right response after being essentially lied to for decades. Society has a specific set of 'rules' that children are indoctrinated with and as you grow up you realise that kids breaking these rules are getting all the tail.

Do you know how many times I could have got laid if I hadn't been the 'nice guy' like society wanted - that I thought women wanted? Fuck, just thinking about it makes me furious. How much of a fool I feel now.

One thing is for sure, I will try my utmost to ensure my son is RP. Being young, good looking, intelligent and yet seeing everyone else getting laid is utterly tragic. I can't, I won't let him suffer it like I did.

I think most people eventually push through it, focussing what they have learnt; it's just a case of signal/noise. Be glad other people have been freed.

30303030303030 · 2014-02-03T21:01:28+00:00

However, let me ask you this - are you really using the red pill as a catalyst for improvement or are you using it simply as a space to vent your frustrations? Are you now working out more, pursuing girls in a more effective manner, reading more, expanding your mind, etc? Are you making any positive changes in your life since taking the red pill?

This is a very good message and honestly I've been thinking about writing something similar.

Frankly, if you are not banging anything, after the initial rp introduction you should just get out and not come back until you fuck few girls and have at least one on plate position. Without it you might just grow more and more negative and hateful and that's not what life is about. It's ok to be angry and it's ok to be aggressive but we have to channel these emotions outside. Reading trp for hours won't do it.

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abutterfly · 2014-02-03T19:39:42+00:00

This conversation, the two current comments, and the post a few days ago about how hating women does nothing for you ALL go hand-in-hand. In short,

Swallowing the Red Pill very often requires a dramatic shift in view.
Such dramatic changes are often accompanied by many emotions, including anger.
Once the initial shock wears off, you can hold on to your anger or move on.
The healthiest and best option is to move on. Bitches ain't shit, etc.

muffcheese · 2014-02-03T19:35:26+00:00

I think the amount of negativity is due to the current progress of a lot of RP readers. They read some material and their eyes have opened, but they haven't quite got an idea of what do do with themselves. I'm imagining a lot of butthurt dwellers (this is reddit after all) wearing fedoras and brony T-shirts bitching about how they have "been lied to" and "no more mr nice guy from here on". But in reality, no, your fucking fedora is not peacocking, and wearing a child's T-shirt is not OK. Imo first step, get off your ass right now, down the protein / creatine shakes and lift the big boy weights in your local gym. You will look better, and it builds confidence and alpha mentality.

Whisper · 2014-02-04T03:59:34+00:00

The stages of taking the red pill are pretty much the same as the stages of grieving:

Denial: "Women aren't like that! They're people just like everyone else! Treat them all as individuals, and you're sure to find the right one!"
Anger: "WTF! Bitches are all like this! They have no honour, no loyalty, and they don't really love anyone but themselves! Fucking cunts!"
Bargaining: "If I work real hard and learn all the pickup moves, then at least I'll get laid."
Depression: "Getting laid by shallow, obnoxious women has become dull and unrewarding. And there's no sense looking for a unicorn. Maybe I'll just be MGTOW for a while."
Acceptance: "Women aren't bad. My expectations of them were based on faulty premises. They are creatures of instinct, just like I am... but of different instincts. If I learn what those instincts are, and teach them about mine, we can develop realistic expectations of each other and get along just fine."

sushisection · 2014-02-03T20:54:25+00:00

Powerful Duncan Trussell

Speed9402 · 2014-02-04T04:49:55+00:00

Since taking the Red Pill I went back to school after dropping out 4 years ago, and I'm pursuing my goal fucking relentlessly. I only have one goal right now and that is to be an Air Traffic Controller at any cost. If I have to go through the motions sitting down in classes surrounded by women in the feminist indoctrination center known as University then they all better watch their fucking backs. When I'm motivated the only speed I have is to fucking kill shit.

This Red Pill shit really works. Not nearly as bitter anymore because worst come to worst you can't go wrong investing in yourself. Thanks for everything fellas.

[deleted] · 2014-02-03T21:43:14+00:00

Or are you just here to bitch and moan?

Oh, good. more concern trolling. The mods definitely haven't warned subscribers about doing this... twice... in the past week.

HeadingRed · 2014-02-03T19:53:42+00:00

As long at it motivates you to action it's a good thing. If you are just feeding your inner neckbeard then it's a crutch to give yourself an excuse for not trying.

[deleted] · 2014-02-03T20:29:40+00:00

there is a lot of negativity in this universe, and in the people around us independent of logic/physics etc, sadly ignoring it won't make it go away.

this isn't you job to be cute and sexy, you have to maintain frame at all costs and DHV, BUT: not at the cost of ignoring problems. ignoring problems isn't what got you to trp(or so I hope) you are the man who solves problems and gets negativity in life to back off. you need time on your own to wash its effects on you down.

but you need time to be ON .

tl;dr : you are probably sheltered if you aren't at least a bit bitter inside from whats going on, or a rather shitty person.

iluminatiNYC · 2014-02-03T20:48:31+00:00

You're right. Anger is a healthy emotion, but it needs to be used to change things within yourself as opposed to destroying yourself. Lashing out at the world isn't going to change things, and neither is taking the anger out on yourself in a rage of self-hate. Just use it as motivation to fix what you can, and use the memory to make sure it doesn't happen again.

nninja · 2014-02-03T21:41:33+00:00

This was very needed. Wish I could upvote you twice!

superkewldood · 2014-02-03T23:33:00+00:00

Amen 100%

Nola_son · 2014-02-04T05:17:48+00:00

Powerful, Duncan Trussell!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ROabJEx45c

Do not let the negativity consume you

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Title	Do not let the negativity consume you
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