The title is self explainatory, but some background is needed and I need your help.

I like to think that I'm a nice guy in recovery (probably I'm still a nice guy and that's why I need help). Made some good progress, went into monk mode for almost 3 years. Made good gains in fitness, focused on my career and myself, but felt alone. I started using tinder with some success (a few dates, no sex). Then I met her (on tinder) and we clicked. The day we met had sex and was great, she even said to me that night that I owned her, but some red flags were present.

The most important red flag I see is that, every time a "social" stuff appears is like she tries to make me see the "other side", unfortunately for her, I always have been very cynical of stuff like that, and I either attack stuff like that or ignore it.

Every time I dismiss or mock social stuff she gets angry or accuses me of being "rude" to her. She tries to say this in banter, but is obvious that isn't. We even had a discussion once because I told her that everyone is entitled to offend or to be offended, and that everyone that tries to substain an argument with morality is lacking arguments. She cried and I had to explain what I was meaning to say, which wasn't cool.

I don't know what to do. I like her, but my opinions are opposite of hers. I don't want her to become like me, but I often feel her tryng to shape me into something I'm not.