If someone made you an ex redpill program that was clinically backed by professionals.

Icy-Statistician2260 · 2022-03-10T23:24:26+00:00

Well I study psychology to become a clinical psychologist one day. What I can say is that “programs and to do lists” unfortunately will not work in this case as much as I would like to have one size fit all cure… You see, people get to red pill for many reasons.. Some had their heart broken. But some had childhood trauma, abusive parent etc… to help those people we need to addressed and we need understand what lead them to this cult at the end of the day.

But again, to make this as professionally as possible and backed up we have to criticize everything

So that’s my point of view and I could be wrong here

hippy_speed_ball · 2022-03-10T22:19:05+00:00

Literally just make it whatever works best for people leaving cults. That research already exists. Why change the wheel?

GoWest7 · 2022-03-10T22:44:39+00:00

Excellent. And, thank you!

wiwoo · 2022-03-11T00:35:43+00:00

I think you need to come up with plausible replacements for the needs that RP ideas are filling. Then you can develop a questionnaire to identify which ideas a person has attached to, and in treatment help move them over to that idea's replacement.

For example, instead of just saying "X isn't true" you've got to show them "instead it is actually Y that is true." The replacements have to be targeted to the same needs that drove them to the idea in the first place.

I also think it's important that you create a bridge to their beliefs by admitting SWALT - "some women are like that". By agreeing the dynamics exist they won't immediately dismiss your ideas, and then you can argue to keep limiting the scope of SWALT to smaller and smaller proportions of the population. As soon as they think the RP belief only applies to a minority of women, and that they shouldn't assume it about women they don't know yet, you're basically done.

Randomguy34455 · 2022-03-11T18:47:44+00:00

That would be wonderful. I think it should be divided into a more theorical part, in which is explained how the redpill ideas are completely wrong, and a practical part, in which there are steps to detox completely (for example step one : abbandon every redpill related community and so on. The final step is to actually get a girlfriend).

hsvgamer199 · 2022-03-26T05:08:18+00:00

I have no idea. I wish something legitimate existed though.

TheDarkIsMyLight · 2022-03-11T02:57:24+00:00

I would want to see some red-pill claims debunked namely: hypergamy and dual-mating strategy.

Title	If someone made you an ex redpill program that was clinically backed by professionals.
Author	5MinuteMentalFitness
Upvotes	11
Comments	12
Date	March 10, 2022 10:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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