I have 50/50 custody of my now 16.5 year old daughter. Been the same schedule now for 12 years. Just recently my daughter has requested to be with her mom more. This really has come out of left field. I have always thought we had a great relationship and just feel really hurt by this request. I don’t think she understands how hurtful this request was. I think her response was “it’s just one more day” it’s not a big deal. I tried asking her for a reason but the responses are that she just feels more comfortable at her moms right now and just wants to spend more time there. I think it has to do with the fact that mom is way more woke and laxed than I am. That she lets her hang out with friends during school afternoons and I don’t. I think I am a pretty fair middle of the road dad. I let her go out, I bought her her car, I don’t berate her ever . She is honestly a great kid . We are going to therapy next week to try to talk this out but I am truly confused here. I don’t want change a schedule that has really provided a structure that has worked for the last 13 years just cause my kid wants to be at her laxed moms house. My response to her was that I won’t change the schedule but that she can feel open and free to ask if she wants to be at her moms and that most of the time it shouldn’t be an issue.