But what really counts is your emotional intelligence. Because if you have that everything else would organically click. A woman wants a man that has his goals or strive towards them but has sympathy understanding and compassion. So right there is a great recipe for a very good friend now she finds you attractive and your personality's clicks and lovers and yeah that's what you're gonna want. I can bet money most women with their life together this is what they want. As a man I can tell you in reality you want the same think.