Trollop who tried chasing Chads (men with many options) is surprised when she's treated as just another option.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-04-09T16:58:08+00:00

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Possible alternative/additional explanations to my title:

1) she's not as hot as she thinks.

2) she's a lousy lay.

3) she's so goddamn insufferable that it doesn't matter how hot or good in the sack she is, men decide they'd rather explore other options.

Here's what really sucks: even if she learns whatever lesson she needs to learn (and that's a mighty big "if") and changes her approach to relationships accordingly, she's highly likely to resent the men who are more "in her league" for not being the highly sought after Chads to whom she has become accustomed.

make_reddit_great · 2022-04-09T17:03:45+00:00

She can conclude that she's approaching the wrong men, or she can conclude that all men are terrible.

Guess which conclusion she'll draw?

BigJohnHolmes14 · 2022-04-09T18:03:02+00:00

How many men were raised by mothers who divorce raped their fathers? How many men had to suffer for years watching their dad get fucked over while mom lives with her new "boyfriend", collects alimony and child support while she parties her life away and dad tries to make ends meet? Maybe the Chads she chases know that marriage is a rigged system where men always lose and women always get cash, prizes and empowered woman revenge when their hormones and emotions tell them to leave the marriage on a whim.

gentle_lemon · 2022-04-09T18:19:24+00:00

Over 30 or "Offer a lot"

Pick one.

AurelianWay · 2022-04-09T17:28:03+00:00

I'm thinking about the last 10 or so men I approached in person

She sounds like a serial dater. Between her multiple short term relationships (and possibly LTR's) she is rarely single. She blitzkriegs her way into the dating world dating several men at once. Of course this method means that she will never truly get to know a man and will bypass the sort of commitment minded men who would be suitable for her. Old Dalrock post explains it very well:

https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2012/11/18/she-needs-more-men/

There is also some projection in her post. She isn't being exclusive herself ( a lady has to keep her options open don't you know) with the multiple men she dates at once plus the orbiters she keeps on the back burner.

junior95207 · 2022-04-09T17:27:39+00:00

He wants something serious, just not with you.

zasetsky · 2022-04-09T19:42:36+00:00

Thank you for keeping the word trollop alive, such a great word

Loud-Bottle-7879 · 2022-04-09T17:11:12+00:00

Does she really not know this? It’s called selling them a dream. And I’m sure they are open to a relationship with the right person, that just ain’t you!

Lord_Kano · 2022-04-09T22:34:26+00:00

She should check her Friendzone. I guarantee there's a man three who's dying to treat her the way she wants but she's not attracted to him. 🤷🏿‍♂️

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2022-04-10T03:07:19+00:00

If I had a penny for every time a woman who thought of herself as "hot" because Chad wanted to break his dry spell and/or was drunk, I'd probably be at least a millionaire now.

That's the problem with modern dating. Absolute delusion. Men put women in three categories based on their physical appearance: a) would not ever bang(<4), b)would bang(4-6), and c) would date(7+). These girls think they are in the third category, but in reality they are in the second category. Hell, even if they are in the third category, they are still not even entitled to a relationship. For all we know they might be annoying and insufferable.

Chad will only commit and forfeit all of his options if the girl in question is of extremely high quality.

LotBuilder · 2022-04-09T21:53:56+00:00

The answer to “he used me” if they only had sex once or a few times is that the girl sucks in bed. A girl that is good in bed never gets pumped and dumped.

panzer22222 · 2022-04-10T05:56:58+00:00

TLDR - once men get to know me they arent interested in a relationship with me

Joaquino7997 · 2022-04-09T20:14:46+00:00

It's hard to feel sympathy for her when women use men in the same way, but financially.

She'll stick around while the getting's good, but let one small financial mishap happen and she's out like three strikes.

kingcobra315 · 2022-04-10T12:41:10+00:00

Knowing Reddit, I’m sure she is posting in mental health subs & not connecting the dots on why guys are 🏃‍♂️

dardy_sing · 2022-04-10T02:56:25+00:00

Trollop 😂🤣😂

CartAgain · 2022-04-09T20:32:00+00:00

Is there any clearer sign of a failing societal than when a woman cant get a date?

BenchoteMankoManko · 2022-04-10T15:28:31+00:00

"offer a lot" of what? downsides more than anything

Title	Trollop who tried chasing Chads (men with many options) is surprised when she's treated as just another option.
Author	Typo-MAGAshiv
Upvotes	156
Comments	43
Date	April 9, 2022 4:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/tzxc4y/trollop_who_tried_chasing_chads_men_with_many/
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