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Everybody On The Ultimatum Should Break Up Immediately

SnarkSticks

April 22, 2022
320 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

None of these people should be together and at least a quarter of them are insane.

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Title Everybody On The Ultimatum Should Break Up Immediately
Author

SnarkSticks

Upvotes 320
Comments 20
Date April 22, 2022 12:41 PM UTC
(4 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 185 points186 points187 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

My scrote ass, NVM 62 year old neighbor told me he's been watching that show and said things along the lines of:

"WHaT BeNeFIt dO MEn eVeN hAVE iN GEttInG mARriED AnYMore? Men don't want to get married these days and I don't blame them!" exclaimed the scrote.

In my mind I'm like... Yeah, buddy...there are 200,000 + of us at least who generally are not prioritizing marrying at all, let alone below our standards where most men fall.

Also, sorry for no longer wanting to be your bangmaids who get cheated on and beaten as socially acceptable societal norms. Woe is men.

Sounds like an absolute trash show with pickmes galore who need to tap out. Any male liking it, watching it, mentioning it is outing themselves as a garbage heap.

[–]Equal-Ear2312FDS Apprentice 39 points40 points41 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Women are not total slaves anymore like they were 100 years ago so this doesn't benefit men 100% anymore.

And the sad fact is he's right. That old scrote is right. Men are in it only when it benefits only them. They don't care for equal rights as long as they have theirs!

Also wanted to say that men always tell on themselves. Just listen and you'll see how they have no problem being misogynistic and exploitative with every occasion.

[–]elainejay82FDS Apprentice 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yet they're so ridiculous that they can't live without us, can't leave us alone or stop trying to dupe us into some joke of a relationship or stop trying to get in our pants, benefit from our kindness generally daily in some capacity, and can't connect that their daughters will grow up to be women one day. They would probably be spewing fumes if they heard any man talked about her as if she needed to be a commodity who "produced" like a workhorse in a relationship because just being and keeping up on things in a general capacity just isn't enough.

It's funny that when it is their own kid they understand fully that women ARE the table. This dude unfortunately has a daughter and you just knowww he tells her to run from men who actually talk like he does. It's absurd.

[–][deleted] 24 points25 points26 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Married men's (self-reported) quality of life is a lot higher than married women's. Why are men still asking what they'd have to gain?

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I remember hearing my ex-boyfriend’s friend proclaim something similar. I knew immediately that he was just angry that men can’t own women anymore lol

[–]Colour_riotFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

y'know, the things is these bottomfeeders will screech this but then in the same breath screech about being entitled to free sex and labour from women.

if they truly did not wish to date and marry women with standards, they would. They just want to take our shit for free and not keep their side of the bargain.

bloody freeloaders and diggers

[–]EquipoisonousFDS Newbie 151 points152 points153 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Do not marry someone you have to beg to propose.

[–]vitryolicFDS Apprentice 95 points96 points97 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“The Ultimatum” is a catalogue of toxic relationships. It’s clear multiple painful and expensive divorces will follow the show. The contestants need therapy to work through their individual issues, not to put them on blast for the world to see.

It’s a reminder not to see destructive relationships through rose-tinted glasses. They are physically, mentally, and financially harmful. This is why it’s essential for women to vet, have firm boundaries, and maintain a strong sense of self-preservation.

[–]FoxyMaybe 23 points24 points25 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you have to give him an ultimatum, he's not good enough for you.

[–]hime-bitchi 85 points86 points87 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I can't believe anyone could binge that show, just my personal thing. I can stomach some cringey shit but this one was boring AND cringey. You're spot on, OP. The show was going to be a boring drama fest from its origination.

[–]Sienna-23 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I guess it's like NVM "car crash". I find those kind of shows make me feel so much better about being single and not looking. Shit could be much worse.😅

[–]Throwaway666060 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I binged it because I loved it, so what does that say about me…

[–]ErocitnamFDS Newbie 6 points7 points8 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm only on episode two, but I'm finding it kind of fascinating. It is interesting to have so many perspectives on marriage in one place. Ofc I've already found a reason to dislike all the men... and the relationships are not healthy and the people in them need to sort out some stuff. But it does make me want to dissect the show and talk about it.

[–]AggravatingTank7043 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That one dude was INSANE 😳

[–]MedicineSpecific9779 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I tried watching a few episodes of the show after seeing this post. While I agree that most of those couples should probably break up, I also think people are emotionally complicated.

Personally I've only ever dated one man that FDS would consider a HVM, and unfortunately I was the one who drove him away with my insecurities. Most men I've dated haven't had a high level of emotional intelligence which I guess means they aren't a HVM. That being said they did give me much of what I've needed over the years. Sex, friendship, companionship, support etc. I'm still working on myself and hope that soon I'll be worthy of landing a HVM.

[–]AliceHoning 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I understood the purpose of the show, I immediately skipped it. Didn't even watch. I wouldn't even put myself or someone else in such a situation.

[–]Sciencemajor87 -3 points-2 points-1 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Maybe I'm(15) lucky, but, all my friends(both male and female), tend to not like Netflix productions. Like, if it was not for reddit and tiktok, I wouldn't even know that The Ultimatum is a thing.

Anyway, if you don't like/support the ideology behind the ultimatum, why are you really watching it?

[–]ErocitnamFDS Newbie 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I think it can be useful to engage with things you disagree with. I can see why someone might say "I think the premise of the show is unethical so I won't watch it", nothing wrong with that. But I think there are things you can learn from seeing how other people, even ones you think are making bad choices, think and act, and interact.

Edit: and also, if you're in or near the age bracket of the contestants, you may have gone through similar experiences to them. It can be cathartic to see other people deal with the same things you did.

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