So… as much as we tried to make it simple early on as we realised we just shouldn’t have got married and wanted very different things which couldn’t be helped. She had to turn things insanely weird and accuse me of all sorts of things which I would normally think were mental health issues but going by this subreddit, it might just be a common thing…

So got to the end of it (almost at sock day!) and the court has decreed I pay her a not so huge amount…

  • For anyone else who has read all the nightmare scenarios here I want you to know there is hope… my pension is safe, I kept the property and took out a loan to buy her out which will not take too long to clear. There are some wins!

But due to the fact she had to make it so unpleasant and publicly accuse me of being abusive by every definition of the word on social media… I feel the need to be petty.

So I have a month to pay her the final sum but nowhere does it say it has to be in a single payment.

So every day it’s random payments of: £2.11 £6.37 £1.01 £3.86

It’s taking up a small amount of time but it’s quite an enjoyable hobby knowing at some point soon she’s going to have to look at her account and see my final abusive act!

Stay strong! Sock day approaches!