How do you deal with your bf/hubby's bad hygiene or lack of cleanliness

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-06-14T11:29:45+00:00

No internal questions

SignalThanks6766 · 2022-06-14T07:54:31+00:00

I don’t date men who don’t shower and don’t wipe their ass. Pretty simple. Also never met a guy like this. So it’s been pretty easy tbh.

Pastelitomaracucho · 2022-06-14T07:55:14+00:00

Veto them and ask them to stay clean. It's that simple

Lysa_Bell · 2022-06-14T09:13:24+00:00

The issues with that for me was always that guys put on their best facade (as do women) when you start dating. They shower, brush their teeth, smell nice etc when you just start dating. You only notice what slobs they are after you've gone exclusive. Then they just stop giving a fuck. At that point you are usually already properly in a relationship and you feel guilty about bringing it up because you don't want to hurt the feelings of the person you are in love with.

You can either try to train them or break up with them. There is no in-between. I would rather break up because if you have to train another adult to brush their teeth it's just not worth it.

gopher_glitz · 2022-06-14T08:34:05+00:00

Complaining that you're dating a guy who doesn't shower is like saying, "Men who shower aren't willing to date me" it's a bad look.

Simple-Craft-9577 · 2022-06-14T08:02:02+00:00

Who the fuck thinks it’s gay to wipe their ass ? Are we saying we have men walking around with poop filled butts ?

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rosesonthefloor · 2022-06-14T10:17:52+00:00

I couldn’t do it either. Closest I came was a guy I briefly dated who showered himself and stuff, but had probably one of the grossest bathrooms I had ever seen. And he lived with his parents! (Just for a few months during Covid but still).

I slept over a grand total of 3 times before we broke up. First time, I mentioned something. Second time, I didn’t want to nag, but made it clear with body language that I was super uncomfortable, and the third time told him honestly that if he didn’t clean his bathroom I wasn’t staying over anymore. Then we broke up lol.

Some men really want to be that lazy 😂 I am completely fine noping out of there if that’s the case.

2pumpschump · 2022-06-14T10:19:52+00:00

Why don’t you date a guy who has good hygiene instead.

Kaleidoscopiquant · 2022-06-14T10:42:32+00:00

I don't date slobs (anymore)

goatismycopilot · 2022-06-14T10:58:54+00:00

I just wouldn't.

Title	How do you deal with your bf/hubby's bad hygiene or lack of cleanliness
Author	misericordia96
Upvotes	4
Comments	22
Date	June 14, 2022 7:30 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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