Got dumped after 10 years. She had been threatening divorce for a while because she hates my mother. I had tried everything to stop the vile war between them to the point where they no longer communicate AT ALL at my request. However because I'm still in contact with my mother it enrages her. She wants me to cut contact with my own mother because she doesn't like her.

Anyhow. She says we're divorcing, she's always out, she's looking at houses and meeting friends (she had never gone out of the house pretty much, super depressed no matter how I encouraged her). Now I notice she has bought a wig that I know nothing about (saw a receipt) and she's taking screenshots of me and my mothers FB conversations. I thought maybe I had said something stupid but these are just dumb convos of me and my mom discussing my sister's mortgage and stuff. She puts this in a folder called "proof"?! She took a decent sum of cash and now apparently the cash is gone when I ask her. There's cash in our children's passports that she stowed away.

What on earth is she planning and why the hell is she so joyous all of a sudden? Wish she had been this happy before divorcing me?!

Guess I'll continue to put together the pieces and eventually find out. I seriously doubt she's cheating, she is out with her female friends and not partying or anything just playing sports, and she can't take the kids out of the country legally. So those hypotheses don't make sense to me.