I hate being black. Being darkskin is a curse unless you’re an athlete or rapper.

Inareskai · 2022-05-30T17:19:00+00:00

Racism 100% fucking sucks and is horribly present in all facets of society, including dating.

That being said there are clearly people who do like dark skinned folk even if they don't fit into the 'rapper or athlete' category.

It's totally reasonable to be fucked off about racism. But don't let that nudge you into unnecessary binary thinking that only makes things harder for you.

Georgie--George · 2022-05-30T18:12:10+00:00

I know how you feel, I'm a black female. It doesn't matter if I'm brown skin or dark skin, just being black is a no go for 99% of males.

The only males that will talk to me are black dudes that are trying to use me for money.

However black males typically have it easier. Plenty of black women will date a black guy regardless of his status. I'm a software engineer, I just broke it off with a black guy that works at a fast food 🤦‍♀️

Columbos1492 · 2022-05-30T14:41:40+00:00

Move to black area..

MaynardRosemary · 2022-05-30T15:31:10+00:00

My grandfather was black and short, and that man had 17 children with 5 women, white all of them, he had personality and that man could make laugh the most saddest man on the earth. A man with charisma is never lost.

Neil1398 · 2022-05-30T18:42:17+00:00

Idk what type of girls you’re into or what you’re looking for but I’m black and haven’t really had any issues getting dates or having fun with different women.

If you let you’re race,height, status money determine limit you’re life you’re not gonna get what you want.

I know a short Pakistani dude with no muscle that has way more sex than I do and it’s because he puts himself out there. I know a black dude living in the pjs that goes outside and talks to everyone and has girls.

Me, I do the same I’ve just been through chaos and tryna take a break. Just get out and talk to people. Take it from me. I used to be in a serious drought for years, and decided to change up.

Oh yeah fuck that online shit, go out and meet some girls in person. Go to a bar, have a drink and talk to the person next to you (guy or girl). Join a club, take a walk, go to the gym.

Funny all the advice I’m giving you I’ve seen on the red pill lol. Fundamentally I agree with it, but the followers make it toxic.

Jeditard · 2022-05-30T17:15:49+00:00

I'm sorry for your situation. Move to an area where half the people are black. Here in Baltimore, you would probably be a good catch.

Nomandate · 2022-05-30T15:32:03+00:00

It sounds like the usual “women only date bad boys” argument to me. But, there is not doubt that race can add an extra layer to any type of marginalization.

achyshaky · 2022-05-30T17:47:36+00:00

I'm not sure what to say, other than don't let the people where you live jade you to everyone else on the planet.

Some places are just filled with backwards, shitty people. It all depends on the crowd you're surrounded by. If you don't live in a major city, I can imagine that's why you're having so much trouble.

LDRs are always an option - and they're not nearly as bad as people say they are, so long as you're willing to commit to it. You could try looking outside your area for people, it might give you a sense of where to move in the future.

snookikiwi · 2022-05-30T16:14:06+00:00

I don’t think it has to do with ur race

Academic_Snow_7680 · 2022-05-30T19:34:05+00:00

I am so sorry.

spankyourkopita · 2022-05-30T19:35:55+00:00

Do you have to fend off the negative stereotypes? Does it make it tough for many black people?

Title	I hate being black. Being darkskin is a curse unless you’re an athlete or rapper.
Author	AmbitionLazy
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	May 30, 2022 2:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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