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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 06:12 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill04/10/21 03:13 AM
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Debatespankyourkopita/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/22 08:52 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 09:49 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:17 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill31/07/23 10:17 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 03:02 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 08:38 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill29/03/22 07:13 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill07/10/22 03:46 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:59 PM
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Discussionspankyourkopita/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:31 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 11:18 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill25/09/21 08:42 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill08/03/22 11:38 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill07/07/22 07:17 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 09:08 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill14/10/22 01:29 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill17/06/22 08:31 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 07:45 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill23/06/21 06:07 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill07/04/22 06:46 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 08:46 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 11:06 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 04:02 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:58 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 07:15 AM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill23/11/21 09:56 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 09:49 PM
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spankyourkopita/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:35 PM
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Switch the roles and tell her its unacceptable that she lives at home to and you won't date her.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 05:38 PM
-1

Is that true? I feel I'm on that path to be like 40-50 with a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 02:55 AM
3

And they're supposed to set the standard for supposedly attractive old guys.
/r/ExRedPill03/08/23 02:12 AM
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Omg does this happen a lot being female?
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 07:12 PM
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Exactly. I don't know what this means. Ive never looked at it like that.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 07:10 PM
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Ya it seems like dudes who have some sort of chip on their shoulder for not getting those younger women when they were that age. And the maturity thing is so true. Can't stand anyone under 20.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 07:09 PM
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Anytime I see couples fight I tell myself I'm glad I'm not in that situation. Ironically I think couples envy single people sometimes. I just know seeing married couples is not something to feel envious about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 07:21 PM
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Totally agree it is considered taboo by society. Do women like older men to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:49 PM
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Oh ya the tabooness stops people from talking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:48 PM
1

True. I think this is a topic most people wouldn't like talkinh about though. Glad you mentioned it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:46 PM
1

This sounds about right
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 07:44 PM
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Less jadedness?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:19 PM
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Does any single older childless women that claims they're happy lying? Even if you have less responsibility I feel there's some disappointment that you didn't reproduce, found a partner, and you're gonna be single the rest of your life. I know a woman who says shes ok but she's always in a bad mood, calls herself a grandma all the time, gets mad when people think I'm her son, and is only 48.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 09:38 PM
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Haha so true
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:21 AM
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I don't like younger girls specifically, I'm just not blind to the fact that they're attractive and I'm not gonna feel bad about it. Their inmaturity is enough to shoo me away anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:19 AM
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So its about maturity that makes them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:14 AM
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So its about the whole maturity thing that makes them attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:13 AM
1

Ya thats what I heard. Personality first, looks secondary.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:50 AM
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Thats what I thought. So its more about how they make you feel?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:49 AM
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Thats what I thought. Like emotional security?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 03:48 AM
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Yes i like greek food
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:04 AM
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Ya only middle aged wealthy women past 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:03 AM
1

So personality really does matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/22 03:38 AM
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What tf even constitutes as an alpha? I hear people say it but it literally could mean anything.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 08:56 PM
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Also the quickest way to make everyone think you're a loser is by saying youre an alpha. Pretty cringe whenever I hear people say so.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 08:54 PM
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Didn't think about it that way but I guess us men are just trying to fuck more not actually dump a woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 02:18 AM
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I think it's a woman who's in denial that she's not the woman she used to be and is freaking out because the level of interest from men has decreased. Something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 08:30 PM
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Definitely think single 30 plus year old men are susceptible to it especially if they've failed a lot. They need to latch onto a belief system to figure out where they're going wrong but RP is just brainwashing.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/22 09:39 AM
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Totally makes sense. They been there done that and can mentor young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 02:32 AM
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Is it more common than I think for older men to hit on younger women or is it a minority? I can't imagine how they come off especially if they look really old.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:34 AM
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Is it simply the age that appalls you or the way they come off?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 07:47 PM
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Do a lot of women actually go through this wall phase and freaking out about time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/22 08:43 PM
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Thats the point I was getting to. Even if you don't want children there still has to be that aspect where you feel like a failure biologically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:40 AM
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Women are more picky because they have more to lose if they get pregnant. So it makes total sense biologically if they're picky because they better make the right decision or else they could be stuck with a bad father.
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 07:48 PM
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It's still similar in a sense that you're leaving someone for something better. That's my point. I don't know what this is really called.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/22 08:55 PM
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Seriously why do guys tell other women who they banged like its supposed to make them look good?
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:35 AM
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My friend was trying to hit on some women at a bar and part of his game was bragging about how many women he's banged to them lol. They just kind of looked at him with a blank reaction like are you serious? I started laughing and he got mad at me. But ya its just silly to think telling women how many you've been with is a good look. Just comes off as insecure and sleazy. Very cringeworthy.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 09:31 AM
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I think maybe what I believe has more to do with young people that aren't serious and more into hookup culture. Thats totally different from a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:53 AM
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Maybe what I think is true more so if you're young just looking for hookups and not so much in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill12/07/22 02:50 AM
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Totally agree that im not confident. Probably that fear is me worrying I'm getting too old and eventually my options will run out.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 09:25 AM
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I feel M is somewhat reasonable and seems like an ok dude who can actually get women. He's more of a player that goes for hookups at bars . But ya I wouldn't take him seriously.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/22 09:20 AM
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Are you seeing Coach Red Pill only with women 25 and under lol?
/r/ExRedPill06/06/22 07:38 PM
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Alpha male lol. I cringe anytime I hear that word.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/22 09:25 AM
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Do you have to fend off the negative stereotypes? Does it make it tough for many black people?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/22 07:35 PM
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Underrated comment.
/r/ExRedPill20/05/22 02:15 AM
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Do older people even try to date a lot younger people? Sounds cringe for the most part.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 09:08 AM
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And you don't need to have tattoos or be a bad boy lol. Most guys aren't like that and I doubt your average girl even finds that appealing unless you're a rockstar. Attraction is all subjective, some like tattoos and some don't, it's not a one size fits all.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/22 06:53 PM
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True but attractive people still tend to look good as they age.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/22 08:33 AM
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Cood approach never works bc that person doesn't know you and rapport needs to be built whic btakes time . You do cheesy pickup lines you always get rejected.
/r/ExRedPill21/04/22 09:27 AM
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Its not about convincing them to like you either which I thought for the longest time. Its all about if the connection is there or not.
/r/ExRedPill14/04/22 09:10 AM
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I forget to that women worry about the samething about men. Since men are more visual it certainly wouldn't be a good feeling knowing they're looking at other women.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 07:25 PM
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Is that what those kind of women do?
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 07:24 PM
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I forget women worry to about men leaving them especially since men have a knack for being more visual.
/r/ExRedPill10/04/22 07:23 PM
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Live with my parents and I don't gaf what anyone thinks. There's a stigma that you're a loser and living like a bum but that is far from the truth. Not forever but I'm happy with my situation.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/22 06:54 PM
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Fuck Alexander Grace!
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 07:36 PM
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Its funny how people think attractive people don't have problems. We're all human.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/22 08:38 AM
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Some middle aged dipshit that thinks he's some sort of player.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/22 06:16 PM
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Typical loser guy trying to get attention by saying outrageous stuff.
/r/ExRedPill03/04/22 08:00 PM
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He's no different than any other Red Piller.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/22 07:05 PM
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These older men have less life experience?
/r/ExRedPill31/03/22 07:47 PM
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Sounds like you're just hating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 05:41 PM
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Why do men fail to see a womans personality?
/r/ExRedPill15/03/22 07:10 PM
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They prey on insecure people.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/22 07:08 PM
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Is it so you can say you did it? What do you gain by getting with a younger woman?
/r/ExRedPill10/03/22 12:31 AM
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So its like they need to prove it for the sake of ego?
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 08:57 PM
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Are these guys common? I don't think I ever met a dude like this but know they exist. I don't think they are redpilled more so than haven't grown out of hs yet.
/r/ExRedPill09/03/22 08:55 PM
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I don't get it, why do some men get so threatened at the sight of another guy? I get that it doesn't feel good knowing other men like your woman but the fear is irrational.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 09:23 PM
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Wow great stuff. Does this happen to a lot of women where men just want to show you off rather than actually caring about you? They get over protective to?
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 08:19 PM
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Haha I was thinking about that to with blowjobs. Like a mouth is just a mouth.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/22 10:42 AM
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Why do they become vile?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:16 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:14 PM
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Ya I couldn't tell if being single caused her to turn out like this or not. Sounds like it wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:12 PM
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She has mentioned to me that kids aren't for her so at least she's honest with herself. Still, I think it still effects her because she doesn't have many people she can rely on in her life. Most people her age have a husband and kids and that can remind her of what she doesn't have. Probably feels like an outkast and gets judged a lot. Seems like it can be lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:55 PM
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Not but they don't really like her which isn't a surprise considering the age difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 08:48 PM
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Just a vibe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 09:46 PM
1

Oh so it's not hard if you want to date but if you want children then there's real pressure?
/r/ExRedPill01/02/22 08:19 PM
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Whats wrong with being cute and non threatening?
/r/ExRedPill30/01/22 06:49 PM
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Some of it is just common sense but RP adds a little twist to it. For example obviously a girl is gonna ask a lot about you when you first meet because she doesn't know you. The problem is when RP calls it "shit testing" and how you need to pass it.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 09:13 PM
7

They have a way of making catchy phrases like "don't date women over 25" and of course you're gonna look and wonder what the heck they're gonna say. The more crazy they sound the better.
/r/ExRedPill12/01/22 11:16 AM
4

Look at his content for your own good.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 03:47 AM
3

Please don't.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 03:44 AM
2

Bc they act like they're god. Take Coach RP for example. Dude is a complete dbag.
/r/ExRedPill02/01/22 03:43 AM
2

No but I know those type and I just laugh at it. There's nothing wrong with being a virgin and having sex isn't such a big deal.
/r/ExRedPill28/12/21 03:57 AM
5

What does this have to do with RP?
/r/ExRedPill24/12/21 09:17 PM
6

Coach Red Pill saying you should only go for women under 25 and that he actually attracts them lol.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/21 09:03 PM
5

Getting past surface level talk. Its where you get the other person. Its something you feel.
/r/ExRedPill20/12/21 04:45 AM
30

I don't think red pillers even know what genuine connections mean. They just see women as creatures they have to figure out.
/r/ExRedPill19/12/21 11:17 AM
3

WTF does it even mean to be a dominant alpha?
/r/ExRedPill14/12/21 11:25 AM
1

They'll probably just laugh or be totally confused if you bring it up.
/r/ExRedPill11/12/21 11:28 AM
4

Fotgetting that they're people and not objects. This puts it in perspective
/r/ExRedPill10/12/21 10:17 PM
2

For me its bc they come up with outlandish subjects and you get curious to know what they think.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/21 02:07 AM
0

I tell people this whether it's dating or just comparing yourself in general: what other people do has nothing to do with you!
/r/ExRedPill27/11/21 08:58 PM
12

I've actually learned most from my mistakes and just maturing as I age. Yes, being successful makes you confident but I certainly had to fail to be more confident with women.
/r/ExRedPill25/11/21 09:26 PM
2

Haha you're so right about soap operas. Better stop watching.
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 10:27 PM
0

What about hookups with younger women? Are we talking a different story now?
/r/ExRedPill24/11/21 04:20 AM
2

Its that one size fits all thinking. Shit doesn't work for everyone.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/21 09:51 PM
3

Isn't this just obvious? Oh I forgot certain men believe its all about trying to convince them to like you at all costs.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/21 09:28 PM
3

And thats the problem. Lots of guys ignore whether its mutual or not. They think they have to make her like them. Doesn't work like that.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/21 09:25 PM
1

Maybe similar in looks but i can already see the inexperience in most. Not necessarily a bad thing. Its maturity thats the red flag.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/21 04:25 AM
4

Why is Coach Red Pill so popular? Is he really what he says he is or a phony?
/r/ExRedPill21/11/21 11:07 AM
2

Those old guys at the club seem pathetic. I don't know how you turn out like that.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 08:43 PM
1

Now when you say frequently are we talking about guys 40 and up approaching women under 25? Just want some logistics.
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 03:22 AM
1

Will you even consider if the older guy seems ok or is it always a no?
/r/ExRedPill19/11/21 12:09 AM
2

Do younger women get hit on by older dudes a lot?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 10:24 PM
2

Sounds about right
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 11:43 AM
1

Where does this women having unlimited options and being asked out all the time come from ?
/r/ExRedPill16/11/21 03:47 AM
3

I remember I'd always have that one friend in school who wouldn't stop bothering me to borrow money. Feels like its the same with women being asked out and all the time, it gets annoying.
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 09:24 PM
3

I don't pay attention to other couples nor do I care. What they do has nothing to do with me. Shit is toxic if you compare yourself looking at two couples in love and say "why isn't that me?"
/r/ExRedPill14/11/21 11:30 AM
4

Its amazing how different you see women when you treat them human instead of objects. Boggles my mind how hard it is for most guys to do.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 09:05 PM
1

Whenever I hear incels say Stacy wants Chad I just laugh.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 04:19 AM
2

Because biologically the woman has to bear the child and she has to decide which man is suited enough to do it. Sex is easy for them to obtain but they have more to lose if choosing the wrong man and getting pregnant. They get harrassed and have to deal with creeps. I wouldn't say they have it easier exactly.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/21 12:24 AM
1

When RP kept telling me that women will leave you and always look for better. Please I don't have to worry that much about that lol.
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 03:37 AM
11

What women and men are you talking about exactly? Think you're generalizing and doing a one size fits all.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 11:16 AM
3

I feel this is because we ignore the human aspect of women and only see them as objects.
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 11:08 AM
20

I feel this is common sense but many guys fail to do or realize.
/r/ExRedPill05/11/21 03:03 AM
3

Lets just say if you're expecting to get better with age and be more appealing to younger women like RP claims you'll be highly disappointed.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 09:33 PM
2

But is RP the right place to find out about human behavior?
/r/ExRedPill01/11/21 11:23 AM
7

I think some men can get brainwashed but I think only confused and insecure men believe it.
/r/ExRedPill31/10/21 09:07 PM
7

I would just stop worrying about looks so much. You'll drive yourself crazy.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/21 10:45 AM
6

People don't dislike you simply bc of how you look. There's so many factors but shooting yourself down doesn't help.
/r/ExRedPill29/10/21 03:00 AM
6

Ya it's all about feel and vibes. The mistake a lot of guys make is thinking it's all about trying to get them into you. That's why you see so many guys keep pursuing and they get nowhere. In reality it's either there or not.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/21 09:14 PM
-1

Incel alert
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 08:27 PM
1

tl;dr?
/r/ExRedPill24/10/21 10:51 AM
13

So they can gain a false sense of power over women.
/r/ExRedPill22/10/21 08:43 PM
8

My friend would try to act like he knew what alpha/beta behavior was lol. Tried to get me sucked into Coach Red Pill. He was a confused frustrated guy like most red pillers who are desperate to figure out how to get chicks.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/21 08:29 PM
2

There's a difference between being a nice guy and a nice person. A nice guy is a needy person just acting so he can get sex. A nice person is genuinely nice and women can tell the difference. Don't think being nice is a bad thing. Just don't do it with alterior motives.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 11:34 PM
1

I think what people need to do is stop giving into peer pressure and not give a shit. It's not a big deal unless you make it. HAVE SEX WHEN YOU ARE READY!
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 11:31 PM
1

People value sex too much like it makes or breaks their life. Once you do it it doesn't even matter anymore. Like you can look back and be like oh I remember that experience but how does it actually affect your life? Sex is something you do and then life moves on. Looking back at what you missed out on is pointless.
/r/ExRedPill20/10/21 11:29 PM
6

In general people like others who are similar to them. Whether its looks, values, hobbies, religion, or anything you have in common. The more the better.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:29 PM
1

Women are probably less willing because they can get pregant. Sounds obvious but it gets overlooked.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:33 AM
1

I think this all has to do with women having to bare the child and she's judging men to see if they are what she wants. Women obviously have more to lose by having a child so she better choose the right one.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:32 AM
-2

I feel a lot of it is judging whether he's father material or not. Also she's carrying the baby so she's extra careful who to choose.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:29 AM
6

The problem is these men think women are really into it when they don't care about muscles. They tend to come off as showy and arrogant to and women are appalled. What they lack still is their true personality. It's good to stay in shape but there's a certain point where you're just too big.
/r/ExRedPill19/10/21 10:20 AM
2

Here we go with the one size fits all lol.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/21 08:36 PM
1

Ya I wouldn't over think it. Probably just a regular conversation.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 07:54 PM
3

Most guys are clear with their intentions but when women give them signs of interest they completely fail. Its mind boggling.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 03:33 AM
2

It's funny how they think everything applies to everyone like we all think the same lol.
/r/ExRedPill16/10/21 10:51 AM
8

To add on women go off of how they feel about you. Yes they like looks to but it's not as important. This is because they care more about how you would be as a father to her child. That's why you see plenty of good looking dudes who get rejected because their personalities were shit.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/21 10:43 AM
2

I guess I'm talking more about leaving you for someone better. Is it common?
/r/ExRedPill14/10/21 11:11 AM
3

Everyones ideal face is different but we tend to choose someone who looks similar to us.
/r/ExRedPill13/10/21 08:51 PM
3

What I think most people do is judge black women more harshly on negative stereotypes to see if they pass the test or not. If they have any of those traits its an automatic pass.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 11:37 PM
2

Seems like attachment theory. If your parents didn't give you enough attention you'll do the same when with a partner.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 11:32 PM
1

Well that's why. Women have more to lose by getting pregnant.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 11:31 PM
8

I laugh at the thought of humans being measured by SMV.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/21 11:23 PM
1

They think they gonna be Megan Thee Stallion.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 10:41 AM
1

Ya but the point is there's so many people in this world that it's not worth worrying about. There's more to it than just looks. Its the overall vibe you give off.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 08:38 PM
5

I hear people use beta and alpha once in a blue moon but when I do it's so laughable I can't take them serious.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 11:07 AM
3

Stop worrying or thinking about it. Unless you have some face deformity most people aren't going to care.
/r/ExRedPill10/10/21 06:31 AM
6

Some stuff is just basic dating advice and has nothing to do with RP.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 10:59 AM
5

I mean the women you talk about are probably party chicks and those aren't women you want to date. I just wouldn't worry or care because it's such a broad statement. Not many people are living like this.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 10:44 AM
9

This sentence is so mind boggling and red pilled that I can't take it seriously. It's so broad and not realistic I don't know what its even based on.
/r/ExRedPill09/10/21 10:34 AM
2

So options isn't necessarily a good thing for a woman?
/r/ExRedPill08/10/21 08:16 PM
1

Are we talking older men being in the minority doing this or very common in general? I like to think only certain men are like this.
/r/ExRedPill07/10/21 03:13 AM
-1

So that was my question. I guess lots of older men do like younger women and its not the minority.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:23 PM
1

Were these men in the minority ? Sounds scary to think its not.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:21 PM
1

Now are these men in the minority? Sounds scary to think it isn't.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:20 PM
1

Ya men don't pay attention or care. Its amazing how creey some are and fail to see it.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 09:18 PM
17

At first I thought it was hilarious that he roasts low quality women but after a while its just annoying. Shit is all an act.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/21 11:01 AM
6

Nothing really. I just started following it and ubfortunately got sucked in.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 09:12 PM
1

There's quantity and not quality.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 10:43 AM
1

There's quantity but not quality.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/21 10:42 AM
2

I tend to believe these men didn't get the proper love from their parents and reenact it.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 03:43 AM
12

So in other words stalker? Great take, I needed this.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/21 08:41 PM
7

I mean there are guys out there who put women too high on a pedestal but probably less than more exist. They're just easy to spot because they stand out.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 10:52 PM
3

No they want you to open up! Not sharing how you feel isn't good.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 06:43 PM
2

Oh it definitely made me feel insecure. I always thought I needed to act a certain way and be "alpha" to get women. Since they tell you how to behave I thought if I wasn't acting in that manner then I wasn't good enough.
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 09:36 AM
1

You mean when celebrities date each other or when you crush on them?
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:58 AM
0

Let go of your manhood. Outside of that how much does it really affect you?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 11:07 PM
1

People I'm attracted to always seem more attractive when I first meet them.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 11:06 PM
1

This is the answer is I was looking for. So true about getting used to people. I always wonder why I find women so appealing when I first see them but it dies down because I get used to them.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 11:04 AM
0

But would you still tap a legal younger woman if you had the chance? Im not interested in the dating aspect. Just hooking up.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 03:08 AM
5

To me the weakest people need to tell the world how good they really are.
/r/ExRedPill26/09/21 08:19 PM
17

Its a sad way to convince men they can still get 20 year old women at 50 lol.
/r/ExRedPill21/09/21 09:59 PM
10

There's so many variables when it comes to dating. It's not one thing works everyone.
/r/ExRedPill20/09/21 10:53 AM
1

It really does matter who you hang around. One group could say it's just normal another could say they don't cheat.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 08:19 PM
3

They want to figure out how to get hot women that won't ever give them the time of day so bad . There is no answer .
/r/ExRedPill15/09/21 01:38 AM
8

Its just mind boggling that making women feel beneath you is somehow being a man or something to be proud of.
/r/ExRedPill08/09/21 09:25 PM
1

Great opinion thanks!
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 09:28 PM
1

Its crazy how similar partners look at times.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 03:35 AM
3

Kevin Samuels
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 09:09 PM
1

Like how many guys? I know this is subjective but I always wondered how often women get hit on let alone find attractive. Usually I don't think its that many she actually is into.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:51 AM
1

So its like the closest way they feel they can have a piece of them in a sick sad perverted way?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:43 AM
6

I did read articles that feminine faces are more preferable to women for long term partners. Very interesting.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 09:44 PM
0

So in other words older men would love to hookup with a young woman but note date?
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 03:01 AM
2

Are these typically single or men who are already married? Just seems weird for a man past 40 to be hitting on women half their age.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:03 PM
-1

How often? Were these men single?
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 09:02 PM
2

They're attractive until you realize the phase of life they're in.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 08:58 PM
1

Now, if you're talking about older guys chasing after younger women... that's a different story. That's what I'm talking about. I'm just curious if many older guys hit on younger women or if it's mostly weirdos.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 10:55 AM
2

Some of it is just common sense but RP claims it their own. Like being needy is obviously something you shouldn't do but RP goes deeper into it like SMV and beta/alpha behavior.
/r/ExRedPill02/09/21 12:59 AM
18

It sad to think how much the RP community convinces themselves that men just get better with age lol. Keep looking at those fresh 20 year olds like they absolutely want you or that you can get them when you're past 40 lol. I'm talking about you Coach RP you fat overweight middle aged man!
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 08:41 PM
10

And they think they're woke or somehow more wise. I just laugh when anyone calls themselves alpha lol.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 08:40 PM
3

I never heard of RP either until around 2010. Is it really a newer thing?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/21 11:04 AM
10

It's reactionary and crazy statements that get your attention. You could claim anything and say it's RP. Don't fall for it.
/r/ExRedPill25/08/21 08:20 PM
2

Ya why do some men get stuck on the idea that its all about money? These men have no personality.
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 03:21 AM
2

I never understood this. Men really have a hard time listening and communicating.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 08:44 PM
1

So it's not the same as a man being attracted to breasts or butt? I have heard a woman likes the penis of the man she feels attracted to and not the actual penis itself if that makes sense.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 11:32 AM
1

Serious question. Do women actually like sucking cock and cum?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 11:11 AM
1

So basically their personality?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 11:09 AM
5

You mean ones that can actually talk to you, listen, and share their feelings?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 11:08 AM
5

What exactly are women attracted to in men? I find it to be different and more complex than men. For us men we're pretty straight forward, see a pretty woman, and we want to have sex with her. Women it's like sex isn't that important and you can easily hold off on it.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 10:59 AM
1

Do guys really get women when they hit on them in public?
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 08:53 PM
19

I hate how he can criticize you all he wants but if you do it to him he goes nuts.
/r/ExRedPill15/08/21 08:58 PM
2

Are they in it just for the money and fame or do they genuinely believe their crap?
/r/ExRedPill14/08/21 09:09 PM
1

Some of it is just common sense but RP like to twist it more and claim it as theirs. Like being too needy and available is just obvious behavior you shouldn't show around women. RP likes to go deeper like thats beta or low value .
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 04:03 AM
1

Cope meaning?
/r/ExRedPill12/08/21 03:36 AM
1

cope meaning?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 07:42 PM
4

Cope meaning?
/r/ExRedPill11/08/21 07:42 PM
23

I laugh at any dude who considers himself alpha and calls others beta.
/r/ExRedPill07/08/21 11:19 AM
3

So basically assholes play the numbers game?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 09:02 PM
2

So basically you don't know them till you really hang out with them more? Not even just assholes but anybody?
/r/ExRedPill04/08/21 08:56 PM
2

Corey Wayne is a dorky nice guy.
/r/ExRedPill25/07/21 10:45 AM
11

Some of the women seem so bad I wonder if it's somewhat fake. That's the scary part to think there's real women out there like this.
/r/ExRedPill24/07/21 11:07 AM
46

That young women are everything and men only get better with age.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/21 03:18 AM
3

I don't get the obsession with younger women. LIke ya some look good but once you see how they behave my attraction for them goes way down.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/21 08:42 PM
2

Whats blue pill? I feel there's a pill for every color lol.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/21 10:35 AM
4

Such a simple answer. Why didn't I think of that lol?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/21 10:52 AM
3

Ya i feel you can have all the money in the world and if someone doesn't like you you can't change that.
/r/ExRedPill02/07/21 02:29 AM
4

The thing I hate about RP is they like to claim like it's bound to happen and you can't avoid it.
/r/ExRedPill26/06/21 10:53 PM
7

Don't, your mind is fooling you. You keep telling yourself you'll be alone you probably will.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 08:51 PM
2

So they're losers who wish they were cool?
/r/ExRedPill17/06/21 03:05 AM
10

It attracts losers and RP is good at finding controversial subjects to get you sucked in.
/r/ExRedPill16/06/21 10:51 AM
4

Overcompensating
/r/ExRedPill11/06/21 09:06 PM
1

what was their experience like?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/21 11:27 AM
3

Needed this. We like to think there's a one size fits all and its not true. RP will definitely make you believe so.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/21 03:41 AM
1

Oh I bet. Plenty of dudes find underage girls attractive. Its a matter of doing something or not.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/21 10:10 PM
12

They want to give you false hope. They come up with stupid titles like "Don't date a woman over 25" and of course it's gonna catch your attention because it's so outrageous.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/21 10:57 AM
2

I bet no women like him period.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 09:50 PM
3

Watch out he only fucks women 25 and under lol.
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 11:39 AM
4

Guys totally forget that because they're too busy trying to get laid.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 09:58 PM
1

Ya i feel because he's old that people will think he's lived it amd knows what he's talking about.
/r/ExRedPill29/05/21 10:49 PM
8

This guy is so weird.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 09:24 PM
2

That guy from 33 secrets actually seems like he can pull chicks.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/21 09:12 PM
4

Because they probably couldn't get those young women when they were that age.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 09:37 PM
2

What mental illness does he have?
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 09:35 PM
3

He's a clown. Not alpha either.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/21 11:14 AM
21

Coach Red Pill gets totally exposed . He acts like he's the shit on his youtube videos but you can tell he's a little insecure bitch that can't answer anything honest.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 09:10 PM
3

Where do you get your ideas of what high/low value and beta/alpha from?
/r/ExRedPill24/05/21 10:50 AM
3

I'm sure Coach Red Pill is fucking so many woman under 25 lol.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 10:00 PM
1

OP is worried about coming off as thirsty. Its all about timing and how you say it. Let it fly out of your mouth naturally and you'll sound confident.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/21 09:58 PM
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