Do "Chads" really get all the girls?

ZacKaizen · 2021-09-03T15:54:33+00:00

Most people do not understand what "Chad" (or Stacy, etc) are. Chad is a archetype. He is the guy who has it all: looks, charm, money, status, and gets all the girls. So yes, by definition, someone fitting that archetype would "get all the girls". However, because he is an archetype, he doesn't exist! No one person has everything. The purpose of the archetypes is simply to show the ideal to work towards. That is where a lot of RP guys get stuck - instead of identifying where they are lacking and working on improving, they point at the people who are further along and complain "well, they are already way over there, so I may as well not even try because I'm too far behind". This is especially true in the "black pill" subcommunity, where they constantly complain about aspects they cannot change (i.e. height) as a crutch for not working on things they can change (i.e. their health and fitness).

bishounensupremacy · 2021-09-03T07:42:06+00:00

how do you even define 'chad' lmao i'm attracted to feminine looking guys who aren't afraid of losing their 'manliness' when they do something that is remotely considered a woman thing. i guess you can argue that they're masculine enough to not be affected by these manbabies telling them they're not alpha enough to be a real man.

2021-09-03T16:56:47+00:00

I don't know any Chads, my friends are all just regular people. Most of them are in relationships.

difficultconcept · 2021-09-03T12:54:05+00:00

Do you think women with PhDs screw "Alpha Chads" from gym and Tinder?

No.

RedPillDetox · 2021-09-03T15:36:41+00:00

Do some guys get a disproportional amount of sex? sure

Do some guys get a disproportional amount of money? sure

Do some guys have watched the Harry Potter movies a disproportional amount of times? absolutely

Do some guys pick their noses a disproportional amount of times? yes

Things aren't always normally distributed. It's only natural that a certain minority account for a disproportinal result.

The problem with the concept of "Chad" is that it's much more than just the idea that a minority of guys get's a disproportional amount of sex. It often thrown around with other fabrications such as the idea that 80 percent of men don't get sex often, that women will almost always leave you if they meet a "Chad" and that "Chads" are the "only" type of men that elicit feelings of sexual attraction on women and so on. For what i can tell, all of those ideas that go past "A minority of men get a disproportional amount of sex" tend to be bullshit.

StatisticsJason · 2021-09-03T14:04:36+00:00

For casual sex more than relationships or marriage. When you are in public look at all the couples. Is the man a Chad? Most of the time not.

Gmed66 · 2021-09-03T12:53:19+00:00

All? No. Do they do really well with attractive women? Yes.

I'm guessing your definition of a chad is someone who has a good looking face and is on the taller side. Looking at what most (not all, but most) people would consider attractive women, then yes their partners will be a "chad." There are exceptions, but those are not the rule. This is true in real life in most places. It's true online when you see couples. A lot of people like to focus on the exceptions and ignore the vast majority.

Looks are subjective to a degree. But there are some guys that most women would find attractive. I find that focusing on exceptions is being dishonest.

ryandiy · 2021-09-03T09:08:39+00:00

Yes. I've known several chads, and the amount of sex they get is astonishing.

PlayfulLawyer · 2021-09-03T19:51:53+00:00

Of course there's not a one-size-fits-all but generally speaking, if you have a guy that is conventionally good-looking combined with being 6 ft tall Plus, in shape, with some other intangibles in there, he's going to do better with most women

Z_E_D_D_ · 2023-07-25T06:41:45+00:00

CHAD : the guy who plows your dream girl , while you imagine how romantic it would be when you confess your love to her.

Significant-Toe-4237 · 2024-01-22T06:40:35+00:00

These guys do exist - if you don’t believe it you prob aren’t in the circle or aren’t friends with one. The thing is most of these guys will go out of their way not to talk about the girls they get with - they are almost psychopathic and predatory because they know that they can get it and super hot girls just flock to them. I have seen it with my own eyes and was actually incredibly sad to see how real it was for this to happen.

These guys usually white (not always), great physique, exude confidence (honestly more like narcissism), and dress well. I met one through a friend and we hung out 6-8 times over the course of 2 weeks. Each time - I am not exaggerating- girls would straight up come up to him and give him a number, Instagram, or ask to go out. I was shocked because I’ve never seen that shit happen once leave alone 6-8 times in the course of a few days. Keep in mind these girls ranged from 7-10s and this was not at some club. It was just at the regular store, coffee shop, and while walking outside.

I eventually stopped hanging with this guy because he was a textbook narcissist and had the mentality of “I’m going to do something, even if it’s destructive/harmful, just because I can”. Was I jealous? Maybe yea, but at the same time it opened my eyes up to how women you & I go after - go after really shitty/psychopathic guys like this dude and that this how it is

wiserecluse75 · 2024-04-06T01:34:42+00:00

Chad = star quarterback, so definitely has fine women interested in him.

JustwannaWatchi · 2025-09-08T15:34:00+00:00

the_pupilwx · 2021-09-03T11:04:06+00:00

So, you made a title a question... And answered yourself in the description...

Why is that?

absolutebeginners · 2021-09-03T22:58:09+00:00

Chad's do get girls of course but so do others

Carloverguy20 · 2021-09-04T02:36:38+00:00

Anyone who uses the word "Chad" "Tyrone" "Stacy" "GigaChad" "GigaTyrone" spend waay too much time in the manosphere world.

Title	Do "Chads" really get all the girls?
Author	spankyourkopita
Upvotes	13
Comments	49
Date	September 3, 2021 5:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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