Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?

sleepy_sunflower · 2022-07-20T21:26:17+00:00

Some women, like some men, do not enjoy aging and find their middle age stressful for a variety of reasons, and may respond to it by having some sort of "mid-life crisis". Others find they have even more self-assuredness, stability, and confidence in their 40s and 50s. Many women actually find that they are hitting their stride in their careers at that time after being delayed due to having young children. Sure, people may have marriage issues or get divorced, but also many people are starting new marriages at those ages (and from my anecdotal point of view, marriages I've witnessed that start later in life have been stronger than marriages that started young). It's impossible to put anyone into set categories of high value or low value or pre-wall or post-wall. The diversity of human experiences just doesn't work like that! It's more like: people (all people) go through seasons of happiness and fulfillment, stress and dissatisfaction, physical fitness, struggle, prosperity, all of it -- and it happens in different ways and at different times for different people.

Please, please, please try to stop seeing people through these strict categories. It won't help you.

SweelFor- · 2022-07-20T19:00:41+00:00

Instead of taking RP concepts and trying to "make them true" I recommend you do not use RP concepts

meghan518 · 2022-07-20T20:08:22+00:00

Many older people date, have sex, and re marry well into their 80's! there definitely is not a wall. Check out the STD rates in the villages (famous retirement homes). People have sex and fall in love at any age across both genders. Don't worry about other people and focus on cultivating your own loving relationship and friendship : )

Snoo52682 · 2022-07-20T18:53:36+00:00

"past 50 , try to look and act young, might still be single, and freaking out about it"

To me this is the real RP type man.

xvszero · 2022-07-21T01:30:26+00:00

What does any of that have to do with "the wall"?

xXMachineWomanXx · 2022-07-21T10:22:21+00:00

They exist in some circles, but it’s not as widespread as RP makes it out to be. I’m almost 40. There is no wall. I’m more financially stable and I know what I want in life. I’m not against relationships, but also not desperate that I’d risk my peace for someone incompatible.

A lot of RP is projecting. Men who are afraid of loneliness and don’t want to admit it project their own fears on women

Bjay_jw · 2022-07-21T06:51:57+00:00

Yes they exist, of course. Unfortunately there's a great focus on women than there is on men that has always been a thing.

But I mean... isn't that a part of life though. I don't get why deciding you want to take a different path late in life is considered a bad thing. It's better than never doing it.

And hey, people change. We want different things, evolving mindsets and experiences and what not. It's okay to not know what you want. Just like it's okay to know what you want one moment, and then realize what you wanted isn't what you want anymore.

Rook_Cross · 2022-07-25T23:50:27+00:00

It's called aging. Women, and men, age. They won't look the same as they did at 23. This often freaks people out and they get ridiculous. It can happen at any age, like the quarter life crisis. It doesn't have to be centered around age either, can just be a complex. you get 18 year olds who have had multiple plastic surgeries because they think they're not good enough. It's RPers trying to label normal aging, plus not uncommon issues that can crop up in people's lives, as being a woman only thing and as being negative. It's a psychologically abusive tactic, trying to demean and scare women into doing what they want, or give other RP believers a revenge fantasy to enjoy.

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tpobs · 2022-07-21T04:09:35+00:00

The fuck is "post wall"?

If that is another overly complicated RP lingo, no, it is not based on reality and reality exists outside, not on RP theory.

doratattie · 2022-07-21T22:46:26+00:00

Some women and men freak out about aging, they may or may not be single, they might get surgery or dress "young" someone like Rollo Tomassi is a bit like this, dresses like he's still young despite looking a lot older than his years with a cats bum mouth. Is he a post wall man? He's certainly not sexually or otherwise physically attractive.

Everyone ages and everyone will have anxieties about that but concepts like "the wall" are conceived to belittle and dehumanise women. Women 50+ still find love, admirers and get married.

unlivedbread · 2022-07-20T23:52:24+00:00

One of my cousins sorta fits the bill. Unmarried and 30 with no boyfriend and probably will never marry. She's been having a very difficult time emotionally and I feel very bad for her

5MinuteMentalFitness · 2022-07-21T15:38:55+00:00

You sniff a lot of coke; down a lot of bottles of jack and eat soo many burgers and fries your stomach essentially is a grease pit you too will hit a wall and quite possibly a tombstone faster than most.

It’s really about how you take care of yourself and it relates to anyone.

What you put in your body mind and soul gets processed and projected back out.

Some just take longer than cracks to show than others.

Eastern_T · 2022-07-22T05:07:11+00:00

Post wall exists, I witnessed woman in late 30s social media publically shiting on men during women day celebration, post constantly how single she is and I kid you not post cat fundraisers. I knew her well in her late 20s and she indeed had many options and had personality on poshy side, I would say even entitled.

Redpill is using some women as template and extrapoliating on all.

The reality of issue is simple women have a lot things easy in the 20s. Both socially (larger social networks), educationally and in dating. Heck even on average women outearn men at that age group.

All those things do decay a bit in late 20s-30s and it is not such downhill ride anymore. For prepared and realistic women it is not issue. For entitled and attention addicted this might be a huge issue.

Also do not forget fertility window issues. Some men do want families as some women do. Those people must be pretty much on the clock and aware of age. This might cause a lot of anxiety.

SweelFor- · 2022-07-20T20:15:21+00:00

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Title	Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?
Author	spankyourkopita
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Date	July 20, 2022 6:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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