What makes guys want to take a girl seriously?

athlete2biz · 2022-07-02T23:10:51+00:00

being hot, fit, and feminine helps alot

also being nurturing, kind and having good social skills

low n count

basically looks + traits that would make them a good mother to your children

Hoopy223 · 2022-07-02T23:13:53+00:00

It’s the guy not the girl.

What he is looking for, what he values etc.

JammingScientist · 2022-07-02T23:07:30+00:00

I'm smart (going for my PhD), I do my best to seem interesting and ask guys about themselves, and send them love notes and bake cookies and sweets. Yet, I keep running into guys who make it very obvious I'm nothing to them and that they only view me as a sex object. I'm not the kind of girl guys take on dates or send cute messages to or ask them how their days were or want to spend time with. I'm just the girl that they only want to spend 10 minutes max with when they're horny. Is it the vibes I'm giving off? I am black and slim thick, which I feel is what makes guys just view me as a sex object instead of a person

2022-07-02T23:13:27+00:00

Wholesomeness. I've actually seen girls go from being wholesome to much more harsh when a relationship is secured.

SmarmyPapsmears · 2022-07-02T23:15:49+00:00

Low n count, bachelor's degree, and looksmatch, and similar sense of humor

The issue is a lot of women don't know what their looksmatch is or over-inflate themselves.

Hungry-Nebula · 2022-07-02T23:45:09+00:00

It really depends on the specific person in question. Anyone saying otherwise is either lying or an idiot.

NinjaOfTheSouth · 2022-07-02T23:11:53+00:00

If she is attractive, helps out my life, pretty chill and not annoying, respects me, cook clean etc.

That’s what will get her love and commitment.

JammingScientist · 2022-07-02T23:40:36+00:00

What separates the relationship material girls from the girls guys just want to use as living fleshlights or for sex?

Not asking dumb questions like that one is the bare minimum for being taken seriously.

HazyMemory7 · 2022-07-02T23:27:51+00:00

Being feminine
Not being a hoe
Not being overweight
Down to earth

abaxeron · 2022-07-02T23:49:45+00:00

What separates the relationship material girls from the girls guys just want to use as living fleshlights or for sex?

Eye of the beholder.

Desperate family-oriented man will, with the purest intentions, wife up a town bicycle.

Although he will eventually regret it.

I have never seen women "as living fleshlights" (as I love to half-joke, "no; women don't vibrate"), but all the men I knew who saw them as such - had two common traits. Enormous experience and abundant options.

Zcuzz · 2022-07-03T00:26:15+00:00

Not woke. No 3rd or 4th wave feminists. No lectures on critical race theory, pronouns, or any other nonsense.
Cultured. Into quality art/film/music/literature/etc. If you're limited to mainstream pop culture I can't really respect you.
Loyal. I want a woman capable of monogamy. If she had a hoe phase, or lots of short lived relationships or failed marriages, I won't ever commit.
Health Conscious. You don't need to be an athlete or super model, but please exercise and not eat like a pig. I'm not down with sloth and/or gluttony.

So yeah, 99% of modern women are out. Thanks for asking.

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JammingScientist · 2022-07-02T23:17:27+00:00

What makes guys want to take a girl seriously?

A girl cannot be taken seriously, imo. That's a privilege available to women only. And the girl vs. woman thing has nothing to do with age.

What separates the relationship material girls from the girls guys just want to use as living fleshlights or for sex?

from whom? Who are the "girls guys just want to use as a living fleshlight or for sex? I have no idea what you're talking about. What is that?

Relationship material criteria is long term vibe including and crucial her ability and quality of handling having her fails pointed out and how well she responds to them in terms of observable results. Most believe they're more than they could ever become, so that doesn't end as well as it could. But it's fine, there's scores of better candidates out there, especially now with the chameleoning and rare actual serious quality of self improvement oriented individuals on the rise, due to times seemingly getting less easy day by day and the dread of having to perform IRL kicking in.

Is it a certain look?

For starters, it might be. But it's just an impulse, far from being enough.

What can girls do to avoid being seen this way?

I presume you're talking about "this fleshlight way"? Make sure to vet the group of people you're frequently around with. Your group has the worst enemies in your life. Envy is a strong mofo, many cannot fight it and end up acting on it.

Do guys only view girls that their friends/family like and/or girls that they are attracted to as relationship material?

No.

PaleoPimp · 2022-07-02T23:25:50+00:00

Feminine, nurturing, kind, loves kids, petite, long hair, pretty face, genuinely wants to be a "wife/mother". Sees marriage as more than just a certificate. Has genuine desire for her partner and has the sexual energy/flirtyness to show it.

Title	What makes guys want to take a girl seriously?
Author	JammingScientist
Upvotes	2
Comments	51
Date	July 2, 2022 11:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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