Therapist or Relationship Coach

_Pumpkin_Muffin · 2022-06-28T11:26:50+00:00

I mean it as kindly and compassionately as possible: you really do need therapy.

From your post history, you are showing signs of depression, and these things must be evaluated by a professional. This is not your fault. These things just happen, especially so fresh post partum. You don't have to be stuck forever in this pit of darkness though.

You contemplated suicide. It's really hard to say that out loud (well, write), but you did, and it was incredibily brave. Now you need to get help for yourself, because if you don't, from the outside it can be hard to understand what's going on.

It's not forever. I promise. The loneliness, the anger, the guilt, the self-loathing, the overwheling suffering, and at the end, the enptiness because you just can't take it anymore. And on top of that, you still have to care for two young children, even when you feel like you can't possibly have anything left to give... and you do it, because they're your children and you're a strong mama. You take care of everyone, but who takes care of you?

It's hard. It's so so hard, and horrible, and unfair, but it is what it is and you can deal with it. You already did so much by acknowledging what's happening and researching options. That was the hard stuff. Now just set up a therapy session, as soon as possible.

Stop focusing on healing your relationship with your husband for a second. You need healing. You matter. You always need to put your own oxygen mask on first, remember.

Such_Beginning_1629 · 2022-06-28T07:56:35+00:00

You need to look at your dark side, for yourself, not for your spouse. Put your needs first and take care of them. Live an amazing life, grow as a person, find good hobbies.

itsbigoleme · 2022-06-28T14:10:46+00:00

Always choose therapy over a relationship coach, they have important and necessary training to help you improve the quality of your life.

LivingfreewithSophie · 2022-06-28T07:56:23+00:00

I have read both the surrended single and surrended wife - listend to her books and podcast - they are amazing and absolutly eye opening and really give a great insight into how men work and how much power women hold in relationships.

Get her book asap! The surrended wife.

Then add fascinating womanhood - the classic eddition from 1963 (the later versions aren't as good imo).

You can turn things arround in your relationship <3 <3 <3

jenna_grows · 2022-06-28T14:06:41+00:00

Questions: Do you want to fix your relationship with your husband? If so, why and what do you think it will take?

LemurianStarseed11 · 2022-06-28T15:22:50+00:00

I signed up for a coaching program made by a therapist, called Love Life Hacks by Jourdan Blue. She has a dating hacks program and a relationship hacks program. Its based on attachment theory and getting to secure attachment. I think a combination of this with individual therapy is a good mix! Maybe see if you can find a therapist through your insurance so you only need a copay?

dee9084 · 2022-07-27T10:30:25+00:00

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Title	Therapist or Relationship Coach
Author	Forsaken_Magician905
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	June 28, 2022 3:39 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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