Newly red pilled

hheellooyyoouu_ · 2022-09-07T07:35:47+00:00

Think of it this way: was there any potential man in your life that you would have wanted to start a family with and they would have wanted too? A situation / relationship where you said no, I dont want to move forward in this relationship cuz of my career. If not then there is no real scenario to be regretful about. Then its just life and how it happened for you. Many women who are not career focused dont get children before 33-35 either because they havent found a partner, or even if they did their partner didnt want it. I have a friend they have been dating for over 10 years now, she is 34 now and no kids or marriage.

cohost3 · 2022-09-07T13:12:06+00:00

It’s not to late to try. I wouldn’t just decide 35 is the age and if you didn’t make it then you stop trying.

If you did that, I would imagine when you are 55, you will be regretful like you are now. You have realized the type of life you want, so try and live it!

TheBunk_TB · 2022-09-07T12:47:16+00:00

Be content.

Learn to love other people and be happy for others. Including other women.

Advanced_Tadpole7046 · 2022-09-07T12:55:22+00:00

My mom was totally red pilled but did not find the right one until 33, had me at 35 and my sister at 39. I sometimes wished she had me earlier because she was a bit older that my friends moms but it was not a big deal.

CCloudds · 2022-09-07T11:04:34+00:00

You can't turn back the time why waste your time overthinking. Work out take care of your self and your reproductive organs. Eat well sleep well and don't stress. You will be just fine. My cousin got married at 30 dropped two kids back to back. The first fertility window closes at 35 after that it's hard on the body if you have lived a poor life style and have health issues. You are 32 you need to focus on finding a guy .tell your parents to be on the look out especially your dad to arrange a date with someone who is looking for the same. You also actively try to find a guy. But don't set a time limit otherwise you will get stressed might attract the wrong guy.

mistressusa · 2022-09-07T16:03:59+00:00

I don't understand... what have you missed that you are regretful of? Don't you think you've been doing both career and marriage all along and the only difference is that you've just become woke to the red pill? My daughter (22yo), who has no idea of the RP, told me recently, all in one breath, that she is aiming for the C-suite of her Fortune 25 company while considering becoming a SAHM if she marries her current boyfriend who is sitting on a pile of equity of a high profile company that recently went through series C.

MiracleMorni · 2022-09-07T17:47:17+00:00

I have no advice apart from that sometimes you can start later in life and it is okay :) I got my first child at 36 and my second at 38. I married when 35. Life is still good and even though I would have liked to start younger I was in a similar situation and it did work out. So don’t lose hope :)

Unusual-Travel2508 · 2022-09-07T15:17:49+00:00

Thank you all for your advice. :) the guy I’ve been dating has been helpful but some of this stuff I have to figure out on my own without him and how to change some of my ways to fit into what I want which iS eventually a family. Alot of tough pills to swallow when I realized how much I had be brain washed by the feminist movement. Glad I found this thread. :)

LocalCap5093 · 2022-09-07T09:38:53+00:00

Listen to Kevin Samuels it might give some insight. It’s helped me!

Title	Newly red pilled
Author	Unusual-Travel2508
Upvotes	20
Comments	13
Date	September 7, 2022 5:47 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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