Why are feminists so shameless?

Wingflier · 2022-09-12T18:15:05+00:00

I can say as a man, the attitude Feminism has instilled in the average American woman is quite repulsive. Obviously, I'm an Egalitarian and I think men and women should have all the same rights and opportunities, but I'm also a biological realist and I understand that there are distinct and innate differences between male and female psychology that are simply hardwired within us.

In the same way that women who see men that are weak, passive, timid, and spineless as repulsive and lacking in courage, we men see women that are overly aggressive, boisterous, "independent", loud, crude, overtly sexual, slutty, and arrogant as people that we want to have nothing to do with.

I think that's why it's so common in modern dating advice for men to simply have sex with modern Feminist-type women, and then to ghost, because we have no appetite or desire for their personalities whatsoever and would, under no circumstances, want any kind of long-term relationship with them. But insofar as Feminism has convinced them that casual, meaningless sex with a bunch of random guys is empowering, expect that to be taken full advantage of.

hostility_kitty · 2022-09-14T14:16:57+00:00

They hate taking accountability. After all, they're used to pointing fingers at everyone except themselves.

TimtheToolManAsshole · 2022-09-12T17:50:40+00:00

Yes , I’ve met many miserable married men who wifed feminist 5s & unders… these dudes are so sad and pathetic & starved for any female attention they’ll scrape at the bottom of the barrel for any scrap. Don’t be them—respect yourself enough to do & be better. Don’t marry a feminist—most of them tend to be butt ugly anyway, I mean look at the Fox News anchors compared to your average female college professor

akihonj · 2022-09-13T06:35:37+00:00

It's like that tick-tock video of that young woman showing how to be a rebel today. Saying get married, have children and look after your family, love your husband etc.

You check the comments and see the feminists going bat shit crazy and outright attacking her.

Why are they so shameless then, it's because controversy gets recognition, it's purely that simple, most of these women have serious daddy issues, like real daddy issues.

Add to that deep seated self loathing. Most talk about abusive relationships but the one time I actually got into banging one, she began to ask to be chocked, spat on, slapped across the face. Called a toy and told how worthless she is. It ended half way through and I had to walk, for me that's crossing a line for these it's normal daily activities.

I've spoken to many men who say the same things, most of them are seriously mentally ill..

Now the question then becomes who's actually winning in all of this, the true answer is men, yes laws are a bit fucked we all agree on that but when you take into consideration, sex without effort or committment, women are finally giving sex away as easily as men want without having to commit to them. From a man's perspective there's little lost there.

Yes they make themselves as ugly and unattractive as possible, again there is no real loss, they make it so obvious that even when drunk and in bad lighting they aren't attractive enough just for sex. No more going to bed with beer goggles and waking next to sasquatch. You get to avoid these and go for women who actually give a shit about how they look.

The only males who will go for these women are the low t males who are too pathetic to actually make something of themselves. Do these women think that they deserve a good looking man, yes of course they do but they are mentally ill and don't see the hypocrisy of their own world, they are attracted to the classical beauty and they reject that claiming they are rejecting the standard but at the same time are filled with self hate and loathing because they now cannot meet the baseline standard to be viewed as attractive by the very men they want..

It's really a win for men, women lose more.

LordMaska · 2022-09-14T14:33:32+00:00

Lol because at the end of the day women are ruled by their emotions.

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-09-12T20:32:48+00:00

I completly agree with some caviats to add.
I believe the reason simping whie knighting is happening so much is also because of the heavy brainwashing feminist campaing to shut down all plausable criticism of women, to the point that from a very yougn age men are brainwashed to believe women are these perfect innocent angels that can do no wrong, wich therefore leads them to simp super hard.
Also the last sentence ''be the fuckign alpha'' i get what you mean but i think the alpha concept in a way implies that we should care about what these women think to therefore be the alpha if that makes sense, i would isntead say dont be either alpha or beta fuck that characterization in the first place if that makes sense.

Rongorongo2 · 2022-09-16T01:42:52+00:00

These people -- and I use the term crazy loosely -- Just want control and money. They want to satisfy their own ego. They don't care about women; they don't care about anything except themselves.

docdocdocdocdoc12345 · 2022-09-13T16:55:15+00:00

You can't deal with feminists by logic as they are braindead.

kit-kat315 · 2022-09-12T17:57:57+00:00

Yeah, some people just need to be shamed. Like ones that treat other people like trash. They deserve all the shame society can heap on them.

Everyone else- as long as they mind their business, I'll mind mine.

Consistent_Ebb5876 · 2022-09-12T19:11:10+00:00

Honestly, when I was younger I cared a lot about what other people thought of me and it was liberating to give that up. Refusing to allow other people to shame you is taking back control. This isn't necessarily a feminist thing. Everyone should be living up to their own standards and not giving a fuck about other people's judgements. Life is way too short.

GerinX · 2022-09-13T11:54:34+00:00

What does “they internalised the patriarchy” mean?

-Parannoyed · 2022-09-12T18:06:14+00:00

It's part of the downfall of tradwife. Women with any actual value are treated like shit because feminists don't like that they can't meet as high of standards. So feminists make these good women think that their standards are "sexist" "homophobic" "fat shaming" "unattainable" and all the other words they love to throw around so much. All because these feminists have given up on themselves.

sas0002 · 2022-09-14T14:53:00+00:00

No, we aren’t. I’m a feminist and I work out, eat healthy, do skin and hair care. Get of the Internet and realize that most feminists are like me.

thealphateam · 2022-09-13T12:51:46+00:00

They have no accountability. They can say and do whatever they want. If you disagree then you are a demon.

therealzombieczar · 2022-09-13T07:47:37+00:00

any extremist requires a certain defense mechanism against their own cognitive dissonance that turns into a 'you do you' or 'mind your own business'

ErrareApusEst · 2022-09-13T09:16:11+00:00

Shame is a regulating emotion. They protect their created sense of self by avoiding unpleasant emotions and project it onto others. It’s not a trait of feminists, but it is a sign of excessive narcissism. Covert narcissist women love to hide under the feminist flag

liluzisquirt_- · 2022-09-13T03:10:39+00:00

As a woman I feel embarrassed and ashamed and unfathomably disappointed when i see a morbidly obese woman with a beard and painting with her period blood whilst calling it empowering! ESPECIALLY women having sex with a ton of men and openly using them since its also empowering! They're surely showing that patriarchy!! Really gross.

Beyond vile. This is NOT feminism.

I completely see what you're saying, its a very odd and beyond ridiculous mindset that people have.

To women with any type of sense and a little bit of decency and modesty, its repulsive and occasionally i feel disgusted that I'm the same as these types of people.

Thank you for sharing this though! Good stuff!

bbs540 · 2022-09-13T17:05:09+00:00

Short answer, because they attribute shame with the “patriarchy”, and being shameless with independence and a way to stand against being oppressed by the “patriarchy”

JuanLuisGG14 · 2022-09-13T01:58:57+00:00

It's just tantrum-like contrariarism of which they shall grow out some day

Conscious-Charity915 · 2022-09-18T12:46:51+00:00

So how would YOU raise a daughter? Do it yourself instead if opining on it. "I wouldn't want MY daughter raised that way". What bullshit. You know zip about raising human beings.

sas0002 · 2022-09-13T03:33:46+00:00

"Why are feminists so shameless?"

"Why are men such rapists?"

These two statements hold the exact same weight. You took a whole group and put q label on it, even if obviously it's not true. Now what differentiates these 2 statements, exactly? Both are just generalizations, and more over than so, fake ones. What was the point if this post?

hshsgdve · 2022-09-29T04:18:46+00:00

This started off as an okay take and then took a massive plunge. Don’t be quasi-abusive and emotionally unavailable, just have a backbone.

As for the shame side of things, they figured out early that there are two responses to shame.

Defensive: change the behaviour being shamed, as the shame is deserved for a poor behaviour.

Offensive: push back against things being shamed, because shame is not appropriate.

A healthy human has a measure of both approaches, because sometimes shaming is warranted and sometimes not.

Feminists are almost entirely committed to the offensive approach. If they’re being shamed, they don’t even investigate whether it is worthy of shame.

Title	Why are feminists so shameless?
Author	FuckYouVeryMuch2020
Upvotes	254
Comments	107
Date	September 12, 2022 5:44 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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